RandallPMcMurphy

Overnight on a first outing?

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I visit the UK around twice a year and usually only have one free night per visit.

I would be more inclined to go for an overnight with a WG than a shorter encounter - sleeping with someone you have just been intimate with is far preferable to sleeping alone afterwards.

I'm interested though in what others think.

Would you WG's prefer to get to know a punter a bit before agreeing to an overnight.

And if the punter, like me, is a very occasional visitor, that would take quite a while.

So, overnight's on a first date or better to leave that to subsequent outings?

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Having an overnight with someone you've never met before is obviously taking a chance- as tales on this board will regularly attest. If I were in your situation I'd probably risk it with a girl who had lots of FRs and who was prepared to flirt a bit via e-mail before the main event....

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I visit the UK around twice a year and usually only have one free night per visit.

I would be more inclined to go for an overnight with a WG than a shorter encounter - sleeping with someone you have just been intimate with is far preferable to sleeping alone afterwards.

I'm interested though in what others think.

Would you WG's prefer to get to know a punter a bit before agreeing to an overnight.

And if the punter, like me, is a very occasional visitor, that would take quite a while.

So, overnight's on a first date or better to leave that to subsequent outings?

I would not pay a WG for sleeping as they charge far to much as it is.

Who knows what they do while you sleep.:confused:

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I know almost everyone will say don't do it. Maybe I'm the exception to the rule or have been incredibly lucky, for my first punt was an Overnight and it was fantastic, infact from that night I've never looked back. Yes, of course there are risks involved, but if you do a bit research and can find a girl with a few FR's/ Agency Reviews which tick the majority of your boxes, then I say go for it. I've only had one bad ( when I say bad, she was mad!) overnighter, I called the agency, paid her less and sent her on her way. Called another Agency and managed to get my 2nd choice for the night, alls well that ends well.

So, I would suggest that you do a bit of research and come up with a list of say 5 hopefuls and take it from there.

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I arranged an overnight once then bottled it. It is not a good idea. You dont know if you will click. You could always book 2 hours then see how you go. xxxx

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I visit the UK around twice a year and usually only have one free night per visit.

I would be more inclined to go for an overnight with a WG than a shorter encounter - sleeping with someone you have just been intimate with is far preferable to sleeping alone afterwards.

I'm interested though in what others think.

Would you WG's prefer to get to know a punter a bit before agreeing to an overnight.

And if the punter, like me, is a very occasional visitor, that would take quite a while.

So, overnight's on a first date or better to leave that to subsequent outings?

Arrange the shorter meeting first (3-5 hours), with an option to extend it for an overnight, depending how you will get on together.

As Jimmy, or some mongoose with dodgy Eastern European accent says: Simples.

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sleeping with someone you have just been intimate with is far preferable to sleeping alone afterwards.

I prefer getting out of dodge before dawn personally.

It's a big risk booking an overnight with someone you don't know, even with the WG Chemistry may be lacking and turn it into a very expensive and not so pleasureable experience for you.

Starting with an hour here or there is a far better idea, it lets you form a better idea of what you are paying for.

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I would not pay a WG for sleeping as they charge far to much as it is.

Who knows what they do while you sleep.:confused:

Rob and possibly Kill

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I arranged an overnight once then bottled it. It is not a good idea. You dont know if you will click. You could always book 2 hours then see how you go. xxxx
Arrange the shorter meeting first (3-5 hours), with an option to extend it for an overnight, depending how you will get on together.

As Jimmy, or some mongoose with dodgy Eastern European accent says: Simples.

He only has ONE night! What you are suggesting is very silly IMO. All he needs to do is RESEARCH, and besides there are some lovely ladies available at £600 for an Overnighter at the moment, if he does it your way he'll not get any change out of £1500 or more!:confused:

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Rob and possibly Kill

All part of the GFE these days:D

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He only has ONE night! What you are suggesting is very silly IMO. All he needs to do is RESEARCH, and besides there are some lovely ladies available at £600 for an Overnighter at the moment, if he does it your way he'll not get any change out of £1500 or more!:confused:

Avoid this one though

http://punternet.com/forum/showthread.php?t=24004

Only £300 for an over night

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He only has ONE night! What you are suggesting is very silly IMO. All he needs to do is RESEARCH,

With all research here, its still a never guarantee that they will hit it, only to minimase unsuccessful meeting.

Damn: hate to state the obvious. Grrr! :confused:

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With all research here, its still a never guarantee that they will hit it, only to minimase unsuccessful meeting.

Damn: hate to state the obvious. Grrr! :confused:

There are no guarantees in Life. However one can tip the balance of probability with some research.

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That thread's up to page 12 on LBB

I would not know Mike52(Good Mike)

Apparently I lost a pissing contest with the one you can not disagree with and he through his toys out the pram. I did offer tissues but he offered me the door. :confused:

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dismiss the caution here immediately !

overnight is fantastic !

if money isnt a major issue, do your research and take a risk. you will be in the punting capital of the world -- grab the opportunity. I dont agree with you Xenia--- book a few hours and " see how you go " approach. my guess is that if you commit yourself , the lady will be more up for it to and your risk taking will be rewarded. both parties have an even greater motivation for making the evening work--- knowing its going to be an all nighter changes the whole dynamic ,for the better imho. I think you should confine your research though to the more experienced ladies --- they would probably have a much better understanding of whats involved to make the whole evening and night more enjoyable . do it -- you wont regret it.

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I would not pay a WG for sleeping as they charge far to much as it is.

Who knows what they do while you sleep.:confused:

Yes quite true, I agree with Lou, why would you want a escort snoring In your bed lol? Shag her then send the bint on her way. :eek::)

Also all the money you saved you could have more punts.

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Randall

You could always go for a dinner date instead - say 2 hours dining and 3 hours of dessert back in your hotel room.:confused:

Or PM me and I can give you the name of a very nice lady who would be a certified guaranteed gem for an overnight.

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Yes quite true, I agree with Lou, why would you want a escort snoring In your bed lol? Shag her then send the bint on her way. :eek::confused:

Also all the money you saved you could have more punts.

Overnights are of no interest to me, i would rather spread a couple of 121s out over the day, go to a Party, and have change out of £400. Jobs a good-un.:)

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I would not know Mike52(Good Mike)

Apparently I lost a pissing contest with the one you can not disagree with. I did offer tissues but he offered me the door. :confused:

probably noticed they were covered in snot and bogies from the cold you had last week.:):D

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I was nervous when I had my first overnight as he was a virgin who was flying up from the Isle Of Wight just to see me. This was partly because I was worried about the possibility of us not getting on and it would have obvously cost him a lot with flights, a train to Piccadilly, then a cab to my place, plus my fee. A friend of mine laughed when I said I was cooking dinner, he said that the norm would be for me to be taken out and wined and dined, I was just more comfortable with this idea and thought we could both have a more relaxed meal this way.

In the end we had a very enjoyable time, by the morning he was no longer a virgin and I'd had my first overnight. He'd come to see me as he was in his thirties and wanted some lessons in 'love', I hope I did my job well. The following morning I gave him a lift to Piccadilly and we said our farewells, he did mail me later to thank me and I mailed him back to thank him. I think it helped that we had exchanged some mails, he'd sent me some newspaper articles about himself and his job, and we'd had some phone conversations before we met, so I suppose we both felt comfortable with each other.

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I know almost everyone will say don't do it. Maybe I'm the exception to the rule or have been incredibly lucky, for my first punt was an Overnight and it was fantastic, infact from that night I've never looked back. Yes, of course there are risks involved, but if you do a bit research and can find a girl with a few FR's/ Agency Reviews which tick the majority of your boxes, then I say go for it. I've only had one bad ( when I say bad, she was mad!) overnighter, I called the agency, paid her less and sent her on her way. Called another Agency and managed to get my 2nd choice for the night, alls well that ends well.

So, I would suggest that you do a bit of research and come up with a list of say 5 hopefuls and take it from there.

Thanks Tarquin and everyone for all the great advice and the warnings.

A couple of the comments jarred with me - like the one from smiths:

Overnights are of no interest to me, i would rather spread a couple of 121s out over the day, go to a Party, and have change out of £400.

I am the other end of the spectrum entirely. Multiple punts with different girls are really of little interest to me, I'd far prefer a dinner date/overnight scenario. Not saying anything is wrong with the multiple outings per day option, it just holds no appeal to me.

Horses for courses as they say!

So, I think I will start down the research path now. Initiate a few contacts to see how they work out and take it from there.

Thanks again everyone for all your advice (and to lou4fun for the warning post - scary!).

Randall.

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Why not?

Make sure you exchange some emails first, a phone chat and maybe some MSN contact before the overnight.

Not all WG's will want to do so, but there are those that are happy to do so provided you dont stalk them and insist on emailing/chatting every day dor a few months leading up to the event.

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I visit the UK around twice a year and usually only have one free night per visit.

I would be more inclined to go for an overnight with a WG than a shorter encounter - sleeping with someone you have just been intimate with is far preferable to sleeping alone afterwards.

I'm interested though in what others think.

Randall, what you propose is very risky.

Not sure what sort of budget you are looking at but let's say you can get an overnight for £600, suppose you find you simply dont "click" with the girl, you have thrown £600 down the drain.

My advice, book the girl for one hour, some girls will extend the booking although that is not guaranteed. :D

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