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Over the past 6 months i've played with the idea of going to see an escort but anxiety and money got in the way. I am a socially awkward 21 year old, something i'm working on improving but it will be years before you make improvements and I want to experience oral now, i've been masturbating for 8-9 years. I've looked into all the escorts on the 'escort site' I don't think you're allowed to say the sites name on this forum? 

I have also looked into gloryholes but the nearest was in London but one has recently opened in Manchester which is closer.

 

I like the sound of gloryholes as it is kind of half way between proper contact with a woman and just masturbating if that makes sense, she just focuses on your penis and doesn't stare at you while doing it which would make me feel a lot more tense.

 

I would like to build up to face to face oral meetings but for a first time I'm unsure if it's the best option as I don't even know if I would enjoy blowjonbs as i don't know what they feel like therefore there is the worry of not being able to keep an erection which in turn would be embarrassing, in the event of not enjoying the gloryhole scenario you could just pull out and walk out the door with less embarrassment.

 

I'm hoping someone understands the situation I am in.

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 I've looked into all the escorts on the 'escort site' I don't think you're allowed to say the sites name on this forum? 

 

It is nearly a year now since the word filter on AdultWork was lifted.

 

Other restrictions still apply, please see the Sticky Discussion Of "adultwork" Advertisers on the General Discussion forum if you need clarification.

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I may sound like a broken record...but I would suggest a massage as a first experience.

 

It's sort of halfway between an innocent meeting for relaxation and a working girl, you'll probably find that the massage part helps you relax and the occasional touches of your groin and ass areas will make you horny, help you with your erection and feel like getting the hand job. You'll find that oriental girls are very gentle and IMHO enjoy servicing you. And there's nothing like the feeling of an oily HJ  ;)

 

As you become more confident you can look for girls who offer more.....

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Over the past 6 months i've played with the idea of going to see an escort but anxiety and money got in the way. I am a socially awkward 21 year old, something i'm working on improving but it will be years before you make improvements and I want to experience oral now, i've been masturbating for 8-9 years. I've looked into all the escorts on the 'escort site' I don't think you're allowed to say the sites name on this forum? 

I have also looked into gloryholes but the nearest was in London but one has recently opened in Manchester which is closer.

 

I like the sound of gloryholes as it is kind of half way between proper contact with a woman and just masturbating if that makes sense, she just focuses on your penis and doesn't stare at you while doing it which would make me feel a lot more tense.

 

I would like to build up to face to face oral meetings but for a first time I'm unsure if it's the best option as I don't even know if I would enjoy blowjonbs as i don't know what they feel like therefore there is the worry of not being able to keep an erection which in turn would be embarrassing, in the event of not enjoying the gloryhole scenario you could just pull out and walk out the door with less embarrassment.

 

I'm hoping someone understands the situation I am in.

Not enjoy blowjobs! Strewth...

 

Worse case is you can always wank yourself into the ladies mouth: imagine wnaking but with a nice warm tongue, soft lips and mouth around your cock.

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Not enjoy blowjobs! Strewth...

 

Worse case is you can always wank yourself into the ladies mouth: imagine wnaking but with a nice warm tongue, soft lips and mouth around your cock.

the reason i say that is because i have read stories about people not enjoying blowjobs as they are very sensitive when the foreskin is pulled back

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the reason i say that is because i have read stories about people not enjoying blowjobs as they are very sensitive when the foreskin is pulled back

 

I can attest to that; I was super sensitive for years, and did not manage to acheive orgasm through oral until I was nearly 40yo

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I can attest to that; I was super sensitive for years, and did not manage to acheive orgasm through oral until I was nearly 40yo

I'm sensitive, i think..but surely it can work in your favour by being able to be brought to orgasm quicker? it's the rubbing of the hands over the end that would cause the pain i would imagine, not the wet tongue?

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I'm sensitive, i think..but surely it can work in your favour by being able to be brought to orgasm quicker? it's the rubbing of the hands over the end that would cause the pain i would imagine, not the wet tongue?

 

we're all different, you should go and find out ;)

 

It's not essential that a girl rubs their hands over the end - oral - by definition - can be done purely with the mouth.

 

NB my first time was covered, which probably helped.

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I perfectly understand the situation of fionnmaccool.

 

I started very slowly and progressed over time. Massage and relief, then onto oral, etc, etc.

 

I had all the anxiety, worry and curosity of the OP and still do to a large degree. Obviously everyone is different and everyone reacts differently.

 

I perfectly understand the sentiment about thinking whether you will enjoy oral or sex or whatever. I can say while I have enjoyed the feelings in a moment I don't think I can actually say I have trully felt relaxed enough to enjoy the experience of penetration, for example. Early on I have found these feelings so intense that they almost become uncomfortable and I have been very sensitive.

 

Personally I would say in general terms 21 is still young. However, we are all different. As long as the OP is comfortable in the choice he makes, then go for it! As for embarrassment, well yes I did and still do worry about this, but I think you have to accept embarrassing things do and will happen, experience will help you deal with them. I've found if I think "everyone has these dangly or sticky in bits and its natural and we all go through it" that has actually really helped.

 

For ages I worried about cumming and where it would end up. In the end I just thought how weird am I being, every guy who has some form of sexual contact cums and every lady deals with it and knows about it so why be embarrassed about it and what the body does?

 

I would suggest finding a lady who is well reported and seems suitable. Explain your situation, but don't go overboard (I have in the past due to nerves, being a little unsure, etc). Then just try the experience, the worst thing would be to never know.

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I should also have mentioned another option for 'breaking the ice' so to speak. Making a short booking to film a girl playing with herself, if in that situation you can get aroused and erect then it would make the 2nd somewhat easier and would take a bit of the worry away.

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I should also have mentioned another option for 'breaking the ice' so to speak. Making a short booking to film a girl playing with herself, if in that situation you can get aroused and erect then it would make the 2nd somewhat easier and would take a bit of the worry away.

i think that sounds like a good idea!

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I'm sensitive, i think..but surely it can work in your favour by being able to be brought to orgasm quicker? it's the rubbing of the hands over the end that would cause the pain i would imagine, not the wet tongue?

That's why I posted about wanking some time ago, unless your cock is well lubricated, then the foreskin is usually over your bell end?

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I may sound like a broken record...but I would suggest a massage as a first experience.

 

It's sort of halfway between an innocent meeting for relaxation and a working girl, you'll probably find that the massage part helps you relax and the occasional touches of your groin and ass areas will make you horny, help you with your erection and feel like getting the hand job. You'll find that oriental girls are very gentle and IMHO enjoy servicing you. And there's nothing like the feeling of an oily HJ  ;)

 

As you become more confident you can look for girls who offer more.....

 

I've realised recently I made the mistake of trying to run before walking so to speak.

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I may sound like a broken record...but I would suggest a massage as a first experience.

 

It's sort of halfway between an innocent meeting for relaxation and a working girl, you'll probably find that the massage part helps you relax and the occasional touches of your groin and ass areas will make you horny, help you with your erection and feel like getting the hand job. You'll find that oriental girls are very gentle and IMHO enjoy servicing you. And there's nothing like the feeling of an oily HJ  ;)

 

As you become more confident you can look for girls who offer more.....

I think I may go with a massage, they cost £25 for 30 mins but if you want to touch the woman it is £60.

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I think I may go with a massage, they cost £25 for 30 mins but if you want to touch the woman it is £60.

 

That seems a bit steep to me. Is this in a shop? I find girls in flats are more relaxed, in shops the management takes a larger cut of the initial fee so they have to charge more for 'extras'. I pay £60/hour massage / HJ and a few kisses, stroking their legs, caressing their ass......

 

Be gentle with a girl, stroke her like you would a girlfriend, a small peck of a kiss, wherever it is, does wonders: don't try and 'snog' her.

 

The girls I've spoken to like gentle guys - I find if you treat a massage girl gently you'll be rewarded, maybe not on first visit, but they'll remember  :)

 

Oh, and I always tip too, just £5 but, again, they remember  :D

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That seems a bit steep to me. Is this in a shop? I find girls in flats are more relaxed, in shops the management takes a larger cut of the initial fee so they have to charge more for 'extras'. I pay £60/hour massage / HJ and a few kisses, stroking their legs, caressing their ass......

 

Be gentle with a girl, stroke her like you would a girlfriend, a small peck of a kiss, wherever it is, does wonders: don't try and 'snog' her.

 

The girls I've spoken to like gentle guys - I find if you treat a massage girl gently you'll be rewarded, maybe not on first visit, but they'll remember  :)

 

Oh, and I always tip too, just £5 but, again, they remember  :D

No it's an independent girl but i haven't researched massage parlours to a great extent in the city, you could get a 30 minute escort session for less than £60 when you think of it,the girl only does hand relief as well.

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