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Paying Etiquette - Smoothest Way To Hand Over Cash?

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Hi there all

 

I always find the payment stage very awkward - what's the smoothest way to get this out of the way without killing the atmosphere?  

 

I'm guessing swiping a credit card down her crack ala Peter (family guy) probably won't go down too well...

 

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Plain white unsealed envelope usually works for me.

 

Although I hate it when they count the cash in front of me

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Have the right money ready.  Some people find it easiest to have it in an envelope but I will usually just be carrying the money in an otherwise empty pocket.  At an early opportunity place it in clear sight on a table or other surface within the lady's reach (I find some ladies dislike taking the money direct from the client's hand).  If you have booked or are looking for services listed as extras you might want to check you and the lady are on the same page with regards to what you are paying and what you are expecting for it but I tend to visit all-in ladies so rarely feel the need to say anything; she knows what it is and why it is there.  If you want the lady to check the money in front of you then say so but a lot of ladies, probably most, will either take it into another room or wait until I am in the shower to check it.  No need to make a fuss about it.

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What's the problem. I just produce the wad of notes and say, "Can I just put this down here (on the table/sideboard/shelf)?"

Most say yes and in most cases 33 out of 34 punts - leave it there untouched. Only one girl has ever counted on me.

That said I'm so fucking paranoid I count the money about 50 times before a meet.

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My experience, just hand it over or put it on the bed side table. I don't bother with envelopes, they can be a bit overkill if you've seen the lady several times before. "It all goes in the purse anyway..." as I was once informed.

 

If she is the type to jump your bones  before you've said hello you may forget so then either you'll remember or she'll ask you on the way out. Or you can come back after 10 minutes when you realize.

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Thx guys - I actually had the pleasure of a WG recently who forgot to take the cash - I went back after walking down the street a couple of blocks when I noticed I still had the wad of cash in my pocket.  

 

It's a nice feeling when that happens - i.e. she was more focused on the service than the money.  She has unwittingly won herself a regular.  Oh yes, and everything else was awesome too :P

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Hi there all

 

I always find the payment stage very awkward - what's the smoothest way to get this out of the way without killing the atmosphere?  

 

I'm guessing swiping a credit card down her crack ala Peter (family guy) probably won't go down too well...

 

Avoid all that embarrassing and erection killing awkwardness by simply not paying......problem solved

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Well I get off on the pact I am paying for it.

 

so I stick it in her bra or pants!  Make a little joke of it.

 

I have no issues with her counting it.  Any other transaction the shop count it. why not a wg?  I once overpaid and was glad she counted it and gave me a tenner back.

 

Envelopes -nah.

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Yesterday i saw a guy, he put the money on the bedside table and asked me to count it to be sure it was all there. Didnt kill the moment at all, just got it out the way quickly.

 

I was told when i first started doing this, that to count the money in front of the client isnt bad form, it just means neither party can diddle the other and both can see its all there present and correct!!

 

Im sure that once you get to see a guy regular, that trust comes a little into play re the amount and not counting it.

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My regular told me recently that she believed, quite firmly as it happens, that putting the money in an envelope was significant in that it somehow made it a gift rather than payment for services....seems to have been a bit of misinformation provided by some of the EE agency owners along with the fact that "all prostitution is illegal"

Has taken me a long time to convince her otherwise....

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I use a large A4 envelope with "GASH CASH" written on it in huge letters.

 

 

Either that or I take the money in change and throw it on to the floor.  You can then take her from behind when she bends over to pick up all the £1 coins and 50p

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God, paying the girl is so sexy! Prostitution is the commercialization of sex and the eroticization of money.

 

No I'm completely normal.

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I use a large A4 envelope with "GASH CASH" written on it in huge letters.

 

 

Either that or I take the money in change and throw it on to the floor.  You can then take her from behind when she bends over to pick up all the £1 coins and 50p

 

:lol:

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I was told when i first started doing this, that to count the money in front of the client isnt bad form, it just means neither party can diddle the other and both can see its all there present and correct!!

I've never understood ladies who take the money into the bathroom to count it. Sure I guess it looks less mercenary but it's going to be awkward if they then come back and say it's short.

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I use a large A4 envelope with "GASH CASH" written on it in huge letters.

 

 

Either that or I take the money in change and throw it on to the floor.  You can then take her from behind when she bends over to pick up all the £1 coins and 50p

 

save on envelopes and use cashpoint ones from the bank :)

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I don't find it awkward in the slightest, so perhaps you ought to just relax and not worry. An envelope is nice, but I don't get offended if I'm simply handed my fee or it's left on the table.

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while we are discussing payment

 

what is it with websites that call the fee 'Donations'  How naff?

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I don't mind whether it's in an envelope or not, counting behind closed doors and/or after the event leaves either party open to abuse and false accusations. I'm not embarrassed and neither should he, once it's sorted and safely put away it's back to the fun.

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I generally leave an envelope with the money in on a sideboard, telling her that I've left something there for her. I then ask for a shower and presume that the money is being counted while I'm in the shower, which I prefer as it then obviates the need for her to count the money in front of me while at the same time giving her an opportunity to put her mind at rest.

 

On my first visit to the lovely, now retired Laura MacKenzie I was so bowled over by her warm and friendly greeting that I forgot all about the money and she had (quite rightly) to ask me for it before we started in earnest. I was mortified but Laura didn't make a deal out of it at all and it turned out to be a terrific appointment. That's the only time it has ever happened to me.

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I count the money with her, so there is no under or over payment.

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while we are discussing payment

 

what is it with websites that call the fee 'Donations'  How naff?

I thought with true *Donations* a person can pay what they decide upon,like, when I am stopped by a charity mugger(I have provided my bank details on occasion if the charity strikes a cord with me but some are aggressive fleecers pure and simple)they ask me what donation can I give,implying there is some choice, in that case donation does seem a bit out place, but as they say, it is what it is.

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An envelope is cool, especially when your Man has slipped a card inside this envelope too, makes it feel like my birthday :) .

Slipping it into the depth of my cleavage is extra nice, makes me feel like a wayward hedonistic trollop out of one of those * Truck stop pick up on Highway 74 films* something about this act can be a bit seedy yet sexy at the same time,oh dear, I like it, makes me giggle at the naughtiness of it.

Counting in front of me...hmm..here is where my antenna springs into action.

I do not mind a guy counting in front of me, but...would he not have counted before he was due to meet you and have it all ready?

I had one occasion earlier this year with a first timer, he came to my previous address and slowly.....very slowly counted out my fee,as it was a Dom/sub meeting, I did feel this was all part of his power game, I did not like this, but bit my lip took my fee,and we had a lot of fun,it turned out, this was just how he conducted his business with girls, and as long as pay takes place, life is good!

A few regulars have forgotten to pay me, and I have forgotten to ask until afterward *proceedings*.

Met a guy I had seen a couple of times in March, after our two hour fun,back in my living room, *The day in a life of a chicken shop on* (how exciting) I suddenly gasped and said rather meekly. "erm....you have forgotten to......" I  left the end part missing...Mr X understood straight away and my treat as I really like to call it was handed over.

The end of March I met someone who I saw five times in  less weeks so all very intense, and two overnights within this time, it took on a sugar daddy element, he was much older than me, and there were Dom/sub elements to our interactions, so he would pay when he felt like it, looking back, this was not my idea of a relaxed meeting, but...he always paid and we did get on pretty well.

He would pay before our actual fun, but it was always based on him deciding when too,I suppose, a bit different compared to escort/client meeting, but not really, I met him from aw, it just kinda developed into a SD thing for a while;-)

 

Ultimately, it all depends on the dynamics between you and girl in question.

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An envelope is cool, especially when your Man has slipped a card inside this envelope too, makes it feel like my birthday :) .

Slipping it into the depth of my cleavage is extra nice, makes me feel like a wayward hedonistic trollop out of one of those * Truck stop pick up on Highway 74 films* something about this act can be a bit seedy yet sexy at the same time,oh dear, I like it, makes me giggle at the naughtiness of it.

Counting in front of me...hmm..here is where my antenna springs into action.

I do not mind a guy counting in front of me, but...would he not have counted before he was due to meet you and have it all ready?

I had one occasion earlier this year with a first timer, he came to my previous address and slowly.....very slowly counted out my fee,as it was a Dom/sub meeting, I did feel this was all part of his power game, I did not like this, but bit my lip took my fee,and we had a lot of fun,it turned out, this was just how he conducted his business with girls, and as long as pay takes place, life is good!

A few regulars have forgotten to pay me, and I have forgotten to ask until afterward *proceedings*.

Met a guy I had seen a couple of times in March, after our two hour fun,back in my living room, *The day in a life of a chicken shop on* (how exciting) I suddenly gasped and said rather meekly. "erm....you have forgotten to......" I  left the end part missing...Mr X understood straight away and my treat as I really like to call it was handed over.

The end of March I met someone who I saw five times in  less weeks so all very intense, and two overnights within this time, it took on a sugar daddy element, he was much older than me, and there were Dom/sub elements to our interactions, so he would pay when he felt like it, looking back, this was not my idea of a relaxed meeting, but...he always paid and we did get on pretty well.

He would pay before our actual fun, but it was always based on him deciding when too,I suppose, a bit different compared to escort/client meeting, but not really, I met him from aw, it just kinda developed into a SD thing for a while;-)

 

Ultimately, it all depends on the dynamics between you and girl in question.

 

how big a deal is counting £120 or £150.  Its 6 or 7 notes.  I find making a fan of the cash is adequate to quickly check its all there.  you dont have to count it out  20,40.60,70,80,90,100,110,120

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:lol:

 

I just tuck the folded bills under her mobile or vibrator and mumble "I hope this is close enough'.  If she smiles and takes off her clothes quickly, I know that she is happy. 

 

No need to make a formal ceremony out of an exchange of cash for an exchange of fluids. ;)

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It took me many years to figure out what a cleavage is really for, but that's nicely sorted now.

 

But with that delivery destination, forget the envelopes, they have sharp corners.

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