Strawberry

Giving out addresses

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Ok we have had this out several times. I contacted a certain person on here who will not set of without an address to firstly point out problems with this, but it was rebutted so I'm going to go public.

FIrstly you cannot sat nav my address. Instead I give full directictions plus postal code to the place to park then full directions to my place. It is in my utmost interest to get guys to my place since a no - showmeans no money and no fun for either of us.

Secondly recently a crime has been commited against me and as such since my address was a crime scene. Since I had followed JRC's advice a client walked straight into my the scene and had to deal with the police. At the time I had blocked both my handset as well as SIM card which meant no-one could contact me. As part of this I had O2 promise me that no-one could access data on my handset nor SIm card thus protecting anyone who had ever seen me.

So there you go guys. I gave my address as recommended by JRC and a guy more or less ended up in trouble.

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I sympathise, but to be honest it doesn't sound as if the sequence of events were really triggered by you giving out your address.

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I have been to Ruths place, you will not find it from post code or address.The post code / address she gives you will get you within 100 foot of her. It is the genuine address and postcode. It is just wierd to find it without being 'talked in' by Ruth when you get there, it's 1 to 2 minutes walk. When ;talked in' it's really very easy, and certainly well worth it when you meet Ruth..

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"Secondly recently a crime has been commited against me and as such since my address was a crime scene. Since I had followed JRC's advice a client walked straight into my the scene and had to deal with the police".

As an experienced Escort why did you decide to change your method of working just as a result of a posting on a message board ?

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We had an incident last Thurs... we are all shaken and closed on Friday.

Today I am going to meet Maggie.... although I know what has happened.. Today I am meeting up with her and writing the whole situation down. I will post it on here this evening also on the Dangerous Punts section.

It may mean we change the way we give out our address and the way in which we have to work...... and all because of a dangerous individual... who we can not risk having through our door again.

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"Secondly recently a crime has been commited against me and as such since my address was a crime scene. Since I had followed JRC's advice a client walked straight into my the scene and had to deal with the police".

As an experienced Escort why did you decide to change your method of working just as a result of a posting on a message board ?

Especially when it's a posting by you-know-who (mind you he's got a wonderful sense of humour). Can we now expect full disclosure of real ages and price reductions to compete with Pattaya?

Jack

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So there you go guys. I gave my address as recommended by JRC and a guy more or less ended up in trouble.

Sorry to hear about your mishap :)

You were influenced by JRC? :P

Stick to your rules and do not waver for anyone. Your safety should come first.

How many times over the years have we read/heard about ladies being threatened by someone who makes a fake booking, saves the address, then later tries to intimidate her?

Be safe xx

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FIrstly you cannot sat nav my address. Instead I give full directictions plus postal code to the place to park then full directions to my place. It is in my utmost interest to get guys to my place since a no - showmeans no money and no fun for either of us.

I perfectly understand (and accept) this. One aspect has always intrigued me - when I am told to go to a specific place, and to ring again thence (in the distant past it was often a red telephone box) I always wonder whether I am being watched, presumably to see whether my knuckles drag on the ground, am carrying a chain-saw or whether I am accompanied by 20 "friends" in attractive blue outfits, but on several occasions it has subsequently been clear that I couldn't have been observed.

So why (except in Strawberry's specifically described geographical location) does the visitor have to ring again from a fixed point?

PS - Motorists' GPS or Sat Nav units are designed for the geographically challenged - if you use an "Outdoor" unit, it will take a 10 figure grid ref, which should get you to the door mat!

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Assuming the information is given to allow plenty of time to sort out a route etc, I'd always settle for your initial arrangements Strawberry. They are all I ever ask for and as well as being very useful are a welcomed act of good faith.

Sorry about your problems. I hope they are soon sorted.:P

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I think in this game a girls safety and security must be her number 1 priority,I dont think it matters what we punters think, its got to be what the girl is happy with.As long as we can get to the rendezvous without wasting too much time and running round too many rings we just have to go with what the girl wants.Louisa and Strawberry Im sorry to hear you have both had problems and that there are not too many knock on effects.

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Since I had followed JRC's advice a client walked straight into my the scene and had to deal with the police.

So there you go guys. I gave my address as recommended by JRC and a guy more or less ended up in trouble.

So it is my fault that you had a problem with a client. ?????????????????

Suppose you would have followed your normal procedure and not given out the adddress until he was outside -------- would that have meant he would not have been a problem. ???????????

Prostitution is a dangerous business, most girls will have a bad experience sooner or later, it goes with the territory.:P

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I think in this game a girls safety and security must be her number 1 priority,I dont think it matters what we punters think, its got to be what the girl is happy with.As long as we can get to the rendezvous without wasting too much time and running round too many rings we just have to go with what the girl wants.Louisa and Strawberry Im sorry to hear you have both had problems and that there are not too many knock on effects.

I agree with your sentiments here.

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So it is my fault that you had a problem with a client. ?????????????????

Suppose you would have followed your normal procedure and not given out the adddress until he was outside -------- would that have meant he would not have been a problem. ???????????

Prostitution is a dangerous business, most girls will have a bad experience sooner or later, it goes with the territory.:P

By you are full of sympathy.

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We had an incident last Thurs... we are all shaken and closed on Friday.

Today I am going to meet Maggie.... although I know what has happened.. Today I am meeting up with her and writing the whole situation down. I will post it on here this evening also on the Dangerous Punts section.

It may mean we change the way we give out our address and the way in which we have to work...... and all because of a dangerous individual... who we can not risk having through our door again.

Louisa, as I just told Strawberry, it would make no difference if you give out the adddress 7 days in advance or when the client is within 10 yards of your premises ---------- if he is determined to give you problems there is very little you can do to avoid it.

One girl that I see had to employ a security guy after a couple of bad experiences. :P

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Giving out my address doesn't cause me problems - it actually causes the client problems. On the few occasions I have done they have gotten lost since although I am in a central location you can be within 15 metres and not see the place. Sat nav takes you to a shop down the road which is of no use either.

In the situation I described somehow the person had local knowledge and it was him more embarassed than myself. I was just getting on with sorting out my property.

So I'll be sticking to full address and postcode for parking - this is so you can actually park your car safely and not for any other reason. Followed by accurate directions so guys are not wandering around wondering where on earth this odd address is, thinking I'm wasting their time. My method is for one reason and one reason only - to get said client to my door in a manner which is quick and convenient for both of us.

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If I'd given out the address outside I would have been able to tell him I wasn't able to see him that day because I had a problem at my address. Actually I wouldn't have been able to do that since my mobile was missing but he would have realised there was a problem and not proceeded.

Just for the record said mobile was stopped - SIM card and handset. O2 assure me no one can access the data from it either.

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Giving out my address doesn't cause me problems - it actually causes the client problems. On the few occasions I have done they have gotten lost since although I am in a central location you can be within 15 metres and not see the place. Sat nav takes you to a shop down the road which is of no use either.

Sat nav is only 99% reliable, it has taken me down roads that are dead ends.:P:(

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Just for the record said mobile was stopped - SIM card and handset. O2 assure me no one can access the data from it either.

It is highly unlikely that the burglar would want to access your data, the handset will probably not work in this country but could be used abroad in countries such as Thailand.

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So it is my fault that you had a problem with a client. ?????????????????

Well I've read the OP umpteen times now and I'm still not 100% sure that I fully understand the actual sequence of events nor the actual problem(s) encountered/generated by the punter involved, however my take on it is this :-

At some point in time a crime was committed against the lady and she and her premises were, and maybe still are, subject to police investigation.

As a result of this crime the lady decided for whatever reason(s) to render her mobile unusable thus making it impossible, in theory, for her to carry out her normal arrival procedure, so she communicated with the prospective punter in some other fashion and supplied him with full directions to her premises, thus making it unnecessary for him to contact her on the day of his appointment and possible for him to arrive at her premises without further assistance.

When the punter arrived the police were in the immediate vicinity of her premises, or actually inside her premises, and this caused problem(s) for the punter, quite what the problem(s) were I have no idea.

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I don't care about the exact address in advance... happy to be given something like a postcode day before that's close enough to plan how to get there.

But what I don't do anymore is wait till day itself to be given any "clue" at all. Of course... I can see why some ladies operate that way.... but in practice it makes it difficult for me to see them.

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It's the lay out of my address it can't cope with, in any shape or form. It also can't cope with most of the town centre which hasn't changed for 5 years. However sat nav will get you to the place to park. Which is why I have my methods. I won't be changing! Said person was local and already known to me as a regular just hadn't been to my new place. It did prove a point though.

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I don't care about the exact address in advance... happy to be given something like a postcode day before that's close enough to plan how to get there.

But what I don't do anymore is wait till day itself to be given any "clue" at all. Of course... I can see why some ladies operate that way.... but in practice it makes it difficult for me to see them.

Surely a rough idea of location is given? :P

How else would a gent be able to plan his journey?

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I agree.

The general location is part of the research when planning. My days of visiting "Dog Shit Alley" are long gone. I don't need an exact address but I do need a pretty defined area to even consider.

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It does not guarantee you are safe if you dont give out address. I have had 2occasions in 3 months where the guy turned up and walked out. Ok, maybe he got cold feet or didn't like the look of me. It still made me really nervous on each occasion knowing somebody had my address that wasn't a client. All sorts of thoughts were going through my mind. Having said that, I would feel a lot worse if the no shows also knew exactly where I was. I think a robber or someone intending harm is more likely to choose the easy targets who give address out straight away.

Strawberry and Louisa. I am so sorry what happened to you.

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It does not guarantee you are safe if you dont give out address. I have had 2occasions in 3 months where the guy turned up and walked out. Ok, maybe he got cold feet or didn't like the look of me.

Over the last 25 years I must have "walked out" of 100 brothels, if I don't like the look of the goods I don't stay, that does not make me a potential burglar.:P

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