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Im Starting To Think Massages Are Better Than Sex.

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Relative newbie to punting but everytime I see a girl I find it hard to cum or when a I do come it feels like I am trying to force it. I think the biggest reason is because I dont get on with condoms so full sex is always hit and miss.

However, recently had a body2body massage and it felt great. I felt relaxed the whole time and the end HR felt better than most BJ or penetrative sex.

Going to start alternating my punts will massages and FS but so far I get more enjoyment from massages.

Anyone else prefer massages to FS?

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I've been 'punting' for some 33 years. Nearly always had a partner for that time, just like paying for it too   :huh:

 

Realised a few years ago that I far prefer sensual massage to FS, you can just lie back and enjoy it....

 

Of course you can with a regular punt...but then you're paying for three courses and only eating two. Also a girl who specialises in HR is probably more adept at it than a regular WG. Sometimes when they're just concentrating on your orgasm/pleasure they can really gauge how far along you are, slow it down, tease a little, then bring you off just in time for a shower and out within the hour lol.

 

And don't get me started on four hand massage, I think my most intense sexual experience was with two Chinese girls who took it in turns to stimulate my ass and cock, over under and sideways (as The Yardbirds once sang) and kept me close to the edge (I hate Yes) for most of my session.

 

Highly recommended

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Go for somebody who specialises in body to body massages, with hand relief and offers oral without, but not full sexual services. Knowing that full sex isn't on offer right from the start, will mean that you probably feel less pressure to 'perform' and can relax. 

 

Avoid regular working girls, who state they offer massage but also provide full sexual services. In my years of punting, I've only met one girl who knew how to massage correctly and she was Polish. The British girls who offer full sex and state they provide massage too are bloody hopeless! The best that you'll get from most of them is a back rub with Johnson's Baby Oil! :D  I've always found that the Thai girls are best. 

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Like the OP, I do enjoy a good massage followed with HR.  Sometimes it is nice to be lazy and feel pampered especially in this hot weather.

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Anyone had a lingham massage? How does it compare to a body2body? Which is better?

Also can anyone recommend and massage places or ladies.

Thanks

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Like the OP, I do enjoy a good massage followed with HR.  Sometimes it is nice to be lazy and feel pampered especially in this hot weather.

 

Agreed. This is the time of year when I am far more inclined to go for a massage and just savour the experience with a skilled masseuse rather than get all hot and sweaty. In the right hands it can be a deeply erotic and exciting experience. In the wrong hands....you just get a massage.

 

But I am starting to cry out for a cooler evening to enjoy the experience of meeting my favourite escort again so I guess I fit into the massage is great for a change of pace camp.

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Go for somebody who specialises in body to body massages, with hand relief and offers oral without, but not full sexual services. Knowing that full sex isn't on offer right from the start, will mean that you probably feel less pressure to 'perform' and can relax. 

 

Avoid regular working girls, who state they offer massage but also provide full sexual services. In my years of punting, I've only met one girl who knew how to massage correctly and she was Polish. The British girls who offer full sex and state they provide massage too are bloody hopeless! The best that you'll get from most of them is a back rub with Johnson's Baby Oil! :D  I've always found that the Thai girls are best. 

Indeed, most FS WGs of any nationality i have punted with who offered a massage used it as a timewasting tactic, when i have let some massage me in the past they didnt have a clue what they were doing. Never again. Of zero interest to me but good advice to the OP in your first paragraph in my view.

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Go for somebody who specialises in body to body massages, with hand relief and offers oral without, but not full sexual services. Knowing that full sex isn't on offer right from the start, will mean that you probably feel less pressure to 'perform' and can relax. 

 

Avoid regular working girls, who state they offer massage but also provide full sexual services. In my years of punting, I've only met one girl who knew how to massage correctly and she was Polish. The British girls who offer full sex and state they provide massage too are bloody hopeless! The best that you'll get from most of them is a back rub with Johnson's Baby Oil! :D I've always found that the Thai girls are best. 

 

Hi

i've been a pattaya regular for the last 9 years and for me the massages

have gradually become the best thing, those girls over there can become very expert

in sexual massage. A good massage and an often long delayed being had for approx £10-12, Bj + massage approx £15.

also great places to meet attractive girls who will readily come to your room at a later date for the full monty.

 

I recall an oily body to body massage at Aviva in Bangkok that was nothing less than majestic (sigh)

Cheers

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Relative newbie to punting but everytime I see a girl I find it hard to cum or when a I do come it feels like I am trying to force it. I think the biggest reason is because I dont get on with condoms so full sex is always hit and miss.

However, recently had a body2body massage and it felt great. I felt relaxed the whole time and the end HR felt better than most BJ or penetrative sex.

Going to start alternating my punts will massages and FS but so far I get more enjoyment from massages.

Anyone else prefer massages to FS?

 

 

In terms of not always wanting penetrative sex, youre not alone

 

I've been punting for 15 years and am often happy to simply lie back lazily and let the lovely lady work her magic

 

However I always go for FS providers because its good to know that sex is always on the menu if one is, or becomes, so inclined

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Hi

i've been a pattaya regular for the last 9 years and for me the massages

have gradually become the best thing, those girls over there can become very expert

in sexual massage. A good massage and an often long delayed being had for approx £10-12, Bj + massage approx £15.

also great places to meet attractive girls who will readily come to your room at a later date for the full monty.

 

I recall an oily body to body massage at Aviva in Bangkok that was nothing less than majestic (sigh)

Cheers

Indeed, I was largely thinking of Pattaya! Oh, fond memories! I've always found Thai women to be attitude free and feel duty bound to provide a great service. Over here, as smiths has also noticed, wgs tend to be clueless massage wise, and use it as a trick to run down the clock, intermixed, of course, with pointless, boring chatter when all one wants to do is get your end away!

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Hi

i've been a pattaya regular for the last 9 years and for me the massages

have gradually become the best thing, those girls over there can become very expert

in sexual massage. A good massage and an often long delayed being had for approx £10-12, Bj + massage approx £15.

also great places to meet attractive girls who will readily come to your room at a later date for the full monty.

 

I recall an oily body to body massage at Aviva in Bangkok that was nothing less than majestic (sigh)

Cheers

 

not just pattaya.

in most of asia, start off by finding a good masseuse, then see if she wants to come to your place. 

I got a excellent long term regulars that way.

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Indeed, most FS WGs of any nationality i have punted with who offered a massage used it as a timewasting tactic, when i have let some massage me in the past they didnt have a clue what they were doing. Never again. Of zero interest to me but good advice to the OP in your first paragraph in my view.

 

 

Over here, as smiths has also noticed, wgs tend to be clueless massage wise, and use it as a trick to run down the clock, intermixed, of course, with pointless, boring chatter when all one wants to do is get your end away!

 

Not in my experience. Anyway, I don't expect the WG massage to be a professionally delivered service. Its merely a form of physical interaction between rounds. And the chat while she does the massage is always welcome cos I like to talk with her. And when I've recovered, I turn around and the chat comes of an end and Round 2 begins.  ;)  I've never experienced a WG massage between rounds as an attempt to run down the clock

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I have always liked a back massage as part of my punts. But have had mixed experiences on how good the wg is at giving a massage.

I resently tried a tantric massage which left me completly relaxed and satisfied, after spending a hour with a nice young lady rubbing her body all over mine before finishing with a hand job.

I am looking forward to try a soapy or nuru massage next time.

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I'm definitely not going for full punts any more, I want to go back to massage with relief, Thai or otherwise, but here in Southampton there seems to be loads of parlours springing up but no mentions anywhere on services etc. Guess I will have to dive in and hope! :P

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totally agree. there is lu in leicester at tip thai and she is amazing at both massage and HR addicted now

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i take ages to find a place i like but when i find one, i stick to it.  my fave for a year is thaiflower in chelsea cloisters, sometimes both girls are there and i go for 4 hand massage.  its massage + HR if you want it and nothing else so far as i know, which is fine.  its small but clean and warm with a shower and a proper massage table.  love it.

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I am on the same page!

A quality massage delivered by someone with professional training and experience, blending professional skill with sensual massage topped off with an expertly delivered hand-job is so much more satisfying than time spent with a girl who "decides" she is a topflight escort, convinces herself of her allure and develops an overinflated opinion of herself (because men pay to have sex, she MUST be good at it). And then she comes on here and men start massaging her ego some more... FUCK ME SIDEWAYS! No... Full Body Sensual Massage everytime- hands down winner.

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I actually told a punter I don't do massages yet. I will be looking into a course because if you are going to do something, do it right. I'd rather not have the client then give him a sub par experience. That not what I got into this job for.

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I am on the same page!

A quality massage delivered by someone with professional training and experience, blending professional skill with sensual massage topped off with an expertly delivered hand-job is so much more satisfying than time spent with a girl who "decides" she is a topflight escort, convinces herself of her allure and develops an overinflated opinion of herself (because men pay to have sex, she MUST be good at it). And then she comes on here and men start massaging her ego some more... FUCK ME SIDEWAYS! No... Full Body Sensual Massage everytime- hands down winner.

 

Why is you want fucking sideways?  Knees one their way out sweetie?

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I'm a big fan of massage with HR. Francesca in Bayswater know what she is doing. Bloody marvellous.

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I'm a big fan of massage with HR. Francesca in Bayswater know what she is doing. Bloody marvellous.

27 yrs in the paid sex (and I'm counting sensual massage and hand jobs in 'paid sex') game and I can honestly say that an eighty quid hour with Francesca a fortnight ago was the best sexual experience I have ever had - paid or otherwise, in fact. Probably the best value too (and I include my unpaid sexual experiences in that). Me and My Fleshlight have been living off the memories ever since. She is fuckin' awesome!

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27 yrs in the paid sex (and I'm counting sensual massage and hand jobs in 'paid sex') game and I can honestly say that an eighty quid hour with Francesca a fortnight ago was the best sexual experience I have ever had - paid or otherwise, in fact. Probably the best value too (and I include my unpaid sexual experiences in that). Me and My Fleshlight have been living off the memories ever since. She is fuckin' awesome!

Would either of you mind pm'ing me a link? Can't seem to find her in any field reports. Cheers :)

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yes gotta agree - for the most part a sensual massage with HR or OWO is sweet. I often find paid full sex very disappointing

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