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Does Premature Ejaculation Ruin Your Punts?

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I know that I suffer from this - so I usually enjoy the lady in various ways up until the last minute and finish at the end. I have never found this entirely satisfactory but that's how it is. I control myself much better in my domestic bed - but then my o/h has not quite the appeal of the younger wgs.

 

I have tried wanking 1 hour before appt - that works yes - but it kills my interest in the punt.

 

I have tried cumming first and waiting for the 2nd round - but it is usually at least 30 minutes before I start to feel remotely like it again.

 

Recently - the girl was keen to shag me - I had wound her up too much - and had to cool her down when she went for it big time. That was a downer.

 

So - to all you pocket billiard fast shooters - how do you cope?

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I'll lend you the mental block I seem to develop sometimes if you want - where I'm right on the edge and it goes rather than cums! Very frustrating when it happens, usually during penetration with a condom (obviously). I think it's caused by wearing a condom, or my mental block thinks it is :(

Oddly years ago when my partner and I had a sex life I had the premature ejaculation problem, but not since I started punting - even when I hadn't had sex with a girl for years. Weird

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i dont get it with partners but i do with punting

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Rather the reverse for me.  On a good day I can cross the line fairly quickly, which for me I consider a good thing.  On a not very good day these days it can take me between 30 mins or right up to the hour mark.

 

Last week it took me an hour to cum and I actually had to finish by hand (that was a first).  Earlier this week I was over the line in less than 20 mins and starting on round 2 within another 10 mins.

 

I would rather cum quickly as I have no problem generally in getting on with Round 2.

 

No.  My problem is whilst I can get going on r.2 I just seem to have mentally lost the ability to cum twice in a session, or on the very rare occasions I do, it has the same pleasure as blowing out a candle.  Frustrating.

 

The thing is I know this isn't physical as left to my own devices I can bring myself off twice in less than an hour, so why not when actually doing the act I'm fantasising over on my own?  Weird.

 

If I were you Lancelot I would not be bothered about cumming quickly but rather work on techniques as to how to get back into gear for round two more quickly, but that's just the way my head works.  Thus I would ask myself have I allowed myself to go too far off topic after r.1 cos sometimes this can make it difficult to get back to sexy thoughts?  Alternatively, have I tried to force things to get too sexual too quickly after R1, leaving my body struggling to keep up?

 

In my own life, it seems that the key to getting R2 up and running is to stay on topic as much as possible after r1 but to make sure that you pare things back to light kisses and gentle touches so as to help re-link brain and body in the sexual act.

 

Anyway, I guess we're probably all too different for my experience to be remotely useful and I guess we all have our own issues, cumming too quickly, cumming too slow, only cumming if you do this, but not that etc etc.

 

Maybe we all just need to learn to come to terms with the way we are.

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As usual, I take a while to make my point so be patient....

 

My fourth punt will probably be this weekend, and I think I'm gradually working out what works for me.

 

Punt #1: An hour and a half booking as I wasn't sure how things would work out. I penetrated after about 30 minutes of foreplay with a really cute +/- 20 year old Thai girl. I came (cumed?) pretty quickly, but it had been 20 years since my last sexual encounter, so I wasn't too pissed off with that. We messed around some more afterwards as the blue pill was still doing it's stuff but, quite frankly, the last thirty minutes was a total waste of my money. PE didn't ruin my punt, but it cost me £70.

 

Punt #2: Figured an hour was more than enough. Managed to control myself a little better despite being with (in my eyes) a perfect 10 and it was a truly memorable experience. But still, a fifteen minute massage at the end to fill out the time, so still a lot of room for improvement. PE didn't ruin my punt, but it cost me £37.50.

 

Punt #3: This time I had total self-control - aided by the fact that the girl, absolute cutie-pie though she was, just wasn't really on my wavelength. It was still enjoyable, and I could have climaxed quite easily, but we ran overtime without me realising it and so I didn't get there. PE didn't ruin my punt, in fact quite the opposite.

 

The point I'm trying to make is that when you're with a WG it's all against the clock. There's a good chance that there will be a guy 15 minutes before you, and another one 15 minutes after you, so you'd better make the most of your window of opportunity because once your hour is up you're out of the door. But the thing is, you're the one paying for it so you shouldn't feel under any obligation to perform to a pre-conceived (sorry!) standard. True - it's easier said than done as we all want to perform like porn stars!

 

When you're with a regular partner there's not the same pressure. Sure, you want to give her pleasure and satisfy her sexually, especially if a special occasion, but if you've had a tough day in the office or you have a bit of a headache, there's always tomorrow and you can make do with a little spooning.

 

On my next punt I want a clock in full view, and I'm really going to try to pace myself. I really enjoy the build up, particularly DATY, so if I revel in all that stuff and only actually go for gold with five minutes to go, then that will do me fine. Think about it- how long does your actual climax last - 10/15 seconds? Make the most of the build-up.

 

And that's my 2p worth.

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PS: ..................and what Thurson said!

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yes it does - i find it a rather awkward and embarassing and it happens most of the time :(

Edited by Dib Cochran

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But surely the point of punting is to have non-committal arms-length (!) sex, and surely part of that non-commitment is the absence of a need to "perform".

 

It shouldn't be embarrassing - maybe you could take comfort from the fact that, if anything, you will make a WG happy that she managed to pleasure you quickly rather than having you pounding away like a wannabe porn-star for the full hour?

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Think about it- how long does your actual climax last - 10/15 seconds? Make the most of the build-up.

 

And looking at your signature line Dib, doesn't this ring true?

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Thankfully, PE never happened to me, ever......though do have difficulty at times maintaining wood, especially when have to put a noddy on by myself - so a similar mental block thing

what's with the green text though....?

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I would say that it depends on how one defines premature?

 

Kissing, cuddling, licking and fingering a Lady is as important to me in a punt as cumming myself and this can hardly be premature.

 

Until recently, I rarely went for penetrative sex. just BJs/facials where I would wank myself into/over the Ladies mouth/face, so was in control, recent punts have been penetrative where I have cum quickly but without disappointment on my, or the Ladies side, I think.

 

At 55, I find its a balance between not being able to cum twice in a period or coming too soon.

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I used to suffer from PE but since discovering Kamagra I get/stay harder and takes me longer to cum!,great stuff!

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I used to suffer from PE but since discovering Kamagra I get/stay harder and takes me longer to cum!,great stuff!

agreed....  and I understand that the rights to viagra are to be released anytime now so the price should drop like a stone...

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Unfortunately I have quite the opposite problem at the moment (anorgasmia) which is a known side effect of some prescription mediation I'm taking. I haven't been able cum the last twice I've seen my regular lady.

We've spoken about her getting some more sensitive condoms for sex but OWO normally finishes me though not at present. A trusted friend suggested trying a cock ring to heighten glans sensitivity. I'm not suffering from ED (and further to other posts on that topic have now stopped taking Cialis as I have beaten the psychological block), I just can't get past the finishing line. As a side note, I also used to have anorgasmia if I took Levitra hence my change to Cialis.

To orgasm isn't the be all and end all of a meet for me, it's far more about the naked intimacy of a gorgeous lady BUT it would be nice to pop.

Next time I'll try the cock ring and see how I goes.

DG

Edited by Diamond Geezer

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I just mis-read the thread title as "Does Premature Ejaculation Ruin Your Pants?" :lol:

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For me it's all down to the situation. I don't suffer from premature ejactulation, however, I I'm the one in control during sex I last a lot longer, especially if its hard a fast. If its the other way roud and I'm not in control and its slow and sensual I don't last as long.

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I just mis-read the thread title as "Does Premature Ejaculation Ruin Your Pants?" :lol:

And I thought I was the only one !

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For me it's all down to the situation. I don't suffer from premature ejactulation, however, I I'm the one in control during sex I last a lot longer, especially if its hard a fast. If its the other way roud and I'm not in control and its slow and sensual I don't last as long.

 

I love my girl to be on top but I just cannot control how long I last in this position, so i have to alternate ;)

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I used to suffer from this when I started punting. I always reckon it helped me develop good oral skills (or so I'm told) as I would be looking to get my money's worth for the rest of the punt. As I gained experienca dn confidence, the problem just disappeard.

 

Now in my 60s, it's keeping it up rather than worrying about shooting too early that's the issue

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And I thought I was the only one !

+1

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I used to suffer from PE but since discovering Kamagra I get/stay harder and takes me longer to cum!,great stuff!

Agree with Tom, Kamagra gives me a hard on like when I was 20 and delays the cumming, sometimes I last ten minutes with penetrative sex, before Kamagra, 1 or 2 mins

Edited by Chasfas

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I would say that it depends on how one defines premature?

 

Kissing, cuddling, licking and fingering a Lady is as important to me in a punt as cumming myself and this can hardly be premature.

 

At 55, I find its a balance between not being able to cum twice in a period or coming too soon.

 

Sums it up for me.

 

Add in, discussing how you want the booking to go and slow down until you're ready to go for it.

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Think about it- how long does your actual climax last - 10/15 seconds? Make the most of the build-up.

 

 

And looking at your signature line Dib, doesn't this ring true?

 

Yes it does but have now found three establishments that i can get to easily,all with lovely ladies. So that part is fine so my problem now is that the punt can be over quite quickly and that can be a downer. I just need to relax and enjoy the good company

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I know that I suffer from this - so I usually enjoy the lady in various ways up until the last minute and finish at the end. I have never found this entirely satisfactory but that's how it is. I control myself much better in my domestic bed - but then my o/h has not quite the appeal of the younger wgs.

 

I have tried wanking 1 hour before appt - that works yes - but it kills my interest in the punt.

 

I have tried cumming first and waiting for the 2nd round - but it is usually at least 30 minutes before I start to feel remotely like it again.

 

Recently - the girl was keen to shag me - I had wound her up too much - and had to cool her down when she went for it big time. That was a downer.

 

So - to all you pocket billiard fast shooters - how do you cope?

 

As I've got older the opposite has been my problem. Nowadays I try to abstain from wanking/sex for 24 hours before a punt.

 

I can't add anything new to the advice other poster have given, except maybe to book 1 hour visits and aim for a round 2.

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