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Booking A Female Member Of This Board

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I know many of you have booked girls on here.

 

Do you own up who you are beforehand? Or go incognito and never reveal it - or reveal it after the meeting - or during?

 

I have a gut instict that the decent thing to do is own up beforehand.

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Another dumb thread.

 

I bet you admitted it mate, you went in there and said:-

 

" I am Sir Lancelot of Punternet come hither my fair maiden ".

 

 

Perhaps people should tell if they want and not if they don't. 

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I wouldnt as it doesn't really change anything. Plus if u posted something that the WG didn't like then its game over in 60 seconds.

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Ive punted with a few i have met in chat.  Always told em when booking. Having chatted it made for a better booking, i felt, as the ice was broken.

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I've met several from here both in a social aspect and in the bedroom.  Not sure it curries favour if your confrontational here, but then having said that one of my regulars turned out to be my biggest wind up here (for fun he said :angry: ). 

 

Will's right 'shock horror'.  Its up to the individual.

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Another dumb thread.

 

I bet you admitted it mate, you went in there and said:-

 

" I am Sir Lancelot of Punternet come hither my fair maiden ".

 

 

Perhaps people should tell if they want and not if they don't. 

Actually this is not a dumb thread in the least. Its a good topic. 

 

OP it depends. A lot of guys do own up to who they are on here if they know the lady is a member but a large chunk wait till near the end of the booking as they dont want to give the lady the impression they are trying to influence the service or her, or put her under any extra pressure. Some wait till the end as they want to make sure they get a true service. Some say at the beginning as an icebreaker as lets face it, it gives you both plenty to talk about. Some prefer to keep the fact a secret entirely. Its  not uncommon for a guy to make his initial enquiry on here via the pm system in which case the secret is out anyway. 

 

If you are going to go in and use your status here to try to get certain services a lady doesnt usually offer with threat of a bad review then I pity the guy who trys that. Im not saying you are by the way. It has happened in the past though with real members.

 

I have met a fair few guys from here although not all of them actually post, a lot are lurkers as they prefer to stay out of the online politics which is fair enough. To be honest I prefer a guy to tell me, even if its at the end of the booking, colourful pillow talk etc, some of us like to put a real face to the username we are chatting too. I think the sensible people on here know that people are often nothing like we expect in real life...which can sometimes be a blessing

 

OP its entirely up to you, how comfortable you feel casting off your anonymity and how you feel the lady may take it, some are happy to know, some would prefer not too. xx

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I always say I'm Galahad; if that doesn't work I claim to be his personal representative who sifts through all the Field Reports as he's too busy.

 

I have also claimed to be Porker Paul but was quickly sussed out as he spends 23 hours a day responding to messages on this board. My attempt to be George McCoy failed miserably as I'd forgotten my flat cap and whippet and the year's supply of his useless guides that he flogs to the unsuspecting ladies/parlours out there.

 

When I actually claimed to be myself, the lady refused to believe me because i wasn't driving a Reliant Rialto.    

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Actually this is not a dumb thread in the least. Its a good topic. 

 

OP it depends. A lot of guys do own up to who they are on here if they know the lady is a member but a large chunk wait till near the end of the booking as they dont want to give the lady the impression they are trying to influence the service or her, or put her under any extra pressure. Some wait till the end as they want to make sure they get a true service. Some say at the beginning as an icebreaker as lets face it, it gives you both plenty to talk about. Some prefer to keep the fact a secret entirely. Its  not uncommon for a guy to make his initial enquiry on here via the pm system in which case the secret is out anyway. 

 

If you are going to go in and use your status here to try to get certain services a lady doesnt usually offer with threat of a bad review then I pity the guy who trys that. Im not saying you are by the way. It has happened in the past though with real members.

 

I think its entirely up to you, how comfortable you feel casting off your anonymity  and how you feel the lady may take it, some are happy to know, some would prefer not too. xx

 

Yeah, you said it.

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I've met several from here both in a social aspect and in the bedroom.  Not sure it curries favour if your confrontational here, but then having said that one of my regulars turned out to be my biggest wind up here (for fun he said :angry: ). 

 

Will's right 'shock horror'.  Its up to the individual.

I saw one guy after we had a fall out on here and we got along like a house on fire, great hour in fact (think he thought so too). He told me at the end of the booking who he was although he laid a few clues out for me to guess first. We just laughed about it.

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Yeah, you said it.

Its easy to suss out though, just pm them on here and ask them if they would like to know in advance should the booking ever occur or if they would prefer you to just book via phone or website email. 

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Actually this is not a dumb thread in the least. Its a good topic.

I'd agree. There's a depressing tendency for people here (and on the Internet generally) to confuse their own opinion with fact which does rather back up Lohengrin's point elsewhere about type 2 personality disorders...

I had actually been considering this earlier today because I'm thinking of booking someone here and did wonder if it's slightly unfair and/or creepy to book someone you already know a certain amount about (beyond what you'd get from their main advertising) without 'fessing that up. Chloe summarises it well I think.

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mmmm - just wanted to get a friendly discussion going as I thought i might generate some good points - dont be so aggressive

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mmmm - just wanted to get a friendly discussion going as I thought i might generate some good points - dont be so aggressive

 

This is what bothers me. 

 

"I have a gut instict that the decent thing to do is own up beforehand."

 

 

So can you explain your "gut extinct" ? This implies to me that your proposition is devoid of logic which can be explained clearly.

 

I notice that you used the phrase "own up" , so is guilt involved here, for you?  

 

Do you think you should punters should own up, because YOU feel guilty when you do it?  If so,  why do you feel guilty or a sense of shame? 

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I have punted with one lady off here and she knew. One other I would like to punt with is Inna

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I punted with the lovely Curious Rose who posts here sometimes, I did let her know beforehand and she was sweet enough to fulfill a few fantasies for me, it certainly made for some delicious punts which I think she enjoyed too because we had that previous interaction.

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This is what bothers me. 

 

"I have a gut instict that the decent thing to do is own up beforehand."

 

 

So can you explain your "gut extinct" ? This implies to me that your proposition is devoid of logic which can be explained clearly.

 

I notice that you used the phrase "own up" , so is guilt involved here, for you?  

 

Do you think you should punters should own up, because YOU feel guilty when you do it?  If so,  why do you feel guilty or a sense of shame? 

So what if its a gut feeling and not based on logic?

 

..or perhaps the OP felt it logical to ask others advice on what his gut is telling him. Your version of logic is not necessarily the same as someone else's. 

 

He was simply asking a question, why so defensive? Have you come a cropper with this topic or something?

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I'd agree. There's a depressing tendency for people here (and on the Internet generally) to confuse their own opinion with fact which does rather back up Lohengrin's point elsewhere about type 2 personality disorders...

I had actually been considering this earlier today because I'm thinking of booking someone here and did wonder if it's slightly unfair and/or creepy to book someone you already know a certain amount about (beyond what you'd get from their main advertising) without 'fessing that up. Chloe summarises it well I think.

There is, I agree totally. There is also a depressing tendency for people to assume they are the clear thinking logical ones. I dont think its creepy, its a bloody obvious situation to arise if you ask me, a bunch of punters and a bunch of escorts chatting on a forum, stands to reason some of the punters are going to want to book some of the escorts. Pretty logical, in fact the creepy situation would be if the punters deliberately avoided booking any of the escorts they have been chatting too and visa versa, obviously taking major personality differences out of the equation, some people are just better off never meeting x

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A man asks a perfectly simple and reasonable question here and it turns into a verbal/keyboard wrestling match.   :rolleyes: 

 

Ok I know it's a forum but some individuals on here spend far far far too much energy picking at every word others have to say. I am surprised some of you

have any fingerprints left judging by the word count you rack up.

 

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In case of interest.... I have met several gents from here.

 

One was a bloody liar.  Three were twats and one was quite a long way up his own backside... very amusing but a bit sad to watch.

 

The rest?   They were/are the good guys and always welcome back.

 

So now you know.  ;)

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This is what bothers me. 

 

"I have a gut instict that the decent thing to do is own up beforehand."

 

 

So can you explain your "gut extinct" ? This implies to me that your proposition is devoid of logic which can be explained clearly.

 

I notice that you used the phrase "own up" , so is guilt involved here, for you?  

 

Do you think you should punters should own up, because YOU feel guilty when you do it?  If so,  why do you feel guilty or a sense of shame?

I think you need to get your head out of your ass. It's a fair question. One I've asked myself.

The forum offers a measure of anonymity, and this is broken if you punt with a girl on here. Whatever the reason or fear some will ask themselves whether they should own up to being on here or not.

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Another dumb thread.

 

I bet you admitted it mate, you went in there and said:-

 

" I am Sir Lancelot of Punternet come hither my fair maiden ".

 

 

Perhaps people should tell if they want and not if they don't. 

Another dumb reply more like.

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Yes I would tell before booking or before taking my socks off.

 

Sorry if this information is off topic for this thread.

 

I just took my cue from the title...

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mmmm - just wanted to get a friendly discussion going as I thought i might generate some good points - dont be so aggressive

Well at least you tried.

 

For the record the only time I have had a punt with a WG from the forum I started the negotiations by PM so it would have been a bit silly to turn up and pretend I wasn't Zipless.

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I know many of you have booked girls on here.

 

Do you own up who you are beforehand? Or go incognito and never reveal it - or reveal it after the meeting - or during?

 

I have a gut instict that the decent thing to do is own up beforehand.

I think you've asked a perfectly legitimate question Lancelot and is a very interesting area of discussion. As ever, what you choose to do as an individual is up to you. 

 

If you were asking me directly for advice, as a fellow punter, I'd advise you strongly against it. I can think of several good reasons. 

 

Expressing an interest on the board or by PM is fine, but make the booking anonymously. I can see no reason why you'd do otherwise, unless you were hoping for some kind of discount! :P  I'be no doubt that despite what some girls on this board say, they'd be more than happy to oblige, just to put a name to a face and gather personal information about you.  ;)

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I think you need to get your head out of your ass. It's a fair question. One I've asked myself.

The forum offers a measure of anonymity, and this is broken if you punt with a girl on here. Whatever the reason or fear some will ask themselves whether they should own up to being on here or not.

 

Yep

 

Another dumb reply more like.

 

And another Yep

 

I think you've asked a perfectly legitimate question Lancelot and is a very interesting area of discussion. As ever, what you choose to do as an individual is up to you. 

 

If you were asking me directly for advice, as a fellow punter, I'd advise you strongly against it. I can think of several good reasons. 

 

Expressing an interest on the board or by PM is fine, but make the booking anonymously. I can see no reason why you'd do otherwise, unless you were hoping for some kind of discount! :P  I'be no doubt that despite what some girls on this board say, they'd be more than happy to oblige, just to put a name to a face and gather personal information about you.  ;)

 

Yes, we keep a little black book and write all the sordid details about you and then pass it around to all our friends :)

 

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On a more serious note Lancelot, I think it nice if you let the lady know.. Common courtesy to me personally.

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I always say I'm Galahad; if that doesn't work I claim to be his personal representative who sifts through all the Field Reports as he's too busy.

 

I have also claimed to be Porker Paul but was quickly sussed out as he spends 23 hours a day responding to messages on this board. My attempt to be George McCoy failed miserably as I'd forgotten my flat cap and whippet and the year's supply of his useless guides that he flogs to the unsuspecting ladies/parlours out there.

 

When I actually claimed to be myself, the lady refused to believe me because i wasn't driving a Reliant Rialto.    

:D  Yes, Galahad is good in theory, but has probably been done to death! It reminds me of that line "I'm Spartacus"!!  

 

A better suggestion, is to say that you vet all the PN field reports. Not sure about PP, but I did consider using Mark Dee, but quickly decided against it, as the only extra time I'd get would be for a back rub and endless chatter!!  :P 

 

If I used The Donkey Work, I might receive the Sharon Stone, ice pick treatment, so that rules him out! Oh well, back to the drawing board.......

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