stuckinhotel

Have You Ever Booked And Travelled But Never Get To Meet The Escort

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I've not been having much luck with booking in the past few months...

 

I've had a few bookings where everything has been agreed and a booking request accepted/confirmed after lots of messages back and forth..

 

You confirm on the day as well before setting off, get prepared, shower, put fresh clothes on, fill up car, get cash, arrive, make the call or text...then you hear nothing or you get an excuse...'sorry phone battery died' 'had to go to hospital....' ' let down by room/flat owner' or worst you hear nothing...

 

longest journey I've mad is an 80 mile round trip..

 

do you have a back up plan?

 

I just feel realy fustruated..too many wasted journies...

 

edit: not sure if i want to name..in case i do eventually meet with any of them, if i name them or leave negative feedback then it's unlikely they'll want to meet/rearrange

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For me, the odd no show on outcalls is an occupational hazard. I never worry about plan Bs and simply chalk it up to experience when it happens. I have to say though that it is pretty rare. Less than 1 in 10 of my outcall bookings result in a no show I would say. Probably another 1 in 10 result in cancellations with reasonable notice. All in all it's manageable for me.

My percentage of no shows on incalls is much lower. I wonder why you are having such a hard time of it?

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Only once, and only a few punts in to my punting career - with a wg I'd seen twice before when working in the area. I fancied a third visit so booked a day off work for what was now a 200 mile round trip involving an early start for me. Naïvely because of my early start, I'd text her the day before to the effect if there were any problems to let me know. What I should have done instead was require a response to say that all was ok. Got there, no reply to texts or phone calls. Had no plan B so after about an hour made the trek home.

Later that day, she obviously sees my first text, and replies saying 'everything was fine looking forward to seeing you' immediately followed by a 'bloody hell it was today!' From the dialogue that followed I'm pretty sure she'd made a genuine mistake but haven't been back since, mainly as there are too many local girls I want to see....

That's the only no show I've had so far.

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Sometimes the reason/excuse is understandable, but other times. could it be because she has a late booking from a regular, perhaps cancelling me to accept the longer booking...I've had two last minute cancellations from two bookings that have been rearranged..

 

should I have left negative feedback or am being too patient with these girls?

 

If I leave negative feedback would other escorts wonder why so there's been so many cancellations/no shows?

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I'd see it as a judgement call. in the example I gave, from the messages after the event I was under the impression it was a genuine oversight on her part - plus there as no mention with regards reliability in her other feedback - and I'd seen her twice before with no issues.

If you're bothered about leaving negative feedback, you could leave neutral feedback and just leave a comment that you placed a booking and she didn't show up or whatever happened.

As a punter looking at feedback, if I was looking at a profile with several comments to that effect I'd likely move on as it would indicate the girl had reliability issues. I'd go on the comment rather than whether the feedback was negative or neutral, and neutral feedback may be less likely to provoke a hostile response or a dispute from the wg.

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Always have a plan B

how do i set up a plan B?

 

I don't want to two book escorts and cancell one of them in case the other is a no show.

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I'd see it as a judgement call. in the example I gave, from the messages after the event I was under the impression it was a genuine oversight on her part - plus there as no mention with regards reliability in her other feedback - and I'd seen her twice before with no issues.

If you're bothered about leaving negative feedback, you could leave neutral feedback and just leave a comment that you placed a booking and she didn't show up or whatever happened.

As a punter looking at feedback, if I was looking at a profile with several comments to that effect I'd likely move on as it would indicate the girl had reliability issues. I'd go on the comment rather than whether the feedback was negative or neutral, and neutral feedback may be less likely to provoke a hostile response or a dispute from the wg.

Thanks for the advice. unfortunately 2 of the bookings were phone bookings and sometimes it's not positve to leave negative or positive feedback

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I recently had a poor experience, booked a "New" indie in Brighton, "cleosextoy" on AW, admittedly she had very limited feedback I made contact within 10 days of her profile appearing and after a little "too-ing and fro-ing" I managed to get her on the phone and she certainly sounded good fun, it was a Monday morning and having been on the coast for the weekend I stopped in Brighton on my way home I had checked before the appointed date and admittedly on the Friday before when I had heard nothing from her for 3 days my internal waste of time alarm was starting to go off.  Sure enough On calling, as agreed, an hour before the appointment I got her voicemail, then on stepping off the train in Brighton I got the same, I loitered for 30 minutes trying to the phone every 65 and all I managed to do was miss the next available connection out of Brighton.

 

I made it home and then arranged what turned out to be the worst out call in living memory, a complete waste of time and money.

 

Lesson Learned (Like I needed to re-learn it!):  Stick with high levels of feedback.

 

Before anyone digs around and asks why I didn't leave appropriate feedback I managed to delete the booking from my "All Correspondence" folder while trying to tidy up the reams of stuff I had in there.

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how do i set up a plan B?

 

I don't want to two book escorts and cancell one of them in case the other is a no show.

 

Carry a list of numbers that might / will accept short notice bookings, there's enough of them out there!

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I've been quite lucky so far that I've only had 1 girl cancel on the day of the booking. Thankfully, it just so happened to be the one time that I'd arranged a booking in my home town, so I hadn't even left my house yet.

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It happens, and Plan B isn’t always the answer. I have travelled that sort of distance – sometimes by train – without a backup plan, but on the other hand I have also been let down, like you, arriving only to find the lady doesn’t answer her phone.

 

I’ve used a Plan B once, but unless you can bide your time it’s all a bit hasty for both parties and wasn’t, in my experience, particularly successful.

 

On balance I’d say, choose carefully (not a panacea, I know) and don’t be ruled by your lower brain if it goes wrong!

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I've not been having much luck with booking in the past few months...

 

I've had a few bookings where everything has been agreed and a booking request accepted/confirmed after lots of messages back and forth..

 

You confirm on the day as well before setting off, get prepared, shower, put fresh clothes on, fill up car, get cash, arrive, make the call or text...then you hear nothing or you get an excuse...'sorry phone battery died' 'had to go to hospital....' ' let down by room/flat owner' or worst you hear nothing...

 

longest journey I've mad is an 80 mile round trip..

 

do you have a back up plan?

 

I just feel realy fustruated..too many wasted journies...

 

edit: not sure if i want to name..in case i do eventually meet with any of them, if i name them or leave negative feedback then it's unlikely they'll want to meet/rearrange

Yes i have and although i incurred a cost of travelling to their area as well as had my time wasted i was unable to do a FR as money has to have changed hands. What might of actually happened is a WG got a call from a regular after i booked and took his booking as she knew for certain he would turn up whereas i am to the WG a possible no show if i am a newbie to her. However, after a punt i have been told by a few WGs that i was the regular whose booking they accepted over a newbie to them who booked before me, and they re-arranged that punters booking, so i have benefited and lost out on ocassion.

 

I always have a plan B option nowadays. I wouldnt give WGs that have let me down like this a second chance myself so naming them wouldnt be a problem to me, what you do is of course your business.

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how do i set up a plan B?

 

I don't want to two book escorts and cancell one of them in case the other is a no show.

My plan B is a good regular or a party, one or the other can virtually always fit me in and quite quickly. I wouldnt double book WGs as thats not fair on the one i wouldnt be punting with and is potentially losing her another punter who might want the slot i have booked her for.

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My plan B is a good regular or a party, one or the other can virtually always fit me in and quite quickly. I wouldnt double book WGs as thats not fair on the one i wouldnt be punting with and is potentially losing her another punter who might want the slot i have booked her for.

 

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how do i set up a plan B?

 

I don't want to two book escorts and cancell one of them in case the other is a no show.

Carry a list of numbers from the area that you have travelled to. If you get blown out of the water with number 1 call them up and try to get a short notice booking. It generally works OK. I would not make two bookings and cancel one as that is not fair to the lady concerned.

 

You can also keep a note of any local parlours; they generally take walk up appointments.

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Please also remember some text messages can be delayed or go missing entirely. I've also received confirmatory texts from guys I definitely do not have a booking with - I presume they have chosen the wrong name in their list of SPs. I know this because I've responded, and their subsequent reply has included the name of another lady.

Last year I had someone's confirmatory text arrive 5 hours too late, I'd assumed he was not coming (he'd mucked about with another booking/cancelled last minute) and he in turn probably thought the appointment was off when I didn't respond with directions.

Never heard from him again.

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I have never had the misfortune to travel to a booking and the SP just not answer her phone, I can understand the frustration :( - but I have had a booking cancelled (assume SP was double booked). I had contacted the mature lady I wanted to see by phone with about a weeks notice and we agreed a day/time for our meet, confirmed services etc & I was told to phone on the day to reconfirm. Arranged to take a day off work, organised money and all the user stuff .... called on the day and SP barely remembered me let alone the booking !! er ... was frustrating .. doubly so as I am into Chasity/Orgasm Denial and hadn't masturbated for a week before the booking. Was sorely tempted for a plan B. but decided a short notice punt had the risk of being crap which would just be even more frustrating. The one & only time it has happened thankfully though.

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Carry a list of numbers from the area that you have travelled to. If you get blown out of the water with number 1 call them up and try to get a short notice booking. It generally works OK. I would not make two bookings and cancel one as that is not fair to the lady concerned.

 

You can also keep a note of any local parlours; they generally take walk up appointments.

 

 

yes parlours are made for plan B and emergencies.

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Please also remember some text messages can be delayed or go missing entirely. I've also received confirmatory texts from guys I definitely do not have a booking with - I presume they have chosen the wrong name in their list of SPs. I know this because I've responded, and their subsequent reply has included the name of another lady.

Last year I had someone's confirmatory text arrive 5 hours too late, I'd assumed he was not coming (he'd mucked about with another booking/cancelled last minute) and he in turn probably thought the appointment was off when I didn't respond with directions.

Never heard from him again.

That is a very valuable point and one that most of us forget.

 

For that reason I much prefer arrangements to be made by talking on the phone.

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That is a very valuable point and one that most of us forget.

For that reason I much prefer arrangements to be made by talking on the phone.

It is a very good point. I know this works on o2 and any network who use o2 such as Tesco or Giffgaff - not sure about other networks, but if you put *0# before the text in your message you will receive a delivery report message when the text has been delivered to the receiving phone.

No guarantee it's been read of course....

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I have never had the misfortune to travel to a booking and the SP just not answer her phone, I can understand the frustration :( - but I have had a booking cancelled (assume SP was double booked). I had contacted the mature lady I wanted to see by phone with about a weeks notice and we agreed a day/time for our meet, confirmed services etc & I was told to phone on the day to reconfirm. Arranged to take a day off work, organised money and all the user stuff .... called on the day and SP barely remembered me let alone the booking !! er ... was frustrating .. doubly so as I am into Chasity/Orgasm Denial and hadn't masturbated for a week before the booking. Was sorely tempted for a plan B. but decided a short notice punt had the risk of being crap which would just be even more frustrating. The one & only time it has happened thankfully though.

Interesting this assumption. Sometimes genuine issues do arise but I guess people make their own minds up, which would explain why when I've told someone I'm ill/not available they've continued to badger me, to try and 'persuade' me to see them. This is almost always people who've (a) not made an advance booking or (B) have not met me previously.

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Interesting this assumption. Sometimes genuine issues do arise but I guess people make their own minds up, which would explain why when I've told someone I'm ill/not available they've continued to badger me, to try and 'persuade' me to see them. This is almost always people who've (a) not made an advance booking or ( :cool: have not met me previously.

 

I had a guy fly in from France once but my son was taken seriously ill.  There was no way I could contact my gentleman because his phone was off, so I left messages in the hope that he would get them when he landed and headed off to the hospital to see my son.   The upshot was when he finally put the phone on was he would wait for me to get back at my flat no matter how long I was.

 

It was a scorching day so I flew up the A5 as fast as I could when my boy came out of theatre to find this lovely gentleman sitting in his car absolutely roasting with a rather frazzled bunch of tulips in his arms bless him.

 

Sometimes things do happen that are beyond our control as with all things in life (I was 1/2 hour late for the dentist the other morning because of an accident on the D road), but I guess if it's leaving a guy sexually frustrated as a result it must seem worse.

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Plan B has always been to go to the nearest Pub , have a pint, followed by walking around the town  until it was time to board the next train home. Never had to resort to Plan B.

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A couple of times.One was dirrectly my fault as i got lost on a straight road and ended up miles from where i was supposed to go.
Did have another one that when i got into the area i called to get the door number and got told to phone back in an hour as she couldnt see me at that time.All hell was letting lose in the background,massive argument of some kind multiple people shouting at eachother.I politely declined and cancelled.Sod walking into that

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