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Bareback In Mk...is It Impacting Your Punting Or Your Behaviour/style?

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A couple of weeks ago, I posted (but didn't name) a girl I was aware offered bareback -- on a limited basis -- in MK. I offered to name her by PM and got a number of requests that I do so. Among the responses I got, I discovered (was informed) that at least of couple of other girls (well known, and long-standing MK escorts, one of whom I'd seen) were also offering bareback, at least to some punters on a limited basis. Added to this, a quick trawl of the other site suggests BB is now freely available in MK, offered by not far short of 30% and maybe more of all service providers.

 

My question here is NOT to debate the risks involved in BB. Or the knock-on risks of things live uncovered oral (either way). That's been done often enough. My question is, assuming most readers are, like me, extremely averse to bareback, has this reality changed or influenced your punting behaviour? Because the bottom line is, I suspect, that the pool of punters and escorts is limited and most of us are seeing the same girls, often going from BB provider one week (whether we know she does that or not) to girls who would never provide the service the next. When everyone pisses in the same small pool, in other words...

 

For me (and this issue isn't, to be clear, limited to MK. It's just the area where I punt so it's relevant to me) I am becoming concerned to the degree that the general drop in behavioural standards across the industry is starting to result in a serious and rapid reduction in both my punting activities and more particularly in what I do on a punt. For instance, a couple of years ago reverse oral was a standard for me. Now, I simply don't do it anymore and for better or for worse, right or wrong, the BB issue is the main reason why.

 

Again to be clear, I am not massively panicked by this issue; nor am I inclined to over-react. I am simply saying that with the return of BB, the "industry" is slowly becoming a place I no longer feel comfortable, or as comfortable as I did when people took health and safety more seriously. Am I alone in my concern and behavioural changes, or do others feel at all the same way?

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Several of our ladies especially the new ones have had offers or been asked by e-mail. All were refused by short emails stating no-thanks.

I will state any lady at our establishment found to be offering bareback to any client, will be told to leave and not be returning.

The risk far outweighs the reward on this one, to my mind.

The GUM has already sent a warning out to all WG's in MK, as their results are showing some figures that certain things are on the rise.

All my ladies are required to submit to the GUM every 12 weeks minimum.

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Several of our ladies especially the new ones have had offers or been asked by e-mail. All were refused by short emails stating no-thanks.

I will state any lady at our establishment found to be offering bareback to any client, will be told to leave and not be returning.

The risk far outweighs the reward on this one, to my mind.

The GUM has already sent a warning out to all WG's in MK, as their results are showing some figures that certain things are on the rise.

All my ladies are required to submit to the GUM every 12 weeks minimum.

 

In the interests of fairness, and to be 100% clear, none of the girls alluded to in my original post work for you or, for that matter, an MK parlour. One briefly did, actually, but not yours. The two "MK regulars" I referred to are both well-known indies.

 

Your point about letters from the GUM clinic would suggest that my own response (cutting down and giving up some specific activities) is appropriate.

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well Lohengrin

if its bareback or not there is still risks involved in this scene.

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No money is worth lowering your standards like that. At the end of the day we are all only responsible for our own health but we still have to take the next guy or girl into consideration. I have lost clients because they have asked how much I would charge for this and Im glad I lost them. Let them go to the girls who are happy to do this because if someone asks me I assume they have asked others too...and probably gotten a yes somewhere down the line.

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In the interests of fairness, and to be 100% clear, none of the girls alluded to in my original post work for you or, for that matter, an MK parlour. One briefly did, actually, but not yours. The two "MK regulars" I referred to are both well-known indies.

 

Your point about letters from the GUM clinic would suggest that my own response (cutting down and giving up some specific activities) is appropriate.

 

 

I never said you alluded to any of my ladies, or myself, i was just making my own and that of my company ethos clear.

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sadly, way too many girls seem happy to go bareback, despite their profiles stating categorically they will block people asking. I would say a significiant number of my punts have involved me breaking off from heavy foreplay to request the condom, as had i been so inclined i could easily have gone bareback. I make a note not to see those ladies again.

 

The thouht of going bareback with an escort, or any woman i do not know frightens me in this day and age, look at the shocking statistics from holidaymakers returning from ibiza. Basically you go bareback with a stranger, you get an sti!

 

Stay safe, wear a condom, ALWAYS

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sadly, way too many girls seem happy to go bareback, despite their profiles stating categorically they will block people asking. I would say a significiant number of my punts have involved me breaking off from heavy foreplay to request the condom, as had i been so inclined i could easily have gone bareback. I make a note not to see those ladies again.

The thouht of going bareback with an escort, or any woman i do not know frightens me in this day and age, look at the shocking statistics from holidaymakers returning from ibiza. Basically you go bareback with a stranger, you get an sti!

Stay safe, wear a condom, ALWAYS

But how do you know they wouldn't have stopped you if you did try to pop it in without a hat? The condom goes on just before the sex not ages before or it could become loose from all the hot n heavy foreplay

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No money is worth lowering your standards like that. At the end of the day we are all only responsible for our own health but we still have to take the next guy or girl into consideration. I have lost clients because they have asked how much I would charge for this and Im glad I lost them. Let them go to the girls who are happy to do this because if someone asks me I assume they have asked others too...and probably gotten a yes somewhere down the line.

Same here - if you ask about bareback, you will never be my client. Some then say 'I was just checking to be sure', to which I would respond: I don't even do OWO and it's well known that I am an advocate for all safer practices; what is there to check?

Thankfully the only way someone new could even contact me these days is if they got my number from one of my regulars, so that cuts down on the flotsam.

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As always there are a few who claim they don't offer BB but when you make contact they do offer it.

I have and never will perform BB but have been offered it for an extra charge in MK....

Why they want to take the risk I don't know

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A couple of weeks ago, I posted (but didn't name) a girl I was aware offered bareback -- on a limited basis -- in MK. I offered to name her by PM and got a number of requests that I do so. Among the responses I got, I discovered (was informed) that at least of couple of other girls (well known, and long-standing MK escorts, one of whom I'd seen) were also offering bareback, at least to some punters on a limited basis. Added to this, a quick trawl of the other site suggests BB is now freely available in MK, offered by not far short of 30% and maybe more of all service providers.

 

My question here is NOT to debate the risks involved in BB. Or the knock-on risks of things live uncovered oral (either way). That's been done often enough. My question is, assuming most readers are, like me, extremely averse to bareback, has this reality changed or influenced your punting behaviour? Because the bottom line is, I suspect, that the pool of punters and escorts is limited and most of us are seeing the same girls, often going from BB provider one week (whether we know she does that or not) to girls who would never provide the service the next. When everyone pisses in the same small pool, in other words...

 

For me (and this issue isn't, to be clear, limited to MK. It's just the area where I punt so it's relevant to me) I am becoming concerned to the degree that the general drop in behavioural standards across the industry is starting to result in a serious and rapid reduction in both my punting activities and more particularly in what I do on a punt. For instance, a couple of years ago reverse oral was a standard for me. Now, I simply don't do it anymore and for better or for worse, right or wrong, the BB issue is the main reason why.

 

Again to be clear, I am not massively panicked by this issue; nor am I inclined to over-react. I am simply saying that with the return of BB, the "industry" is slowly becoming a place I no longer feel comfortable, or as comfortable as I did when people took health and safety more seriously. Am I alone in my concern and behavioural changes, or do others feel at all the same way?

All very simple for me, i would name and shame ANY WG that offered me BB bearing in mind i would never punt with those that advertise it openly. I view WGs that offer it but dont advertise they do as just as bad as those that openly offer it, and at least i know who to avoid with those who do advertise they offer it.

 

Fortunately its been years since i was offered BB by WGs that didnt advertise they offered it, and they were EE WGs who said or similar; "because i like you i want you to fuck me BB", yeah i bet they really liked me. I wonder how many other punters they said this too took them up on the offer. I immediately left feeling deeply nauseus, i hope it doesnt happen again.

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Unfortunatley though the guys asking for this are on the rise. I used to try to explain why it's better for them not to do it but they didn't really sound interested so now they just get a swift and very impolite "feck off you dirty bastard" as far as Im concerned they were rude for asking so manners are no longer required. It's after those calls you wonder where all the harmless phone wankers went lol x

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Over on the other site, a number of girls now have BB and unprotected listed in their likes list. My own take on this is that a girl offers it because she has no concerns about contracting an STI, as it's already been contracted. Girls who offer this service become a target for carriers of various infections to breed the disease further. Girls who knowingly carry the STI are gifting it to their clients. It really beggers belief why anybody in their right mind would offer or seek such services.

 

For me, any girl offering would no longer be considered. Also, any girl who had been seen by a client of a girl who offers would equally be undesirable. Takes a bit of time to cross reference feedback where possible, but wants the risk?

 

So, I guess to get back to the original question, yes I am far more discerning in who I'd see as a result of this undesirable drop in standards.

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Wow, why anyone would want to risk their health like this is beyond me. Seriously disturbing stuff which could hurt the industry. 

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How about some names so we know who to avoid ?

 

are you talking about girls on the A site 

 

or girls at parlours in MK , once i see BB on a girls profile on the A site i move swiftly to the next profile 

 

if any girls reading this offer BB you would probably get more business if you didn't , so why bother  

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When I see this offered I hope that it's due to language barriers and not understanding what it means.

 

Offering this willfully in this scenario to me is either an act of desperation and / or complete disregard for ones own health. I have zero interest or time for people with such a mindset.

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A quick search on Adultwork show 197 female escorts in the MK postcode area, and 22 show Bareback as available

 

Scary

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Just seen a famous WG on the purple site seeking another young girl to do a 3sum with her and a 70 year old client but she must offer Bareback and Creampie. I used to admire this WG many moons ago :-(

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Just seen a famous WG on the purple site seeking another young girl to do a 3sum with her and a 70 year old client but she must offer Bareback and Creampie. I used to admire this WG many moons ago :-(

In MK or elsewhere?

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In MK or elsewhere?

Does it matter? Lets face it if someone can be bothered to do a search on aw and only put bareback as the search parameters then I dread to guess what the national figure is. 

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Okay I bothered.

 

My search came up with  19500 profiles showing over 390 pages.

 

 
My search parameters were a female escort offering bareback. Seems when it comes to bareback MK is a minor league player.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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In MK or elsewhere?

No not MK but Kent but it is happening everywhere :-(

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A quick search on Adultwork show 197 female escorts in the MK postcode area, and 22 show Bareback as available

 

Scary

I got 13 barebackers in a list of 137 from a search of escorts registered as milton keynes. Not sure entirely how accurate these figures are though as the North west shows up as the highest bb culprit with over 8000 barebackers according to the search but i checked 4 of the profiles that came up on the page and none of them had bareback in their list of likes. 

 

MMmmm thats dodgy for a start

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No not MK but Kent but it is happening everywhere :-(

Just read a post on another site which names the person involved,from what I have read its no surprise as its been rumoured she offers it.

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