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Big Problem. Escort Got A Taxi To Come See Me But Then Left

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After she phoned me and I was having difficulty speaking. I have autism and explained that to her but she sent a text saying "look I'm nervous and you can't even speak to me on the phone. better leave it" and sent no further texts.

 

I've never had any problem with escorts once I actually meet up with them it's just booking that's the problem. I've had an escort in the past hang up on me and then send me a horrible text message but she apologised once I explained then we met up after all. Now I'm worried the escort I was to see tonight will think I'm a timewaster but I'm not.

 

She has an aw profile. Do you think it would help if I bought credits and transferred them to her account to cover her cost of the taxi?

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Now I'm sitting here dressed up and have an envelope with the cash in it sitting on the table almost feeling like crying.

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Now I'm sitting here dressed up and have an envelope with the cash in it sitting on the table almost feeling like crying.

Order a takeaway and cheer up - it's her loss.

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Awwe love I feel for you.  I've had guys in the past with similar problems refer me to trusted girls that they have seen so that I knew they were genuine, can you do that and explain via email?  Failing that try booking your girls through http://www.tlcescorts.co.uk/special that way you'll know they are understanding.  Hope your having fun right now.

 

Hugs Holly x

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I don't think she understands I have autism and speech difficulties I think she times I'm just wasting her time.

 

My worry is she might now tell others I'm a timewaster.

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Send her a text explaining possibly?

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I've already explained and I don't want to overload her with texts and then come across as creepy or a stalker.

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Sorry to hear about this, and I can understand your disappointment.

I doubt she'll tell others you're a timewaster, and if she can't understand your situation after you've explained it, then she probably wasn't the best wg to have seen anyway.

Try the link Holly posted, or maybe explain to anyone you wish to see in future first by email that you may have difficulty on the phone?

I'm sure you'll find more wg's who are understanding of your situation than not.

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I used to have a really bad stutter sometimes to the point i got so angry and frustrated with myself i just wouldn't want to talk at all.  When I first started this hobby I always sent emails first explaining my problem.  I would then call and sound like a  gibbering idiot but they would (those that were understanding) be really patient with me.

 

I have since got my stutter under control (mostly) but it's still hard.  I know the two are very different but i think just let any wgs know in advance and be honest about how hard it is.  Those worth seeing would be very understanding.

 

One girl i first saw many years ago actually really liked it and thought it was adorable.  I say her a lot in the beginning as she was really easy to relax around.  Sadly she moved abroad. :(

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Don't Email.

Don't Text

Definitely don't pay her anything. For what?

 

Just forget about the whole thing and don't contact her again.

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Don't Email.

Don't Text

Definitely don't pay her anything. For what?

 

Just forget about the whole thing and don't contact her again.

 

This ^

 

It's her loss, there's nothing you should be apologising for. 

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@YourSlave: Sounds familiar... 

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I've already explained and I don't want to overload her with texts and then come across as creepy or a stalker.

I wasnt suggesting you bombard her. I was suggesting one text lol. Listen, its up to you, there is nothing we can do to sort out the situation. Perhaps in future email the ladys you want to book with first explaining the situation, that you can speak on the phone but that you have difficulties. Book girls only who come back with positive answers. 

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Don't Email.

Don't Text

Definitely don't pay her anything. For what?

 

Just forget about the whole thing and don't contact her again.

Agree x

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Move on buddy plenty of other options out there, as others have said its her loss

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Definitely don't lose sleep over it, but for next time just be sure to explain everything up front.  Example:  I have a Guide Dog and I have once been turned away all because I stupidly didn't mention it during booking so it came as a bit of a surprise, turning up at someone's door (working flat or otherwise) with an unexpected dog could be construed as a bit rude, no-one likes surprises, so I always mention it upfront, I also throw in a line a about "thought I'd mention it just in case you have an allergy to dogs", which provides a "get out of jail free" card without anyone losing too much face!

 

ALN

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Sorry to hear that mate. Very disappointing when you're all geared up for a punt and it falls through. Happens to all of us at some time.

 

Put it down to experience and book someone else. Maybe mention in your initial email contact that you have a problem speaking on the phone.

 

Best of luck with the next punt .

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Order a takeaway and cheer up - it's her loss.

I couldn't put it better myself. Good advice. 

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Now I'm sitting here dressed up and have an envelope with the cash in it sitting on the table almost feeling like crying.

I'm sorry to learn about that too. There are plenty of other fish in the sea. Save your money for that take away or a better SP, for your next punt.  ;)

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Hey, don't worry man. At least you still have that cash, so you can think of more better ways to spend it all. Maybe treat yourself to another nice chick or do something fun with the money. You got off lucky with that poor excuse of a bird. :)

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Thanks for replies.

 

I asked a lovely escort I've seen in the past to vouch for me just incase she thinks I'm a timewaster so it should be ok :)

 

I'll move on and book another lady.

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Thanks for replies.

 

I asked a lovely escort I've seen in the past to vouch for me just incase she thinks I'm a timewaster so it should be ok :)

 

I'll move on and book another lady.

 

I hope it went well sweety, next time explain to the ladies that you have autism it might help them to understand. :)

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Booked a different escort for tonight, but didn't have any better luck.

 

We arranged to meet up for tonight by text, and I even sent a txt message this afternoon to ask her if the booking was still going ahead (I always do this just to double check) and she replied yes.

 

So once again I get all ready for a booking and the time of the meeting comes and goes. I send a txt asking if she's ok and she sends back "sorry had to cancel but didn't have your number to text"

 

I gave her my number on a message to AW (which she read and replied to) and we had sent a couple texts back and forward so how can she possibly say she didn't have my number?

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I can imagine how bad getting flaked by escorts can feel. Are you sure that your texts to the last one you booked were not off-putting?

 

Maybe you should go seek help to improve your speaking capabilities.

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Booked a different escort for tonight, but didn't have any better luck.

 

We arranged to meet up for tonight by text, and I even sent a txt message this afternoon to ask her if the booking was still going ahead (I always do this just to double check) and she replied yes.

 

So once again I get all ready for a booking and the time of the meeting comes and goes. I send a txt asking if she's ok and she sends back "sorry had to cancel but didn't have your number to text"

 

I gave her my number on a message to AW (which she read and replied to) and we had sent a couple texts back and forward so how can she possibly say she didn't have my number?

Some people are really flaky and do not store numbers - this goes for punters as well as SPs. One guy got to town to realise he'd written the number down wrong, yet we had had a phone call on the same phone he was using later on. Others have told me by text, that they missed their confirmation time by err, texting the wrong number. Not sure if my leg was being pulled there or not because they knew which number to use when they wanted to pop round for their appointment.

 

One thing I'm going to say, and I know this is a big problem for you but I still think speaking in person can give you a lot of clues about the person, and in my opinion people are more likely to be off-hand, cancel if they've not spoken to you and made human contact. You can also sometimes tell by someone's voice if they are lying or telling the truth.

 

My advice would be to find some way to be able to speak to the lady.

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