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Submissive Asian?

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On the Invasian site Aisha writes: “there are no providers offering a sub/bottom/receiving role“. Is that true for all asian escorts in London or are there others outside the Invasian group that offer such services of some kind? As submissive services could come in many forms and degrees of severity I won't be more specific. 

Thank you for any information!

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Since you 'wont be more specific', neither will I

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Since you 'wont be more specific', neither will I

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Or more specifically, throttling or 'disciplining' small Asian women is not everyone's idea of sport.

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Leila-DeepthroatStar is fairly submissive, but I think she is away in Thailand at the momeent.

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Sorry that some felt affronted by me not being more specific. However, submissiveness can be many things, even only an attitude, and as some escorts, even on Invasian, pose with handcuffs or ”spank me” texts, I at least wonders if there is any reality and, in such a case, which behind it.

 

And that somebody can imagine throttling as the primarily response to a submissive escort make me really wonder about that person's thoughts.

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Sorry that some felt affronted by me not being more specific. However, submissiveness can be many things, even only an attitude, and as some escorts, even on Invasian, pose with handcuffs or ”spank me” texts, I at least wonders if there is any reality and, in such a case, which behind it.

 

And that somebody can imagine throttling as the primarily response to a submissive escort make me really wonder about that person's thoughts.

 

 

Tiggy 7 wasnt being specific

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Tiggy 7 wasnt being specific

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Thanks for the mentioning of Leila. Further information on her, others, and the subject in general would be most welcome.

 

I don't know why some have reacted as they've done. My intention was to collect information on a subject I wonder about – not to cause a quarrel I sincerely don't understand.

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Despite the reactions when I posted earlier I would like to reopen this thread.

Many other escort more or less explicitly state that they are more or less dominant or submissive. When it comes tto the asians in my view that's more rare except for a few dominants. As was written above by Sigispen Leila is an exception. On her AW site a picture is called: 5-STAR NAKED SUBMISSIVE DEEPTHROAT LEILA.

I haven't seen any other. Thus, are there other asian submissives?

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Leila-DeepthroatStar is fairly submissive, but I think she is away in Thailand at the momeent.

What she actually exists? Well, I know she exists, but surely she's one of those pimped Thai Aw's who have totally ridiculous, unbelievable profiles or have you actually met her, sigispen, and experienced the totally absurd claims made on her profile? I'd love to find someone who has - I really, really would.

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What she actually exists? Well, I know she exists, but surely she's one of those pimped Thai Aw's who have totally ridiculous, unbelievable profiles or have you actually met her, sigispen, and experienced the totally absurd claims made on her profile? I'd love to find someone who has - I really, really would.

Quite a few guys on here have met Leila (aka Lucy in her agency days, 2009-12). I was a regular in her heyday, and very sweet she was.

 

Her slipping off the agencies was part of some downward slide that led me to lose interest eventually.

 

Most of those similar AW profiles are, as you say, ridiculous, but in her case it's surprisingly accurate.

 

As sigispen said, fairly submissive in style, but not a sub in the proper sense.

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Quite a few guys on here have met Leila (aka Lucy in her agency days, 2009-12). I was a regular in her heyday, and very sweet she was.

 

Her slipping off the agencies was part of some downward slide that led me to lose interest eventually.

 

Most of those similar AW profiles are, as you say, ridiculous, but in her case it's surprisingly accurate.

 

As sigispen said, fairly submissive in style, but not a sub in the proper sense.

Her slipping of the agencies? The Leila now present at several agencies, for instance Invasian, is that somebody else?

Are there others "submissive in style" or proper subs?

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Her slipping of the agencies? The Leila now present at several agencies, for instance Invasian, is that somebody else?

Are there others "submissive in style" or proper subs?

The current agency girl Leila/Laila is a completely different girl - different location, very different physique.

 

There are always a few whose style is unexcitingly passive, but those are called starfish.

 

No oriental girl I've known of has advertised sub service to all comers (as distinct from engaging in light sub games with regulars they have come to trust).

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I'd put Emma in the slightly submissive, but definitely not un-excitedly passive, category, and Lilly.

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I must admit that statement on the Invasian site also made me sit up and do a double-take the first time I read it, and I still don't understand it.

 

There must be a hidden meaning to "submissive" that I've not yet come across, but by my dictionary definition every single one of the Oriental escorts that I've met have been submissive with me - even the "dominatrix" Min Min. If you're running the show and at some point end up pumping her forcefully (but without causing pain) with her legs behind your shoulders, or ejaculating over her boobs or into her mouth, then isn't that her being submissive?

 

If not then perhaps some of the more experienced punters can educate jmd6 and myself as to the true definition?

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There are degrees of submissiveness. At one end there's the type of girl who will not mind being lifted in the air for a pounding (goes quite deep, so might be a bit painful if you're a big boy) or being done doggie with both your feet placed flat on the floor either side, not minding a facial or as you describe, Payday, like your experience with Min Min or being willing to sit on a bar stool to be given a standing one from behind! Then, at the other extreme there are girls who are willing to be spanked hard etc. and told they are a slave (men do this too if they see a dominatrix. I'm one of those who's in the 1st category.

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If not then perhaps some of the more experienced punters can educate jmd6 and myself as to the true definition?

Why settle for the theory when you can get practical demonstration? Next time you see MinMin, ask her to show you the true meaning of submission.

 

In a little while you'll be saying "but I thought you were just going to cum on my tits". Only she won't be able to make out what you're saying, not with that ball-gag in your mouth.

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There are degrees of submissiveness. At one end there's the type of girl who will not mind being lifted in the air for a pounding (goes quite deep, so might be a bit painful if you're a big boy) or being done doggie with both your feet placed flat on the floor either side, not minding a facial or as you describe, Payday, like your experience with Min Min or being willing to sit on a bar stool to be given a standing one from behind! Then, at the other extreme there are girls who are willing to be spanked hard etc. and told they are a slave (men do this too if they see a dominatrix. I'm one of those who's in the 1st category.

My question has been ambiguous, and it's not without intention. To spank the buttocks of a woman is joyful for me, but not always necessary.

On the other hand meeting a professional having a unchangeable plan regardless of what have been discussed and where disaster is close if one dares to have some other ideas (yes, they exist) is for me almost meaningless.

Yes, I like to have the impression that I am or that I might be in charge if I so desire. Not ordering around, but not being ordered around.  Therefore, both aspects are of interest, but most important is the impression she gives. If no problems or danger occur, or no limits are threatened, who seems to have the final word?

Fundamentally, that's my question, although to spank her is a treat.

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Why settle for the theory when you can get practical demonstration? Next time you see MinMin, ask her to show you the true meaning of submission.

 

In a little while you'll be saying "but I thought you were just going to cum on my tits". Only she won't be able to make out what you're saying, not with that ball-gag in your mouth.

 

Eh? You've completely lost me there. How can she cum on my tits, and what on earth is a "ball-gag in your mouth".

 

I'm obviously missing so much - please educate me....

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My question has been ambiguous, and it's not without intention. To spank the buttocks of a woman is joyful for me, but not always necessary.

On the other hand meeting a professional having a unchangeable plan regardless of what have been discussed and where disaster is close if one dares to have some other ideas (yes, they exist) is for me almost meaningless.

Yes, I like to have the impression that I am or that I might be in charge if I so desire. Not ordering around, but not being ordered around.  Therefore, both aspects are of interest, but most important is the impression she gives. If no problems or danger occur, or no limits are threatened, who seems to have the final word?

Fundamentally, that's my question, although to spank her is a treat.

 

Sorry jm6d, but spanking is not on my menu but I'm sure others more versed in this stuff will assist....although there seems to be some confusion over whether it is the punter or the escort who is submissive.

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I must admit that statement on the Invasian site also made me sit up and do a double-take the first time I read it, and I still don't understand it.

 

There must be a hidden meaning to "submissive" that I've not yet come across, but by my dictionary definition every single one of the Oriental escorts that I've met have been submissive with me - even the "dominatrix" Min Min. If you're running the show and at some point end up pumping her forcefully (but without causing pain) with her legs behind your shoulders, or ejaculating over her boobs or into her mouth, then isn't that her being submissive?

 

If not then perhaps some of the more experienced punters can educate jmd6 and myself as to the true definition?

 

OK – my bad! I was relying on the “Oxford” meaning of submissive rather that the “Urban” meaning, which of course is the dictionary of choice in this context…

 

Sorry for the time-wasting.

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Sorry jm6d, but spanking is not on my menu but I'm sure others more versed in this stuff will assist....although there seems to be some confusion over whether it is the punter or the escort who is submissive.

 

Why should it be on your menu? As also you imply submissive can mean much, and for me that's good. Therefore please go on with "Oxford" interpretations. They're necessary.

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My experience (with maybe a couple of dozen or so Asian girls over the years) is that most are very happy to be submissive (which like @jm6d I find a pleasing turn-on) if you treat them sensibly. Think how huge 50 Shades of Grey has been - it's shown that most girls like to submit - or would like to try.

 

I prefer 2 hour meets rather than a quickie and I always do outcalls. The first 30-40 mins of chat (about the girl, about her home, about her family) is usually enough to relax her and build a feeling of trust and confidence so that when I say are you ok with being tied up she almost always says fine. Mild spanking is then a natural progression. (Occasionally, with a deliciously kinky girl, more severe progression follows happily, if not on that meeting then on the next).

 

Far more difficult though to judge how much they want this (spanking) and whether they are truly kinky. I'd guess most of us have found that girls will comply with requests because they want to please the punter; judging whether your request is a turn-on for her is more difficult because verbal communication with most Asian girls is so hard and one has to rely on body-language. Same issue whether your preference is anal or whether it's bondage or spanking. Girls who firmly don't like anal will generally make it clear; I'd expect girls who firmly don't like bondage would also make it clear - I just haven't met many.

 

I'd say go for it @jm6d - pick the girl who looks sexy to you. Then be polite and friendly and considerate and get across that her submission is for your mutual enjoyment and be quietly confident in approach - my guess is you'll find her submission is easy. And distinctly enjoyable, hopefully for both of you.

 

So far as your query about advertised submission goes my (educated) guess is that girls won't push submissive service offerings because there are too many weirdos out there; it's a bit like advertising "sadistic axe-murderers catered for".

 

 

General warning: Do be aware what happens with girls is down to chemistry and mood, which may not be there - think of how often a review of a girl from PunterA has praised her kissing while a review of the same girl from PunterB has moaned about her reluctance to kiss. It's as simple as either the girl doesn't want to kiss B or she's just not in the mood. Simillarly she may be normally submissive but may not want to, or may not be in the mood to, submit to you. (If kissing rejection keeps happening, check whether you have BO).

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