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Conwy

Making A Connection

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Earlier today, a regular lady asked me what my interpretation was of the expression "Making a connection."

 

Firstly, I will say that this was after my paid-for time had ended and we were polishing off the bottle I had taken, so it was certainly not a ruse on her part to substitute talk for activity. Secondly, we had indulged ourselves carnally for a good proportion of the previous two hours, so I might not have been at my most deeply philosophical, or articulate.

 

I summary, I said that my interpretation was that I liked her enough to care for her in the sense that if, for example, she were to tell me that she was hitching up with a boy or girl and giving up escorting, then I would feel happy for her.

 

That I feel completely at ease in her company and truly respect her as a person. That she is sufficiently articulate and intelligent for me to enjoy our conversations when recovering.

 

That, when I am with her, I like to feel that she is enjoying the experience enough to make a valiant attempt to help her achieve that enjoyment.

I also told her that her mouth has a shape when she is aroused that she will never see, unless she has a session with a client recorded!

 

That if, hypothetically, I were to catch sight of another client at the point of leaving then I would not have any feelings of jealousy. (Not going to happen in her case, but this was only illustrative).

 

How would you folks interpret the question?

 

 

 

 

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If someone asked me to describe it I would say "it means you click with someone" its not a philosophical way to explain it but its to the point.

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I'd try my best not to go too much into it. With all due respect to ladies in the profession, they are working ladies not your girlfriend. That sounds like a hell of a conversation OP. 

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I call this Oxy-Talkin;  a play on word for Oxytocin the sex hormone that causes the post coital euphoria.

 

I think when I find the girl who gets the joke I will have met my life partner. :)

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Hi Conwy...and that was a summarised version? :D . I'm with Chloe on this one. My view is its simply a case whether you have a natural rapport with someone.

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Well, she did, when posing the question, say that the usual answer was "When you click with someone" but she was seeking a wider explanation.

The discussion moved on to other stuff. This is a very intelligent lass, BTW.

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I'd say it just means that there is something behind the eyes that clicks in a way that is beyond politeness or distant but pleasant interaction...something that makes you excited to see each other, interact (physically or otherwise), communicate and enjoy shared experience. Telltale signs? Bringing you into a persons circle (within limits).

(Different but related subject)

I've lived in the UK for 7 years and never clicked once with anyone local, after a lifetime of clicking regularly with people. I have clicked with a few non-Brits while living here. Sorry if that sounds harsh to British people, you are all usually well mannered and interesting, but I've heard that story oft repeated by other immigrants I know, it's a very closed off place. I see Brits click with other Brits constantly of course, as Brits are extremely social, which is the part I find confusing.

I spoke to one vey popular working girl (immigrant) recently and asked if she's made any friends or relationships ('connections') since she came over here in 2009: zero. Two customers of hers are regulars and 'friendly' beyond services rendered, but she said that's still work time mostly.

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Well, she did, when posing the question, say that the usual answer was "When you click with someone" but she was seeking a wider explanation.

The discussion moved on to other stuff. This is a very intelligent lass, BTW.

Well clicking can come on many levels and its not something you can actually control, its there or its not, you cant turn it on, you cannot turn it off. Chemistry, tis great when it comes along x

 

...guess Im just not that intelligent haha  ;)

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Earlier today, a regular lady asked me what my interpretation was of the expression "Making a connection."

 

Firstly, I will say that this was after my paid-for time had ended and we were polishing off the bottle I had taken, so it was certainly not a ruse on her part to substitute talk for activity. Secondly, we had indulged ourselves carnally for a good proportion of the previous two hours, so I might not have been at my most deeply philosophical, or articulate.

 

I summary, I said that my interpretation was that I liked her enough to care for her in the sense that if, for example, she were to tell me that she was hitching up with a boy or girl and giving up escorting, then I would feel happy for her.

 

That I feel completely at ease in her company and truly respect her as a person. That she is sufficiently articulate and intelligent for me to enjoy our conversations when recovering.

 

That, when I am with her, I like to feel that she is enjoying the experience enough to make a valiant attempt to help her achieve that enjoyment.

I also told her that her mouth has a shape when she is aroused that she will never see, unless she has a session with a client recorded!

 

That if, hypothetically, I were to catch sight of another client at the point of leaving then I would not have any feelings of jealousy. (Not going to happen in her case, but this was only illustrative).

 

How would you folks interpret the question?

For me it means the WG is someone i get on with on the basic level of paid sex and wish to return to see again. It can be good acting on her part or genuine that she gets on with me, i only expect the former, but the latter is great.

 

The click factor cant be pre-planned for in my experience, its a case of meeting and its either there or not, i cant define a reason why it happens, it just does on ocassion, and always leads to good punts. It can be with a WG from anywhere, she might not even be able to speak good English but she has excellent inter-very-personal skills. ;)

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