BillGoldberg

Cif/cof .....what's The Attraction ?

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For some reason, and I don't know why, a big messy cumshot on a pretty face is incredibly erotic and incredibly beautiful for many (myself included)......for some.....not so

Anyone have any thoughts, possibly psychological, why this is ?

For me the strong attraction is almost purely visual and has absolutely zero to do with the oft touted 'degradation/humiliation' rationale.

It is a strange phenomenon, but interesting I think

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For some reason, and I don't know why, a big messy cumshot on a pretty face is incredibly erotic and incredibly beautiful for many (myself included)......for some.....not so

Anyone have any thoughts, possibly psychological, why this is ?

For me the strong attraction is almost purely visual and has absolutely zero to do with the oft touted 'degradation/humiliation' rationale.

It is a strange phenomenon, but interesting I think

An even better sight is to see a second girl lick it all off in an MFF threesome.

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BillGoldberg, on 20 Jun 2013 - 21:02, said:

For some reason, and I don't know why, a big messy cumshot on a pretty face is incredibly erotic and incredibly beautiful for many (myself included)......for some.....not so

Anyone have any thoughts, possibly psychological, why this is ?

For me the strong attraction is almost purely visual and has absolutely zero to do with the oft touted 'degradation/humiliation' rationale.

It is a strange phenomenon, but interesting I think

I find it particularly a turn-on when a woman is literally screaming for more spunk, sadly its always a case of diminishing returns from me nowadays. With me it stems originally from watching porn and Peter North spunking his load, a one man Bukkake party.

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For some reason, and I don't know why, a big messy cumshot on a pretty face is incredibly erotic and incredibly beautiful for many (myself included)......for some.....not so

Anyone have any thoughts, possibly psychological, why this is ?

For me the strong attraction is almost purely visual and has absolutely zero to do with the oft touted 'degradation/humiliation' rationale.

It is a strange phenomenon, but interesting I think

 

 

I find it particularly a turn-on when a woman is literally screaming for more spunk, sadly its always a case of diminishing returns from me nowadays. With me it stems originally from watching porn and Peter North spunking his load, a one man Bukkake party.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Life_imitating_art

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Mmmm..........so pornography is an art form ?

You think ?

That's another (off topic) thread I think

Potentially it is! Alan Moore's argued that it has been historically. http://www.comicbookresources.com/?page=article&id=8851

(Alan Moore's own work was a good example of Life Imitating Art when the Anonymous movement started wearing "V for Vendetta" masks!)

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I'm fortunate in that I am considered to be a rather heavy ejaculator, and I love the fetish (if that is the term) of releasing a load into a pretty face. I think porn is largely responsible but also it's just the thrill of the girls reaction and to a certain extent there is power element to it..but not necessarily in a degrading way, just showing the girl in no uncertain terms how much she has satisfied you! I do think that aesthetically there is no better sight than to see a girl coated in spunk, especially when the spunk remains intact and leaves a string like effect in the hair! It's just a bloke thing I think! It's a sign of a job well done!

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Does absolutely nothing for me, Bill, but I'd have thought some sort of dominance/subjugation/humiliation/power fantasy would like at the heart of it. Essentially, you're "shooting" a helpless girl in the face with your "love gun" and leaving her clearly marked as yours. OK, on the other hand you could write that off as psychobabble, but it's my honest attempt at guessing a possible meaning.

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Does absolutely nothing for me, Bill, but I'd have thought some sort of dominance/subjugation/humiliation/power fantasy would like at the heart of it. Essentially, you're "shooting" a helpless girl in the face with your "love gun" and leaving her clearly marked as yours. OK, on the other hand you could write that off as psychobabble, but it's my honest attempt at guessing a possible meaning.

 

Good points being made here I believe.

It does nothing for me personally to 'shoot' a girl in her face, unless it's inside her mouth, but on her boobs, belly or thighs is a very different matter !

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Does absolutely nothing for me, Bill, but I'd have thought some sort of dominance/subjugation/humiliation/power fantasy would like at the heart of it. Essentially, you're "shooting" a helpless girl in the face with your "love gun" and leaving her clearly marked as yours. OK, on the other hand you could write that off as psychobabble, but it's my honest attempt at guessing a possible meaning.

 

Nope !!

 

Like I said, I have no domination/sujugation/humiliation fantasies when it comes to women, in fact I find all of that stuff a major turn off, and yes while there is some humiliation/facial themed niche porn out there, such as websites like 'facialabuse', I absolutely hate that brand of porn and avoid it like the plague

 

What I am really turned on by though are strong, dominant, powerful, confident women and so those typically stated reasons are NOT a factor of its appeal for me

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Nope !!

 

Like I said, I have no domination/sujugation/humiliation fantasies when it comes to women, in fact I find all of that stuff a major turn off, and yes while there is some humiliation/facial themed niche porn out there, such as websites like 'facialabuse', I absolutely hate that brand of porn and avoid it like the plague

 

What I am really turned on by though are strong, dominant, powerful, confident women and so those typically stated reasons are NOT a factor of its appeal for me

 

Without wanting to get into cod psychology (and I am not expert on the subject at all) or to wantonly argue with you, it's surely quite consistent with fact that you don't have to be aware of your motivations for them to exist. I completely accept that you don't knowingly seek pleasure from domination, but surely (purely for the purposes of intellectual debate) that doesn't necessarily mean you're not innately turned on by it, and therefore seek out such experiences. And, equally, it's surely not accidental that if you did have a repressed desire to dominate, your manifest (overt) behaviour would lean in the opposite direction...towards strong, powerful confident women. In short, I completely accept what you say, above, but I don't think it necessarily represents the last word.

 

For me, I still come back to the physical evidence: coming in someone's face, particularly "in volume", contravenes a taboo and any way you look at it, is an act of subjugation. Therefore, to knowingly pursue engaging in that act, and to be aroused by it...well, I find it hard to escape the obvious conclusion. But what do I know?

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Without wanting to get into cod psychology (and I am not expert on the subject at all) or to wantonly argue with you, it's surely quite consistent with fact that you don't have to be aware of your motivations for them to exist. I completely accept that you don't knowingly seek pleasure from domination, but surely (purely for the purposes of intellectual debate) that doesn't necessarily mean you're not innately turned on by it, and therefore seek out such experiences. And, equally, it's surely not accidental that if you did have a repressed desire to dominate, your manifest (overt) behaviour would lean in the opposite direction...towards strong, powerful confident women. In short, I completely accept what you say, above, but I don't think it necessarily represents the last word.

 

For me, I still come back to the physical evidence: coming in someone's face, particularly "in volume", contravenes a taboo and any way you look at it, is an act of subjugation. Therefore, to knowingly pursue engaging in that act, and to be aroused by it...well, I find it hard to escape the obvious conclusion. But what do I know?

 

 

mmmm........some very interesting points there Lohengrin   :cool:

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For some reason, and I don't know why, a big messy cumshot on a pretty face is incredibly erotic and incredibly beautiful for many (myself included)......for some.....not so

Anyone have any thoughts, possibly psychological, why this is ?

For me the strong attraction is almost purely visual and has absolutely zero to do with the oft touted 'degradation/humiliation' rationale.

It is a strange phenomenon, but interesting I think

 

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Sperm is actually good for the skin. I have used it for years and it really works.

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I love COF but its hard to find a girl who will do it and do it well.

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mmmm........some very interesting points there Lohengrin   :cool:

 

Bill -- one of things I find fascinating about punting is what it tells us about ourselves. It's a prism, certainly, through which I've seen aspects of my own personality and behaviour that I would have denied existed beforehand.

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Bill -- one of things I find fascinating about punting is what it tells us about ourselves. It's a prism, certainly, through which I've seen aspects of my own personality and behaviour that I would have denied existed beforehand.

so will you cof so I can resolve my "wrinkles" ?

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...It's just a bloke thing I think! It's a sign of a job well done!

 

This just about sums it up for me.

 

Porn turned me on to it, I don't think I would have ever ventured to cumming on a girls face otherwise.

 

The origins in porn may have been a power thing but now I would say it is simply viewed as the perfect VISUAL end to a scene,

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so will you cof so I can resolve my "wrinkles" ?

 

I thought touting wasn't allowed on the board :-)

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Bill -- one of things I find fascinating about punting is what it tells us about ourselves. It's a prism, certainly, through which I've seen aspects of my own personality and behaviour that I would have denied existed beforehand.

 

Very true Lohengrin

 

Its certainly changed significantly some of the ideas about what I thought I found attractive about certain women, what I found unattractive, while reinforcing a few other previously held opinions

 

One of the biggest eye openers for me over the years of punting is that its taught me that chemistry and very powerful attraction can creep up on you when you least expect it, and from the most surprising of sources (human, female sources I must add, before the smart arses get any ideas  ^_^  )

 

A marvelous punt I had recently with my current favourite girl, vividly reminded me, that more than anything, the best sex is all about completely letting go, and it seems this is a very rare and valuable thing in the punting world (in the civvie real life world too), finding someone with whom sexually you can completely and utterly give in to the physical and sensual experience, moment by moment

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Although I love CIM, when a guy gingerly asks can he cum over my face I absolutely love it. The intent look on their face as their excitement builds and their legs start to wobble gets me every time and just fires me up even more. And sharing the spoils of war with another girl or guy is one of the most horniest experiences....in my opinion. Lol

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Although I love CIM, when a guy gingerly asks can he cum over my face I absolutely love it. The intent look on their face as their excitement builds and their legs start to wobble gets me every time and just fires me up even more. And sharing the spoils of war with another girl or guy is one of the most horniest experiences....in my opinion. Lol

 

and it does give the skin such a silky and glossy appearance if you do it often enough.

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I have to be honest that I have never tried either.  I have always felt that it was something no woman would want but as I have punted more and more I have thought about what it would be like.  Then in my normal frame of mind I over thought it and started thinking about all the reasons behind liking or doing such a act.  I also am too polite (stict upbringing) to ask such a thing straight out so if anyone has any tips on how to approach the subject please let me know.

 

For guys i think it is the idea that we can act out this fantasy that we explode releasing all the pleasure hormones into our brains and the fact that our partner loves us for doing it all over their face or in there mouth adds to that.  The feeling of CIM would also due to all the motion and sensations be greatly increased.  There is also the taboo factor as doing anything that seems slightly wrong, not morally right, out of the norm adds to the experience.  Some people would also like the control or Dom aspect (holding the head, pulling hair) that you would feel.  Porn also has a massive influence on the subject.  They call such acts as "The Money Shot" which sets gets you thinking that it is something that has enormious value.  The placebo effect.

 

I am very liekly wrong but thought I would say.  Can any WG's comment on how they feel on the subject.

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If I could shoot a powerful load it would probably be something I would want to try - as it is - a cif would end up a come on tits

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and it does give the skin such a silky and glossy appearance if you do it often enough.

How often you should do it? Does not exactly work for all the porn actresses who are specialising in it. Theirs skin complexion does not show it.

 

I should know it for a fact, because my husband have a massive fetish to watch porn, but only the ones which a dedicated to COF. (also rubber clad girls). He does not have interest in anything else pornwise.  He only wants girls with a very beautiful face with lots of make up with a massive dollop of spunk on theirs faces. That's it.  Of course I looked on this videos myself (because his bookmarks synced with all my computers) and its always the same theme. He is not even interested in the other porn I was suggesting to watch together.

 

Inna: If you want to have nice skin, just eat radishes, peas and herring. Spunk still good to keep it as "facemask" for 2 min or so, nourishing and detoxifying a bit. Saying that: there very high amount of the calcium in sperm and at PH 7.7 its way to alkaline for a delicate face skin. It makes pores on the face expand, and large pores on the skin ages everybody. Hence all this porn actresses who do facials always have large pores on the faces and theirs skin look shite!

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