Alex33

First Time Doing A Outcall Questions

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First time I am doing a outcall and just have a few question. I will be doing it at a hotel.

 

1.) I have read that agencies want the name the hotel is booked under is this full name or is my last name plus room number good enough?

 

2.) I am thinking of asking the lady to meet at the bar or restaurant for a small dinner/chat. Is it proper etiquette to give the envelope right away discreetly or would it be okay if I gave it to her in the room so that nobody could see and assume it is a paid date?

 

2 a) Or is it okay to meet in the room first, take care of the business side right away and then head downstairs to bar/restaurant?

 

3.) Is there anything I am required to have for the lady in the room since now I am the host? Obviously things like towels and toiletries the hotel will have. But anything else?

 

4.) Should I shower just a few minutes before the appointment so the lady knows that have taken care of any hygiene issues?  As almost always in a incall I shower after the money has been exchanged. 

 

5.) Also I assume it would be okay letting the lady know that this is my first time doing a outcall? In case she senses the inexperience. 

 

If there are any other tips please feel free to add. 

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But you have to come in to the room via a closed window, swinging on the end of a rope!!

 

A helicopter is useful too.

 

Seriously, I hope that some experienced folk will provide the common sense answers.

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1.) For security reasons you should give the full name the room is booked under, but tell the agency that you'd like the escort to be given your name as either your first name or Mr.<surname>, if you have a preference. Agencies only store information on dodgy clients, so don't worry about them keeping your details. And yes they'll need the room number once you've checked in.

2.) Definitely meet in the room first. Tell the agency you'd like to go downstairs for a drink with her, so they can pass on that information and check that she's happy to do so - just in case she doesn't want to, I used to know one escort who worked in hotel management and would never be seen in a hotel bar with a client, very rare, most ladies would like your arrangement.

3.) No, but it's always nice to be offered a drink. However, you'll be heading to the bar anyway so that's taken care of.

4.) Yes do. She'll be able to tell that you've just had a shower when she goes in the bathroom on arrival and will be very grateful that you've made the effort to be freshly showered. It's never nice to have an evening appointment and realise when getting down to it that he probably hasn't showered since the morning!

5.) Yes, no harm in mentioning it. Probably best to do so then she'll know to take the lead a bit, ie tell you when drinking time is up at the bar and to get back to the room ;)

Just relax and enjoy! Hotel outcalls are the best as you're both on a neutral territory. Have fun!

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If buying chocolates is a worry the OP could with a little search of the PN facilities find a lady who has already booked a hotel room, checked the towel fluffiness level, inspected the bed for robustness and taken care of any hygiene issues before the OP arrives and hopefully his only worries will be that the condoms are large enough and the Bar has Tizer on draught.

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@Alex33, you can meet her at the bar for a drink - depending on who she is. Some whores you'd want them to come straight to your room and not seen in public with! I've always offered champagne or wine but they never seem to want it, so have some soft drinks or water - she'll probably want nothing. Hotel toiletries will be fine. Don't give her the envelope or money in public, do that discreetly in the hotel room. I'd advise it is your first outcall so you wanna play it smooth. If you don't mind me asking, who are you seeing? This will also help others in how they respond to these questions.

 

Main thing is, relax, stop over analysing, take it easy and enjoy yourself. Just think -- someone is gonna be sucking your dick in your own hotel room. How cool is that?! Fucking AWESOME.

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If buying chocolates is a worry the OP could with a little search of the PN facilities find a lady who has already booked a hotel room, checked the towel fluffiness level, inspected the bed for robustness and taken care of any hygiene issues before the OP arrives and hopefully his only worries will be that the condoms are large enough and the Bar has Tizer on draught.

Best, well easiest, place to look for a girl that already has a hotel room is "tours" on AW :)

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@Alex33, you can meet her at the bar for a drink - depending on who she is. Some whores you'd want them to come straight to your room and not seen in public with! I've always offered champagne or wine but they never seem to want it, so have some soft drinks or water - she'll probably want nothing. Hotel toiletries will be fine. Don't give her the envelope or money in public, do that discreetly in the hotel room. I'd advise it is your first outcall so you wanna play it smooth. If you don't mind me asking, who are you seeing? This will also help others in how they respond to these questions.

 

Main thing is, relax, stop over analysing, take it easy and enjoy yourself. Just think -- someone is gonna be sucking your dick in your own hotel room. How cool is that?! Fucking AWESOME.

Most SP's will not drink while punting for their own safety. You should also consider going slowly so that brewers droop does not interfere with your activities.

 

Just an additional precaution; keep the water and/or soft drinks in their bottle with the cap sealed; what way the lady can be sure you have not slipped anything untoward into the drink. A bit OTT perhaps but they are vulnerable enough as it is and this removes another small worry.

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Jasmine answered well on this. I'll elaborate on some other points.

You'll need a different tactic if your hotel has those dreaded key card lifts. You'll need to meet her first in the public area.

Great if you stay in large business hotels where everyone is anonymous. Not so great if it's one of those cosy boutique places.

She'll probably be in business attire or something inconspicuous. Introduce yourself and lead her saying something like

"Let's discuss our business in my room then" ;)

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Jasmine answered well on this. I'll elaborate on some other points.

You'll need a different tactic if your hotel has those dreaded key card lifts. You'll need to meet her first in the public area.

Great if you stay in large business hotels where everyone is anonymous. Not so great if it's one of those cosy boutique places.

She'll probably be in business attire or something inconspicuous. Introduce yourself and lead her saying something like

"Let's discuss our business in my room then" ;)

key card lifts Girl rings u to say she is in the lobby. you go to lift, call it, then when it comes press ground but dont get in.  the lift will go to the ground, open its doors and she just slips in.  Simples

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@Alex33, you can meet her at the bar for a drink - depending on who she is. Some whores you'd want them to come straight to your room and not seen in public with! I've always offered champagne or wine but they never seem to want it, so have some soft drinks or water - she'll probably want nothing. Hotel toiletries will be fine. Don't give her the envelope or money in public, do that discreetly in the hotel room. I'd advise it is your first outcall so you wanna play it smooth. If you don't mind me asking, who are you seeing? This will also help others in how they respond to these questions.

 

Main thing is, relax, stop over analysing, take it easy and enjoy yourself. Just think -- someone is gonna be sucking your dick in your own hotel room. How cool is that?! Fucking AWESOME.

 

 

Whats with envelopes?  Give her the cash. I fan it so she can quickly count the notes, and say '£130, thats right isnt it?'  Then there is no distrust about the cash.

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key card lifts Girl rings u to say she is in the lobby. you go to lift, call it, then when it comes press ground but dont get in.  the lift will go to the ground, open its doors and she just slips in.  Simples

 

Neat trick. Have to try that next time. You'll also have to call the lift again, as she won't be able to pick the floor without the keycard.

 

Whats with envelopes?  Give her the cash. I fan it so she can quickly count the notes, and say '£130, thats right isnt it?'  Then there is no distrust about the cash.

 

Cash in hand, envelopes, Hallmark card, doesn't really matter in the grand scheme of things. They'll count it. Let them.

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