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Cim; How Important To Men, How Unimportant To Ladies?

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I've a new regular who doesn't provide CIM. She is wonderful in every other respect, but I would dearly like to have her perform CIM.

 

How important to a punt and/or a relationship is it to you men that your escort/partner allows CIM?

 

Before a punt, is no CIM a deal breaker? In a relationship, is it something that might may you stray/punt?

 

For the ladies: how 'difficult' is it to perform/allow this?

 

If you don't provide it, is it due to the taste/texture of semen or something else?

 

Of my 7 relationships, 6 would do CIM, one almost craved it, one wouldn't do it.

 

I love to snowball and know what my own cum tastes like, but, unless I take up giving BJs, not other mens.

 

Answers on a postcard?

 

 

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Essential to me on a punt that CIM comes as standard, if not then I generally wont book

 

However, I can understand a lady not wanting to perform it as I have zero interest in, and a degree of disgust at even the thought of, merely tasting my own, that said, on a punt its a must otherwise I'll go elsewhere

 

In a relationship there are so many other factors far more important than CIM to me, so if it doesnt happen then its very far from being a deal breaker

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Nice to have the option, but not a deal breaker for me.

 

Although I prefer OWO to OW, again not a deal breaker if I like the look of the girl.

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Essential to me on a punt that CIM comes as standard, if not then I generally wont book

 

However, I can understand a lady not wanting to perform it as I have zero interest in, and a degree of disgust at even the thought of, merely tasting my own, that said, on a punt its a must otherwise I'll go elsewhere

 

In a relationship there are so many other factors far more important than CIM to me, so if it doesnt happen then its very far from being a deal breaker

Interesting.

 

Its essential to me on a punt, apart from with two ladies I have punted with: both had such personalities and were so good at other things that I kept seeing them.

 

One, recently retired, and divorced and I received an e-mail from her that she had tried CIM for the first time with her new partner and was now happily doing this for him.

 

The other says she will be sick if she tried it. Not pleasant for either? I'm seeing her this week and will be asking her about this: I think she is losing out on clients, she accepts this, but I would like to think that I can convince her to overcome her 'disgust'.

 

I lived for 10 years with a lady who wouldn't do CIM, so I looked elsewhere, but accept that there are more important things in a relationship.

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One of the loveliest and most exciting women I know in the business can't do this and gets really upset by it.  It genuinely makes her gag and feel sick and its a shame that some men won't get to see her because of this one point.

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One of the loveliest and most exciting women I know in the business can't do this and gets really upset by it.  It genuinely makes her gag and feel sick and its a shame that some men won't get to see her because of this one point.

I can kind of understand this, but until I've had the chance to give a BJ to completion, I won't really know.

 

I have been practicing on a carved cucumber!

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Essential to me on a punt that CIM comes as standard, if not then I generally wont book

 

However, I can understand a lady not wanting to perform it as I have zero interest in, and a degree of disgust at even the thought of, merely tasting my own, that said, on a punt its a must otherwise I'll go elsewhere

 

In a relationship there are so many other factors far more important than CIM to me, so if it doesnt happen then its very far from being a deal breaker

 

Pretty close to what I was about to write. One of the main reasons I punt is for CIM, and that's essentially because I don't get it at home. I generally look for swallow as well, but that does sometimes limit the options, so I'll settle for CIM - especially if the service is good in other areas. No CIM, no booking.

 

As Bill says, a relationship has many other facets, and mine is good in almost every other respect.

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Only do CIM in relationships after all tests have been done, not with massive enthusiasm because most cum tastes/feels/smells vile but there have been exceptions. If a guy asks me to do it before I offer, I ask him to try his own - I like my own taste so feel it's not an imposition...

Get really pissed off when having casual relationships and guys start nagging about this. Watch less porn guys, seriously.

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Only do CIM in relationships after all tests have been done, not with massive enthusiasm because most cum tastes/feels/smells vile but there have been exceptions. If a guy asks me to do it before I offer, I ask him to try his own - I like my own taste so feel it's not an imposition...

Get really pissed off when having casual relationships and guys start nagging about this. Watch less porn guys, seriously.

So snowballing?

 

Yes, porn teaches us some strange 'mormalities'. Don't women beg for creamy facials in the real World?

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So snowballing?

 

Yes, porn teaches us some strange 'mormalities'. Don't women beg for creamy facials in the real World?

 

Some of us do, its a turn on for me.  As for the cucumber, put it down, I have a friends that can help you out... ^_^

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So snowballing?

Yes, porn teaches us some strange 'mormalities'. Don't women beg for creamy facials in the real World?

No, he can taste his own first. Never done snowballing, you'd have to have pretty stellar cum for me to even consider it, really don't see the point. I just swallow the stuff as quickly as possible and make sure I have a water bottle by the bedside as it often makes me want to wretch, but I try my best not to show that as I noticed that men have such fragile egos when it comes to this. Sadly I have almost puked from the stuff on several occasions, I really wish I didn't have such a powerful sense of taste and smell, it's not the fact that it's cum that bothers me, it really is the smell/taste/texture.

Prefer to have him cum on my tits if we're going for porny, not the face (unless in the shower) as most men seem sh*t at aiming and cum in the eyes hurts. Plus a friend managed to catch herpes in her eye following an accident of that nature. Again, don't offer facials for money, only privately.

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I had a spoiled youth since my first "proper" girlfriend, who was a virgin like me when we started, very quickly became a big-time fan of swallowing.  She said she couldn't think of anything more intimate, and she never complained about the taste.  (I have had my cum snowballed back to me a couple of times and I didn't mind the taste either).

 

Mrs HDB gave up on CIM because it made her choke and cough almost every time, and it's not much fun for me either having a BJ finale abandoned after one spurt due to violent coughing.  The odd time she didn't, she thought she had her head/neck at a particular angle, but it was too much hassle for her to try and work out how (with lots of failed attempts likely).

 

I quite like a mix of CIM and facial - getting sucked/wanked off into the girl's open mouth, and perhaps missing with some of the shots.  You end up with a CIM/pearl necklace combination, and if you're careful nothing goes near the eyes.

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I've a new regular who doesn't provide CIM. She is wonderful in every other respect, but I would dearly like to have her perform CIM.

 

How important to a punt and/or a relationship is it to you men that your escort/partner allows CIM?

 

Before a punt, is no CIM a deal breaker? In a relationship, is it something that might may you stray/punt?

 

For the ladies: how 'difficult' is it to perform/allow this?

 

If you don't provide it, is it due to the taste/texture of semen or something else?

 

Of my 7 relationships, 6 would do CIM, one almost craved it, one wouldn't do it.

 

I love to snowball and know what my own cum tastes like, but, unless I take up giving BJs, not other mens.

 

Answers on a postcard?

Its not essential for me at a punt, although always good if a WG offers it. If a partner doesnt want to do it she doesnt want to do it, no problem to me. If it were no kissing she wouldnt do then we would have a terminal problem, but i take or leave CIM.

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So snowballing?

 

Yes, porn teaches us some strange 'mormalities'. Don't women beg for creamy facials in the real World?

I like Snowballing my own spunk and do it if on offer.

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So snowballing?

 

Yes, porn teaches us some strange 'mormalities'. Don't women beg for creamy facials in the real World?

 

I know plenty of ladies who do crave it though! Nothing sexier than a woman demanding you cum in her mouth. Or asking to drink the filled condom!

 

Prefer CIM but depends on rest of package.

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In theory I like it, but in practice I like even more coming while gazing straight into the girl's eyes, so I tend to prefer her to bring me off over both of us.

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I know plenty of ladies who do crave it though! Nothing sexier than a woman demanding you cum in her mouth. Or asking to drink the filled condom!

 

Prefer CIM but depends on rest of package.

Yes, although if you have read some threads about Bukkake you would of seen some punters cant understand that. I have punted with some WGs who couldnt get enough, even when they knew i was out they still wanted more, a sure sign they were genuinely into it in my experience.

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I quite like a mix of CIM and facial - getting sucked/wanked off into the girl's open mouth, and perhaps missing with some of the shots.  You end up with a CIM/pearl necklace combination, and if you're careful nothing goes near the eyes.

With you on that: very horny.

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Interesting.

 

Its essential to me on a punt, apart from with two ladies I have punted with: both had such personalities and were so good at other things that I kept seeing them.

 

One, recently retired, and divorced and I received an e-mail from her that she had tried CIM for the first time with her new partner and was now happily doing this for him.

 

The other says she will be sick if she tried it. Not pleasant for either? I'm seeing her this week and will be asking her about this: I think she is losing out on clients, she accepts this, but I would like to think that I can convince her to overcome her 'disgust'.

 

I lived for 10 years with a lady who wouldn't do CIM, so I looked elsewhere, but accept that there are more important things in a relationship.

If thats the service levels she works to,thats what she works to.Please dont dress up the trying to get her to overcome her "disgust" as doing her some favour,it seems more about getting a service she doesnt offer.The inverted commas also make out like her "disgust" isnt real.Oddly enough,it doesnt seem to be that uncommon.If someone doesnt perform a service yopu require,then what happened to finding someone who does.

Also,dont think the level of client she is "losing" by not offering this is anywhere near as great as you seem to be intimating.

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I don't get on great with condoms, and as sex without is out of the question then cim is an absolute necessity for my punts.  Most of punts now don't even involve covered penetrative sex. Swallow is nice as it doesn't interrupt the flow of the session, but I wont not see a girl over this point.

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If thats the service levels she works to,thats what she works to.Please dont dress up the trying to get her to overcome her "disgust" as doing her some favour,it seems more about getting a service she doesnt offer.The inverted commas also make out like her "disgust" isnt real.Oddly enough,it doesnt seem to be that uncommon.If someone doesnt perform a service yopu require,then what happened to finding someone who does.

Also,dont think the level of client she is "losing" by not offering this is anywhere near as great as you seem to be intimating.

Fair points. We have chatted about it already, hence this thread. On her profile she says that she would be sick if she did it, which wouldn't be pleasant for either party.

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I don't find a mouthful of cum a big turn on but it doesn't bother me either.I don't have a problem with it in my mouth I can sometimes have a problem Swallowing it though if there is alot of it or its very bitter or lumpy hence why swallow is always at my discretion.

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Fair points. We have chatted about it already, hence this thread. On her profile she says that she would be sick if she did it, which wouldn't be pleasant for either party.

 

Depends, some people would probably get off that.

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It's super-sexy when it happens, but not bothered at all if a girl doesn't do it. It's just one of lifes extra treats for me, but not a priority.

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I don't get on great with condoms, and as sex without is out of the question then cim is an absolute necessity for my punts. Most of punts now don't even involve covered penetrative sex. Swallow is nice as it doesn't interrupt the flow of the session, but I wont not see a girl over this point.

Would you get on better with taking pills for the rest of your life or praying that the STD you caught is not one that is resistent to antibiotics, as is increasingly the case?

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