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Should A Punter Ever Make A Compromise On Their Desired Services?

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The ‘Police Charge Polish Prostitute With Spreading Hiv’ thread, throws up an interesting supplementary question, related to those SPs who state that they only provide covered services, due to the health risk.

 

No doubt this has been discussed in some form before. This is primarily aimed at punters, although SPs are also free to comment.

 

Are there services that you, as a punter, consider to be an essential element of a punt? Services that are so important to you, that they are non-negotiable. Would you ever compromise?

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The ‘Police Charge Polish Prostitute With Spreading Hiv’ thread, throws up an interesting supplementary question, related to those SPs who state that they only provide covered services, due to the health risk.

 

No doubt this has been discussed in some form before. This is primarily aimed at punters, although SPs are also free to comment.

 

Are there services that you, as a punter, consider to be an essential element of a punt? Services that are so important to you, that they are non-negotiable. Would you ever compromise?

Yes FK preferably DFK and OWO are essential at all my 121 punts, i wont compromise on them nowadays. For me i recall the days when Kissing was usually off the menu so am making up for lost time as it were.

 

Obviously what other punters do is their business. I would rather have a wank than go for OW.

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An excellent question.

 

Personally, I love OWO but ultimately I always want pussy sex (protected obviously).  I'm non committal about A+, so pussy sex is simply the most important issue.  DFK is lovely too, but there is still one issue that is more important.

 

Most important of all for me is how much I fancy the girl.  The prettier she is, the more I will sacrifice on service to have my way with her.

 

Given a very, very pretty girl, I'll sacrifice a lot in service if necessary to fuck her.  Likewise I will also pay a lot of money to fuck the prettiest girls, if I have to. ;)

 

It's just the way I am.

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"Are there services that you, as a punter, consider to be an essential element of a punt? Services that are so important to you, that they are non-negotiable"
In a word,no.I'm not one to turn up with a checklist of things that must happen if i'm to enjoy myself.I tend to punt as a way to relax,a way to unwind when things are finally getting to me as odd as that may sound so now i've found its more about the person than the service list

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For me I'd like to know what is on offer and what is not so I can make a decision accordingly.

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Yes FK preferably DFK and OWO are essential at all my 121 punts, i wont compromise on them nowadays. ......... I would rather have a wank than go for OW.

 

Absolutely agree. OWO and DFK essential. And OW is pointless.

 

Most important of all for me is how much I fancy the girl.  The prettier she is, the more I will sacrifice on service to have my way with her.

 

Given a very, very pretty girl, I'll sacrifice a lot in service if necessary to fuck her.  Likewise I will also pay a lot of money to fuck the prettiest girls, if I have to. ;)

 

It's just the way I am.

 

I see your point Thurson, but for me attitude and enthusiasm are more important. Also I would not pay a lot extra just for a pretty face - plenty of very pretty girls at sensible rates.

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all i go for now is french kissing (if they do it) oral with condom and sex with condom and yer get a massage if yer lucky

been put off other stuff since reading posts on punternet about safety first and such

and if you get someone with a smile and some enthusiasm then its all good

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In terms of actual services, the absolute must-haves for me are OWO, FK and penetration (protected obviously). I enjoy other things (eg. RO, CIM), of course and they are attractive to me when deciding who to book, but they aren't essential like the 3 things I mentioned previously. 

 

There are other things outwith services that are very important to me - eg. recommendations/good reviews, a friendly, welcoming and enthusiastic attitude/personality, plus the availability of incalls to a private residence. I was willing to make an exception on the incalls thing when I was organising an overnight booking with a lady who works from hotels. I doubt I would have visited her if it was just going to be for a short, 1 off booking. 

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If you are compromising unwillingly - please book someone who does what you actually want. If you really don't mind, great. I work in an area where OW is the absolute exception and where CIM is increasingly the norm, as is BB with 'favoured' guests to have an edge over the competition. We also have had a staggering increase in STD, make of that what you will.

I realise that OW is both psychologically and physically difficult for certain men, especially those with a tendency to go soft at the slightest 'issue'. However, the things I do offer, I offer enthusiastically, creatively and with a focus on mutual enjoyment.

I don't rely on escorting for my livelihood any more, as my hard work in younger years and a few very generous regular clients have paid for my degree, my cars and my home. So I guess I'm also in a position not to compromise on what I offer and whom I see. This makes me very interesting for a certain type of man and the worst nightmare of another kind, namely those who think they have the last word on what a woman is worth and what she should offer - really they should not earn more than a nurse, it's just a job like any other.

Make your own decisions based on facts rather than 'what your mate sez' and act upon them. Just don't try and make the girl compromise because you decide you can't do so after all... not everyone is in my fortunate position, a lot of ex-colleagues are now doing stuff they said they never would five years ago because of competition, not because they suddenly enjoy them.

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An excellent question.

 

Personally, I love OWO but ultimately I always want pussy sex (protected obviously).  I'm non committal about A+, so pussy sex is simply the most important issue.  DFK is lovely too, but there is still one issue that is more important.

 

Most important of all for me is how much I fancy the girl.  The prettier she is, the more I will sacrifice on service to have my way with her.

 

Given a very, very pretty girl, I'll sacrifice a lot in service if necessary to fuck her.  Likewise I will also pay a lot of money to fuck the prettiest girls, if I have to. ;)

 

It's just the way I am.

 

Yep, tends to be how I feel too. ;)

 

Generally speaking, owo and French kissing are essentials for me. I have compromised, where the rate has been agreeable and/or it's a girl I really fancy. The compromise being on OW in a walkup or light French kissing at other times.

 

If it's anywhere other than a Soho walkup for OW, I'd rather have a wank and save my money!

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While not services exactly, being a non-smoker, having natural breasts and having a good grasp of English are all things I would consider essential for a good punt. I've compromised on all of them at one time or another this year, and if I'm perfectly honest, I wish I hadn't. Usually it's been because I don't find out until I'm there, or I've just not paid enough attention to the profile if I've booked in haste, because if their profile says they're a smoker, or they obviously have fake boobs, or their grasp of English is rotten, then I won't even book them in the first place.

 

In terms of actual services, DFK and OWO are the two I look for when browsing sites, with DFK becoming increasingly important. I've had great punts in the past where only covered oral was offered but everything else was good, whereas without DFK, I sometimes feel like I might as well have stayed home and just had a wank. Still, if an otherwise-hot girl is making it obvious that DFK is not on the menu after all, I'm unlikely to walk out and demand a refund. More fool me, perhaps...

 

To be honest, the only service I definitely won't compromise on is probably penetrative sex. That's probably a bit of a gimme, though.

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FK (not necessarily DFK) is pretty important for me. I skip WGs who do not kiss. The last WG was an extremely good kisser (may be the best kisser from the WGs that offer it and seem to like it). I will very likely book a WG who wrote in the free text in her profile that she likes kissing and/or has reviews in which punters experience kissing that way.

 

Giving RO, facesitting and giving rimming to the WG are preferably but not required (but this list is in order of most preferable to less preferable). I like to use my tongue, generally.

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"Are there services that you, as a punter, consider to be an essential element of a punt? Services that are so important to you, that they are non-negotiable"

In a word,no.I'm not one to turn up with a checklist of things that must happen if i'm to enjoy myself.I tend to punt as a way to relax,a way to unwind when things are finally getting to me as odd as that may sound so now i've found its more about the person than the service list

Love your approach - sane, sexy, chilled. Yay!

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"Are there services that you, as a punter, consider to be an essential element of a punt? Services that are so important to you, that they are non-negotiable"In a word,no.I'm not one to turn up with a checklist of things that must happen if i'm to enjoy myself.I tend to punt as a way to relax,a way to unwind when things are finally getting to me as odd as that may sound so now i've found its more about the person than the service list

That's an interesting approach.

Ultimately, it's a punters money and his choice how he chooses to spend his time. I imagine such an approach would work very well with an SP, who's genuinely interested in providing a good service, as well as the financial benefits. In an ideal punting world, I'd wish they were all like that! However, that approach would also lay itself open to SPs that prefer to exploit a punter's time and do as little as possible, whilst squeezing the max out if you!

I'll bet most SPs wished every punter was like you!

As I say, to each their own and interesting to know!

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That's an interesting approach.

Ultimately, it's a punters money and his choice how he chooses to spend his time. I imagine such an approach would work very well with an SP, who's genuinely interested in providing a good service, as well as the financial benefits. In an ideal punting world, I'd wish they were all like that! However, that approach would also lay itself open to SPs that prefer to exploit a punter's time and do as little as possible, whilst squeezing the max out if you!

I'll bet most SPs wished every punter was like you!

As I say, to each their own and interesting to know!

 

In my experience an awful lot of punters are like Mark.

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"Are there services that you, as a punter, consider to be an essential element of a punt? Services that are so important to you, that they are non-negotiable"

In a word,no.I'm not one to turn up with a checklist of things that must happen if i'm to enjoy myself.I tend to punt as a way to relax,a way to unwind when things are finally getting to me as odd as that may sound so now i've found its more about the person than the service list

 

Here, here. I don't know markdee's situation but this attitude might be more prevalent in unpartnered punters?

 

I tend to go with the flow and if I don't enjoy it I don't return but I am absolutely not one to push for services not freely given other than perhaps to say 'kissing ok?' or 'ok to swap ends?'.

 

I don't think that we will learn/change in our own habits by knowing if someone insists on one practice or another.

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While not services exactly, being a non-smoker, having natural breasts and having a good grasp of English are all things I would consider essential for a good punt. I've compromised on all of them at one time or another this year, and if I'm perfectly honest, I wish I hadn't. Usually it's been because I don't find out until I'm there, or I've just not paid enough attention to the profile if I've booked in haste, because if their profile says they're a smoker, or they obviously have fake boobs, or their grasp of English is rotten, then I won't even book them in the first place.

All of the above, as well as needing to see someone who's fine with my mental health issues. Oh, and actually bi/lez would be good, as I'm a lady punter and all.

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Here, here. I don't know markdee's situation but this attitude might be more prevalent in unpartnered punters?

 

I tend to go with the flow and if I don't enjoy it I don't return but I am absolutely not one to push for services not freely given other than perhaps to say 'kissing ok?' or 'ok to swap ends?'.

 

I don't think that we will learn/change in our own habits by knowing if someone insists on one practice or another.

I am single,but with me its more to do with having a more relaxed attitude in general.To me,if you turn up with your little checklist in your mind you are constantly going to be running over whats next?what havent i done yet,shit times running short better get onto X etc.Whats relaxing about that?

With that in mind it does become more about the person,someone you are comfortable with,can chat with and generally enjoy the time in a nice relaxed manner

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Love your approach - sane, sexy, chilled. Yay!

To kind of quote Meatloaf,One out of three aint bad :)

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Yes FK preferably DFK and OWO are essential at all my 121 punts, i wont compromise on them nowadays. For me i recall the days when Kissing was usually off the menu so am making up for lost time as it were.

 

Obviously what other punters do is their business. I would rather have a wank than go for OW.

 

 

In terms of actual services, the absolute must-haves for me are OWO, FK and penetration (protected obviously). I enjoy other things (eg. RO, CIM), of course and they are attractive to me when deciding who to book, but they aren't essential like the 3 things I mentioned previously. 

 

There are other things outwith services that are very important to me - eg. recommendations/good reviews, a friendly, welcoming and enthusiastic attitude/personality, plus the availability of incalls to a private residence. I was willing to make an exception on the incalls thing when I was organising an overnight booking with a lady who works from hotels. I doubt I would have visited her if it was just going to be for a short, 1 off booking. 

 

 

While not services exactly, being a non-smoker, having natural breasts and having a good grasp of English are all things I would consider essential for a good punt. I've compromised on all of them at one time or another this year, and if I'm perfectly honest, I wish I hadn't. Usually it's been because I don't find out until I'm there, or I've just not paid enough attention to the profile if I've booked in haste, because if their profile says they're a smoker, or they obviously have fake boobs, or their grasp of English is rotten, then I won't even book them in the first place.

 

In terms of actual services, DFK and OWO are the two I look for when browsing sites, with DFK becoming increasingly important. I've had great punts in the past where only covered oral was offered but everything else was good, whereas without DFK, I sometimes feel like I might as well have stayed home and just had a wank. Still, if an otherwise-hot girl is making it obvious that DFK is not on the menu after all, I'm unlikely to walk out and demand a refund. More fool me, perhaps...

 

To be honest, the only service I definitely won't compromise on is probably penetrative sex. That's probably a bit of a gimme, though.

The bold bits sum up my desires. But I would also like to see some sense of enthusiasm on a lady's face and in her attitude.

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i will not be comprimsing now adays either for me OWO, RO FK are essential so ladies take note!

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i will not be comprimsing now adays either for me OWO, RO FK are essential so ladies take note!

I'm sure they are.Have a feeling we might see a sudden rush of these things being removed from profiles :)

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OWO, having my toes sucked and FK are absolutely essential to me!  I would never compromise on these.  OW is an absolute joke!

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OWO, having my toes sucked and FK are absolutely essential to me! I would never compromise on these. OW is an absolute joke!

The joke may end up being on you with a rise of awareness that unprotected oral sex is not as harmless as you may be telling yourself. My clients have plenty of other choices, cheaper ones too, yet they seem to have no problem with my OW. I appreciate there is a different level of sensitivity but I think it's a psychological issue more than anything.

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The joke may end up being on you with a rise of awareness that unprotected oral sex is not as harmless as you may be telling yourself. My clients have plenty of other choices, cheaper ones too, yet they seem to have no problem with my OW. I appreciate there is a different level of sensitivity but I think it's a psychological issue more than anything.

This thread is aimed at what services a PUNTER feels are essential.Not at what an SP considers to be essential! You have a vested interest and in case you hadn't noticed, owo is a pretty standard these days. So perhaps the joke will be on you, down the line, market forces wise? Your opinion on the merits or otherwise can be immediately discounted as yet another patronising lecture because you would say that, wouldn't you?! I've had both and let me tell you, there's no comparison in sensation whatsoever. Many of us punt on a risk to reward basis and can do without lectures or stupid scare stories from SPs such as you. We're grown men, so leave it to us what we like eh? Oral with? I'd rather have a wank!

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