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I'm not a prolific punter my any means, having had two punts in the last three/four years.  I am feeling the urge to go again and as my wife isn't into oral at all, would like to indulge in OWO/CIM.  I did indulge in OWO/CIM in my first punt and came off none the worse for it and went to the GUM clinic for a check up about four weeks after my visit.  The second, with a different lady who offer just covered services, giving OW a try, but didn't really enjoy it at all. 

 

My dilemma is I suppose, should I take the risk, would you?  I know at the end of the day it's my decision, but just wondering what others in a similar situation to me would do.  The lady I was planning to see is a well established independent, if that makes any difference.  

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I only have sex with wg's, and indulge in oral without / reverse oral. I wouldn't punt without that service and consider the risk worth taking.

This isn't meant to be judgemental in any way - each to their own - but if I was having sex with my partner I wouldn't be punting at all. As you say it is entirely up to the individual to consider the pros and cons and act accordingly.

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There are slight risks with OWO but, in my experience, so long as you choose a lady with good feedback and  decent premises you should be fine. If her place is clean and it is clear that she takes good care of herself there should be minimal risks. Good luck.

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The test is void the minute they perform unsafe sexual activities. There is always a risk although I got tested after plenty of paid unsafe sex and was clear. I even did bareback !

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There are slight risks with OWO but, in my experience, so long as you choose a lady with good feedback and  decent premises you should be fine. If her place is clean and it is clear that she takes good care of herself there should be minimal risks. Good luck.

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oral with can still be good with the right girl... they need to have a technique that compensates the lowered sensitivity...

 

but to answer your question... i'm not married but i think it would depend on my wife and how much i valued the marriage...

 

if i couldn't face life without my wife or marriage then i wouldnt risk it...

 

but if i could or if i thought i could smooth over or repair any damage then i might...

 

i'm undecided about OWO... occasionally i do it... but usually i think any risk is too much risk and play it safe... and of course you have to remember that you may not just be risking yourself but your wife also...

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...My dilemma is I suppose, should I take the risk, would you?...

Let's be honest with ourselves here. According to the GUM clinics we are already in a "high risk" group. OK, life itself is full of risks, but IMHO we need to be cautious when there is a risk of our decisions adversely affecting another person. If that person is a loved one, who we would miss dreadfully should they up and leave because we've given them an STI, then is that risk worth taking? Bearing in mind that, although sex is hard to live without for many, no-one has to do it. How selfish someone is prepared to be for the sake of increased pleasure is a personal choice, but a selfish one it is nonetheless. I think you need to work backwards; imagine you've been unlucky and caught Gonorrhoea via OWO, then gone home and infected your wife...will she forgive you or will your marriage be over? If your marriage is over how does that impact on your life, your wife's life, and your children's lives? Will you still think the increased pleasure of having your cock sucked unprotected by a prostitute was worth it? Apologies if this is a little sobering for a Sunday morning, but it's too easy to be cocooned in our little world of punting.

Many years ago I used to offer OWO. But when I got a partner I decided the risk of passing something onto him and potentially wrecking my relationship wasn't worth taking. It's been OW ever since. You do what you want, but make decisions with your eyes wide open.

...so long as you choose a lady with good feedback and decent premises you should be fine. If her place is clean and it is clear that she takes good care of herself there should be minimal risks...

If only STIs were that discriminating, Paul. It only takes one infected client (who thinks he's "clean" because he only sees "up market" ladies with nice incall facilities) to infect your chosen lady the day after she's had a health screen.

The test is void the minute they perform unsafe sexual activities...

Exactly. If someone is practicing certain activities then they run the risk of catching something at any time. Test are just damage limitation; they mean that if done regularly/after a certain number of partners, that there are fewer who are potentially infected. STI tests don't mean the person is "clean" (god, I hate that phrase...let's say what it is, "disease free at the time the test was taken")
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There are slight risks with OWO but, in my experience, so long as you choose a lady with good feedback and decent premises you should be fine. If her place is clean and it is clear that she takes good care of herself there should be minimal risks. Good luck.

If only STIs were that discriminating, Paul. It only takes one infected client (who thinks he's "clean" because he only sees "up market" ladies with nice incall facilities) to infect your chosen lady the day after she's had a health screen.

This latter quote is so true. Don't delude yourself that because a chosen WG is nice, clean, high class etc that the risks are any lower. If she gives OWO as part of her service, she is taking a risk (that she will doubtless have weighed up and accepted) as are you by seeing her. You need to weigh up the same risks and decide whether to accept them or not.

STIs are no respecter of cleanliness or decency.

That said, the risk is low and needs to be kept in perspective.

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The test is void the minute they perform unsafe sexual activities. There is always a risk although I got tested after plenty of paid unsafe sex and was clear. I even did bareback !

 

Christ brother, aside from the obvious risks, you're also asking for virtual crucifixion on here when some of the usual suspects read that!

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I am feeling the urge to go again and as my wife isn't into oral at all, would like to indulge in OWO/CIM.

 

My dilemma is I suppose, should I take the risk, would you? 

 

Never had your dilemma brother as young, free and single...but without wanting to sound crude, there is nothing like watching a girl take your load eagerly in her mouth as your pleasure oozes out at the same time...and then watch her play with it and lick if off her fingers and ... ok, back to issue at hand...risk is minimal but it is there...personally, it's always owo for me, but if I were in your position, without being judgemental, I'd not be seeing escorts.

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If you are married - better not. I know the risks are miniscule - but still - it rather ruins the afterglow knowing you'll have to sweat it out on the offchance.

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Let's be honest with ourselves here. According to the GUM clinics we are already in a "high risk" group. OK, life itself is full of risks, but IMHO we need to be cautious when there is a risk of our decisions adversely affecting another person. If that person is a loved one, who we would miss dreadfully should they up and leave because we've given them an STI, then is that risk worth taking? Bearing in mind that, although sex is hard to live without for many, no-one has to do it. How selfish someone is prepared to be for the sake of increased pleasure is a personal choice, but a selfish one it is nonetheless. I think you need to work backwards; imagine you've been unlucky and caught Gonorrhoea via OWO, then gone home and infected your wife...will she forgive you or will your marriage be over? If your marriage is over how does that impact on your life, your wife's life, and your children's lives? Will you still think the increased pleasure of having your cock sucked unprotected by a prostitute was worth it? Apologies if this is a little sobering for a Sunday morning, but it's too easy to be cocooned in our little world of punting.

Many years ago I used to offer OWO. But when I got a partner I decided the risk of passing something onto him and potentially wrecking my relationship wasn't worth taking. It's been OW ever since. You do what you want, but make decisions with your eyes wide open.

If only STIs were that discriminating, Paul. It only takes one infected client (who thinks he's "clean" because he only sees "up market" ladies with nice incall facilities) to infect your chosen lady the day after she's had a health screen.

Exactly. If someone is practicing certain activities then they run the risk of catching something at any time. Test are just damage limitation; they mean that if done regularly/after a certain number of partners, that there are fewer who are potentially infected. STI tests don't mean the person is "clean" (god, I hate that phrase...let's say what it is, "disease free at the time the test was taken")

Great comment from Lara - I suppose you could extend that logic to punting full stop as the chances of discovery and probably not too different.

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Thanks guys for all your input, I do realise the OWO carries a risk albeit a small one, but still a risk al the same.  Think I might just save the money and put it towards a motorbike instead.....for now anyway! :)

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If you are that worried, buy a course of anti-biotics to treat STD's off the net. Go for your punt, enjoy your BBBJCIM then take the tablets.

Just tell your wife for a few days that you have a headache. :D

 

Or better still, man up and tell her that is what you like.

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