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Since starting punting or being a WG, what has been the thing that's pleasantly surprised you since taking up the hobby/profession that you weren't expecting? 

 

 

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I have met a wide variety of generally very lovely ladies.

 

But that isn't really a surprise.

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The gusto with which some of the lovely ladies do their job :) :)

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I had the impression, based on nothing apart from my own ignorance, that it would be a cold, mechanical kind of experience.

Maybe I've been lucky up to now (I prefer to think of it as a good judge of a profile, lol) but It has proved to be anything but, the girls I've met have all had lovely personalities and have helped to make nearly every punt memorable. I did have one disappointing time where I think we'd both had a bad day - but that's bound to happen, human nature being what it is.

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That unlike the stereotypes on the news, 95% are educated, charming, well spoken, confident, not drug adled, gorgeous women who can hold a good conversation and don't just lie back and think of England but engage with you, relax you, instruct you and make you feel GRRREAT!

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Exactly what Paul and Zipless said..

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What amazes me after a joyful 11 years of punting (mainly with indies) is just how poorly the press sees/portrays prostitution. Almost always the photo of a street girl chatting to a potential client in a car is trotted out. At the other end of the scale the talk is of 'high class' girls who charge ridiculous London type fees. And don't get me started on 'trafficked' EE or Asian girls!

 

This triptych of extremes pays no regard to the thousands of lovely women working up and down the land, giving great service at reasonable rates, paying their taxes, staying clean and saving more than a few marriages. 

 

Uncle Pokey

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Since starting punting or being a WG, what has been the thing that's pleasantly surprised you since taking up the hobby/profession that you weren't expecting? 

 

I never cease to be surprised how kind and thoughtful my clients are... I just love the transparency of these very grown up arrangements... overwhelmingly I have met interesting people who having sex with has been a lot of fun... but my Grandmother told me that life is much better when you live outside the box... 

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...but my Grandmother told me that life is much better when you live outside the box...

Unless you're a submariner. Or an astronaut.

;)

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Since starting punting or being a WG, what has been the thing that's pleasantly surprised you since taking up the hobby/profession that you weren't expecting? 

 

A lot will depend on the reasons why you start this hobby.

 

If it's to meet someone that can help you explore another side of your sexual character and/or experiment, you won't go far wrong. It's great fun and you will meet some lovely people.

 

It comes down to expectations. If you have too higher expectations, there may be a certain level of disappointment. If you go with the flow, and spend sensibly, the experience(s) will be a pleasant surprise.

 

This is why I've never had a bad punt. The effort is two way and ensure both parties get something from the meeting. :cool:

 

I have a tendency to stick with a regular until she moves on. Then start again, this works for me.

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Just how real the very best of these lovely Ladies make it feel - before, during and after. Keeps this boy returning time after time. Thanks Ladies. You are worth more than your weight in gold !!!! 

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thousands of lovely women working up and down the land, giving great service at reasonable rates, paying their taxes, staying clean and saving more than a few marriages.

Uncle Pokey

Couple of us might raise an eyebrow at the concept of WGs paying their taxes. Whilst I had vague suspicions about the services provided by one client many years ago I can't quite get my head round what I'd do if a WG asked me for tax advice. Points of interest which spring immediately to my attention include doctors fees, medicines, phsyc counselling, not to mention clothing and attire. Not even female tax barristers won that case... but a WG may be a special case.

So here's an opportunity for Chloe et al to jump on my kneck (again) and remonstrate that WGs do indeed pay tax on the earnings of those delightful money boxes.

Really useful comment would be if WGs spread the word about any accountant who was really good in this niche industry. I can't say that I've heard of anyone but if there's a demand I guess there's someone providing the specialist service.

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Since starting punting or being a WG, what has been the thing that's pleasantly surprised you since taking up the hobby/profession that you weren't expecting?

I've been punting on and off gor over 40 years. There have been many pleasant surprises and the just keep coming.

Perhaps the first great surprise was to find that most girls are in the job because they want to do it.

Then there's the surprise when a bloke discovers that there are girls who enjoy those fantasies which he didn't seriously expect to ever experience.

It's always good when you feel the barriers drop and a WG says something, apparently, from her heart.

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I had the impression, based on nothing apart from my own ignorance, that it would be a cold, mechanical kind of experience.

Maybe I've been lucky up to now (I prefer to think of it as a good judge of a profile, lol) but It has proved to be anything but, the girls I've met have all had lovely personalities and have helped to make nearly every punt memorable. I did have one disappointing time where I think we'd both had a bad day - but that's bound to happen, human nature being what it is.

 

 

That unlike the stereotypes on the news, 95% are educated, charming, well spoken, confident, not drug adled, gorgeous women who can hold a good conversation and don't just lie back and think of England but engage with you, relax you, instruct you and make you feel GRRREAT!

I agree with everything said here.

My first punt was going to be my last, now several years and punts down the line Im a very happy man.

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Couple of us might raise an eyebrow at the concept of WGs paying their taxes. Whilst I had vague suspicions about the services provided by one client many years ago I can't quite get my head round what I'd do if a WG asked me for tax advice.

The two cardinal pieces of advice I give working girls on tax are:

  • Ensure there is congruence between your appointments diary and your banked takings, and
  • Beware the VAT registration threshold. If you go over that turnover/income wise you will loose a sixth of your income and will need to up your rates appropriately to maintain your pre-(other taxes) income level.

Sorry to go a bit off topic but hope the above is helpful.

 

Uncle Pokey

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How much I have learned about my own body and sexuality through the expert instruction, patience and guidance of so many amazing women.

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Honestly, being adored for being a BBW. All my life I was criticised for my weight, became a wg and found that there were men who loved the feel of a bigger woman.

 

It gave me a big boost in confidence, made me stronger emotionally and a lot more independent maybe too independent.  I thoroughly enjoy the profession it is diverse and interesting and majority of the time a lot of fun.

Edited by DeliciousMsDee

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Nonotouch has an odd nick given his welcome praise for his experiences.

 

I was very pleasantly surprised not every woman ran out the room screaming in horror before I got both socks off.

 

I have also been very pleasantly surprised, to put it mildly, how many fabulous women i feel i really have become good friends with.

 

others may scoff i am being a fluffie or duped but when examples include 20 years off and on seeing a beautiful woman outside the workplace, other lovely women I've seen outside the workplace over varying periods of time and many more who have been so happy to be close friends in terms of sharing life experiences and opinions within the course of a series of meetings in the workplace.

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I don't want to derail the thread but at the moment I'm pleasantly surprised when I contact an independent who behaves professionally. That's something I really appreciate leading up to a meeting.

 

It surprises me how many ladies who presumably want to treat this business as their profession are piss-poor at communicating, replying to messages, responding to booking, responding to confirmation texts and so on. Crazy.

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I never cease to be surprised how kind and thoughtful my clients are... I just love the transparency of these very grown up arrangements... overwhelmingly I have met interesting people who having sex with has been a lot of fun... but my Grandmother told me that life is much better when you live outside the box... 

 

Your grandma is not as wise as you think......

The truly enlightened, will know that there is no box   

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Honestly, being adored for being a BBW. All my life I was criticised for my weight, became a wg and found that there were men who loved the feel of a bigger woman.

 

It gave me a big boost in confidence, made me stronger emotionally and a lot more independent maybe too independent.  I thoroughly enjoy the profession it is diverse and interesting and majority of the time a lot of fun.

 

Dee your adored for more than being a BBW....

 

Hugs from Busty Lady xxx

Edited by Holly Maddison

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I was pleasantly surprised at how much money you can make when I first started. I was pleasantly surprised that guys still want to book me despite the huge number of hunnies working at the parlours here every day. Im always pleasantly surprised when I see a blast from the past or someone returns after the first time. Im more than pleasantly surprised when someone says something like "please dont go on that diet" or something similar...if only they knew they need not worry, my diets never work anyway 

Edited by Chloe Kisses

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I never cease to be surprised how kind and thoughtful my clients are... 

This also. 

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I honestly didn't expect to find someone here who is from my own country of origin, many many miles away, with whom I would feel so comfortable with. Someone who I could instantly connect with because of a similar background, cultural humour, banter and even language. Its created a special dimension that I really enjoy. The fact that she's extremely sexy, pretty, considerate, and that she's been helping me experience new things, has resulted in a perfect experience for me.

 

The above scenario has left me satisfied, content and with a partner who I can trust to try new things with.

 

I really wasn't expecting this :-)    

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I honestly didn't expect to find someone here who is from my own country of origin, many many miles away, with whom I would feel so comfortable with. Someone who I could instantly connect with because of a similar background, cultural humour, banter and even language. Its created a special dimension that I really enjoy. The fact that she's extremely sexy, pretty, considerate, and that she's been helping me experience new things, has resulted in a perfect experience for me.

 

The above scenario has left me satisfied, content and with a partner who I can trust to try new things with.

 

I really wasn't expecting this :-)    

With your name, I assume that you come from Dagenham. Surely there are a few ladies from there on this board :o

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