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Bringing Your Own Toys ?

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I have some of my own toys and I was wondering if anyone knows how WG's feel to punters bringing their own. I find that several WG's don't have a strapon or cuffs\harnesses. I am thinking about buying my own to bring to sessions.

 

I am more concerned about the harness to the strap on. Essentially how the ladies feel about wearing a harness that could have been worn by others. 

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I have some of my own toys and I was wondering if anyone knows how WG's feel to punters bringing their own. I find that several WG's don't have a strapon or cuffs\harnesses. I am thinking about buying my own to bring to sessions.

 

I am more concerned about the harness to the strap on. Essentially how the ladies feel about wearing a harness that could have been worn by others. 

I think it depends on who the toys are for. If; as you're suggesting, you're expecting the lady to wear the cuffs/harnesses then I think you need to know her pretty well. But it does happen! :)

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They may not have the equipment you are talking about because they aren't interested in that aspect of what services can be offered whether the toys etc are to be used on you or vice-versa.    I would have thought that suggesting you bring along some of your own gear would quite possibly result in acancellation.   At the very least check it out with her, preferably on the phone, before you actually commit to the booking.    When getting into that area of enjoyment you really need to be going to see a lady who is also into it.   I think you would find it dificult to find a lady who would allow you to restrain her on the first, or perhaps even second, booking.

 

I don't think that ladies generally like the idea of using equipment that has been used by other ladies.   Also as regards the harness for the strapon, like the strapon itself, it isn't one size fits all.

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I would think that ladies who offer strap on fun would have their own harness and strap on.If not then has has already been said...you would have to question whether she actually offers this type of service.As an s.p generally I have my own toys for the type of services I offer..or why offer them?If its a particular strap on dildo you like then you could check if it fits the ladies own harness.

If you have seen a lady and asked if she would be willing to offer you strap on and she has agreed but doesn't have the equipment then maybe ask her what she thinks..perhaps offer to buy one that she chooses herself from something like lovehoney.I certainly wouldn't just rock up with it.

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thanks again. Was not planning on "rocking up with it". I appreciate I have to talk to every wg before a booking. I wanted to get a rough idea before buying some new toys. The cuffs\harnesses were for me. The strap on is for her.  I'd like to buy what I like and use them with various wg's.

 

I dont always use a strap on but sometimes I have wg's wear it in dom roleplaying scenarios merely for aesthestics. I found several wg's have told me that if makes them feel more dominant\empowered during the roleplay. For that, I would i may like to bring one when they do not have them. Will wg's object to wearing them on hygiene grounds ?

 

Its not always the case that lack of a strap on or other toys means they have no interest in that service. I have found several wg's say "i really ought to get one of those" or "that sounds interesting. thinking about buying that" when I have asked about toys etc.

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Am i the only one who,on reading the title imagined someone turning up with a trainset?

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thanks again. Was not planning on "rocking up with it". I appreciate I have to talk to every wg before a booking. I wanted to get a rough idea before buying some new toys. The cuffs\harnesses were for me. The strap on is for her.  I'd like to buy what I like and use them with various wg's.

 

I dont always use a strap on but sometimes I have wg's wear it in dom roleplaying scenarios merely for aesthestics. I found several wg's have told me that if makes them feel more dominant\empowered during the roleplay. For that, I would i may like to bring one when they do not have them. Will wg's object to wearing them on hygiene grounds ?

 

Its not always the case that lack of a strap on or other toys means they have no interest in that service. I have found several wg's say "i really ought to get one of those" or "that sounds interesting. thinking about buying that" when I have asked about toys etc.

Well as I have said if the lady in question is agreeable you will need to liaise and get sizings etc, it might be a strap on that you like but the lady has to feel comfortable in it and confident to use it....the size is critical to giving a guy a successful pegging.

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Some will, some won't!  You will just have to ask the ladies you wish to see, can't see how anyone here can answer this question because we are all different too.

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I'm cool with guys bringing their own toys as I put a condom on them all, even my own which I use on guys x

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I'm cool with guys bringing their own toys as I put a condom on them all, even my own which I use on guys x

Me too but its cringy when they bring stuff like undies or say a harness which doesn't fit.

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Am i the only one who,on reading the title imagined someone turning up with a trainset?

 

I am having surreal thoughts of a lego dildo.

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I'm cool with guys bringing their own toys as I put a condom on them all, even my own which I use on guys x

 

Yes, I have on occasion had a guy bring some toys with him but I have to say they were brand new and still in the box, I also got to keep them too. I have lots of strap ons of my own and wouldn't really be comfortable wearing someone else's but like Chloe says, regardless they all get covered with a condom. I also sterilise all my toys with Milton Bottle Sterilising tablets after using anything at all on myself or a client. Once you have the hygiene part out of the way you can relax and just enjoy! 

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I am having surreal thoughts of a lego dildo.

Will have to have a look as theyve got everything else lego nowdays,including lego porn.

I personally wouldnt take my own toys purely because they dont half vary in size and youd need to know pretty well what the lady was comfortable with.That also includes type,texture etc.I remember christmas shopping in soho a couple of years back,Walked in and saw something out the corner of my eye,looked like a large black traffic cone.Then my head finally realised it wasnt a cone and my head swivled so fast in tripped and bounced of the film wracks.As i said,they vary in size,a lot

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Clients have brought their own sex toys and as long as they are clean and covered and only used on themselves.... I have no problem with it.

 

My own strap on is the best of the best so I have never used one belonging to a client.  I have yet to be confronted with one which even comes close to mine with regard to fitting me and the ability to do the deed! Occasionally I have been presented with one of those semi hard jelly articles attached to a thin strap..... completely useless!

 

Other advice on here is good..... enquire if the lady would be ok with you bringing and using your own toys etc.  Not all wg's are confident wearing/using a strap on so tread carefully and don't just spring it out of the bag like a magician with his tophat and bunny.

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Clients have brought their own sex toys and as long as they are clean and covered and only used on themselves.... I have no problem with it.

 

My own strap on is the best of the best so I have never used one belonging to a client.  I have yet to be confronted with one which even comes close to mine with regard to fitting me and the ability to do the deed! Occasionally I have been presented with one of those semi hard jelly articles attached to a thin strap..... completely useless!

 

Other advice on here is good..... enquire if the lady would be ok with you bringing and using your own toys etc.  Not all wg's are confident wearing/using a strap on so tread carefully and don't just spring it out of the bag like a magician with his tophat and bunny.

In this case would he literally be pulling a rabbit out of the hat? :)

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Me too but its cringy when they bring stuff like undies or say a harness which doesn't fit.

Mmm undies would need to come in the bag from the shop with the tag on and the reciept hot off the press. I get you regarding the strap on harness though.

 

I recently had a guy arrive with the teeniest swimming costume. From the length of it from shoulder strap to gusset it wasnt an adult one and it wasnt new. I queried him on it regarding if it had been worn, he said it was new, I pointed out that it was very faded in places and had a mark on it. He started to sweat then said he was leaving and chucked 20 on the dresser. I had questioned wether I would be even able to get it on but said I would try with some knickers underneath. I think it was his daughters swimming costume,,,lord knows why he brought it along to me but he knew my dress size.

 

Bringing worn stained clothing along to a wg is just gross upon gross, its disrespectful, its like saying "ah its dirty but someone like you wont care" 

 

Regarding the Milton, I dont sterilise my stuff with it, but a full body condom all the way up and over the end negates that. I do soak my ball gag in boiled water though then alcohol and also clean my metal equipment with alcohol x

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