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Overnight Help/guide?

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I've never done an overnight before. I have one coming up with an absolutely incredible lady (very long story behind that, but let's just say she is the nicest WG EVER!) in around 2 weeks time. I said it should be at my place, now I'm not sure because I have a small flat, good for the 1-2 hour thing, not sure about overnights.  :unsure:

 

This is serious, what happens on an overnight? I mean she told me to expect "little sleep and lots of sex", but realistically it can't all be that. Now I have to also think of the next day, like breakfast?

 

Im super excited about this, and I feel I have enough time to plan a nice one, would appreciate some tips! :)

 

Should I book a hotel room instead?!

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Although I don't have any experience I would say that forking out for a hotel room would make the night more special. More of a holiday than a one-night stand. Having said that if I was in your situation I would choose somewhere with some character rather than a Holiday Inn or something. Those places are drab.

 

I would pull out all the stops for this, especially as you seem to have a real fondness for this girl. Bring some whipped cream, dildos, whatever you fancy. If she likes your company they will most likely come in handy at some point.

 

Hell, why not take her out to dinner first too. 

 

YOLO.

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I've never done an overnight before. I have one coming up with an absolutely incredible lady (very long story behind that, but let's just say she is the nicest WG EVER!) in around 2 weeks time. I said it should be at my place, now I'm not sure because I have a small flat, good for the 1-2 hour thing, not sure about overnights.  :unsure:

 

This is serious, what happens on an overnight? I mean she told me to expect "little sleep and lots of sex", but realistically it can't all be that. Now I have to also think of the next day, like breakfast?

 

Im super excited about this, and I feel I have enough time to plan a nice one, would appreciate some tips! :)

 

Should I book a hotel room instead?!

I have zero interest in over-nighters but if i did do them it would be at the WGs place or a hotel not my home as that breaches my basic security. My advice is think about what YOU want from the booking very carefully and pass it by the WG so she is clear beforehand. Its about you having fun, so i hope it goes well. :)

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not sure all girls do these the same. Think you need to discuss with the girl so you both know the score.

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Haha ok I'll find a nice hotel although Im almost cashless this month because Im on an expensive trip to France this weekend. Credit cards it is :D

 

I cant complain though. :)

 

What about dinners/etc? This is strange to me, hanging out with a wg for a dinner. I'll ask her, but she is very cool about it, not expecting anything other than a nice long sleepless night! :)

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Stay with your place but make sure it is clean and tidy. Including the bath, shower and loo.

Make sure that you have a clean towel ready for her.

Enquire what refreshments, food and drinks, she enjoys and get some in.

Enquire about breakfast.

Is parking easy? Let her know in advance. Similar to when we are visiting a new lady, you cannot underestimate the stress of driving around a strange area looking for a safe parking spot.

Relax and enjoy.

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Thanks for the tips guys, appreciated!

 

Corus Boy, that way my initial plan and I'm still in two minds about this as I think my place is really a nice bachelor pad type of place. Small, clean, and very intimate. I also have a weekly cleaner that comes over :)

 

What do the ladies on here expect out of an overnight?

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Thanks for the tips guys, appreciated!

 

Corus Boy, that way my initial plan and I'm still in two minds about this as I think my place is really a nice bachelor pad type of place. Small, clean, and very intimate. I also have a weekly cleaner that comes over :)

 

What do the ladies on here expect out of an overnight?

Sounds like your place would be very acceptable, to the ladies. Edited by Corus Boy

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I'm about to have my 1st o/n with a girl I've seen before. I outlined roughly what I had in mind (it involves staying in a nice hotel, and going for a meal). Beyond that I'm pretty much going to go with the flow. She seemed happy enough with the arrangement and I know we get along ok so fingers crossed.

If you're happy to have the WG at your place then go for it, it'll save on hotel costs... :)

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I regularly have overnights with my favourites although usually in a nice hotel. If it is happening at mine, then Corus Boy has covered all the main points. Enjoy yourself, and as a good host ;), try and ensure that the lady enjoys herself too by just being yourself and not worrying about what to do next or exactly what's going to happen. 

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As a working girl I spent half my life in hotels so would not find that special.  One of the nicest overnights I did was with a lovely guy down south.  He had a small place but I found it intimate.  He ran me a bath and pampered me a bit, then cooked tea whilst I rifled through his music collection.  We had a couple of bottles of wine which we eventually took to the bedroom along with his music collection and were at it most of the night.  Breakfast was in bed too.

 

For those sort of bookings I preferred that rather than having to be quiet in a stuffy hotel room.

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As a working girl I spent half my life in hotels so would not find that special.  One of the nicest overnights I did was with a lovely guy down south.  He had a small place but I found it intimate.  He ran me a bath and pampered me a bit, then cooked tea whilst I rifled through his music collection.  We had a couple of bottles of wine which we eventually took to the bedroom along with his music collection and were at it most of the night.  Breakfast was in bed too.

 

For those sort of bookings I preferred that rather than having to be quiet in a stuffy hotel room.

 

Yep, agree. Hotels can be good (unless cheapo), but overnights at mine have been infinitely better

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Ok thanks folks, my place it is. Cleaner comes on a Saturday morning so I'll push this to Saturday night when the place is all clean. I already know her favourite drink, I'll see what else she likes. Should be a lovely encounter. :)

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I have an overnight planned in a luxury city centre apartment to celebrate a significant birthday shortly. Home is not practical and I agree hotels can be impersonal. This will enable me to buy in those little luxuries which will, I hope, help things go swimmingly. Oh, and the lady I am seeing is bringing a friend to help pass the time...

 

We've all met before so I'm hopeful of a memorable evening

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As a working girl I spent half my life in hotels so would not find that special.  One of the nicest overnights I did was with a lovely guy down south.  He had a small place but I found it intimate.  He ran me a bath and pampered me a bit, then cooked tea whilst I rifled through his music collection.  We had a couple of bottles of wine which we eventually took to the bedroom along with his music collection and were at it most of the night.  Breakfast was in bed too.

 

For those sort of bookings I preferred that rather than having to be quiet in a stuffy hotel room.

The lady has spoken! :)

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As a working girl I spent half my life in hotels so would not find that special.  One of the nicest overnights I did was with a lovely guy down south.  He had a small place but I found it intimate.  He ran me a bath and pampered me a bit, then cooked tea whilst I rifled through his music collection.  We had a couple of bottles of wine which we eventually took to the bedroom along with his music collection and were at it most of the night.  Breakfast was in bed too.

 

For those sort of bookings I preferred that rather than having to be quiet in a stuffy hotel room.

 

God, sounds fantastic !!

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Go to Lush and get some nice stuff for the bath - the rose petal one is awesome! ;)

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My fantasy of the perfect overnighter would be a secluded log cabin in the Colorado Rockies. Our naked bodies entwined as we sip a nice Chablis in front of a roaring fire, my hands caressing her body as she slips out of her dress, and we make made passionate sex all night with Massenet's Opera's acting as the soundtrack to our passions.

The reality is that after the first cum, I have the sexual prowess of an asthmatic eunuch with a headache, and my innate selfishness, (which I suspect is the reason I am divorced), would soon mean that the girl would soon be checking her Facebook as I watched Match of the Day and ate the remains of the burnt dinner I tried to make for the girl but got distracted by googling midget porn

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An overnight is a little beyond my boundries personally.It probably sounds weird but actually sleeping with someone you dont really know is a little to intimate.Odd place to draw a line i know.

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An overnight is a little beyond my boundries personally.It probably sounds weird but actually sleeping with someone you dont really know is a little to intimate.Odd place to draw a line i know.

 

 

You mean 'sleeping next to', I am assuming you want to be 'sleeping with'! 

 

My problem with o/n is they don't make financial sense really. Mine was a one off for reasons I can only talk about later after it happens. :) 

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You mean 'sleeping next to', I am assuming you want to be 'sleeping with'! 

 

My problem with o/n is they don't make financial sense really. Mine was a one off for reasons I can only talk about later after it happens. :)

Yep,i meant literall sleeping.and i'm intrigued now so loking forward to further posts

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You mean 'sleeping next to', I am assuming you want to be 'sleeping with'! 

 

My problem with o/n is they don't make financial sense really. Mine was a one off for reasons I can only talk about later after it happens. :)

 

I find that the 'sleeping with' or 'sleeping next to' is all worth it for the 'waking up with' (or next to). Nothing like early morning pleasure!

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I find that the 'sleeping with' or 'sleeping next to' is all worth it for the 'waking up with' (or next to). Nothing like early morning pleasure!

Do the WGs actually sleep? Perhaps I have watched too much Billie Piper, and thought they would be too worried to sleep in the same room as a punter.

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As a working girl I spent half my life in hotels so would not find that special. One of the nicest overnights I did was with a lovely guy down south. He had a small place but I found it intimate. He ran me a bath and pampered me a bit, then cooked tea whilst I rifled through his music collection. We had a couple of bottles of wine which we eventually took to the bedroom along with his music collection and were at it most of the night. Breakfast was in bed too.

For those sort of bookings I preferred that rather than having to be quiet in a stuffy hotel room.

Sounds like a lovely evening, Holly. Human intimacy can be so complex at times but the beauty of two people just hanging out, sharing each other and going where the mood takes them is indescribable :-)

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Sounds like a lovely evening, Holly. Human intimacy can be so complex at times but the beauty of two people just hanging out, sharing each other and going where the mood takes them is indescribable :-)

 

I agree, sometimes over thinking things can spoil it.  Oh and for the guy that said go to Lush, nice idea but most SP's worth their salt wont want scented water anywhere near their bits I'm afraid.

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