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FR94390, What is the point in writing a FR and saying you won,t go into detail

about what happened, surely Fr,s are to inform us punters what to expect.

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Another notch for the writer's bedpost probably.

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I don't give explicit details, just an account of how the punt went and whether I would return or not.

It is not really fair on the girl to give away too much, because if she french kisses one guy she may not with the next. :P

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I don't give explicit details, just an account of how the punt went and whether I would return or not.

It is not really fair on the girl to give away too much, because if she french kisses one guy she may not with the next. :P

If she advertises DFK on her site or Establishments site this type of detail is what i am looking for in an FR, it confirms the service advertised is actually on offer. I understand of course her right to refuse DFK if she so wishes, but at least i would be aware she does offer it, so would be much more likely to book her. From an FR i look for information about attitude, services and looks, or at least physical description. IMO those that dont give this are useless to me, unless i know for sure the poster is a forum member in which case i might PM him.

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FR94390, What is the point in writing a FR and saying you won,t go into detail

about what happened, surely Fr,s are to inform us punters what to expect.

Sometimes it's about the vividness with which the event is remembered. If the event is remembered intensely, putting down any details and ommitting others can feel distortive.

I've had this discussion with clients and I can't say I understand it entirely, but what happens between a client and an escort is intimate and we can't control how much or how little they'll wish to share.

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FR94390, What is the point in writing a FR and saying you won,t go into detail

about what happened, surely Fr,s are to inform us punters what to expect.

There have always been three categories of FR's:

1. doesnt go into specific details but confirms things listed on website, makes a mention of services if they are not on the website and whether pics are accurate.

2. Short one purely recomending or not recomending the girl

3. detailed ones where the guy is trying to convince us he is huge and has the stamina of a triathlete.

for me the first type are the most informative ones, I have no problem with the second as someone has taken the time to inform us he enjoyed the encounter, or to warn us not to see the girl.

The third i dont really take note of.

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There have always been three categories of FR's:

1. doesnt go into specific details but confirms things listed on website, makes a mention of services if they are not on the website and whether pics are accurate.

2. Short one purely recomending or not recomending the girl

3. detailed ones where the guy is trying to convince us he is huge and has the stamina of a triathlete.

for me the first type are the most informative ones, I have no problem with the second as someone has taken the time to inform us he enjoyed the encounter, or to warn us not to see the girl.

The third i dont really take note of.

There's a fourth:

The girl writes it herself (it's usually the one and only report by that mythical person), and always contains the phrases -

'I won't go into detail etc...'

and

'treat het well etc...'

I agree though, why bother at all if you aren't going to give details?

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Interesting! Search for all this Lady's FRs and I do not think that any of her "boys" go into details, and I'm not even slightly surprised that all of us who find her simply fantastic, are of much the same style.

Have a look on PLink and then go to C69, where I am afraid I gave her a 10/10, which, having seen her again since, I think was correct.

Be quite sure that I am a bloke, that the Lady does NOT ask for FRs, most certainly does not write her own, and that the FRs she gets are all 100% genuine.

Furthermore, be quite sure that she has not alerted me to this thread, and that I'm sticking my head out of my own volition.

If you are looking for the RLE, then although I understand the Lady has peers, she certainly has no betters.

So, to conclude this diatribe (sorry!) if you see no point in the style of FR that she gets, then I suspect that your taste in Lady lies elsewhere.

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There's a fourth:

The girl writes it herself (it's usually the one and only report by that mythical person), and always contains the phrases -

'I won't go into detail etc...'

and

'treat het well etc...'

I agree though, why bother at all if you aren't going to give details?

Those one's are totally bobbins, if anyone didn't treat me well they would be, well, out the faaackin' door. :P

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its my booking, its my money, & i can write whatever the fuck i like (so long as its sort of true) & so can you !

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Of course I understand the annoyance some people feel with an uninformative FR but as I always say when this comes up every 3 months or so, it is the author's report and what he writes is up to him.

Some have all sorts of failings as a writer but there is no reason to expect someone to desist from writing because he is barely literate.

I seem to hide it pretty well, but I'm one with lots of qualifications in writing but I find myself simply unwilling to write FRs in detail and am usually surprised just how brief mine are and sometimes how poorly written.

It's up to the writer what he writes and even though the no details phraseology comes up so often, cliches are cliches because they say what people want them to say.

WGs writing their own FRs is a different matter entirely, obviously, but without forensic eveidence I don't hold with the idea that those with no details and wanting her treated well are a good indication of a self-written report - and an earlier poster shows convincingly that even apparent proof can be quite misleading.

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Those one's are totally bobbins, if anyone didn't treat me well they would be, well, out the faaackin' door. :P

Absolutely. If this isn't what you would naturally do why go on about it?

My point though is that, many of these posts are by ladies 'advertising'. Personally, I don't mind if they do this, but the reports are so obviously fake, that they probably have the reverse effect to the intended one.

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Interesting! Search for all this Lady's FRs and I do not think that any of her "boys" go into details, and I'm not even slightly surprised that all of us who find her simply fantastic, are of much the same style.

Have a look on PLink and then go to C69, where I am afraid I gave her a 10/10, which, having seen her again since, I think was correct.

Be quite sure that I am a bloke, that the Lady does NOT ask for FRs, most certainly does not write her own, and that the FRs she gets are all 100% genuine.

Furthermore, be quite sure that she has not alerted me to this thread, and that I'm sticking my head out of my own volition.

If you are looking for the RLE, then although I understand the Lady has peers, she certainly has no betters.

So, to conclude this diatribe (sorry!) if you see no point in the style of FR that she gets, then I suspect that your taste in Lady lies elsewhere.

I am completely sure that the lovely Dollymopp offers a fantastic experience. The point is i have had the opportunity to read her posts and what punters have said about her on here which is why i put my last comment on my first post on this thread. That is not usually my situation when punting though.

My post was about FRs as a whole, not this one in particular, in fact i didnt even notice it was about her till your post, when i looked more carefully.

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Of course I understand the annoyance some people feel with an uninformative FR but as I always say when this comes up every 3 months or so, it is the author's report and what he writes is up to him.

Some have all sorts of failings as a writer but there is no reason to expect someone to desist from writing because he is barely literate.

I seem to hide it pretty well, but I'm one with lots of qualifications in writing but I find myself simply unwilling to write FRs in detail and am usually surprised just how brief mine are and sometimes how poorly written.

It's up to the writer what he writes and even though the no details phraseology comes up so often, cliches are cliches because they say what people want them to say.

WGs writing their own FRs is a different matter entirely, obviously, but without forensic eveidence I don't hold with the idea that those with no details and wanting her treated well are a good indication of a self-written report - and an earlier poster shows convincingly that even apparent proof can be quite misleading.

Nobody can be sure who writes what nonsense or why, but generally, the anodyne 'conveys no information apart from airing the provider's name' type of post is suspect to say the least, without evidence: forensic or otherwise?

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But assuming the report is honest from a sensible guy, then even the so called uninformative reports tell you a lot. You can assume:-

* Lady is as per photo, or prior description.

* That reporter believed lady was willing to perform advertised services.

* That place (if incall) is fit for purpose

And realistically what else do you want to know??

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If the girls advertise what they offer, then we have to mention in the report. Otherwise, you go to the girl and the girl tell you to put the money in the envelope put through the letter box and walkway not looking back. Then you put a fields report saying that I cannot mentioned what went on between us..... it all b****s

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Not this old chestnut. Again. ;)

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My exact thoughts..

You would think it would wear a bit thin by now!! :)

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its my booking, its my money, & i can write whatever the fuck i like (so long as its sort of true) & so can you !

LMAO ! Nice one !! ;):D

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its my booking, its my money, & i can write whatever the fuck i like (so long as its sort of true) & so can you !

Indeed it is, and you can. But the phrase 'I won't go into details' is in itself superfluous. How about just not going into details, without telling us you're not going to go into details?

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But the phrase 'I won't go into details' is in itself superfluous. How about just not going into details, without telling us you're not going to go into details?

Come and say that in front of my solicitor, if only because it is not a phrase i have ever used. i never read the lurid detail that some people write, partly because i dont believe it and partly because i have to wonder why a grown man would decide to write it anyway. All i want to know from a field report is whether the photos & description of the girl are accurate and whether in general the punter feels it was a thumbs up experience or not.

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My exact thoughts..

You would think it would wear a bit thin by now!! ;)

I must admit that when I see, 'What went on was between us' or 'Treat her with respect' my eyes do an involuntary roll.

I've found FRs difficult to write. When I read them I don't like the lurid stuff yet I want a 'picture' as to what kind of meeting it was. I also don't want to read much about the writer; it's the girl I'm interested in yet so many are about 'me, me'.

So that's what I have tried to acheive when writing them. Focus on the girl and the 'amabiance' along with a good indication of what she is up for. You don't have to be lurid to do that.

To be fair to all FR writers I think that's a difficult balance and the FR in question was fine on 'ambiance'....something that many miss.

But then, an FR reflects what the writer is looking for. That in itself can be a good indicator.

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I also dislike the vulgar details contained within some FRs. The problem as I see it, is that many of us - myself included - find it difficult to describe accurately what happened without being either over-explicit or coy to the point where it's unhelpful.

However, I'm rising to the challenge and I find that if you throw enough shit at the wall some of it's bound to stick.

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Whats the point?

The point is, I'm a prostitute. So unless you're really stupid, you'd kinda know what goes on...?

Did I 'do' what is touted on my 'Do's and Don'ts' as per blog/what he expected/what he particularly likes?

Well, something must've happened...eh?

I'm pretty sure if I didn't stand and deliver, I'd be well documented in glorious technicolour flame by now...

I don't have menus and tick boxes to 'get through' in a certain timescale, even if you do, Mr.

Because, I see that every one is different, and the fun is tailored when we talk/meet? So, regaling the nitty gritty by numbers and 'tick tocks' are/is futile, most times.

He said Yes for return? That's all boys need, and I am ever so grateful that they don't feel the need to 'do me up in a butcher's shop window stylee' later.

(I like the descriptive ones that are very well written, but they are quite an arty genre of their own, and pretty cute with it...! I'd like me one o' those, one o' these days..if only to prove summat..!Please don't NOW, I'll only be accused of writing it myself..)

But... I know that I attract a certain type of man, and that is because of my own marketing and advertising, by Me, for Me.

I really need to be comfy with my man of the moment, and that is when they are going to have the best time. Relaxed me, means relaxed them. Therefore, my marketing isn't to draw the masses, but simply the 'right boys' for me.

I don't do one size fits all. Not because I'm snobbish, but simply because I'd feel that I wouldn't be his ideal fun. So I addy as me, and I'm certainly not everyones cup of tea.

So..there are some reasons why my revs are as they are. And it's up to the boy reading, isn't it?

If you don't like it, don't visit.

Simple!

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Sometimes it's about the vividness with which the event is remembered. If the event is remembered intensely, putting down any details and ommitting others can feel distortive.

An interesting - and at first sight paradoxical - point that I don't remember anyone making before, and that had never occurred to me. I pick up on it perhaps because I'm in something like this position myself at the moment for the first time in my life. I had a punt last week that I haven't reported because I just don't know how to describe it properly. It was fun but quite how much fun I don't know (ie where on the scale I would put it), nor at the moment can I think how best to bring out its fun quality. I think in the end I may simply go back to see if a second visit gives my mind a better purchase on the experience.

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