Sarah Summers

Pse What Does It Really Mean?

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If you look for this when choosing your lady, what is your personal criteria for PSE?  I am assuming rightly or wrongly you want 'A', but what else do you want from the lady?  I am not really expecting honest answers here because I think some men expect to be able to dominate and make the lady do things they want and not necessarily what she wants just because she says she is a PSE provider

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If you look for this when choosing your lady, what is your personal criteria for PSE?  I am assuming rightly or wrongly you want 'A', but what else do you want from the lady?  I am not really expecting honest answers here because I think some men expect to be able to dominate and make the lady do things they want and not necessarily what she wants just because she says she is a PSE provider

I have no interest in Anal penetration on a WG so i wouldnt be wanting Anal. A Strap-On up my arse though might be something i am looking for, dirty talk, the WG wearing porn heels, lots of make-up, possibly Rimming on me, OWO and DT given with vigour. Possibly CIM or COP/Swallow. Putting her tongue down my throat almost tickling my tonsils. Overall a confident attitude and a service delivered well.

 

A free WG has a choice what services she offers, if she is made to do something she doesnt want to do thats a crime. I punt with a WGs consent, i only do services she advertises then confirms she offers. I can only go on what a WG, an adult, tells me. My advice to any WG is only offer the services you are comfortable offering, you are 100% responsible for what you offer so if you offer something you really dont wish to stop offering it.

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If you look for this when choosing your lady, what is your personal criteria for PSE?  I am assuming rightly or wrongly you want 'A', but what else do you want from the lady?  I am not really expecting honest answers here because I think some men expect to be able to dominate and make the lady do things they want and not necessarily what she wants just because she says she is a PSE provider

 

Its meaningless marketing wank, like GFE.

 

I look for the individual services offered. 

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Like Coventrypunter, I look at the individual services. When I see an escort, I will look at a list: she will do this, she will not do that. I have a regular escort that offers GFE, she says. I have never talked with her about PSE, but some services (she offers) are categorized by others as PSE: WG rimming me (at her discretion; she won't do that with any client) and facesitting (which is close to cunnilingus, at least without an SM component such as smoldering).

 

I wonder what PSE is. What happens in porn? Certain ways of kissing could be seen as PSE. The way some WGs kiss me, reminds me of kissing porn. A third person looking at the WG and me would likely see the same as in porn. That is tonguesucking and kissing with visible tongues.

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Like Coventrypunter, I look at the individual services. When I see an escort, I will look at a list: she will do this, she will not do that. I have a regular escort that offers GFE, she says. I have never talked with her about PSE, but some services (she offers) are categorized by others as PSE: WG rimming me (at her discretion; she won't do that with any client) and facesitting (which is close to cunnilingus, at least without an SM component such as smoldering).

 

I wonder what PSE is. What happens in porn? Certain ways of kissing could be seen as PSE. The way some WGs kiss me, reminds me of kissing porn. A third person looking at the WG and me would likely see the same as in porn. That is tonguesucking and kissing with visible tongues.

Hmmm..  I watch porn just like any other bloke........... and I see it as the girl giving the guy a blow job, spitting on it and then deep throating regardless of how she chokes (some guys get off on this) then taking it up the bum and then sucking it and then putting it in the pussy and then back in the bum and then taking the full mix down the back of the throat with a good splashing on the face.

 

It's not something I would want to do and I would never advertise as a PSE.  I'm more your erotic type which means I can pretty much do what I want without being forced to do any of the above

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A PSE to me suggests, compared to a GFE, a little dirtier/rougher.

 

Combination of hair pulling, spanking, harder fucking and with some, deep throating and dirty talking.

 

Anal would/could be a factor, subject to the punter knowing what their doing with their cock and size.

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Hmmm..  I watch porn just like any other bloke........... and I see it as the girl giving the guy a blow job, spitting on it and then deep throating regardless of how she chokes (some guys get off on this) then taking it up the bum and then sucking it and then putting it in the pussy and then back in the bum and then taking the full mix down the back of the throat with a good splashing on the face.

 

It's not something I would want to do and I would never advertise as a PSE.  I'm more your erotic type which means I can pretty much do what I want without being forced to do any of the above

 

I never see it like that.  Sometimes I can be very dirty and would definitely call that porn star style, dirty sex with no strings or feelings attached can be a bit liberating (well for me anyway).  The GFE was always a lot deeper far more tactile and could get complicated if not careful.  Both situations although different nearly always felt right and I never felt forced to do anything (except for that last one that is).

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I never see it like that.  Sometimes I can be very dirty and would definitely call that porn star style, dirty sex with no strings or feelings attached can be a bit liberating (well for me anyway).  The GFE was always a lot deeper far more tactile and could get complicated if not careful.  Both situations although different nearly always felt right and I never felt forced to do anything (except for that last one that is).

Gfe can get complicated if not careful.

The intense eye contact, sensual kissing,can get a bit complex if a regular and you connect outside of the bedroom too.

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I like it when I read, "Babe, I give a perfect GFE and a perfect PSE",not sure why, just makes me smile.

I think sometimes when a girl(myself I include) has or does state what their niche/preferred method is, it can have a draw back, it can turn off some, or cause others to only view you in this way.

I offered regular standard Gfe until a regular spanked me during a visit, sounds cliche but this single act triggered something which led to me adding "sub" to my aw name,meeting true corporal punishment lovers from strictly corporal sites only and more,all good fun, but on aw not the exact same,I had literal psychopaths coming out of the woodwork wanting to skin me alive, for many "submissive" equals "urinate on me, do what you want..I beg thee".

So to make it known I am sub erotically only I would blog that I am confident,assertive in my every day life, and like to be "controlled with my consent" in my sensual life,for some reason this fact would not connect with many guys who emailed me, "how can you be a true sub if you will not rim my ass/"can I piss all over you and then get you to gag",needless to say the block button was used a lot for such emails.

I mention this in relation to gfe/pse as even adding "sub" or "dom" to a profile can change things, for better or worse;-)

Some girls love the tactile sensual kissing vibe,others prefer to have their hair pulled and their neck bitten hard,and sometimes, most girls like a combination of all;-)

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I like it when I read, "Babe, I give a perfect GFE and a perfect PSE",not sure why, just makes me smile.

I think sometimes when a girl(myself I include) has or does state what their niche/preferred method is, it can have a draw back, it can turn off some, or cause others to only view you in this way.

I offered regular standard Gfe until a regular spanked me during a visit, sounds cliche but this single act triggered something which led to me adding "sub" to my aw name,meeting true corporal punishment lovers from strictly corporal sites only and more,all good fun, but on aw not the exact same,I had literal psychopaths coming out of the woodwork wanting to skin me alive, for many "submissive" equals "urinate on me, do what you want..I beg thee".

So to make it known I am sub erotically only I would blog that I am confident,assertive in my every day life, and like to be "controlled with my consent" in my sensual life,for some reason this fact would not connect with many guys who emailed me, "how can you be a true sub if you will not rim my ass/"can I piss all over you and then get you to gag",needless to say the block button was used a lot for such emails.

I mention this in relation to gfe/pse as even adding "sub" or "dom" to a profile can change things, for better or worse;-)

Some girls love the tactile sensual kissing vibe,others prefer to have their hair pulled and their neck bitten hard,and sometimes, most girls like a combination of all;-)

Yeah... I get this...   I think if you advertise as a 'whatever' you restrict yourself to certain things and attract certain clients.  This is why I don't advertise as anything, and that way you can do what you like, see whom you like.  I also think if you advertise as 'whatever' you can get the wrong clients too...  do I make sense here?

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I never see it like that.  Sometimes I can be very dirty and would definitely call that porn star style, dirty sex with no strings or feelings attached can be a bit liberating (well for me anyway).  The GFE was always a lot deeper far more tactile and could get complicated if not careful.  Both situations although different nearly always felt right and I never felt forced to do anything (except for that last one that is).

Just not keen on labels Holly to be honest.  I think labelling yourself is like restricting yourself x

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I like it when I read, "Babe, I give a perfect GFE and a perfect PSE",not sure why, just makes me smile.

I think sometimes when a girl(myself I include) has or does state what their niche/preferred method is, it can have a draw back, it can turn off some, or cause others to only view you in this way.

I offered regular standard Gfe until a regular spanked me during a visit, sounds cliche but this single act triggered something which led to me adding "sub" to my aw name,meeting true corporal punishment lovers from strictly corporal sites only and more,all good fun, but on aw not the exact same,I had literal psychopaths coming out of the woodwork wanting to skin me alive, for many "submissive" equals "urinate on me, do what you want..I beg thee".

So to make it known I am sub erotically only I would blog that I am confident,assertive in my every day life, and like to be "controlled with my consent" in my sensual life,for some reason this fact would not connect with many guys who emailed me, "how can you be a true sub if you will not rim my ass/"can I piss all over you and then get you to gag",needless to say the block button was used a lot for such emails.

I mention this in relation to gfe/pse as even adding "sub" or "dom" to a profile can change things, for better or worse;-)

Some girls love the tactile sensual kissing vibe,others prefer to have their hair pulled and their neck bitten hard,and sometimes, most girls like a combination of all;-)

 

I've found that since I've been involved in the Fet/Domme scene although some sexual practices are more extreme, those taking part seem to be far more respectful and know what they are doing in a way that your average punter simply wouldn't understand, so think you have something there.  Being a sub does not necessarily mean your happy about being peed on.  I've had subs in a humbler and done extreme CBT, whilst other subs have stood and watched wincing stating that it would not be for them or gone running through the door. 

 

Think the same goes with this so called PSE because it means different things to different people.  I'm not sure why there are so many labels put on things when lets face it, most of the time what guys are looking for are just things that their partners won't do, so guess both you and Sarah are right in as much as its probably best not to advertise either specifically.

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I think it is more of an attitude thing. GFE is more erotic and playful while PSE to me would feel more intense and be more lustful (if that is a real word).  Not everyone can pull it off so those that can or claim they can must have confidence, attitude, energy and a need to for lack of a better term get her freak on.

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Hmmm..  I watch porn just like any other bloke...........

You mean you're a bloke?!..........

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I like watching porn, and PSE to me means DFK, anal, rimming (giving and receiving), deep throat, duo's and watersports etc... Though I'm very happy for GFE with lots of kissing and cuddling, I see a girl from AW who combines the both and I luv/lust her!

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You mean you're a bloke?!..........

LOL  When it comes down to watching porn we're all blokes !

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LOL  When it comes down to watching porn we're all blokes !

 You mean you have an Indian takeaway and a can of Special Brew by your side (not to mention the box of Kleenex)?

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I don't really advertise as either gfe or pse yet at different times and in different bookings I can veer more towards the sensual gfe or the downright dirtier pse type of booking..I don't do anal so I don't think this is prerequisite to any type of booking ..if a lady doesn't offer it she doesn't offer it.

I wouldn't want to do the same sort of thing every time with every gentleman..I would class myself as a raunchy gfe if I had to put myself as in any kind of box.

I agree its not a wise idea to label yourself as anything in this game.

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I don't really advertise as either gfe or pse yet at different times and in different bookings I can veer more towards the sensual gfe or the downright dirtier pse type of booking..I don't do anal so I don't think this is prerequisite to any type of booking ..if a lady doesn't offer it she doesn't offer it.

I wouldn't want to do the same sort of thing every time with every gentleman..I would class myself as a raunchy gfe if I had to put myself as in any kind of box.

I agree its not a wise idea to label yourself as anything in this game.

 

I thought the idea was the gentleman put himself in your box... :)

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I thought the idea was the gentleman put himself in your box... :)

Ah but the question is..does he put myself in my box porn star stylee or boyfriend stylee eh? :)

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I love PSE, but don't go in for anal much. For me the difference between GFE and PSE is that PSE is more energetic and with more kink. If she doesn't surprise (and shock) me at least once during a session, then it's not PSE.

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For the true PSE, wouldn't you a third party filming the whole session? :)

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I have no interest in Anal penetration on a WG so i wouldnt be wanting Anal. A Strap-On up my arse though might be something i am looking for, dirty talk, the WG wearing porn heels, lots of make-up, possibly Rimming on me, OWO and DT given with vigour. Possibly CIM or COP/Swallow. Putting her tongue down my throat almost tickling my tonsils. Overall a confident attitude and a service delivered well.

 

A free WG has a choice what services she offers, if she is made to do something she doesnt want to do thats a crime. I punt with a WGs consent, i only do services she advertises then confirms she offers. I can only go on what a WG, an adult, tells me. My advice to any WG is only offer the services you are comfortable offering, you are 100% responsible for what you offer so if you offer something you really dont wish to stop offering it.

 

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For the true PSE, wouldn't you a third party filming the whole session? :)

Ah, now isn't  there always one who lowers the tone :)

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It's not something I would want to do and I would never advertise as a PSE.  I'm more your erotic type which means I can pretty much do what I want without being forced to do any of the above

Yes it all appears to be a bit too contrived for me and it can only work for me if it was spontaneous. I can get amazingly turned on in the most unlikely circumstances if a woman knows how to flick my switches. Very random and haphazard circumstances. I found with Punting that my desire for stereotypical physical beauty and the accompanying various acts quickly wained. I'm an awful Punter.

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