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Just want to know your thoughts on this topic.

 

Can the art of fingering be a taken as a given during an appointment?

Should you always ask if this is acceptable before the appoinment? A bit like french kissing. I always ask.

If yes , Is it acceptable behaviour to lick your juiced up finger(s) if this floats your boat?

Are you allowed to offer your finger(s) to the wag for her to taste?

Do you expect her to taste them without question?

Does watching her licking your juiced up finger(s) turn you on more?

Would you be offended if she refused to taste them?

 

I love to taste a nice shave pussy and like to use the finger(S) and it does turn me on more when she tastes the juices from them so its a topic of interest as I'd hate to be a bad boy without realizing it.

 

Thoughts please......especially from the ladies.

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In a relationship I love it but as a wg i don't like fingering. always too rough/ deep and sharp nails cause me injury in a very vulnerable place (cervix) It just gets wearing always asking punters to be more gentle or go slower and I've given up trying to explain you can't just cut nails you need to file them so they don't have sharp edges. 

 

be careful of those things, and check with the girl first... then I'm sure you'll be fine. 

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Tasting fingers after fingering does nothing for me.

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Just want to know your thoughts on this topic.

 

Can the art of fingering be a taken as a given during an appointment?

Should you always ask if this is acceptable before the appoinment? A bit like french kissing. I always ask.

If yes , Is it acceptable behaviour to lick your juiced up finger(s) if this floats your boat?

Are you allowed to offer your finger(s) to the wag for her to taste?

Do you expect her to taste them without question?

Does watching her licking your juiced up finger(s) turn you on more?

Would you be offended if she refused to taste them?

 

I love to taste a nice shave pussy and like to use the finger(S) and it does turn me on more when she tastes the juices from them so its a topic of interest as I'd hate to be a bad boy without realizing it.

 

Thoughts please......especially from the ladies.

 

 

1. Always ask as not all WG's like it.

2. Yes it is perfectly acceptable to lick your fingers, but don't expect her to lick them, or kiss you afterword. Some women just do not like the taste of even themselves.

 

If the lady in question enjoys it I don't see why not.

 

I don't have an issue with anything you've said and have done everything in your post. So for me it's not an issue.

 

BUT ALWAYS ASK FIRST! :D

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Sounds sexy to me but I'd have to see your hands first and absolutely sure you've washed them. Also no switching between back and front as some clients seem to want to do - I don't fancy any of the possible consequences of that.

Ask, not all women like it. And please don't do it like in porn films, that's just assault in my books. Remember - porn stars work maybe one day in three, most WGs have their livelyhood depend on belng able to see several clients a day.

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ALWAYS ask. No exceptions. You'll save yourself any embarrassment or disappointment that way.

 

I'm no metrosexual but I always trim and smooth my nails before a punt.

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I've never asked, but I do always make sure to trim and file at least 24 hours beforehand, though usually on the morning. 

 

I've also never taken it as a given. Nor do I just plunge straight in. There is always a build up that gives the girl plenty of time to say no if she doesn't want it. 

 

As far as tasting it, again I wouldn't just stick my fingers in her face and expect her to start licking them. If my hand ends up anywhere near her face and she makes a move for them then go for it.

 

Go with the flow and make sure to pay attention to any signs the girl may be giving you. That's my motto.

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Yep always ask, personally love it although not really into the finger aftersuck thanks... funnily enough guys are really hesitant sometimes to actaully put their fingers inside, get the feeling they came up against so many hand slaps they assume we all say  no x

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This is different to my experience, all girls i have seen like bing fingered and suck my fingers straight after, i just take it as a given now, i never ask. However if i put my fingers in there, i do have a sneaky smell after, if there is a horrible smell i dont make the girl suck them or suck my self, just wipe dry on the sheets.

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I've never actually done this before - I've always had a horrible habit of biting my nails and also chewing the skin around them  :wacko: So my fingertips are never in the best of shape and I've never even considered asking a lady because of it.

 

I've been trying to kick the habit recently though and am almost there. Looking forward to actually being able to try it out soon  :D I'd always ask the girl at the time if it was OK though obviously, I certainly wouldn't expect every girl to offer it. Always wondered why it's not an 'at discretion' service on AW too. 

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I've never actually done this before - I've always had a horrible habit of biting my nails and also chewing the skin around them  :wacko: So my fingertips are never in the best of shape and I've never even considered asking a lady because of it.

 

TBH I don't see why that's a problem.  What you really need to avoid is a sharp edge, which I think you'd be more likely to get with professionally-trimmed nails.  My nails are ultra-short and rounded, well behind the pads of my fingers, and I've never had any complaints.  (Well, I've had lots of complaints, up to and including Trading Standards - see below - but none about my nails!)

 

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All i'd say is i never take anything as given.

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In real life sex usually starts with a "finger waggle", in the commercial world this is a point of negotiation, find yourself a girl who likes that sort of thing, ask first if you can, on balance the default position of non brit wgs is refusal.

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I always go for ladies who like fingering coz its something I love.

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Also no switching between back and front as some clients seem to want to do - I don't fancy any of the possible consequences of that.

 

 

Left hand for back - right for front.  You've got to have a system.......

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In a world where its called upon to name and shame escorts who rip guys off.

 

I think we should have a policy, where all guys who attempt to gain entry of the escorts wilth sharp nails, and uncut and dirty fingernails, should be fingered on the forum for whom they are!.

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Nope you couldn't do that with me, after a night in A&E having stitches put into my Eurethra, I won't let nails anywhere near there.  However I can put my own fingers up there and you can suck mine if you want.  Like my fingers sucked...

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Nope you couldn't do that with me, after a night in A&E having stitches put into my Eurethra, I won't let nails anywhere near there.  However I can put my own fingers up there and you can suck mine if you want.  Like my fingers sucked...

Much as you might like having your fingers sucked, ( maybe thats another post in the future) why should they be used as as a device, when my tongue can quite easily be used to go where the fingers appear not to be wanted.

 

its long, smooth, has no sharp edges, comes with it own fluid device to keep it moist, and a mutual friend can offer some degree of honesty about its ability... :D

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Its a horrible term in my view.

 

I once wrote to AW asking them to include it (with discretion!), on their likes list.

 

T

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Left hand for back - right for front.  You've got to have a system.......

Thank you for making me chuckle :)

 

Its a horrible term in my view.

 

I once wrote to AW asking them to include it (with discretion!), on their likes list.

 

T

Must admit,i'm not a fan of the phrase.Just something that takes you back to those stupid schoolboy conversations.On the flip side,whats the alternative? Erm Manual vaginal and cervical tickling?Definately not going to take off.Anyone got any suggestions :)

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Tactile/Intimate massage - very nudge, nudge, wink, wink (or maybe prod, prod, wank, wank).

Digital pleasuring (although that sounds a bit IT related!) - images of geeks humping USB ports....

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Tactile/Intimate massage - very nudge, nudge, wink, wink (or maybe prod, prod, wank, wank).

Digital pleasuring (although that sounds a bit IT related!) - images of geeks humping USB ports....

okay theres a new abbreviation "MDP" X

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Tactile/Intimate massage - very nudge, nudge, wink, wink (or maybe prod, prod, wank, wank).

Digital pleasuring (although that sounds a bit IT related!) - images of geeks humping USB ports....

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okay theres a new abbreviation "MDP" X

wahey...we have now gone digital.... :)

 

If it is listed now as an extra!..... will it be priced on a digit!....

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So, I have spent the weekend tiling and grouting. My hands are raw, fingers covered in cement and fingernails ripped. No fingering for me then?

Ps if any wgs are having a slack day, a cup of tea and a digestive would be nice about now!

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