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New To Punting - Safety Factors

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Hello Ppl,

 

I am brand new to this and not expecting too much from my first one.

 

I actually have a GF and believe it or not .. she actually told me she would be ok if I visited strip clubs and the like .... hehe every guys dream right...

 

The thing is I am extremely shy and guess I have a lot of fantasies tied up in my mind which I would not have the courage to try on my GF, love her too much ... so I need to open up my 'skills' :)

 

Ideally I want a full on lapdance and maybe a BJ (Protection on) ... I Have only booked a 30 mins appt. I am very concerned about safety ... i want 99.99% safe session .... all other considerations are secondary.

 

I am planning to only have protected BJ .... any other precaution I can take? Kissing ... maybe even FK is safe right?

 

I know must be sounding like a noob ... would appreciate any other precautions I can take.

 

Also regarding the fact that ideally I want a lapdance is that a resonable request? I am not sure if many escorts would be proficient in that and might be not willing. Should I ask for it or let it go?

 

Thanks in advance .... do mention about the safety aspect :)

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You can have a BJ without protection. Its perfectly safe as is FK unless she has cut blisters all over her mouth :)

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You can have a BJ without protection. Its perfectly safe as is FK unless she has cut blisters all over her mouth :)

 

Er, whilst even the most die hard OWO enthusiasts and naysayers alike would agree it's a pretty low risk activity compared with (say) bareback anal, I doubt even the most hard of thinking would describe it as 'perfectly safe'?

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And here was me thinking the kids had gone back to school.  :rolleyes:

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Make sure you let the ladies know when you book which services you would like included if possible and get the full fee for all of this. Leave wallet in car and take the full correct fee. I wouldnt recommend you leave your phone in your car because if you find her simple instructions are not so simple to follow to get to her apartment how will you phone her to tell her you are lost? She may think you are a no show if it takes you another ten minutes to walk back to your car to call her and take another booking in the mean time meaning you have wasted your time.

 

Dont pay someone at the door, dont pay a guy at the bottom of the stairs who tells you which apartment number to buzz on, its one of the oldest tricks in the book and has been documented here many a time. Give the fee to the lady you are going to be having the appointment with only x

 

Then once thats all over relax and have fun xx

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Hehe ...

 

Thanks for the funny replys and some genuine tips ..... appreciated.

 

I guess I am worrying too much .. just need to relax. I look forward to giving my review!

 

Thanks guys

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You can have a BJ without protection. Its perfectly safe as is FK unless she has cut blisters all over her mouth :)

This is complete bollox. To anybody who believes this, I have a great bridge in Brooklyn for sale .....

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This is complete bollox. To anybody who believes this, I have a great bridge in Brooklyn for sale ...

 

Your quite right, chlamydia, gonorrhoea, warts and of course thrush all live in the throat and mouth as well as genitals.

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I actually have a GF and believe it or not .. she actually told me she would be ok if I visited strip clubs and the like .... hehe every guys dream right...

 

The thing is I am extremely shy and guess I have a lot of fantasies tied up in my mind which I would not have the courage to try on my GF, love her too much ... so I need to open up my "skills" :)

 

So what exactly does "and the like" mean?   I think you have to be more specific as regards exactly how far her "ok" extends.   Are you sure that it includes sex with a WG?    Visiting a strip club is not the same as actually indulging in sex with another woman.

 

Visiting WG's will definitely take you on a learning curve particularly if you tell the lady.   But you have to pick the right lady(s).    Check out that they are happy to provide what you are looking for either by e-mail or phone prior to actually committing to the booking.   Some of them will still lie to you because they want the money but punting is taking a chance anyway and you only really know what the lady is like at the end of the booking.

 

Wanting to "open up your skills" is an excellent idea.   Irrespective of whether or not you and your girlfriend stay together knowing what pleases a woman, as well as knowing what pleases you,  is not a bad thing.   It's thinking long term not short time.    You can also get a lot of enjoyment out of having the "power" to give intense pleasure to a woman (even without penetrative sex).     it's not all about one person.    It's when both enjoy it that it's at it's best.    

 

Your girlfriend might want to indulge in your fantasies.    She might not.    This is where the word subtle comes in.    If you don't get it right then it will be bye bye girlfriend.

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Hello Ppl,

 

I am brand new to this and not expecting too much from my first one.

 

I actually have a GF and believe it or not .. she actually told me she would be ok if I visited strip clubs and the like .... hehe every guys dream right...

 

The thing is I am extremely shy and guess I have a lot of fantasies tied up in my mind which I would not have the courage to try on my GF, love her too much ... so I need to open up my 'skills' :)

 

Ideally I want a full on lapdance and maybe a BJ (Protection on) ... I Have only booked a 30 mins appt. I am very concerned about safety ... i want 99.99% safe session .... all other considerations are secondary.

 

I am planning to only have protected BJ .... any other precaution I can take? Kissing ... maybe even FK is safe right?

 

I know must be sounding like a noob ... would appreciate any other precautions I can take.

 

Also regarding the fact that ideally I want a lapdance is that a resonable request? I am not sure if many escorts would be proficient in that and might be not willing. Should I ask for it or let it go?

 

Thanks in advance .... do mention about the safety aspect :)

There are risks in crossing the street, which is something most of us do several times a day. The secret is to assess the risk and then take steps to minimise it.

 

If after thinking about visiting a SP you feel the risks are too great then stick with a hand shandy.

 

For information on the wide variety of risks read around on here for a few weeks.The H&S section is most informative.

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I am like you, i do not do OWO/FK or even the full thing most of the time.  Just a warning....it will be difficult to stop at just a BJ you will want more in the future which is not necessarily a bad thing!

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I wouldn't go in expecting a lapdance - if this is something essential to you then you should ask when making arrangements so that you don't end up wasting anybody's time. It's not something everyone would be happy to offer and it's not actually that common a request.

If you're in a relationship I think it's highly selfish on your part to risk your health by doing ANYTHING unprotected. It's not fair on your GF to be subject to that risk just so your experience can be slightly more pleasurable.

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