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Punting - It's All In The Head

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A tale of two punts:

 

Last Friday I booked, via the purple site, my first duo for years.  It was with some well known Eastern Europeans in west London who had good reviews (one especially, Kylie, with feedback at the 135 mark) and offer serious VFM.  I hadn't seen either before and was expecting a pretty good session, but nothing spectacular, especially when it emerged that one of the two was literally 30 minutes off the plane on her first trip over for some time.  So it was with a little trepidation that I knocked at that particular basement door.

 

The session was bloody brilliant however.  I wrote a purple field report for both girls and if you do a bit of detective work you'll be able to figure it out.  no PMs please - I'm about to go on holiday with the other half and don't want to be answering mails from you lot!

 

So far so good.  I got home and immediately booked again, hoping to have the same sort of hour in the last couple of days before my holiday.  After a couple of false starts (long story) I eventually ended up off the A4 this evening, knocking on the same door.  This time I went for Kylie again and her choice of partner from my shortlist.  The new duo partner is fit as hell, great body, good experience, solid feedback.  I thought I was in for a treat.

 

But... it wasn't anything like as good.  I had keyed myself up into such a state that I couldn't relax.  I was nervous, I couldn't stop talking, I couldn't stay hard even during some very good oral, and of course this rubbed off on the girls.  They started going through the motions and weren't really into it.  The hour was OK but nothing more, and about a million miles from basically the same meeting three days earlier.  

 

Don't get me wrong, I'm definitely going back as I'm already quite fond of Kylie (and her oral is spectacular), but the question for you chaps is whether it's ever possible to re-live an awesome punt, or are expectations always going to get in the way of a rematch?

 

S

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I know what you mean, trying to recapture that spontaneous magical intensity but the thrilling anticipation means that you've worked yourself up into such a state of over-excitement that the second punt falls flat.  Sometimes it's best to accept that first punts like yours was are just an occasional one-off.

 

But the same magic might return somewhere else, with someone different.  

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Funnily enough, I just referred to your review of Sinthia and Kylie earlier today, on an RFI thread about Hungarians.

 

Two elements here, firstly I have certainly felt a degree of nerves seeing someone for a second or third time when the first punts have been great.  There is always that underlying risk that things may not live up to your first experiences and this creates a pressure to perform that didn't exist on the first punt, when you could walk away after a poor punt and forget it.

 

Secondly, I've had mediocre punts from girls who've blown me away previously, who have also gone on to blow me away subsequently.  It will obviously be down to which experience you choose to rely on to make your choice on seeing another duo from the same group, but I wouldn't necessarily assume that the second punt is the leading indicator of how a future punt with the same girls would go.

 

Having said that, most of the time that I felt I underperformed in a punt, I haven't returned.  Why bother taking the risk when there are so many other options available?  For you, it's going to depend just how much you want to re-create the original magic.

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I just saw your review of my review.  Glad to see the Internet/punting network works so well!

 

Your experience of one of the girls in question being workmanlike was exactly what I was expecting of both of them before punt 1, so I guess the planets aligned for me on Friday - lucky me!  It was probably unrealistic of me to expect punt 2 to be as good, particularly when the first was so fresh in my mind.  A lesson learned for sure.

 

As for whether I go back, I do like Kylie.  She's honest, uninhibited and clearly up for it at times.  I enjoyed her company so I'll see her again.  Just not immediately, and not as half of a duo.

 

S

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This has happened in my experience too.  Last year I met an amazing Australian for 2 hours.  We clicked in all ways, had an amazing high-voltage punt that was unforgettable. :)

 

Booked again, even better!  OMG I thought I'd see her as regularly as I could afford to as long as she worked.

 

Booked again - oh dear.  Maybe my expectations were too high?  Maybe we were both just not in the right frame of mind (which I think was the case, but annoying as she's PAID to be in the right frame of mind and to do her best to get me in the mood!)?  We just didn't connect this third time.  Remembering the previous 2 punts I booked a 4th time and it was an improvement but not as good as the first 2 so didn't bother going back.

 

I have a booking with my (pretty much) all time favourite this weekend who only works intermittently.  I'm looking forward to it immensely, but I refuse to let my expectations get too high!  It's no good putting myself under pressure! :(

 

In my experience it's incredibly rare to find that awesome regular who you just connect with every time and never fail to enjoy completely.  I've punted about 40 different escorts (quite a few more than once) and I've only ever found 1 that made me feel that way, and she stopped working :(

 

Maybe I'm just too fussy?

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Maybe a response from a SP would be worthwhile here. Do ladies sometimes feel that when guy is up to 3 or 4 punts with you things have gone far enough and maybe give a little less to discourage further visits?

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Can't speak for others but I didn't.  I liked long term clients because we would often get comfortable enough with each other to start pushing boundaries and experimenting, you can't do that with new clients.  I do have friends however that do discourage repeat bookings and prefer to see new guys all the time but think that's because they don't want them getting over familiar.

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Maybe a response from a SP would be worthwhile here. Do ladies sometimes feel that when guy is up to 3 or 4 punts with you things have gone far enough and maybe give a little less to discourage further visits?

 

Absolutely not.  Even if the guy is up to 30 or 40 punts I would still not think about calling it a day with them.  They wouldn't come back to me if I "gave a little less" and rightly so. 

 

This reminds me of a civvy session some years back.  I met a guy and we hit it off straight away. Bed time came and he was the best lover I had experienced!  The bees knees.  Fast forward to our second bedroom meeting and he cut out all the things which had impressed me the first time.

 

Third date?  Nope  :)

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its happened to me over the years with regulars that have gone away then come back (usually after the default 12 months away)...

 

it's never quite the same... you miss them and their special qualities when they are gone and you have a rose tinted hard on for them... they come back 12 months older a little less enthusiastic or whatever and its never as good as you remember...

 

i dont think the 2nd punt thing is entirely their fault... its always worth a 3rd punt to see what happens

 

as for girfriends... they're all over you at first... very keen and eagre to please... then when they think you're safely in the bag they introduce caveats and embargos...

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its happened to me over the years with regulars that have gone away then come back (usually after the default 12 months away)...

 

it's never quite the same... you miss them and their special qualities when they are gone and you have a rose tinted hard on for them... they come back 12 months older a little less enthusiastic or whatever and its never as good as you remember...

 

i dont think the 2nd punt thing is entirely their fault... its always worth a 3rd punt to see what happens

 

as for girfriends... they're all over you at first... very keen and eagre to please... then when they think you're safely in the bag they introduce caveats and embargos...

 

 

Totally agree with this last comment, gets even worse when they finally get you in wedlock! :angry:

 

Have had it's not always the case with your first paragraph though.  MY very best of all time stopped for a while, and then came back for a brief stint (and I could only meet up with her once more) about 18 months later and she was EVERY BIT as amazing as I remembered!  :)   Then she stopped working for good! :(

 

Just shows all escorts are different, and all punters are different...

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  I liked long term clients because we would often get comfortable enough with each other to start pushing boundaries and experimenting,

Yes, thats what I like about my regular escort, she knows my comfort level and gently increases it each time, so now when I think how fluffy a booking I used to make, im quite suprised,

And the escort has told me that she also pushes some bounderies for herself with me, such is the relationship, she says that she does not feel comfertable doing what she does with me with others, as trust is needed.

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Yes, thats what I like about my regular escort, she knows my comfort level and gently increases it each time, so now when I think how fluffy a booking I used to make, im quite suprised,

And the escort has told me that she also pushes some bounderies for herself with me, such is the relationship, she says that she does not feel comfertable doing what she does with me with others, as trust is needed.

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LOL... yeah the marriage thing... i knew it... i recon thats why most of em are so keen to get married: so they can stop having sex!

 

"Just shows all escorts are different, and all punters are different..."

 

very true... we're are all just human traffic... thats what is so fascinating and unique about the whole experience... the interaction... intimate relations with a stranger...

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