Lessingham

Ending Punting

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Well, yesterday was my last punt. I have struggled recently with the idea that the wgs are having problems with my age. The kisses have become pecks and the attempts at a second round not even offered.

Yesterday, even though I pointed my age out beforehand it was the same. Her assured kisses were sparse and her post sex banter almost patronising. I am not blaming her, or wgs in general. The most I have found are wonderful people and have given me joy. But more and more it seems I am pushing a wet noodle- in more ways than one- in getting the joy of of a punt. Maybe they are seeing my attitude and feeding off of it?

But I can't go through another punt with a beautiful, generous woman when I am feeling so unfulfilled and even wondering what I could have spent the money on. It's not fair on them.

I wish you all the luck in the world, you have been a great bunch to hang out with and may fortune treat you live her favourite children

 

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This is rather sad.  Are you sure that you're not using your age as an excuse? You're viewing your predicament very subjectively and have halted at age. Perhaps this general malaise might be attributed to something else in your life.  

 

Lack of fulfilment from punting hits us all at some time, for myriad reasons.  I suggest a nice long break.  A fortnight away and you'll feel rejuvenated.  

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Well, yesterday was my last punt. I have struggled recently with the idea that the wgs are having problems with my age. The kisses have become pecks and the attempts at a second round not even offered.

Yesterday, even though I pointed my age out beforehand it was the same. Her assured kisses were sparse and her post sex banter almost patronising. I am not blaming her, or wgs in general. The most I have found are wonderful people and have given me joy. But more and more it seems I am pushing a wet noodle- in more ways than one- in getting the joy of of a punt. Maybe they are seeing my attitude and feeding off of it?

But I can't go through another punt with a beautiful, generous woman when I am feeling so unfulfilled and even wondering what I could have spent the money on. It's not fair on them.

I wish you all the luck in the world, you have been a great bunch to hang out with and may fortune treat you live her favourite children

 

Are you saying that WGs you've seen before are changing their attitude to you?

 

Or is it that you are seeing fresh WGs who have different attitudes?

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I've not known many good working girls be off because of a persons age.I agree perhaps you are coming across as not overly enthusiastic or a bit reserved because of how you are feeling within yourself or you are thinking back to a less successful punt.

Perhaps have a little break and then try another lady with a good reputation.Are you perhaps booking ladies alot younger?Maybe tey a slightly more mature wg in age and outlook?

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I notice the comment about beautiful,generous women.In what way are they generous if you are paying for a service and they are not meeting your requirements?If a bloke likes lots of kisses and the lady is aware of this then she should be providing it if she has agreed to it.The only time a lady who offers kissing should be reticent is if the guy has bad oral hygiene which I am sure is not the case with you.

Did you try for more kisses or ask for them?Or have you just presumed it is down to your age?

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This is rather sad.  Are you sure that you're not using your age as an excuse? You're viewing your predicament very subjectively and have halted at age. Perhaps this general malaise might be attributed to something else in your life.  

 

Lack of fulfilment from punting hits us all at some time, for myriad reasons.  I suggest a nice long break.  A fortnight away and you'll feel rejuvenated.  

 

a fortnight as  a long break. Hmmmm!.

 

But that WNP says is right.  take a break and come back rejuvenated.

Edited by Coventrypunter

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Well, yesterday was my last punt. I have struggled recently with the idea that the wgs are having problems with my age. The kisses have become pecks and the attempts at a second round not even offered.

Yesterday, even though I pointed my age out beforehand it was the same. Her assured kisses were sparse and her post sex banter almost patronising. I am not blaming her, or wgs in general. The most I have found are wonderful people and have given me joy. But more and more it seems I am pushing a wet noodle- in more ways than one- in getting the joy of of a punt. Maybe they are seeing my attitude and feeding off of it?

But I can't go through another punt with a beautiful, generous woman when I am feeling so unfulfilled and even wondering what I could have spent the money on. It's not fair on them.

I wish you all the luck in the world, you have been a great bunch to hang out with and may fortune treat you live her favourite children

I wish you all the best Lessingham and have enjoyed reading your posts. :)

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I enjoyed reading you posts on here Lessingham, but dont walk away alltogother, you still very much a usefull member of the forum, and can give much in terms of experiance.

 

I dont know if this helps, but when I had my stroke, I thought it was the end of my punting hobby, as my meds mean I cant take anymore medication to enhance my errection, and at my age maybe I should also know better, but a working girl taught me that sex is not all about intercourse, and there are meny ways of having sexual pleasure, maybe your bounderies are an issue in the bookings.

 

Take arest from the hobby if thats needed, but how are you going to replace the thrill of seeing a woman who wants to pleasure you,

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a fortnight as  a long break. Hmmmm!.

 

But that WNP says is right.  take a break and come back rejuvenated.

I dont believe that WNP is necessarily right. It a punter has had a long innings and feels the time is right then that should be respected. We don't know the age, health, other considerations so advice shouldn't be given. 

 

Personally, I wish Lessingham well if he makes this decision. If he then makes a comeback, then good for him too.

 

If I started receiving some less than enthusiastic meets with ladies, I would probably have an honest discussion with one of my favourites and seek an opinion.

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This is rather sad.  Are you sure that you're not using your age as an excuse? You're viewing your predicament very subjectively and have halted at age. Perhaps this general malaise might be attributed to something else in your life.  

 

Lack of fulfilment from punting hits us all at some time, for myriad reasons.  I suggest a nice long break.  A fortnight away and you'll feel rejuvenated.  

 

Are you sure it is down to your age? You do not say how old you are but I am 79 and will be having my monthly punt next week and am very much looking forward to it. Admittedly I now only visit my regular lady.

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If it were me in your situation then I think I would be looking for two or three ladies, perhaps who I have seen before and whose company I enjoyed, who would provide me with the enjoyment that I'm looking for in an encounter.  I would then visit them all as regularly as I wanted to and/or could afford and not necessarily on a strict rota basis.    But that's only me. 

 

If you do decide to give up then live long and prosper.    None of us knows how long we are here for so let's make the best of it.

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....................  I suggest a nice long break.  A fortnight away and you'll feel rejuvenated.  

:)  :)  :)

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In my experience it depends on the lady. Some ladie's kissing is minimal and closed mouth while others are more enthusiastic and practically snog my face off. Everyone is different.

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Without being rude, are you sure the issue is not with the WG's, but with you?

Are you polite? Is your hygiene of a moderately acceptable standard? Are you good to chat to?

Perhaps there are some reasons why girls aren't quite as welcoming as you want them to be.

Or maybe you are just seeing the wrong escorts?

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Well, yesterday was my last punt. I have struggled recently with the idea that the wgs are having problems with my age. The kisses have become pecks and the attempts at a second round not even offered.

Yesterday, even though I pointed my age out beforehand it was the same. Her assured kisses were sparse and her post sex banter almost patronising. I am not blaming her, or wgs in general. The most I have found are wonderful people and have given me joy. But more and more it seems I am pushing a wet noodle- in more ways than one- in getting the joy of of a punt. Maybe they are seeing my attitude and feeding off of it?

But I can't go through another punt with a beautiful, generous woman when I am feeling so unfulfilled and even wondering what I could have spent the money on. It's not fair on them.

I wish you all the luck in the world, you have been a great bunch to hang out with and may fortune treat you live her favourite children

I think ignorance is a bliss. My age is not an issue but I think that as time goes by you see punting for what it is and not as exciting as before, giving it up as a regular habit is a good thing really.

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Dont be so stupid OP!! There is nothing wrong with you, it is the girls who are a waste of time, they are being paid to entertain regardless of age, crede or colour. Your only mistake is not researching and getting the best escorts.

 

A high class professsional escort will provide any man, so long as he is clean, polite and respectful, with a great punt. 

 

Dont give up, just choose more carefully

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I think that as time goes by you see punting for what it is and not as exciting as before, giving it up as a regular habit is a good thing really.

Spending a lot of time on this Forum - especially as a Moderator - has that effect as well!

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I wonder if you're married.

Maybe you really need what a lot of us want at heart, married or not, but can only dream about. I mean real love, genuinely affectionate and loving kisses, but from a woman who is also very physical and loves sex and, most importantly of all, a woman who really loves and cares about you and loves to be with you and to be kissed and held by you.

Now wouldn't that be so much better than paying someone to kiss you and have sex with you?

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Dont give up, just choose more carefully

 

My thoughts exactly. Stick to the regulars.

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I wonder if you're married.

Maybe you really need what a lot of us want at heart, married or not, but can only dream about. I mean real love, genuinely affectionate and loving kisses, but from a woman who is also very physical and loves sex and, most importantly of all, a woman who really loves and cares about you and loves to be with you and to be kissed and held by you.

Now wouldn't that be so much better than paying someone to kiss you and have sex with you?

A lot of people punt because they look for exciting sex outside their loving relationship. Edited by Fred15

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...................., giving it up as a regular habit is a good thing really.

Even more :)  :)  :)  :) !

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Spending a lot of time on this Forum - especially as a Moderator - has that effect as well!

I probably read less than 1% of the posts and that is bad enough. You must feel suicidal :)

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