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I know many workers will refuse male clients who've seen WGs offering bareback, but would you avoid a female client who saw one? I've seen a few otherwise interesting profiles for ladies that offer BB, and was unsure.

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I know many workers will refuse male clients who've seen WGs offering bareback, but would you avoid a female client who saw one? I've seen a few otherwise interesting profiles for ladies that offer BB, and was unsure.

Same risks for either so the same should apply.

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One of the reasons that I decided not to become an SP / WG was that I like to have "natural" sex with both my boyfriends and girlfriends   :wub:

In the "heat of the moment", I tend to forget about being 'safe', and this would be stupid if I "turned professional"  :(

I have decided to stay with my known, safe, partners both male and female for now, mainly in the interests of my own health.

I apologise to you lovely ladies who are able to be totally professional about all this, and hope you can forgive a "dizzy blonde" for not being able to keep up with you ?   :unsure:

 

Me. xx

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AS said, seems to involve risk and as such is worth avoiding? Don't know how you know though.

 

(EasyMe, entirely up to you of course but not obvious what your interest is in this sort of board.)

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And long may they keep refusing. I always say if a lady invites a man to stir the porridge with a spoon that has been used frequently in the kitchen by many, you are risking ending up with rather foul tasting oats (pun Intended) and may not be able to enjoy your breakfast for some time.

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One of the reasons that I decided not to become an SP / WG was that I like to have "natural" sex with both my boyfriends and girlfriends   :wub:

In the "heat of the moment", I tend to forget about being 'safe', and this would be stupid if I "turned professional"  :(

I have decided to stay with my known, safe, partners both male and female for now, mainly in the interests of my own health.

I apologise to you lovely ladies who are able to be totally professional about all this, and hope you can forgive a "dizzy blonde" for not being able to keep up with you ?   :unsure:

 

Me. xx

We provide a service and while it might be good fun and enjoyable with some clients, you really wouldn't want to be barebacking with the amount of clients some of us see in a day.As well as being professional most of want to be able to keep earning our living and taking such risks means more liklihood of stds which would mean we can't work, nor do clients want to see you if word gets out you have a dose of something nasty.

I think you are making the right decision not to become a professional working girl if this isn't obvious to you.

To the o.p, I'm not sure what you mean are you talking about female clients that have seen male escorts that offer bareback? Either way I would think it best to avoid any profiles that offer bareback.

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To the o.p, I'm not sure what you mean are you talking about female clients that have seen male escorts that offer bareback? Either way I would think it best to avoid any profiles that offer bareback.

I should have clarified- I'm a lady punter myself, not a service provider. I was wondering if I should continue to avoid WGs who offer bareback; I'm guessing the answer is 'yes'.

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I should have clarified- I'm a lady punter myself, not a service provider. I was wondering if I should continue to avoid WGs who offer bareback; I'm guessing the answer is 'yes'.

So I assume as a Lady punter, you perform and receive reverse O, fingering and toys, both anal and vaginal?

 

I think we have already determined that these acts carry very few risks and that the vast majority of these are unprotected, though there have been reports of fingers being covered with a condom, especially for anal fingering.

 

So, I guess your question is that if you see that a Female SP offers BB to Males, then should you avoid her?

 

I would say the answer to this is yes, in as much as although you won't be having penetrative sex with her, men have.

 

Should apply to men as well, even if they are like me, seeking an oral only session.

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So I assume as a Lady punter, you perform and receive reverse O, fingering and toys, both anal and vaginal?

Why would you assume that? Plenty of male punters don't do any/all of these and you yourself have just said you don't look for penetration, so what makes you think that a female punter would necessarily look for the above? It's nobody's business but her own which services the OP likes to partake of and there's hardly any need to start writing lists of which ones you think two women must be doing in the bedroom unless for some reason you want to start a discussion about it :rolleyes:.

 

I don't think it's any different to anybody else - you have to assess the risk according to what you're comfortable with and either avoid some activities or use protection accordingly, and if you're not sure of risks it's a good idea to ask at the folk at your GUM (if you've got a good one they'll give you some free dental dams and maybe finger cots too :)). It depends on what specifically you're worried about too - HIV is fairly low risk for non-penetrative sex but there's plenty of other nasties out there which often get forgotten in favour of panicking about the the HIV bogeyman, and they can't all be cured either.

 

I assume every punter I see has had unprotected sex with somebody, so it makes no odds to me who they've seen and who they haven't - we have no way of knowing anyway and since I don't offer unprotected services myself, I don't see the point in worrying about it. The Adultwork feedback box is hardly a complete and credible account of anybody's sexual history, is it? I doubt even 50% of punts are arranged that way, and fewer still will bother leaving feedback so it's just not worth fussing over - even the women who don't offer bb (or OWO, or whatever) will often have a long term partner they don't use condoms with, and you're not going to be able to check his feedback.

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We provide a service and while it might be good fun and enjoyable with some clients, you really wouldn't want to be barebacking with the amount of clients some of us see in a day.As well as being professional most of want to be able to keep earning our living and taking such risks means more liklihood of stds which would mean we can't work, nor do clients want to see you if word gets out you have a dose of something nasty.

I think you are making the right decision not to become a professional working girl if this isn't obvious to you.

To the o.p, I'm not sure what you mean are you talking about female clients that have seen male escorts that offer bareback? Either way I would think it best to avoid any profiles that offer bareback.

 

Thank you Bibi, but it is obvious to me, and it is one of several reasons for my decision.

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Are you being a bit condescending to me here, BiBi  ?  :(

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Are you being a bit condescending to me here, BiBi  ?  :(

No. Just simply agreeing with you and expanding on the reasons for not getting carried away in the moment. Are you trying to provoke something given that you came back twice in answer to an innocuous post that I wrote..second time because I didn't feel the need to answer your post back to me?

This is a forum for punters and working girls you are neither by your own signature you are just looking and learning so not sure why you are being ether defensive or provoking something. I think back on topic, I could do without crap tonight thanks.

I've been up alnight with a very poorly pet cat..I have neither the energy nor the inclination for being condescending or having dingdongs on forums. If you want to have a chat then pm me otherwise chill, my post was not meant in any sort of 'funny' way.

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So I assume as a Lady punter, you perform and receive reverse O, fingering and toys, both anal and vaginal?

Some of those things, yes, but not all; so far I've seen one lady, and she doesn't do any uncovered oral. And some of them just don't interest me.

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AdorableAmy, thank you for the advice! I'll ask at my local GUM. Hopefully they're decent, I haven't had any reason to be there before now...

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