Guest Tonyofstoney

Do WGs Mind A Limp Dick?

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I suppose that, to an extent, I'm looking for reassurance here, but I'm very self-conscious about the fact that, due to type 2 diabetes, I don't get an erection. This of course means that I can't do penetrative sex, although the stiffie is the only thing that doesn't happen, and it does slightly dent my self-confidence. (Yes, I've tried viagra, and Chinese herbs, thanks for asking.)

I'm always up front about this (no pun intended) when booking, and I have developed quite skilled fingers and tongue to compensate. No lady has ever said it was a problem for her, but I'm sure there must be some girls who would turn me down because of it. I can't help wondering whether some of those who do see me think "oh well, this is a waste of time but it's his money". So I'd really be interested to hear views from WGs: everything else being equal, would you see this as a reason to turn a booking down? Thanks. :confused:

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Hi Tony,

Firstly don't be embaressed or self-concious there are many clients out there in the same situation as you. I used to see alot of clients who didn't just come in for penetrative sex but for the whole round experience of the kissing cuddling fondeling etc... Don't be ashamed WG's completely understand and aslong as you re-assure them that it's not because they are ugly or not pleasing you etc.. Because at first I worried that I wasn't pleasing the client.

Carry on having your fun and pleasure, aslong as you enjoy going to see a WG there should be no reason why they would turn you down!

xxx

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I wouldn't have thought it would be a "problem" with most WG's. Infact I have a friend who is also diabetic and had some problem with erections. Not sure what the condition was, but in the end he had some kind of pump fitted ( I can find out all the gory details if you wish ). Since then he hasn't looked back, he's not into this hobby of ours, but he pulls birds quite frequently, mainly with his chat up line about his dick! Incidentally, he also says his tongue skills have increased and been well received.

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Not half so much as the afflicted man does..

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Its the person that matters.

I agree,you can still have fun and thats the main aim of the punt isnt it.So long as your upfront about it as you said you are.xx

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. Since then he hasn't looked back, he's not into this hobby of ours, but he pulls birds quite frequently, mainly with his chat up line about his dick! Incidentally, he also says his tongue skills have increased and been well received.
Any 'port' when in form.:confused:

(old nautical saying)

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Any 'port' when in form.:confused:

(old nautical saying)

Don't get that, please explain to the uninitiated.

To the OP, A few months back I was mortified when my dick seemed completely uninterested and the girl asked if I'd had a lot to drink. Surprisingly that night I hadn't, anyway we had a laugh about it and she soon got it working just fine.

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This is a lame thread, Tony.

Of course most girls would asssure you, that it does not matter, lots of other things you can indulge into, etc.

The only thing I advise you: Never tell them that you have an erection problems. That way they will put all theirs efforts and skills to try achieve to make you hard, and you might enjoy the procedure. Guys with stonkers never can get that level of service. :confused:

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I wouldn't imagine it'd be a problem. In fact, I'm sure some might like the break from having some guy pumping away at them trying to make them cum.

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Any 'port' when in form.:confused:

(old nautical saying)

Im guessing you have never been to sea.

I thought it was any port in a storm

or I could be wrong

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I suppose that, to an extent, I'm looking for reassurance here, but I'm very self-conscious about the fact that, due to type 2 diabetes, I don't get an erection. This of course means that I can't do penetrative sex, although the stiffie is the only thing that doesn't happen, and it does slightly dent my self-confidence. (Yes, I've tried viagra, and Chinese herbs, thanks for asking.)

I'm always up front about this (no pun intended) when booking, and I have developed quite skilled fingers and tongue to compensate. No lady has ever said it was a problem for her, but I'm sure there must be some girls who would turn me down because of it. I can't help wondering whether some of those who do see me think "oh well, this is a waste of time but it's his money". So I'd really be interested to hear views from WGs: everything else being equal, would you see this as a reason to turn a booking down? Thanks. :confused:

No issue from me I used to see a gent exactly like that.

I would see him once a week, we had a grand time.

Nicest bloke a girl could ask for in a client.

It's not always about the intercourse and since most clients tend to be in the intercourse category it can be a nice change to see a client who wants more than just intercourse.

(this is in general terms, I do know a lot of fella's like to insure the escort they see has a mutually enjoyable time, but a lot don't either.)

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I'm always reminded of Frank Skinner's quip (to be read in broadest Smethwick of course...)

"Well, it must be your fault I never have this problem when I'm on my own!"

:confused: NOI...

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A good point from Xenia which I hadn't considered. Like Tony I have, due to health problems I have similar erectile dysfunction problems. I'm honest about it too and in my experience I've found every single girl to be sympathetic and helpful in relation to the problem and they will strive to send you away happy. Sometimes fella, it might not happen for you - I empathise, but a WG will do her best to make you cum. It's her job.

I've just had a brilliant punt and I'm being uncharacteristically chirpy. It was a girl I'd seen before nearly two years ago and she immediately remembered me. I got a damned good spanking and then she fucked my brains out. It was the first time I'd had penetrative sex in over a decade. This proves it can happen to the likes of us, Tony. And this is why I'm spreading a little love around on this rainy evening in London.

<gives self congratulatory pat on the back>

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Any 'port' when in form.:confused:

(old nautical saying)

I think you will find that's Any port in a storm

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I suppose that, to an extent, I'm looking for reassurance here, but I'm very self-conscious about the fact that, due to type 2 diabetes, I don't get an erection. This of course means that I can't do penetrative sex, although the stiffie is the only thing that doesn't happen, and it does slightly dent my self-confidence. (Yes, I've tried viagra, and Chinese herbs, thanks for asking.)

I'm always up front about this (no pun intended) when booking, and I have developed quite skilled fingers and tongue to compensate. No lady has ever said it was a problem for her, but I'm sure there must be some girls who would turn me down because of it. I can't help wondering whether some of those who do see me think "oh well, this is a waste of time but it's his money". So I'd really be interested to hear views from WGs: everything else being equal, would you see this as a reason to turn a booking down? Thanks. :confused:

Plenty of others things you can do without penetrative sex as i do when my dick is up and down like a yoyo. I dont take Viagra or similar, i am happy for my body to guide me as to what i am capable of on the day.

I certainly dont think many ladies would turn you down because of it, i see regular ladies who know what i am likely to be like, and not been turned down because of it as far as i know. Main thing is to relax and have a fun and enjoyable punt.:)

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This is a lame thread, Tony.

Hey, Xenia, what can I tell you, I'm a paranoid dickhead! Be fair, you know lots of punters (quite a few of whom probably share my condition), strangely enough I don't know any - that I'm aware of - so I don't have much to compare against, so to speak. You and I both know there are plenty of ways to make pussy purr, but do you really think most of the barely-legal schoolgirl types out there would be quite so sanguine?

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Im guessing you have never been to sea.

I thought it was any port in a storm

or I could be wrong

I spent four years before the mast, courtesy of the US Navy (before you were born), but thank you for sparing me of an apology to Tarquin for my rather pathetic attempt to make a play on words. I've had my third cuppa by now and will try to restrain myself for the rest of the day.:D

(a pun is fun, but only if someone 'gets it')

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I think you will find that's Any port in a storm
Try telling that to Taylor's or Dow's! (Purveyors of seasick remedies to HRH QEII, and especially her husband, for over fifty years). :D

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I suppose that, to an extent, I'm looking for reassurance here, but I'm very self-conscious about the fact that, due to type 2 diabetes, I don't get an erection. This of course means that I can't do penetrative sex, although the stiffie is the only thing that doesn't happen, and it does slightly dent my self-confidence. (Yes, I've tried viagra, and Chinese herbs, thanks for asking.)

I'm always up front about this (no pun intended) when booking, and I have developed quite skilled fingers and tongue to compensate. No lady has ever said it was a problem for her, but I'm sure there must be some girls who would turn me down because of it. I can't help wondering whether some of those who do see me think "oh well, this is a waste of time but it's his money". So I'd really be interested to hear views from WGs: everything else being equal, would you see this as a reason to turn a booking down? Thanks. :D

I think most WG's would be understanding towards problems like this... as all of the WG's on this thread have stated... I would be careful though... not all WG's would be as considerate as you would like and would turn you down for that very reason. I say this because a good friend of mine suffers from type 2 diabetes which prevents blood staying in the penis for long periods of time causing erectile dysfunction... and sadly this was the reason his long term GF of 5 years cheated on him and ultimately the relationship ended...

To add salt to the wounds he arranged to see a WG and explained to her that he had erection issues and would not be able to perform as he would like too... the WG knocked him back and said that she would prefer a mutual experience because she wants to enjoy the time too which involved penetration.... so you can imagine his self esteem and confidence was broken into a million pieces.

So the point I am trying to make is be careful on the WG you choose to tell when seeing a lady because they might not be as understanding as you would think... even a polite no thank you from any women including WG is upsetting due to this problem.

I commend you on your honesty and posting such a thread on this board for everyone to debate... the truth is that some WG's would be sympathatic or reassure you that it is not a problem and other's would not see you because of that very reason which only add's to your worries about how women really feel about men with erection problems.

I hope you do find a lovely WG that can satisfy your needs and reassure you that E.D is not a problem and enjoy each other's company besides intercourse.:mad: :mad:

My 0.002 cents

MrPunt

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I wouldn't have thought they would mind a limp dick at all - it would mean they could avoid penetration - no anal - no owo etc etc - all the activities which make this such a highly paid profession. You ought to really be a dream customer.

I know one thing - if I couldn't get a stiffie I would save a lot of time and money.

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I suppose that, to an extent, I'm looking for reassurance here, but I'm very self-conscious about the fact that, due to type 2 diabetes, I don't get an erection. This of course means that I can't do penetrative sex, although the stiffie is the only thing that doesn't happen, and it does slightly dent my self-confidence. (Yes, I've tried viagra, and Chinese herbs, thanks for asking.)

I'm always up front about this (no pun intended) when booking, and I have developed quite skilled fingers and tongue to compensate. No lady has ever said it was a problem for her, but I'm sure there must be some girls who would turn me down because of it. I can't help wondering whether some of those who do see me think "oh well, this is a waste of time but it's his money". So I'd really be interested to hear views from WGs: everything else being equal, would you see this as a reason to turn a booking down? Thanks. :D

Tonyofstoney, I commend your honesty upfront and I'm sure all ladies worth their salt will. There's nothing worse than trying every trick to get a client to become errect, only for him to tell you an hour into the appointment he has a medical problem !

Us girlies like to know what we're working with, and will always try our best to ensure you have a good time whatever your 'problem'. You leaving an appointment feeling good means more than us lying there exhausted after 2hrs of pommeling and 16 orgasms to boot. :mad:

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You leaving an appointment feeling good means more than us lying there exhausted after 2hrs of pommeling and 16 orgasms to boot. :D

Only 16 Mel? :mad:

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Only 16 Mel? :D

Twas an average number - truth be known, 3 and that's me zonked for the day :mad:

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