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Call this weird, but are outcalls always safe?

 

What I mean by that is who is to say some escort won't tell others where I live and I get burgled? 

 

It sounds weird, but it's something that's crossed my mind from time to time. 

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There are enough people who do them that I feel certain the risk is low. However, if it worries you, go visit the lady in her space. It will certainly be better equipped for the fun you want, unless she is rubbish at her job. Research should weed out the rubbish.

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As with anything in this game choose your escort carefully! It's not hard to figure out a well established escort with lots of feedback on AW, PN and other sites, with her own website and/or other web presence is unlikely to be dodgy or con you.  

 

In the same way you wouldn't give a builder your house keys to get on with a job unless you had thoroughly sussed him out or got personal recommendations for people you trust. 

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Although a lot of my punts have been with wg's who only offer outcalls, home visits are out of the question. Hotels only for me - surprising how cheap you can get a decent room for if you look around. If you are so concerned, maybe book a hotel at least until you've met the girl and got a better idea if you can trust asking her to your house.

My property is very secure and I'd have no problems asking a girl there from that perspective, it is more personal circumstances preventing me.

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All the escorts that I've met have all been outcalls to my home and I never really worried about it.

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Call this weird, but are outcalls always safe?

 

What I mean by that is who is to say some escort won't tell others where I live and I get burgled? 

 

It sounds weird, but it's something that's crossed my mind from time to time. 

 

Some years ago I actually met a WG who told me she would "case" out call homes for her boyfriend to burgle !!! I was really shocked..

 

She even had something to make a copy of house keys etc... and she would use her phone to photo valuables.

 

If I hadn't heard with my own ears I wouldn't have believed it. 

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Call this weird, but are outcalls always safe?

 

What I mean by that is who is to say some escort won't tell others where I live and I get burgled? 

 

It sounds weird, but it's something that's crossed my mind from time to time. 

Why would it be weird. In my 30 years punting i have never had an Outcall to my home and will never have one in the future. It breaks my basic security.

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My punts over the past couple of years have been about 50:50 incall and outcall. Never had a problem.

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Although a lot of my punts have been with wg's who only offer outcalls, home visits are out of the question. Hotels only for me - surprising how cheap you can get a decent room for if you look around. If you are so concerned, maybe book a hotel at least until you've met the girl and got a better idea if you can trust asking her to your house.

My property is very secure and I'd have no problems asking a girl there from that perspective, it is more personal circumstances preventing me.

 

 

Its no safer for the girls than it is for you. 

 

I stopped going to guys houses because some of the hovels I was being expected to perform in were disgusting and I had a lovely clean place of my own.  The final straw was some guy throwing a stinking T-Shirt over my head, not sure what he was trying to do but it was suffocating me so I panicked, gave him a bloody nose and ran leaving stuff behind which my partner retrieved for me.

 

Safety was always the biggest issue for me, so much so (will let you into a secret that I've never told anyone else).  During all my years working my partner was never more than 5 yards away from me, but not one single client ever knew and that included hotel work and outcalls, so guess other women may do the same and you could have some guy in close proximity making sure his woman is safe..

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What I mean by that is who is to say some escort won't tell others where I live and I get burgled? 

 

 

No one, any more than anyone can say that some punter won't tell others where we live/work and we get burgled. And we're the ones whom hard-of-thinking folk believe keep suitcases full of twenty pound notes under the bed.

 

No wonder so many prefer hotels.

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Its no safer for the girls than it is for you. 

 

I stopped going to guys houses because some of the hovels I was being expected to perform in were disgusting and I had a lovely clean place of my own.  The final straw was some guy throwing a stinking T-Shirt over my head, not sure what he was trying to do but it was suffocating me so I panicked, gave him a bloody nose and ran leaving stuff behind which my partner retrieved for me.

 

Safety was always the biggest issue for me, so much so (will let you into a secret that I've never told anyone else).  During all my years working my partner was never more than 5 yards away from me, but not one single client ever knew and that included hotel work and outcalls, so guess other women may do the same and you could have some guy in close proximity making sure his woman is safe..

I've had a few of those, and at the time it left me wondering why on earth I carried on doing it(outcalls I mean), luckily however the number of cold, unclean places without hot water, heating, a towel or even a piece of soap in the bathroom run 50:50 with some absolutely lovely places, and lovely clients I've visited. Arriving to find the occupant has had a little too much wine for dutch courage, and has dried-out wine-tongue is also disappointing especially when combined with the above. All I ask for is the place to be warm, clean bedding, hot water, soap and a clean towel in the bathroom. These last two items I usually carry in my bag these days, just in case.

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No one, any more than anyone can say that some punter won't tell others where we live/work and we get burgled. And we're the ones whom hard-of-thinking folk believe keep suitcases full of twenty pound notes under the bed.

 

No wonder so many prefer hotels.

And usually many more punters visit incall, than ladies visit a punter outcall.

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Its no safer for the girls than it is for you. 

 

I stopped going to guys houses because some of the hovels I was being expected to perform in were disgusting and I had a lovely clean place of my own.  The final straw was some guy throwing a stinking T-Shirt over my head, not sure what he was trying to do but it was suffocating me so I panicked, gave him a bloody nose and ran leaving stuff behind which my partner retrieved for me.

 

Safety was always the biggest issue for me, so much so (will let you into a secret that I've never told anyone else).  During all my years working my partner was never more than 5 yards away from me, but not one single client ever knew and that included hotel work and outcalls, so guess other women may do the same and you could have some guy in close proximity making sure his woman is safe..

Quite right Holly, safety is a big issue when going to a clients house. It is the unknowing of what you may find/expect when you get there, and this can not always be picked up by a clients mannerism in phone/text. Generally you find most clients are lovely and hospitable, welcoming into their home, there is of course the other side to it.

I would imagine most woman would have some sort of security- or at least let someone know their whereabouts.

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(will let you into a secret that I've never told anyone else).  During all my years working my partner was never more than 5 yards away from me,

 

Oh, if I'd known, he could of come in and joined us...... <_<

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Some years ago I actually met a WG who told me she would "case" out call homes for her boyfriend to burgle !!! I was really shocked..

 

She even had something to make a copy of house keys etc... and she would use her phone to photo valuables.

 

If I hadn't heard with my own ears I wouldn't have believed it. 

Now I've only had limited experience to date but this sounds really, really rare.

 

I personally think that there is no reason to be wary of WGs more than anyone else you invite to your home.  I've had a range of different girls I've been with but most just want to make their money in the most effective way possible,doing their job well.

 

Inna, why didn't you report this girl to the police?  Was WG fraternity better than trying to maintain a good name for the profession?

 

Sad, frankly.

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Call this weird, but are outcalls always safe?

 

What I mean by that is who is to say some escort won't tell others where I live and I get burgled? 

 

It sounds weird, but it's something that's crossed my mind from time to time

Well if you call the right person with a reputation to uphold in the biz as just getting on with her job in a nice professional manner than I'm sure she has bigger things to bother about than stealing your stuff

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Its no safer for the girls than it is for you. 

 

I stopped going to guys houses because some of the hovels I was being expected to perform in were disgusting and I had a lovely clean place of my own.  The final straw was some guy throwing a stinking T-Shirt over my head, not sure what he was trying to do but it was suffocating me so I panicked, gave him a bloody nose and ran leaving stuff behind which my partner retrieved for me.

 

Safety was always the biggest issue for me, so much so (will let you into a secret that I've never told anyone else).  During all my years working my partner was never more than 5 yards away from me, but not one single client ever knew and that included hotel work and outcalls, so guess other women may do the same and you could have some guy in close proximity making sure his woman is safe..

 

This is so true. I was planning on seeing someone at my house, it was booked in but on the day before our scheduled meeting, she had a bad experience at someone's house and now she doesn't do home visits anymore. I was gutted but I respect her decision.

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As i am outcall only and usually its to hotels, i feel as safe as anyone can under the circumstances. Safety is paramount for both parties. I usually try and meet up either outside the hotel/ in the lobby etccc so a good gander is available for both sides. Plus someone always knows where i am.

Never yet been asked to visit someones house.. certainly wouldnt case the joint!! No need when ive got my own lovely home.

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As someone said, go to hotels, I have never actually had an outcall, I always go to the girls flat/house.

The only time I do use a hotel is when I'm sleeping with a woman at work who is married, I know it's a different situation but, I feel safe in a hotel and as long as it's away from where people might know you, then it's safe.

From this experience, I know that you can come and go at will without interference in most hotels so the discretion is there as well.

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