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Does punting help your home sex life?

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Following on from an earlier thread on 'Why Do We Do It'? I think there is sometimes an assumption that a lot of guys punt because they have a less than ideal sex life at home. However, I wondered how many guys actually felt recreational sex improved or helped their home sex life?

I have been married for 30+ years, still have an adventurous home sex life and feel my occasional punting actually adds to this. Difficult to explain why other than the fact that the occasional punt with a sexy escort broadens my sexual horizons and experiences - even in my mid-50's I am still learning things - Either that or I am just a sex addict of course!!!

Would be interested to hear other peoples views.

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My home sex life is pretty low key these days - both getting older, used to each other, enjoy kisses and cuddles, and so on. We share lots of things, intellectual interests, holidays etc, but in lots of ways ours is now a close friendship. Like a lot of middle aged office workers my life is fairly mundane, and meeting a pretty, slightly exotic lady, often for the first time, who's happy to do lots of naughty things with me and has a sense of fun adds the thrill of excitement my existence lacks these days.

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My home sex life is pretty low key these days - both getting older, used to each other, enjoy kisses and cuddles, and so on. We share lots of things, intellectual interests, holidays etc, but in lots of ways ours is now a close friendship. Like a lot of middle aged office workers my life is fairly mundane, and meeting a pretty, slightly exotic lady, often for the first time, who's happy to do lots of naughty things with me and has a sense of fun adds the thrill of excitement my existence lacks these days.

I think that pretty much sums up my thoughts and my life exactly. Only difference is, my office is the cockpit of a Boeing 737, but as I travel Bristol to Alicante and back over and over again, it has begun to get very dull and boring. The thoughts of visiting a lovely girl later that day makes it all worthwhile :D

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So everything they say about air hostesses isn't true Roadie?! :D

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So everything they say about air hostesses isn't true Roadie?! :(

I have met (punted with) 2 girls who were studying to be cabin crew members (air hostesses), and they were great fun.

Never had any luck like that on the plane, but we rarely see them during the flight or on the flight deck unless there is a problem :D

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Following on from an earlier thread on 'Why Do We Do It'? I think there is sometimes an assumption that a lot of guys punt because they have a less than ideal sex life at home. However, I wondered how many guys actually felt recreational sex improved or helped their home sex life?

I have been married for 30+ years, still have an adventurous home sex life and feel my occasional punting actually adds to this. Difficult to explain why other than the fact that the occasional punt with a sexy escort broadens my sexual horizons and experiences - even in my mid-50's I am still learning things - Either that or I am just a sex addict of course!!!

Would be interested to hear other peoples views.

I'm also happily married with a good sex life - can't claim that punting enhances my home life - with me it's the excitement of being with a woman who's totally available with no strings. It's just a different experience - not better or worse.

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The point is, how do you explain away this newly found sexual prowess you have discovered as a result of your encounters with W.G's

After 20 years of mish with the lights off, isn't the fact you want to pour custard over her and lick it off whilst she rides you in the reverse cowgirl position and sing yankee doodle dandee likely to raise some questions ?

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I am not posting this to offend but it is a burning question.....:D

For the husbands that punt how do you explain the missing money or what if the boot was on the other foot.... missus saw male escorts??????? :(

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I am not posting this to offend but it is a burning question.....:D

For the husbands that punt how do you explain the missing money or what if the boot was on the other foot.... missus saw male escorts??????? :(

Fortunately always had separate bank accounts and she keeps worse tabs on hers than I do on mine - not been challenged so far! Also tend to put by £10 - 20 per week - so have spread out punts - not a problem as opportunities to get away unnoticed are few and far between.

As for your second point - if I didn't know I couldn't care. If I did know then I probably would have my double standards exposed!

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I am not posting this to offend but it is a burning question.....:D

For the husbands that punt how do you explain the missing money or what if the boot was on the other foot.... missus saw male escorts??????? :D

Easy to say, but I think I would be okay with her seeing male escorts if it was just punting. Bunny, are you trying to discourage married clients, if so you'll lose a lot of business! As to the money side we have a joint account but both have separate savings accounts to do what we want with (so for all I know she is seeing escorts, male or female!!)

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Not really- I have a good one anyway.

The wgs I see are usually surprised when I tell them I have sex every day when at home: after two decades or so, it's not bad at all.

I go a-broad for some things, like many chaps do.

ref would I be happy if partner saw someone and paid for it?: yes.

By the way, after an excellent :D:):D punting weekend, I was amused to learn that all the wgs I saw were registered to pay taxes, one was a Ltd company.

So up yours Harriet, they/we are paying your unearned income.

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Easy to say, but I think I would be okay with her seeing male escorts if it was just punting. Bunny, are you trying to discourage married clients, if so you'll lose a lot of business! As to the money side we have a joint account but both have separate savings accounts to do what we want with (so for all I know she is seeing escorts, male or female!!)

the idea of my wife seeing male escorts would be totally unacceptable--- the main reason being that , she, not unlike most women I know, would never have been interested in seeking casual sex . for her to want to get involved in punting would signify the end of her interest in me as a partner.

back to the OP---- I doubt if a punters sex life at home is enhanced in any material way by his punting.if there are problems in that department,then imho, they wont be solved by punting.

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the idea of my wife seeing male escorts would be totally unacceptable--- the main reason being that , she, not unlike most women I know, would never have been interested in seeking casual sex . for her to want to get involved in punting would signify the end of her interest in me as a partner.

back to the OP---- I doubt if a punters sex life at home is enhanced in any material way by his punting.if there are problems in that department,then imho, they wont be solved by punting.

MMmm, methinks many women are happy with casual sex if it's undetectable, in the right environment, and with the right sort of guy, at the right time.

Years ago I knew a bloke who looked the spit of Adam Faith (cheeky chappie etc, about 5'3" tall) who had a fulltime career (this is before www etc and the current escorting type of business) servicing married ladies as a masseur/very handyman out of small ads:....... He was writing a book, though I never noticed it published: maybe writing wasn't his forte.:D

His main problem was having the energy to sort out the missus when he got home.

They (the ladies) don't boast about it like men do.........

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MMmm, methinks many women are happy with casual sex if it's undetectable, in the right environment, and with the right sort of guy, at the right time.

Years ago I knew a bloke who looked the spit of Adam Faith (cheeky chappie etc, about 5'3" tall) who had a fulltime career (this is before www etc and the current escorting type of business) servicing married ladies as a masseur/very handyman out of small ads:....... He was writing a book, though I never noticed it published: maybe writing wasn't his forte.:D

His main problem was having the energy to sort out the missus when he got home.

They (the ladies) don't boast about it like men do.........

yes, but I think there is a difference between your scenario and active punting.

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yes, but I think there is a difference between your scenario and active punting.

Yes, that's a fair point: maybe why male escorts aren't that big business for women, so I'm told.

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In short, the answer is Yes.

but there is a lot more to it.

Later.

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Easy to say, but I think I would be okay with her seeing male escorts if it was just punting. Bunny, are you trying to discourage married clients, if so you'll lose a lot of business! As to the money side we have a joint account but both have separate savings accounts to do what we want with (so for all I know she is seeing escorts, male or female!!)

No sorry Tony it was just one of those questions I always wondered the answer to.....apologies :D

Curiosity killed the cat

sorry if I have offended :D

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No sorry Tony it was just one of those questions I always wondered the answer to.....apologies :D

Curiosity killed the cat

sorry if I have offended :D

Hi Bunny, no offence taken at all, I enjoy your posts here and on another site where I see you a lot. It was a fair question, and my response was meant as tongue in cheek, so sorry back to yoiu. x :)

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No, I don't think that it enhances my home sex life; if anything it has a slightly negative effect. I've had a seven month break from punting this year, and during that time found that sex at home was more exciting as a result, and I was more motivated to try and make each time special :)

I can't see how seeing WGs particularly adds to your sexual prowess either :rolleyes:

Regarding the money question, running your own business helps :mad: - I've no idea how guys on PAYE can do it.

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I am not posting this to offend but it is a burning question.....:rolleyes:

For the husbands that punt how do you explain the missing money or what if the boot was on the other foot.... missus saw male escorts??????? :mad:

I had my hobby because I wanted it more than she would give it.

One cum then that was me for 3 or 4 days.

If I was not available enough for mrs me then she can get it elsewhere.

Glad I am with my new filthbag tho

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It did in my last marriage; wife was a twice-a-week only woman and I was getting bored, so I punted quite a lot and I used to think of some of the lovely WGs I'd been with when I was doing the wife. She was happy because she got a good shagging and I was happy because between her and the girls, I got the sex I needed.

Don't punt so much now as I have a new wife with a much bigger appetite for sex; but it is nice to do a lovely young girl occasionally!

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I have met (punted with) 2 girls who were studying to be cabin crew members (air hostesses), and they were great fun.

Never had any luck like that on the plane, but we rarely see them during the flight or on the flight deck unless there is a problem :rolleyes:

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That really breaks the image of flight captain in smart uniform and all the sexy stewardesses swooning as you breeze by. At least on a pilot's salary you can afford a good punt.

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It did in my last marriage; wife was a twice-a-week only woman and I was getting bored, so I punted quite a lot and I used to think of some of the lovely WGs I'd been with when I was doing the wife.

Twice a week?? - luxury.

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