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" I'd like to see you again ".........................

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if a punt has gone well for both parties and the lady would be pleased to see the client again, should she actually say so to the client.

alternatively, are there particular signals that the client should pick up on or is it just a case of its clear that unless theres been obvious problem that the lady wants to see you again, cos thats her business.

I query this because sometimes after a " successfull " punt a lady will say she would like to see me again but other times nothing will be specifically said . I often wonder why --- does this mean anything ? most guys would welcome a lady openly saying that she would like to see him again and he would think even more of her for saying so and that might make him more inclined to book the same lady again. its still just a business arrangement.

anybody any views on this ?

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I think you're reading too much into it all, buddy. If you feel good and relaxed throughout the whole meeting, and the lady you're with is pleasant and happy they why not see her again?

I know where you're coming from though and it's kind of reminiscent of the whole "first date" thing - "does she like me? Should I call her?" Thankfully here there isn't that pressure, go with the flow and if you've behaved well and are clean and hygenic and courteous, and she's not given off any negative vibes, and you'd like to see her again - of course call her. We think about things too much, live in the now and trust your instincts. :(

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if a punt has gone well for both parties and the lady would be pleased to see the client again, should she actually say so to the client.

alternatively, are there particular signals that the client should pick up on or is it just a case of its clear that unless theres been obvious problem that the lady wants to see you again, cos thats her business.

I query this because sometimes after a " successfull " punt a lady will say she would like to see me again but other times nothing will be specifically said . I often wonder why --- does this mean anything ? most guys would welcome a lady openly saying that she would like to see him again and he would think even more of her for saying so and that might make him more inclined to book the same lady again. its still just a business arrangement.

anybody any views on this ?

I agree with you on this one. I would respond positively if a girl was happy to see me again and said so. Girls often use the feedback system on ** for this purpose even when it was not entirely apparent at the meeting that this was the case!

Jack

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I think you're reading too much into it all, buddy. If you feel good and relaxed throughout the whole meeting, and the lady you're with is pleasant and happy they why not see her again?

I know where you're coming from though and it's kind of reminiscent of the whole "first date" thing - "does she like me? Should I call her?" Thankfully here there isn't that pressure, go with the flow and if you've behaved well and are clean and hygenic and courteous, and she's not given off any negative vibes, and you'd like to see her again - of course call her. We think about things too much, live in the now and trust your instincts. :(

thanks kenobi ---- I maybe clouded my query by personalizing it.

My query is a general one really. If WGs wants your business again, it seems natural to me that they would opnely say they would like to see you again.this would be appreciated by the punter too. some WGs do this but others deliberately do not and I just wondered why as I dont see any downside, only positives. maybe therefore,I am missing something and there is a reason why ?

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thanks kenobi ---- I maybe clouded my query by personalizing it.

My query is a general one really. If WGs wants your business again, it seems natural to me that they would opnely say they would like to see you again.this would be appreciated by the punter too. some WGs do this but others deliberately do not and I just wondered why as I dont see any downside, only positives. maybe therefore,I am missing something and there is a reason why ?

Certainly if a girl has good business sense she will say this, its a basic marketing ploy that im amazed more girls dont use.,However not everyone is good at that side of things when it comes to trying to generate repeat business.

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dont know if anyone remembers Annie from orientalgems i saw her back in november 2007 around midnight for an half an hour booking after it was done as i waiting at the bus stop near paddington underground the bus was taking some time , so i called her and went back to her place again for another half an hour booking . My mouth was between her legs alot and 69 when the time was up 2nd booking said goodbye etc she didnt say anything about seeing me again .

January 2008 she calls my phone numerous times saying she'd love to see me and suck my cock without the condom , she was the 5th wg i had ever seen at the time who only refuse doing owo i guess it was my fault for not asking over the phone but at that time i thought owo was the norm , when i was with her i told her i read her reviews about her giving other guys owo and she even said yeah she does . I asked her why couldnt she do it for me , said she had been smoking alot that day and her throat was hurting and she promised next time she saw me she would give me owo . When i called her that night as i waited at the bus to see her for the 2nd time i really expected to recieve owo and of course she said the same shit " my throat hurts blah blah "

I said to her when she called me in january i'd love to see her again and lick her pussy but i know your lying about owo . She texted me alot during january / feb to come and see her saying she promised to do owo and asking " baby please come and lick my pussy and promise me your gonna make me cum again cant wait ! " I called her and said to her i wanna come and see you but i havent got enough money i need to pay for my rent and bills ( this was a lie just to see what her reply would be ) Told me it didnt matter she wouldnt charge me alot and i could stay for normal time . I never did go back to see her but now i really fucking wish i had :(:(

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Thing is there are probably some punters out there who will misconstrue this and think to themselves "Ooh she wants to see me again so must like me" and either read it as an invitation to negotiate the rates next time or even interpret it as the escort being interested in spending such time with them on a personal level with no fee. As such maybe some escorts don't say this - or simply don't think so say it.

At the end of the day I imagine as long as a punter is clean, polite, couteous, no trouble and pays :( then it's more than likely the escort will be more than happy to entertain repeat business. Don't read too much into it if they don't say anything. :o

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Certainly if a girl has good business sense she will say this, its a basic marketing ploy that im amazed more girls dont use.,However not everyone is good at that side of things when it comes to trying to generate repeat business.

Attempting to apply sales techniques of other business models to prostitution just does not work. You may be well versed in tele sales where the dynamics of the buyer and seller relationship does not reach the personal level that a prostitute and client do. Telling a client you want to see them again can be misunderstood or totally misinterpreted.

I could count on one hand the clients I would not see again for varying reasons simply because selling my body is a business and its for sale if you have the money and fulfill the basic requirements for me your welcome back.

Because a prostitute does not indicate she would see you again should not be taken as anything negative.

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I agree with you on this one. I would respond positively if a girl was happy to see me again and said so. Girls often use the feedback system on ** for this purpose even when it was not entirely apparent at the meeting that this was the case!

Jack

I always send an email to my clients who I have enjoyed being with....I just think it's nice for them to know I enjoyed it too.

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Attempting to apply sales techniques of other business models to prostitution just does not work. You may be well versed in tele sales where the dynamics of the buyer and seller relationship does not reach the personal level that a prostitute and client do. Telling a client you want to see them again can be misunderstood or totally misinterpreted.

I could count on one hand the clients I would not see again for varying reasons simply because selling my body is a business and its for sale if you have the money and fulfill the basic requirements for me your welcome back.

Because a prostitute does not indicate she would see you again should not be taken as anything negative.

What Lou said, totally agree.

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if a punt has gone well for both parties and the lady would be pleased to see the client again, should she actually say so to the client.

alternatively, are there particular signals that the client should pick up on or is it just a case of its clear that unless theres been obvious problem that the lady wants to see you again, cos thats her business.

I query this because sometimes after a " successfull " punt a lady will say she would like to see me again but other times nothing will be specifically said . I often wonder why --- does this mean anything ? most guys would welcome a lady openly saying that she would like to see him again and he would think even more of her for saying so and that might make him more inclined to book the same lady again. its still just a business arrangement.

anybody any views on this ?

The important factor here is do YOU want to meet the lady again for future liaisons after a successful punt?

I have experienced situations , where some do say "Please come again" or absolutely nothing when the booking has ended, sometimes Agency ladies giving me their mobile numbers to arrange potential direct 1-1 bookings in the not too distant future.

If it bothers you where a lady hasn't said anything at end of a successful session/punt, save for the customary and pleasant goodbye, just mention yourself something like ; "Hey, that was great. Thoroughly enjoyed our rendezvous today, would love to link up again sometime?" and gauge her reaction.

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What Lou said, totally agree.

hello Pia,

My guess is that most experienced prostitutes get a reasonable handle on their clients after say,a 1 or 2 hour meet. if their gut is telling them that their client is a solid bloke who understands the nature of what he is doing and the nature of the relationship between a WG/ client, then I believe the chances of misinterpretation are minimal , if not zero.

if, at the end of a successfull punt with a solid bloke [ on her own experienced judgement ],a WG were to say to say to the client " that was nice, I'd be happy to see you again ,---- bye bye"-- unless you are dealing with a complete moron, that is not going to be interpreted in any way by the punter other than " look your the type of client I like "-- nothing more, nothing less. I think the client would appreciate this and would also think more of the lady for saying so.

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hello Pia,

My guess is that most experienced prostitutes get a reasonable handle on their clients after say,a 1 or 2 hour meet. if their gut is telling them that their client is a solid bloke who understands the nature of what he is doing and the nature of the relationship between a WG/ client, then I believe the chances of misinterpretation are minimal , if not zero.

if, at the end of a successfull punt with a solid bloke [ on her own experienced judgement ],a WG were to say to say to the client " that was nice, I'd be happy to see you again ,---- bye bye"-- unless you are dealing with a complete moron, that is not going to be interpreted in any way by the punter other than " look your the type of client I like "-- nothing more, nothing less. I think the client would appreciate this and would also think more of the lady for saying so.

There is a possibility you are a normal bloke who does understand but I am betting there is no "Normal" sticker on your head that can be seen so we just take the safe route because we like safe.

If your searching for "I would be happy to see you again" to satisfy your normality or understanding of said whore then you may need to evaluate what the encounter is based on.

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hello Pia,

My guess is that most experienced prostitutes get a reasonable handle on their clients after say,a 1 or 2 hour meet. if their gut is telling them that their client is a solid bloke who understands the nature of what he is doing and the nature of the relationship between a WG/ client, then I believe the chances of misinterpretation are minimal , if not zero.

if, at the end of a successfull punt with a solid bloke [ on her own experienced judgement ],a WG were to say to say to the client " that was nice, I'd be happy to see you again ,---- bye bye"-- unless you are dealing with a complete moron, that is not going to be interpreted in any way by the punter other than " look your the type of client I like "-- nothing more, nothing less. I think the client would appreciate this and would also think more of the lady for saying so.

Any solid bloke will know if it was an enjoyable session from my side as it will be pretty obvious. What you are asking for, is just confirmation of how wonderful you are, nothing else. If you are a solid bloke, you will also know that (unless you cheesed us off) that of course we will be happy to see you again, as you are our business.

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There is a possibility you are a normal bloke who does understand but I am betting there is no " normal "sticker on your head that can be seen so we just take the safe route because we like safe.

If your searching for "I would be happy to see you again" to satisfy your normality or understanding of said whore then you may need to evaluate what the encounter is based on.

hi lou,

I think if you met me for an hour, you, as an experienced WG, would see the " normal " sticker clearly marked on my forehead, given the context under discussion. I'm quite confident of that.

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"If your searching for "I would be happy to see you again" to satisfy your normality or understanding of said whore " ,

at the risk of incurring your wrath again,I would respectfully suggest that you are misreading me. I am not out there searching for validation when I punt.I am under no illusion whatsoever that the ladies I meet have no interest in me as such other than to get paid for the time they spend with me. but that does not mean that they cannot have a " nice time" when meeting me and given the intimacy of such meetings, I see nothing wrong or weak in acknowledging that I appreciate it when a WG indicates that she did enjoy my company and would be happy to repeat that encounter in the future. to me thats just being a normal bloke. :(

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I appreciate it when a WG indicates that she did enjoy my company and would be happy to repeat that encounter in the future. to me thats just being a normal bloke. :D

And then you get the stalking setting in because now the client thinks you are really into him :(:o Believe me, it is a fine line.

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And then you get the stalking setting in because now the client thinks you are really into him :(:o Believe me, it is a fine line.

I'm sorry to hear that Pia. I know a lot of punters , none of whom could be turned into stalkers by such acknowledgement. I would have thought that the vast majority of punters would be the same--- maybe I am wrong but it does surprise me.

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I'm sorry to hear that Pia. I know a lot of punters , none of whom could be turned into stalkers by such acknowledgement. I would have thought that the vast majority of punters would be the same--- maybe I am wrong but it does surprise me.

No need to be sorry.. I no longer give out such acknowledgements - the wedding proposals were wearing me down.

And I bet you, that I know a darn sight more punters than you do. :(

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No need to be sorry.. I no longer give out such acknowledgements - the wedding proposals were wearing me down.And I bet you, that I know a darn sight more punters than you do. :o

great --- I hope you turned them all down !! :(

as for the punters , no need to bet there. but it does sadden me that you ladies feel that amount of pressure from fellow punters. take care.

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I'm sorry to hear that Pia. I know a lot of punters , none of whom could be turned into stalkers by such acknowledgement. I would have thought that the vast majority of punters would be the same--- maybe I am wrong but it does surprise me.

Its very rare we really know anyone.

"he seemed normal" is the response of the neighbor when interviewed on the 10 oclock news :(

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this has happened to me a couple of times (aside from a woman actually wanting to go out with her), and even though she may have actually liked me, i just take it as her being a good businesswoman. if she wants to see me again, she can take me out for dinner.

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Its very rare we really know anyone.

"he seemed normal" is the response of the neighbor when interviewed on the 10 oclock news :(

yes lou but those tend to be extreme cases.

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great --- I hope you turned them all down !! :(

as for the punters , no need to bet there. but it does sadden me that you ladies feel that amount of pressure from fellow punters. take care.

No need to feel sad either.. What you have to consider is that some clients are very lonely, this is one reason why they visit us in the first place. If we give too much of 'you are great, please come back, I had a fantastic time' it can easily be perceived the wrong way and it is in a way leading the client on. Some clients take this as meaning more than it does, and it can in return cause complications for us.

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No need to feel sad either.. What you have to consider is that some clients are very lonely, this is one reason why they visit us in the first place. If we give too much of 'you are great, please come back, I had a fantastic time' it can easily be perceived the wrong way and it is in a way leading the client on. Some clients take this as meaning more than it does, and it can in return cause complications for us.

to be fair Pia I think you are taking the proverbial mile here--- I didnt use this sort of language at all.

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yes Lou but those tend to be extreme cases.

No mate, those are just highlighted cases.

In our job we meet all sorts and see all sorts. During intimate time we hear all sorts. Some act out fantasies, some act out frustration. Some are exciting and some are frustrating others can be very depressing. None I KNOW

Meeting my first extreme case may be my last so I ask you why would I leave it to chance.

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