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Stalkers And Ladies Names

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Please think before you post.....................

If a lady has had to change her working name due to punters who are stalking her, can you not announce their new name please, just a bit of common sense.

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Please think before you post.....................

If a lady has had to change her working name due to punters who are stalking her, can you not announce their new name please, just a bit of common sense.

 

I agree, but how can we second-guess what the reason is behind the change?

 

Some ladies have different names at different establishments, perhaps because there's already a lady using her first choice name or because she doesn't want to be seen working every day.

 

Some ladies go for a 're-brand' perhaps because they have had mixed feedback and want to start afresh, some change their name and move locations so they can get the attention of being the new girl.

 

It must be a nightmare to have a stalker, I'm sure if some nutter is determined to find a girl, he will. Maybe it's a matter for the Police. :unsure:

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a matter for the police agreed but can punters not help stalkers by posting the new name of the lady and giving out the reason thats its because of a stalkers. if a lady decides on a new identity then we need to protect her decision.

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This is a very good thread JKay-  the majority of punters are very good when it comes to being  discrete when and where they should-  as mutual respect.

 

 

There are the odd few punters that go overboard on a girls identity/ names/personal info - and they make it their business to be busy bodies which makes it very easy

for a stalker to track information.

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I had to change names twice and both times it was because punters thought it was a good idea to be super specific about what I look and talk like / show off with knowledge. I had a stalker so I moved parlours but kept my name, he was reading reports in my area so found me based on a specific report. So changed parlour and names, (each time you do that you have to start from scratch to build a client base, btw) again and despite me now asking clients not to write detailed reviews and explaining why, someone didn't understand / didn't care and said 'btw, xyz at this place used to be abc at that place'.

It sometimes seems to me that punters want to prove how close and special their 'relationship' with a girl is, that HE is more than just a punter. Well, problems like this is why I will not reveal who I am on this board.

I would even argue that giving exact details on tattoos and stuff like that is out of order. Saying that there is one and where and if it's nicely done is already plenty of info.

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Please think before you post.....................

If a lady has had to change her working name due to punters who are stalking her, can you not announce their new name please, just a bit of common sense.

Good thread but should be in the general discussion forum as not London-specific.

 

Jack

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When clients (albeit innocently) post info in a review which can blow a girl's cover in one fell swoop............... it can be so upsetting for the lady.

When they decide to surprise her by sending a gift through the post and it is on it's way before he has asked for a suitable name to be placed on the package.......and has already inserted her working name and hint to her website address on the front of the parcel......supposedly as a little jest....... not using his brain for a second and imagining the awkwardness the lady experiences when having to sign for the parcel and explain the silly name on the delivery. A postman can become familiar with names and addresses he regularly delivers to and needs to check it is the correct person when the name does not match that in previous deliveries.

 

............. and the list goes on.

 

A name change is a step in the right direction to ward off a cover being blown but it is no guarantee.

 

Some men see a working flat as a place where anything goes and a girl can always simply move on if a problem arises. This is so untrue.

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The first thing people need to do is NOT assume that all ladies change their names because of bad feedback.  Some do but in my experience most do it to protect themselves or their loved ones from stalker, other not so nice working girls and being outed.

 

Same goes for retired girls.  If they are not there anymore then they have their reasons, so please give that a bit of thought before you get putting posts on forums looking for them.

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When clients (albeit innocently) post info in a review which can blow a girl's cover in one fell swoop............... it can be so upsetting for the lady.

When they decide to surprise her by sending a gift through the post and it is on it's way before he has asked for a suitable name to be placed on the package.......and has already inserted her working name and hint to her website address on the front of the parcel......supposedly as a little jest....... not using his brain for a second and imagining the awkwardness the lady experiences when having to sign for the parcel and explain the silly name on the delivery. A postman can become familiar with names and addresses he regularly delivers to and needs to check it is the correct person when the name does not match that in previous deliveries.

 

............. and the list goes on.

 

A name change is a step in the right direction to ward off a cover being blown but it is no guarantee.

 

Some men see a working flat as a place where anything goes and a girl can always simply move on if a problem arises. This is so untrue.

OH YES..  and when stupid clients come a knocking on your door asking if you are working when you answer the door phone in shock as you were not expecting anyone that afternoon.

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The first thing people need to do is NOT assume that all ladies change their names because of bad feedback.  Some do but in my experience most do it to protect themselves or their loved ones from stalker, other not so nice working girls and being outed.

 

Same goes for retired girls.  If they are not there anymore then they have their reasons, so please give that a bit of thought before you get putting posts on forums looking for them.

Agree agree agree...

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Ahh...stalkers...you gotta love em!

I speak in jest.

I smile as I type as male ones are common, but female ones not so much so, until now that is.

I like/d the new name I chose for aw, but..I know if and when I decide to pop back/or elsewhere, the name is so specific, this femme fatale and her loyal slaves/subs will be up to their tricks again with me creating headache and drama so what to do what to do.....

Generally, some girls do change their name because they want too, some change it on aw as their profile keeps on getting reported by competition/disgruntled guys seen or not seen, so it makes sense to come back under different name.

And yes, some do change it to remove themselves from bad feedback.

I remember deleting my profile last Summer while in Scotland, because,I wanted too, I felt like it.

A rating of nearly 100, all positive, and all for escorting,this may not make sense, but I went with my gut instinct to do this,well it could have been to do with my profile last year being reported almost daily for xyz which was always found to be untrue, but I think I just got bored/fed up and thought the profile was tainted, so got rid.

Low and behold, another worker on aw emailed me via new profile to inform me she was "worried that something has happened babe, you lost all your hard earned feedback on the other profile..oh my god, what a shame",I simply replied my life was not controlled by such matters.

Never heard back, so not that concerned;-)

Oh, last xmas while doing my whole crisis at xmas stint, thought would entertain in between my shifts, well, featured as phone chat member on one particular day, minutes later my phone beeped, text read, "you filthy girl (my birth name) I never knew you done this, you very naughty girl",to say I was shocked and concerned was an understatement.

This was not a stalker per se, but had met me in my personal life once,he somehow knew it was me in my photo, well..I was showing half my face,silly me I got carried away,I asked who it was, more texts telling me they were not going to tell ,me,found out who it was, and changed my number;-)

Last Spring, I was on Ace massage for a while, n-ever again,most who rang me drooled/slurred/barked their names down the phone causing me to want a shower after speaking with them!one sunny morning, my phone beeps, a text, some one informing me they know me in my personal life and are going to tell uni, um..uni do not care as long as they are being paid fool!

They tried black mailing me, wanting unpaid sex on tap whenever they felt like it starting that day or else,I got scared then thought, "I am not doing anything illegal" so told him to tell away,I doubt I was the only one at uni having paid fun,I think uni knew, I was often missing lectures due to being spanked or tied up somewhere or another.

So yes, under my specific work name, I have had a good few hanger ons/would be stalkers/blackmailers/fantasists/psychopaths/possible threats to my personal safety, so not sure if will keep it or not if pop back.

There are many male stalkers, on aw, elsewhere, but also a rising number of sicko female stalkers on there who will go to any length to shut you down.

A name change should be respected,end off.

Edited by Somekindagirl

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I agree, but how can we second-guess what the reason is behind the change?

 

Some ladies have different names at different establishments, perhaps because there's already a lady using her first choice name or because she doesn't want to be seen working every day.

 

Some ladies go for a 're-brand' perhaps because they have had mixed feedback and want to start afresh, some change their name and move locations so they can get the attention of being the new girl.

 

It must be a nightmare to have a stalker, I'm sure if some nutter is determined to find a girl, he will. Maybe it's a matter for the Police. :unsure:

There is such a simple solution. If a lady has changed her name and hasnt been mentioned as a scammer/rip off anywhere then all it takes is a few minutes of any clients time to email her or phone her and have a little chat. Just ask her if she would mind her new name being linked with her old one. Be prepared to be told no though. Lets face it if a lady has good feedback and a good rep its pretty obvious she has changed her name for a good reason. Especially if she has moved to a different area at the same time and changed the way in which she works. 

 

If its just a case of she has moved to a different parlour and wishes to use a different name in a different area then I doubt she would mind at all. Usually this only happens if there is someone already there with that name or there was in the past and the owner likes to keep things simple.

 

Girls have the right to work in safety and this wins hands down over a punters right to know what other names she has worked as. If you recognise the pictures and know she is good then she deserves a little forethought as to her reasons. Lets face it, if a lady has built a good rep using a particular name then she wont throw that away lightly. As I said scammers/deliberate rip offs aside.

 

Unfortunately the automatic assumption is that the lady is trying to hide something. Perhaps the automatic assumption is that perhaps she is trying to hide from someONE xx

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As I mentioned in another thread, with the relatively few girls I've seen at least 75% of them have volunteered personal info - stuff I neither wanted or needed to know....

Hopefully this thread can also serve as a warning to fairly new or inexperienced wg's to NOT give too much personal info away.....

I'm sure most punters are like me and would be discrete about anything they knew about a girl but it only takes one nutter to make life very difficult for them.

There was a thread on another board about a wg who had left a parlour and returned under a different name. There was a post requesting anyone who knew her NOT to mention her previous working name which was followed by several guys trying to guess who it was and asking for anyone who saw her and knew to pm them with her old name. Why they couldn't just respect the poor girl's request I've no idea....

Edited by Burty

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 Why they couldn't just respect the poor girl's request I've no idea....

Because as demonstrated on another thread recently a certain type of guy feels a sense of entitlement to know everything he can possibly know about a girl simply because he may want to pay to have sex with her one day.

 

Their view is that if you put yourself out in the public arena then you are fair game. I highlighted the words above to show that I dont class all punters in this category, removing ammo from usual suspects lol x

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Because as demonstrated on another thread recently a certain type of guy feels a sense of entitlement to know everything he can possibly know about a girl simply because he may want to pay to have sex with her one day. Their view is that if you put yourself out in the public arena then you are fair game. I highlighted the words above to show that I dont class all punters in this category, removing ammo from usual suspects lol x

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Some of them justified it by saying people had a right to know so that they could check out previous reports to make sure they didn't waste their money by going to see her, which I suppose you could argue is a valid point. Except that almost without exception they had posted their own reports on girls they'd seen, who didn't have any feedback. Plus within a day there were a couple of excellent reports about the girl (under her new name) anyway. There really was no excuse for trying to 'out' her.

How fluffy am I! :D

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