Ford Prefect

You Teach The Wg How To Treat You

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The above title is an adaption from some pop psychology and NLP thinking.

 

I often read comments about how  a girl might be cold, or disinterested, or just seems to be going through the motions. Heck, I have days at work myself where I'm just not feeling 100% or in the mood for meeting after meeting. But I can honestly say that I've never yet spent time with a WG where she has not be friendly and tried to please me.

 

Why is this? I'm average looking, average weight, I dress average. You wouldn't look at me twice in the street. I am always clean though. Freshly showered, breath fresh, well presented. I think the answer then is that I'm friendly myself. I always smile when seeing a WG, I'm considerate, I respect her. Most times, I bring a small gift. I always compliment her - something personal, be it her eyes, the way she's done her hair. I make small talk, I tease her playfully. And I see the girl beneath the WG girl image and I try connect with a part of her there too.

 

And then we have some fun. The girl does not feel threatened, are cheap, or like an object. She has her dignity and pride and we now have an environment where we can relax together and take us where I have my needs.

 

There have been some times where I've recognised the girl is not 100%. Maybe just a bit physically tired. Maybe she's been hurt or offended by a previous client. Maybe she has a personal issue at home. I'm OK with that. I'm comfortable enough to not take it personally. If anything, if I show the appropriate sensitivity, it could even bring a sense of intimacy.

 

I recognise my style might not be everyone's cup of tea, but for me, the proof is in the eating. I have never yet had a bad experience.  

 

Hence, we teach the girl how to treat us. Either subliminally or consciously.

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The above title is an adaption from some pop psychology and NLP thinking.

 

I often read comments about how  a girl might be cold, or disinterested, or just seems to be going through the motions. Heck, I have days at work myself where I'm just not feeling 100% or in the mood for meeting after meeting. But I can honestly say that I've never yet spent time with a WG where she has not be friendly and tried to please me.

 

Why is this? I'm average looking, average weight, I dress average. You wouldn't look at me twice in the street. I am always clean though. Freshly showered, breath fresh, well presented. I think the answer then is that I'm friendly myself. I always smile when seeing a WG, I'm considerate, I respect her. Most times, I bring a small gift. I always compliment her - something personal, be it her eyes, the way she's done her hair. I make small talk, I tease her playfully. And I see the girl beneath the WG girl image and I try connect with a part of her there too.

 

And then we have some fun. The girl does not feel threatened, are cheap, or like an object. She has her dignity and pride and we now have an environment where we can relax together and take us where I have my needs.

 

There have been some times where I've recognised the girl is not 100%. Maybe just a bit physically tired. Maybe she's been hurt or offended by a previous client. Maybe she has a personal issue at home. I'm OK with that. I'm comfortable enough to not take it personally. If anything, if I show the appropriate sensitivity, it could even bring a sense of intimacy.

 

I recognise my style might not be everyone's cup of tea, but for me, the proof is in the eating. I have never yet had a bad experience.  

 

Hence, we teach the girl how to treat us. Either subliminally or consciously.

 

 

You should change your name to Ford Perfect ! :D

 

 

Of course, behaviour breeds behaviour.

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Nahh, just Ford Average. The name is from the Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy trilogy. Not forgetting the fourth book in the trilogy - So Long & Thanks for all the Fish.

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Nahh, just Ford Average. The name is from the Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy trilogy. Not forgetting the fourth book in the trilogy - So Long & Thanks for all the Fish.

But are you 42?....it may be your just the magic number  ;)

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Hi there, Ford, I think you will be pleased to know that your thoughts are corroborated by this book: "Paying For It by Christina, Greta on Kindle (a guide by sex workers for their clients)".

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The above title is an adaption from some pop psychology and NLP thinking.

 

I often read comments about how  a girl might be cold, or disinterested, or just seems to be going through the motions. Heck, I have days at work myself where I'm just not feeling 100% or in the mood for meeting after meeting. But I can honestly say that I've never yet spent time with a WG where she has not be friendly and tried to please me.

 

Why is this? I'm average looking, average weight, I dress average. You wouldn't look at me twice in the street. I am always clean though. Freshly showered, breath fresh, well presented. I think the answer then is that I'm friendly myself. I always smile when seeing a WG, I'm considerate, I respect her. Most times, I bring a small gift. I always compliment her - something personal, be it her eyes, the way she's done her hair. I make small talk, I tease her playfully. And I see the girl beneath the WG girl image and I try connect with a part of her there too.

 

And then we have some fun. The girl does not feel threatened, are cheap, or like an object. She has her dignity and pride and we now have an environment where we can relax together and take us where I have my needs.

 

There have been some times where I've recognised the girl is not 100%. Maybe just a bit physically tired. Maybe she's been hurt or offended by a previous client. Maybe she has a personal issue at home. I'm OK with that. I'm comfortable enough to not take it personally. If anything, if I show the appropriate sensitivity, it could even bring a sense of intimacy.

 

I recognise my style might not be everyone's cup of tea, but for me, the proof is in the eating. I have never yet had a bad experience.  

 

Hence, we teach the girl how to treat us. Either subliminally or consciously.

 

When I read posts or FRs about how bad the girl was I always wonder whether there was something about the guy to bring about the bad experience. After all, punting is a 2-way street.

 

Thanks Ford for an excellent post. Spot on :)

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I'm average looking, average weight, I dress average. You wouldn't look at me twice in the street......................................

 

I am always clean though. Freshly showered, breath fresh, well presented. I think the answer then is that I'm friendly myself. I always smile when seeing a WG, I'm considerate.................................

 

I always compliment her - something personal, be it her eyes, the way she's done her hair. I make small talk, I tease her playfully................... 

 

we have some fun. The girl does not feel threatened, are cheap, or like an object. She has her dignity and pride and we now have an environment where we can relax together and take us where I have my needs.............. 

 

I show the appropriate sensitivity, it could even bring a sense of intimacy...........

 

I recognise my style might not be everyone's cup of tea, but for me, the proof is in the eating.

 

 

I could have written that myself.     Some people will see your comments as an ego thing.      I don't.      I can relate to what you say myself.      Treat others as you would like to be treated.      We all know how we would like the lady to treat us and that tells us how we should treat her.

 

Surely the last thing that any punter wants is for the door to be opened by someone who looks as if she hasn't had a shower or combed her hair today and only has one set of clothing that she has been wearing for several days.      No warm welcome.      She just says "that's the bedroom, get your kit off and put this condom on, I'll be with you in a minute".      A few minutes later she reappears, obviously having had a large glass of some alcoholic liquid even though it's 9.00 am, and tells you to get on the bed.     "I can't be bothered with a blowjob today so it'll have to be a quick fuck and then you will have to piss  off as I'm expecting my mate round to watch Jeremy Kyle".    " what do you mean you've paid for an hour?   If you don't like it bugger off now.    Refund?   You must be joking."

 

Everyone's perfect WG.   :)

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 the door to be opened by someone who looks as if she hasn't had a shower or combed her hair today and only has one set of clothing that she has been wearing for several days.      No warm welcome.      She just says "that's the bedroom, get your kit off and put this condom on, I'll be with you in a minute".      A few minutes later she reappears, obviously having had a large glass of some alcoholic liquid even though it's 9.00 am, and tells you to get on the bed.     "I can't be bothered with a blowjob today so it'll have to be a quick fuck and then you will have to piss  off as I'm expecting my mate round to watch Jeremy Kyle".    " what do you mean you've paid for an hour?   If you don't like it bugger off now.    Refund?   You must be joking."

 

Everyone's perfect WG.   :)

 

Do you have a link for the above escort, my mistress is taking a break and im looking fior someone with that sort of personality!.

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I fully agree with the OP, and am exactly the same myself. I always treat everyone as I'd like to be treated myself and it is no different with WG's. Why should it be?

However don't expect a perfect punt every time, as there are no guarantees.....

A couple of months ago I had a really disappointing punt with a girl I'd been in contact with for a few weeks by email while we were trying to find a convenient time to met. The comms with her were great, maybe my expectations were a bit high but the whole thing was a big anti climax - literally.... :(

She just didn't seem to want to be there, although she was quite pleasant and chatty. Obviously she may have had an off day, but we called it quits about half way through the punt. Only a few punts in meant my confidence took a bit of a knock but it's the only disappointment I've had so far. I've had a few proper mind blowers since so will stick with the same approach and attitude as more often than not it seems to work.

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I am perhaps ultra sensitive to all of this. If I pick up any negative vibes  I tend to leave.

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But are you 42?....it may be your just the magic number  ;)

I used to be 42. In my mind i'm still 42. Its the ultimate answer. The question eludes me :P

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The above title is an adaption from some pop psychology and NLP thinking.

 

I often read comments about how  a girl might be cold, or disinterested, or just seems to be going through the motions. Heck, I have days at work myself where I'm just not feeling 100% or in the mood for meeting after meeting. But I can honestly say that I've never yet spent time with a WG where she has not be friendly and tried to please me.

 

Why is this? I'm average looking, average weight, I dress average. You wouldn't look at me twice in the street. I am always clean though. Freshly showered, breath fresh, well presented. I think the answer then is that I'm friendly myself. I always smile when seeing a WG, I'm considerate, I respect her. Most times, I bring a small gift. I always compliment her - something personal, be it her eyes, the way she's done her hair. I make small talk, I tease her playfully. And I see the girl beneath the WG girl image and I try connect with a part of her there too.

 

And then we have some fun. The girl does not feel threatened, are cheap, or like an object. She has her dignity and pride and we now have an environment where we can relax together and take us where I have my needs.

 

There have been some times where I've recognised the girl is not 100%. Maybe just a bit physically tired. Maybe she's been hurt or offended by a previous client. Maybe she has a personal issue at home. I'm OK with that. I'm comfortable enough to not take it personally. If anything, if I show the appropriate sensitivity, it could even bring a sense of intimacy.

 

I recognise my style might not be everyone's cup of tea, but for me, the proof is in the eating. I have never yet had a bad experience.  

 

Hence, we teach the girl how to treat us. Either subliminally or consciously.

 

When I hear the phrase "NLP" I know that the liklihood is I am dealing with a nutter, probably a relatively harmless nutter but a nutter nonetheless.  Your post does nothing to disabuse me of that conviction.  Quite the reverse, in fact.

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When I hear the phrase "NLP" I know that the liklihood is I am dealing with a nutter, probably a relatively harmless nutter but a nutter nonetheless.  Your post does nothing to disabuse me of that conviction.  Quite the reverse, in fact.

 

I actually don't disagree with you about the NLP thing. i just read a lot. I hope your day improves :)

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Hi Ford, Nice to see you still around mate, i thought that Zaphod Beblebrox would have turned your brain soft by now, your welcome to visit my Galaxy of Spklors anytime.

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The above title is an adaption from some pop psychology and NLP thinking.

 

I often read comments about how  a girl might be cold, or disinterested, or just seems to be going through the motions. Heck, I have days at work myself where I'm just not feeling 100% or in the mood for meeting after meeting. But I can honestly say that I've never yet spent time with a WG where she has not be friendly and tried to please me.

 

Why is this? I'm average looking, average weight, I dress average. You wouldn't look at me twice in the street. I am always clean though. Freshly showered, breath fresh, well presented. I think the answer then is that I'm friendly myself. I always smile when seeing a WG, I'm considerate, I respect her. Most times, I bring a small gift. I always compliment her - something personal, be it her eyes, the way she's done her hair. I make small talk, I tease her playfully. And I see the girl beneath the WG girl image and I try connect with a part of her there too.

 

And then we have some fun. The girl does not feel threatened, are cheap, or like an object. She has her dignity and pride and we now have an environment where we can relax together and take us where I have my needs.

 

There have been some times where I've recognised the girl is not 100%. Maybe just a bit physically tired. Maybe she's been hurt or offended by a previous client. Maybe she has a personal issue at home. I'm OK with that. I'm comfortable enough to not take it personally. If anything, if I show the appropriate sensitivity, it could even bring a sense of intimacy.

 

I recognise my style might not be everyone's cup of tea, but for me, the proof is in the eating. I have never yet had a bad experience.  

 

Hence, we teach the girl how to treat us. Either subliminally or consciously.

 

IMO you sound like the perfect Gent from your post  Ford Prefect :)

I could have written that myself.     Some people will see your comments as an ego thing.      I don't.      I can relate to what you say myself.      Treat others as you would like to be  treated.      We all know how we would like the lady to treat us and that tells us how we should treat her.

 

Surely the last thing that any punter wants is for the door to be opened by someone who looks as if she hasn't had a shower or combed her hair today and only has one set of clothing that she has been wearing for several days.      No warm welcome.      She just says "that's the bedroom, get your kit off and put this condom on, I'll be with you in a minute".      A few minutes later she reappears, obviously having had a large glass of some alcoholic liquid even though it's 9.00 am, and tells you to get on the bed.     "I can't be bothered with a blowjob today so it'll have to be a quick fuck and then you will have to piss  off as I'm expecting my mate round to watch Jeremy Kyle".    " what do you mean you've paid for an hour?   If you don't like it bugger off now.    Refund?   You must be joking."

 

Everyone's perfect WG.   :)

Totally agree Gibbs. Last bit of your post is funny lol :P

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So, our conclusion is that the Golden Rule is still valid.  In other news, the Pope is still not Jewish, bears don't need to flush, etc.

 


Surely the last thing that any punter wants is for the door to be opened by someone who looks as if she hasn't had a shower or combed her hair today and only has one set of clothing that she has been wearing for several days.      No warm welcome.      She just says "that's the bedroom, get your kit off and put this condom on, I'll be with you in a minute".      A few minutes later she reappears, obviously having had a large glass of some alcoholic liquid even though it's 9.00 am, and tells you to get on the bed.     "I can't be bothered with a blowjob today so it'll have to be a quick fuck and then you will have to piss  off as I'm expecting my mate round to watch Jeremy Kyle".    " what do you mean you've paid for an hour?   If you don't like it bugger off now.    Refund?   You must be joking."

 

At what point in that process did you hand over the money? :)

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Life is reciprocal, is it not?  If one is abusive and disrespectful to others, others will be in kind.

 

Sometimes a WG will be rude without provocation, so what?  simply don't go back, or post a bad review on this site.  But generally speaking, if one is pleasant to the WG she will be pleasant back.  

 

Are many people responsive to others who don't respect them?

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The above title is an adaption from some pop psychology and NLP thinking.

 

I often read comments about how  a girl might be cold, or disinterested, or just seems to be going through the motions. Heck, I have days at work myself where I'm just not feeling 100% or in the mood for meeting after meeting. But I can honestly say that I've never yet spent time with a WG where she has not be friendly and tried to please me.

 

Why is this? I'm average looking, average weight, I dress average. You wouldn't look at me twice in the street. I am always clean though. Freshly showered, breath fresh, well presented. I think the answer then is that I'm friendly myself. I always smile when seeing a WG, I'm considerate, I respect her. Most times, I bring a small gift. I always compliment her - something personal, be it her eyes, the way she's done her hair. I make small talk, I tease her playfully. And I see the girl beneath the WG girl image and I try connect with a part of her there too.

 

And then we have some fun. The girl does not feel threatened, are cheap, or like an object. She has her dignity and pride and we now have an environment where we can relax together and take us where I have my needs.

 

There have been some times where I've recognised the girl is not 100%. Maybe just a bit physically tired. Maybe she's been hurt or offended by a previous client. Maybe she has a personal issue at home. I'm OK with that. I'm comfortable enough to not take it personally. If anything, if I show the appropriate sensitivity, it could even bring a sense of intimacy.

 

I recognise my style might not be everyone's cup of tea, but for me, the proof is in the eating. I have never yet had a bad experience.  

 

Hence, we teach the girl how to treat us. Either subliminally or consciously.

I expect a WG i punt with to offer me a great service every time irrespective of what her previous punter was like or whatever, i shouldnt need to teach them anything. Good WGs have already learnt to do this or just know to do this in my experience of 30 years of punting.

 

Also for at least £70 an hour 121 call me picky but a WG should be up for offering a good service or not be working. This goes for anyone i do business with in or outside punting.

 

What i do is always treat the WG with respect not letting past bad experiences colour my view and giving each one a clean slate.

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I expect a WG i punt with to offer me a great service every time irrespective of what her previous punter was like or whatever, i shouldnt need to teach them anything. Good WGs have already learnt to do this or just know to do this in my experience of 30 years of punting.

 

Also for at least £70 an hour 121 call me picky but a WG should be up for offering a good service or not be working. This goes for anyone i do business with in or outside punting.

 

What i do is always treat the WG with respect not letting past bad experiences colour my view and giving each one a clean slate.

 

spot on with that

 

BUT..

 

I have found that making an effort to please her, by being civil to her etc, often results in a better punt.  Dunno if its cos I make an effort to sexually arouse her, it makes her horny and up for it more, or she just appreciates I have made an effort.

 

But there again I find a lady cummng to a) be a massive compliment to me, and B) a massive turn on.

 

(Just hope the people in the next room to my hotel room last weds night appreciated it as well!)

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I am perhaps ultra sensitive to all of this. If I pick up any negative vibes  I tend to leave.

 

One time a girl in Soho that I'd seen a couple of times before came out of the room with a face like thunder. The previous punter had really upset her. I nearly made an excuse and left, but for some reason went in and decided to stay. Paid for 20 minutes out of habit.

 

When she came back in the room she tried to hide it, but I could see she was still upset. Went over to her, sat on the side of the bed, gathered her in my arms and we did nothing but hold each other for the first 5 minutes until I could feel the tension leave her body. She repaid the favour in the next 15 minutes and every time I saw her after that.

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One time a girl in Soho that I'd seen a couple of times before came out of the room with a face like thunder. The previous punter had really upset her. I nearly made an excuse and left, but for some reason went in and decided to stay. Paid for 20 minutes out of habit.

 

When she came back in the room she tried to hide it, but I could see she was still upset. Went over to her, sat on the side of the bed, gathered her in my arms and we did nothing but hold each other for the first 5 minutes until I could feel the tension leave her body. She repaid the favour in the next 15 minutes and every time I saw her after that.

 

Oh a cuddle is always good on a punt.

But you went beyond the call on this one.  nice.

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When I hear the phrase "NLP" I know that the liklihood is I am dealing with a nutter, probably a relatively harmless nutter but a nutter nonetheless. 

For us to fully appreciate your comment you'll need to let us know what star sign you are. ;)

 

 

I expect a WG i punt with to offer me a great service every time irrespective of what her previous punter was like or whatever, i shouldnt need to teach them anything. Good WGs have already learnt to do this or just know to do this in my experience of 30 years of punting.

 

 

You may be overinterpreting the 'teach' thing. OP's point is that if you set the right tone at the outset, it's likely to be reciprocated. Women are generally very good at picking up and responding to signals, and WG's are even more proficient - it is their stock-in-trade after all. As you say, Good WGs have already learnt to do this; but every meeting has its own tone, and there are simple things you can do to improve the chances of it going the way you want.

 

dbt's story is a good example of where an empathetic approach can produce a 'win win' outcome which a more formal " I've paid my money so shape up"   approach might not.

 

Of course, there are always those punters whose idea of a great time is a kick in the nadgers with a sharp stiletto :eek: ...

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What the OP really means by "teach" is "manipulate".  You should treat a WG well for the sake of treating her well, not because you think you will get something back for doing so, not because it is some principle you have learnt by rote without understanding, but purely and solely for the sake of treating her well.

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What the OP really means by "teach" is "manipulate". 

Well I very much doubt it but he can no doubt speak for himself.

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Well I very much doubt it but he can no doubt speak for himself.

 

Oh, he's just trolling. Most reasonable people can see the intent of my post. He's posted 2 snarky comments for no particular reason.

 

^_^

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