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How Do You Feel When Your Regular Moves On/stops Working?

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I have experienced this three times now and I have found it quite emptying.

 

Whereas the week before, I could ring and say I'd be round at so and so a time for whatever, I suddenly find that I no longer have this priveledge.

 

I feel empty and sad (for myself).

 

How do others feel?

 

 

 

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Mine's stopping. Or is she. I am the only one she's going to continue seeing. And before cynics suggest she's not telling me the truth, she is and I have indisputable evidence. Consequently instead of being devastated and very empty like pollyp I'm flattered and overjoyed.

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Mine's stopping. Or is she. I am the only one she's going to continue seeing. And before cynics suggest she's not telling me the truth, she is and I have indisputable evidence. Consequently instead of being devastated and very empty like pollyp I'm flattered and overjoyed.

Now you are teasing.  Why would you need indisputable evidence...... but more to the point............ what is it? !!!!!

 

I know your question is aimed at the guys.............. but I just had to ask.  

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I feel empty and sad (for myself).

 

 

 

 

 

Edited by SukhoiT50

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Feeling a bit gutted myself at the moment as a girl I've seen a few times seems to have disappeared off the radar. She was on holiday for a few weeks but was well due back by now. Her AW profile hasn't been updated, mobile is off, and her profile has gone from an agency she worked for.

So it's not looking promising :( had been looking forward to a nice long meet with her which would probably have taken place this week..

I suppose it goes with the territory that Wg's (and punters) just unexpectedly move on or disappear off the radar without anyone knowing or getting the chance to wish them well.

At least she has set the standard for other girls I see to live up to!

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I have experienced this three times now and I have found it quite emptying.

 

Whereas the week before, I could ring and say I'd be round at so and so a time for whatever, I suddenly find that I no longer have this priveledge.

 

I feel empty and sad (for myself).

 

How do others feel?

Gutted. However, its happened countless times in my experience so i just go looking for an equally or better replacement while still hopefully having a couple of regular SPs in the meantime. What i used to find worrying was when a regular literally disappeared overnight without a word, i just accept thats their way nowadays, look on them fondly for the good service offered and move on.

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Now you are teasing.  Why would you need indisputable evidence...... but more to the point............ what is it? !!!!!

 

I know your question is aimed at the guys.............. but I just had to ask.  

 

I'm guessing the indisputable evidence involves a custom-made chastity belt with the single key in waterlad's possession.

But what he doesn't know is the lady is now offering a very popular oral only service.

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Now you are teasing.  Why would you need indisputable evidence...... but more to the point............ what is it? !!!!!

 

I know your question is aimed at the guys.............. but I just had to ask.  

I don't NEED the evidence. I have it. She is having such a change of lifestyle, job, home, family plus the clincher which is private and personal to me.

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You just have to accept it and move on - as they say, time is a good healer.

However, it depends on the nature of the departure and it always helps to have her phone number (personal if possible) and for her to have yours (circumstances permitting).

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I don't NEED the evidence. I have it. She is having such a change of lifestyle, job, home, family plus the clincher which is private and personal to me.

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In short your having a relationship with her ?

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Forget and move on  ;)

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Assuming that she left for good positive reasons, I would be very happy for her.

 

Having said that, I would be utterly devastated. I would pine, be depressed, and there would probably be a great deal of fretting as well. Not because of a loss of physical sex with someone who understands my needs, but because of the loss of an intimate partner with whom I've shared many memories with and whose humour, personality and intellect has enriched my life. 

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 I had two regulars I split my time between,.  They both retired from the profession six months apart . I was sad that they both retired,but was glad they were able to find a new beginning. One of the Ladies gave me ample warning of her retirement and recommended  a friend of hers.  I  made an appointment with her friend...turns out that she had recommended me to her friend (it was a perfect  match).

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Assuming that she left for good positive reasons, I would be very happy for her.

 

Having said that, I would be utterly devastated. I would pine, be depressed, and there would probably be a great deal of fretting as well. Not because of a loss of physical sex with someone who understands my needs, but because of the loss of an intimate partner with whom I've shared many memories with and whose humour, personality and intellect has enriched my life. 

 

Yep... this.  But also the amount of money it is going to cost to find another regular who treats you the same way and has such a connection.  The trouble is it may take 3-4 bookings with a girl to get to the point where you want them to be a regular, and the previous girl having set the bar so high may mean the search is fruitless.

 

I just console myself with the saying "changes aren't permanent, but change is" and hope that they may return at some point.

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I'm looking at replacing a regular for different reasons. As I posted about a month back, I had to make a regular redundant 'cause I didn't feel I was being treated with respect.

 

Trouble is, I bloody well miss her - well for sure, the amazing sex, fun & games we had. I've been "interviewing" non - stop over recent weeks and whilst I've met (and im some cases re- met) some lovely lasses, frankly the sheer excitement I had with the previous regular isn't there - yet???

 

To make things worse, "Dick brain" has been gloating..." you could have put up with it...you didn't have to stop seeing her...a bird in the hand....it's no fun being a schitzophrenic, even if one of you is only a knob :P

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I'm looking at replacing a regular for different reasons. As I posted about a month back, I had to make a regular redundant 'cause I didn't feel I was being treated with respect.

 

Trouble is, I bloody well miss her - well for sure, the amazing sex, fun & games we had. I've been "interviewing" non - stop over recent weeks and whilst I've met (and im some cases re- met) some lovely lasses, frankly the sheer excitement I had with the previous regular isn't there - yet???

 

To make things worse, "Dick brain" has been gloating..." you could have put up with it...you didn't have to stop seeing her...a bird in the hand....it's no fun being a schitzophrenic, even if one of you is only a knob :P

Well good luck on finding a suitable replacement asap. :)

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I do not really see the logical sense of going back to the same WG you have seen before. I like new adventures every time I punt and just paying the same girl for an adventure I have had before just seems like a waste of money to me. 

 

So never had this problem as I never see the same WG twice.

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I do not really see the logical sense of going back to the same WG you have seen before. I like new adventures every time I punt and just paying the same girl for an adventure I have had before just seems like a waste of money to me. 

 

So never had this problem as I never see the same WG twice.

you can't really apply logic to punting - if you did then probably 50% or more of us wouldn't be doing it!

 

Some people (like me) like to build a bit of a rapport with wg, get to know them a little and have a bit of banter. Recently I had a great 1st punt with a cracker of a girl. Sort of thought afterwards it can't get better than that - maybe I won't see her again. I did see her again and the second meeting was better than the first. The third meeting was better still. Better in every way - we knew what the other liked to talk about, she knew exactly what I liked and how I liked it in bed. Everything just flowed that much more easily - plus I knew I was guaranteed a great time.

 

Yes there can be a bit of a downer she moves on - but nothing about this hobby is permanent so you just have to deal with it and move on. Those three punts alone would be worth a bit of sulking if I were to be unable to see her again.

 

Everyone punts for their own reasons and needs - one size doesn't fit all.....

 

The thrill of seeing a new girl for the first time is great - when it works, but that isn't guaranteed every time - which is why I like to see someone I know I'm going to have a good time with.

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Its only happend once to me and it was a sad loss, Luckily I found someone just as good hopefully she wont move on.

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never really been a regular with a wg but recently read a review of a lovely wg i had saw 3 times and found that she does stuff with others that she wouldnt do with me now that was a nice feeling... not (off topic sorry) :(

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As I said, its important to stay connected - for example, my number one girl has been out for 2 weeks but will be back from next week and I'm first in the queue! :)

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What is your definition of a regular? Personally I would have to be seeing a lady a minimum of six times in any twelve month period to regard her as a regular. I have three ladies each of whom I would like to be able to class as a regular but, due to circumstances, I'll be lucky to see them three times in a year. So none of them a regular. Despite that if any of them disappeared without warning or explanation I would have sadness in my heart even though I know I have no entitlement in any way to receive any advice information.

I saw a lady today who may turn out to be a regular and she is someone who fits into being able to see at least six times a year. But I would have to see her at least twice more before being able to think of her being a regular. I understand she has only recently returned to the escort arena and, despite only having met her once, I would feel a sadness if she suddenly disappeared.

In respect of a lady moving on we, as in punters, are not entitled to any information. But we can hope.

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I'd say the term regular is different things to different people and relative to their circumstances. i've only been punting just over 6 months, but in a period of a few weeks saw one girl 3 times, and have seen her more often than I've seen any other wg. So I'd call her a regular - to me. She wouldn't class me as a regular however, and nor would someone who has been punting for a long time.

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Gutted. However, its happened countless times in my experience so i just go looking for an equally or better replacement while still hopefully having a couple of regular SPs in the meantime. What i used to find worrying was when a regular literally disappeared overnight without a word, i just accept thats their way nowadays, look on them fondly for the good service offered and move on.

 

Good point.

 

This punting hobby evolves with more experiences you have,  Enjoy her while she is around. As your research skills grow, there are many lovely escorts around to step in to fill the void. I have a short list of 10 on standby for when my regular moves on.

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What is your definition of a regular?

 

Currently around 2 or 3 times a week ;)

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