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I was wondering how this proposition would be received by any lady or what everyone else's opinion would be.  I ask because I feel like I get more value from an encounter If I'm left with something tangible to remember it by.  I live overseas and rarely punt, but when I do it's usually the expensive Maxe's Angels, Allure, Photogirls type of situations.  So, spending that amount I would like a little something more to remember the encounter by.  I was wondering if for ladies who don't typically offer taking pictures would be responsive to taking pictures in lingerie (nothing sexually explicit) or even fully clothed for an extra fee.

 

Because I know the filming and pictures primarily refer to the explicit parts of the meeting and it's understandable why a lady would hesitant to let someone take picture in that situation. But a the very least you would only have fully clothed pictures and I can't see that would be too objectionable if I'm willing to pay extra. So in other words if I end up seeing some model quality stunner at 400 pounds per hour and she doesn't normally offer taking picture, does it seem like a reasonable request to ask to take a few snapshots for an additional fee?  Thanks for any help.   

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You'd need to ask the individual lady. The trouble with photo requests is every guy who asks says they are simply a personal momento, and there is no way to tell who is telling the truth, and who isn't. Once the photo is taken and is on someone's harddrive, or mobile phone the lady has no control over it whatsoever.

 

Some ladies I believe are quite happy to have photos taken, others charge a fee. I personally don't feel comfortable being photographed by strangers, and I also wasn't comfortable with the amount of guys who were taking photos of me, one or two of whom heavily suggested after the event they'd showed them to others. Others tried to tempt me with the suggestion they'd be suitable for my website, and well let's say they weren't - so I decided for peace of mind to just have a blanket ban.

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I have taken pictures and videos of 5 different ladies and they are good wanking material and a reminder of the meetings.

 

In two instances, the pictures and heavily edited videos are now on their AW pages. This, to me, is quite a turn on!

 

I think you need to establish a trust with the lady as has already been mentioned, there is no control over what happens to pictures/videos.

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I have let a few gents take pictures but only with my camera and then I've sent the pics to them, I didn't charge extra perhaps I should? but to me it was a bit of fun for both of us.

 

Just ask the lady in question and you never know, some will and some wont.

 

It's not something I advertise but with the right approach and the right guy it can be beneficial to both lady and client.

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I have let a few gents take pictures but only with my camera and then I've sent the pics to them, I didn't charge extra perhaps I should? but to me it was a bit of fun for both of us.

 

Just ask the lady in question and you never know, some will and some wont.

 

It's not something I advertise but with the right approach and the right guy it can be beneficial to both lady and client.

I think using your own camera is definitely a good idea.

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I do this quite a bit, but only with regulars who enjoy being filmed for their own reasons (one lady who is now retired used to enjoy showing our pics/films to her boyfriend because it turned them both on for example!) and where trust has been built up. I've never paid extra to do so, many girls do advertise that they will allow pictures/filming for extra but I have no experience with that situation.

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It depends on the lady. I deny any requests for photos, no way do I trust a guy with my reputation and future, punter or private life. But then I have something to lose, maybe a girl who is not so secretive about her work would feel differently.

Please never take pictures without consent, that is pathetic and I believe illegal, yet many tried it back in my parlour days. I used to come in the room draped in a silky robe (freshly washed, no perfume on it) and then artfully fling it over the guy's pile of clothes - where any hidden camera would usually be. Quickest way to root out filmers, as they would flinch and then proceed to try and pull down the robe during the booking. I tried to have those chaps banned (a colleague actually smashed a camera, she was so enraged) but the owner didn't see the problem... The aforementioned friend is long retired but has had to pay an IT specialist to get him to remove pictures that keep cropping up on a regular basis.

On a side note - paying more doesn't give you more rights. If that is the type of girl you want, it's your choice, you are paying what she thinks she is worth for her time. When the time stops, all obligation to you stops, regardless of whether you pay 60 or 600 pounds an hour...

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Like anything else.Some ladies will allow it,some wont,The amount you're spending makes no difference to this so the easiets thing to do is actually ask.
Some ladies dont allow it as they don't want everyone and anyone knowing what they do so it doesnt matter what financial incentives you offer.I think you really need to understand that each lady only does/offers what she's comfortable doing so if you definately want filming/photos,rather than coerce someone into it or try to take sneaky pics youd be better off booking someone who allows this service.You can actually do a search on certain sites as its a like,or if you are calling an agency,just ask if any of the ladies allow it.
One more thing on this.You might want to loose the i'm paying lots so i should be allowed to do it attitude.You might find you ger far better results
On a lighter note i will say this.I hope you're a better photographer than me.Last pictures i took from a music event,when i uploaded them,the only thing that fb tagging found even remotely recognisable as a face was actually some weird painting behind the actual band.So maybe you need to work out if your skills are up to it :)
 

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Like anything else.Some ladies will allow it,some wont,The amount you're spending makes no difference to this so the easiets thing to do is actually ask.

Some ladies dont allow it as they don't want everyone and anyone knowing what they do so it doesnt matter what financial incentives you offer.I think you really need to understand that each lady only does/offers what she's comfortable doing so if you definately want filming/photos,rather than coerce someone into it or try to take sneaky pics youd be better off booking someone who allows this service.You can actually do a search on certain sites as its a like,or if you are calling an agency,just ask if any of the ladies allow it.

One more thing on this.You might want to loose the i'm paying lots so i should be allowed to do it attitude.You might find you ger far better results

On a lighter note i will say this.I hope you're a better photographer than me.Last pictures i took from a music event,when i uploaded them,the only thing that fb tagging found even remotely recognisable as a face was actually some weird painting behind the actual band.So maybe you need to work out if your skills are up to it :)

Well, I think you misunderstand. There is no attitude and I never said I should be allowed to do it. If it seems that way I have horribly misrepresented myself and I apologize. What I said was that if I do spend more per hour, I would prefer and have something tangible to remember the encounter by. I don't think I have any right whatsoever to it because I would spend more per hour. It's a preference only and something I would obviously seek permission for and respect the answer if it was no. But I appreciate the advice.

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I was wondering how this proposition would be received by any lady or what everyone else's opinion would be.  

I don't see the harm in asking, but only if a rapport had been established. It could be interpreted as creepy, for a first booking, if that service wasn't listed. If the SP doesn't display a face picture on their profile, that may be a problem too, as this would indicate that they prefer an element of discretion. I suspect that in all other cases, everybody else simply has their 'price'.

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I love taking pictures for use as a reminder of a memorable encounter and as a later stimulus when all alone with a stiffy in need of treatment. In this respect I suppose it is like looking at porn but with the advantage of knowing the girl and not having to fantasise about what may happen. I never asked to take pics on a first meeting and only when a trusting relationship with me was clearly established by the girl. I would never show them to anyone else without the girl's permission and they know that and trust me. Trust is essential and the photographer has to be honest and reliable. Sometimes it may be reassuring not to include faces. One of my old haunts has used some on their website.

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This Is not something I ever had any real desire to do, but with the advent of modern cameras/phones etc, I now have quite a record of my fun. Both photos & video. They are a great comfort on those long lonely nights !!!!! and the memories they invoke are erm nice !!!

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I never minded as long as it was with my camera and I chose which pics my boys took home. 

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I was wondering how this proposition would be received by any lady or what everyone else's opinion would be.  I ask because I feel like I get more value from an encounter If I'm left with something tangible to remember it by.  I live overseas and rarely punt, but when I do it's usually the expensive Maxe's Angels, Allure, Photogirls type of situations.  So, spending that amount I would like a little something more to remember the encounter by.  I was wondering if for ladies who don't typically offer taking pictures would be responsive to taking pictures in lingerie (nothing sexually explicit) or even fully clothed for an extra fee.

 

Because I know the filming and pictures primarily refer to the explicit parts of the meeting and it's understandable why a lady would hesitant to let someone take picture in that situation. But a the very least you would only have fully clothed pictures and I can't see that would be too objectionable if I'm willing to pay extra. So in other words if I end up seeing some model quality stunner at 400 pounds per hour and she doesn't normally offer taking picture, does it seem like a reasonable request to ask to take a few snapshots for an additional fee?  Thanks for any help.   

 

I have had pics taken but always insist on wearing a masquerade mask x

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I have allowed around 4 clients to take pics/films...all were highly/trusted guys I had been seeing for a long while and immediately afterwards the camera was hooked up to my p.c and the images transferred to my p.c and then erased from the camera. I then set up private pin numbers to albums in my private gallery..seemed like a win win..bit of spice to the booking, piccies for me and piccies for them.

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