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Are Punts Usually Like This?

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Hey all,

 

I've read quite a few posts here but never posted or even punted until today so any info / advice would be great! This will be a detailed and long post so be warned.

 

So I've just gotten back from my 1st ever punt with a girl from the other site and to be honest I was left a little disappointed and wondered if most punts go this way unless you have some good old experience?

 

Maybe it was because I had to shorten the booking time at short notice due to a mishap the night before that the punt didn't go as well as I'd thought it would? I had booked a 90 minute slot but the night before I used some hair removal cream on my nads and it left me with skin burn so rather than cancel (which I think I probably should have) I decided to go ahead but changed to 60mins as I knew it would be painful at times.

 

As I was cleaning up and checking the burns in the morning before the punt I didn't keep time properly so ended up being 15mins late which I did say in advance and was still happy to pay for the whole hour with just 45mins left. Are these the reasons why the following happened or is it just to do with some other factors?

 

Firstly I found her a little cold, she did smile a few times but didn't really make conversation or put me at ease even when I told her it was my first punt and first blonde lol. She later did tell me it's Friday the 13th and her hair dryer packed up in the morning... again maybe contributing to the lack of enthusiasm.

 

The next thing was squeezing her breasts which was fine until I used a bit more pressure (yes a firm squeeze but no Max Payne or anything really aggressive in my opinion) but she pulled away from our kissing and shook her head saying no, none of that as it has to be gentle. Again is this the norm?

 

French kissing was great and then got to a stage where I wanted to put my tongue further down her mouth but again she pulled back and said no, trying to put your tongue down someones throat is not kissing. Trust me when I say I do not have a long tongue and wouldn't reach anyones throat with it lol! Again maybe as a general, deep kissing isn't allowed/prefered by working girls?

 

No fingering was allowed either. By this time I was already a bit frustrated inside but kept it hidden. Her BJ was good but by now I was afraid to ask her to go deeper as it wasn't that deep and also to use her tongue as she never did once. Is there a way to suggest this or just have to accept that is all it will be? Or maybe it was because of my sore ball sack?

 

I then started to feel a bit of pain in the skin burn area and plus I'm definitely not a morning person so was struggling to keep hard except for when getting head. There was also an issue with the position I like and am used to, with me standing/leaned forward with arms on bed and she laying on her back with legs around my arms or on my shoulder. She wouldn't let me put her right leg in that position and was also using her hands to stop me from getting a full penetration, this was also a real put off and I quickly lost my erection and mood too. Again any feedback would be great, is this a common occurance? I'm of an average 6-7inches size so I was struggling to know why this happened.

 

In the end I gave up with trying other positions as I was a bit disheartened and also couldn't maintain a hard on for long so ended with a BJ finish. Which again was fine until she pulled away when I had not fully finished, I would say 80% finished but needed a few more seconds as to get the best enjoyment out of it. Do you have to specify or something or how does a WG know when you're ready to stop as all men are different?

 

When I have sex with non WG, there usually is much less restrictions as mentioned above (and I'm having to pay decent money) so if this is the case then maybe I'll just stick with the long process of courting/dating if that means a better sexual experience?

 

Any good pointers would be much appreciated and thank you in advance!

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Welcome to the world of punting!  You'll have good and you'll have bad.  Could be a number of reasons for your experience - maybe you just didn't click, maybe she's had problems with a lot of time wasters so your last minute change to the booking may have annoyed her - she might have turned down another booking because you'd originally taken up a 90 minute slot in her schedule.

 

As for the services provided you need to know before you even start what she does and does not provide.  A lot of escorts do not welcome fingering and as for the boob squeezing, well what might have seem gentle to you may not have been to her.  Don't be mislead by what you see in porn films.  Unless you're paying for the full PSE then the sex will be pretty much what you might experience with a girlfriend - although hopefully expertly and enthusiastically delivered by someone who aims to give you pleasure.

 

Oh and as you have now learned, never put hair removal cream anywhere near your gentleman's area.  Far better to shave

 

Good luck!

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There will be many crap ones many good ones and very few that blow your mind. You just have to get used to the disappointment.

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Hey all,

 

I've read quite a few posts here but never posted or even punted until today so any info / advice would be great! This will be a detailed and long post so be warned.

 

So I've just gotten back from my 1st ever punt with a girl from the other site and to be honest I was left a little disappointed and wondered if most punts go this way unless you have some good old experience?

 

Maybe it was because I had to shorten the booking time at short notice due to a mishap the night before that the punt didn't go as well as I'd thought it would? I had booked a 90 minute slot but the night before I used some hair removal cream on my nads and it left me with skin burn so rather than cancel (which I think I probably should have) I decided to go ahead but changed to 60mins as I knew it would be painful at times.

 

As I was cleaning up and checking the burns in the morning before the punt I didn't keep time properly so ended up being 15mins late which I did say in advance and was still happy to pay for the whole hour with just 45mins left. Are these the reasons why the following happened or is it just to do with some other factors?

 

Firstly I found her a little cold, she did smile a few times but didn't really make conversation or put me at ease even when I told her it was my first punt and first blonde lol. She later did tell me it's Friday the 13th and her hair dryer packed up in the morning... again maybe contributing to the lack of enthusiasm.

 

The next thing was squeezing her breasts which was fine until I used a bit more pressure (yes a firm squeeze but no Max Payne or anything really aggressive in my opinion) but she pulled away from our kissing and shook her head saying no, none of that as it has to be gentle. Again is this the norm?

 

French kissing was great and then got to a stage where I wanted to put my tongue further down her mouth but again she pulled back and said no, trying to put your tongue down someones throat is not kissing. Trust me when I say I do not have a long tongue and wouldn't reach anyones throat with it lol! Again maybe as a general, deep kissing isn't allowed/prefered by working girls?

 

No fingering was allowed either. By this time I was already a bit frustrated inside but kept it hidden. Her BJ was good but by now I was afraid to ask her to go deeper as it wasn't that deep and also to use her tongue as she never did once. Is there a way to suggest this or just have to accept that is all it will be? Or maybe it was because of my sore ball sack?

 

I then started to feel a bit of pain in the skin burn area and plus I'm definitely not a morning person so was struggling to keep hard except for when getting head. There was also an issue with the position I like and am used to, with me standing/leaned forward with arms on bed and she laying on her back with legs around my arms or on my shoulder. She wouldn't let me put her right leg in that position and was also using her hands to stop me from getting a full penetration, this was also a real put off and I quickly lost my erection and mood too. Again any feedback would be great, is this a common occurance? I'm of an average 6-7inches size so I was struggling to know why this happened.

 

In the end I gave up with trying other positions as I was a bit disheartened and also couldn't maintain a hard on for long so ended with a BJ finish. Which again was fine until she pulled away when I had not fully finished, I would say 80% finished but needed a few more seconds as to get the best enjoyment out of it. Do you have to specify or something or how does a WG know when you're ready to stop as all men are different?

 

When I have sex with non WG, there usually is much less restrictions as mentioned above (and I'm having to pay decent money) so if this is the case then maybe I'll just stick with the long process of courting/dating if that means a better sexual experience?

 

Any good pointers would be much appreciated and thank you in advance!

 You say you punted today but the WG said it was Friday the 13th, its not, its Monday 16th so that doesnt make sense.

 

My advice is ALWAYS seek confirmation the services you require are actually on offer when you enquire, book and once again in person before you hand your money over, thats the best you can do, if you then dont get those services assuming your clean its because the WG is a liar sadly. I wouldnt of bothered punting with sore nuts and a cold myself.

 

Next time post a thread up on the Information Board asking for recommendations in your area and hopefully you will get some. Good luck.

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 You say you punted today but the WG said it was Friday the 13th, its not, its Monday 16th so that doesnt make sense.

 

My advice is ALWAYS seek confirmation the services you require are actually on offer when you enquire, book and once again in person before you hand your money over, thats the best you can do, if you then dont get those services assuming your clean its because the WG is a liar sadly. I wouldnt of bothered punting with sore nuts and a cold myself.

 

Next time post a thread up on the Information Board asking for recommendations in your area and hopefully you will get some. Good luck.

I won't comment what I am really thinking because it will just get deleted again. Liars/trolls need very good memories.

 

As for the OP, this is punting. You get good and you get bad. You started off with a bad one. Just do proper research and stick to girls who have good reliable feedback and you will reduce the chances of it happening. But rest assured, it will happen.

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 You say you punted today but the WG said it was Friday the 13th, its not, its Monday 16th so that doesnt make sense.

 

My advice is ALWAYS seek confirmation the services you require are actually on offer when you enquire, book and once again in person before you hand your money over, thats the best you can do, if you then dont get those services assuming your clean its because the WG is a liar sadly. I wouldnt of bothered punting with sore nuts and a cold myself.

 

Next time post a thread up on the Information Board asking for recommendations in your area and hopefully you will get some. Good luck.

 

Sorry I had to edit this as it was first rejected and didn't notice that, the punt was indeed last Friday and not today.

 

Thanks for the replies, all very useful for a newbie like me. I know it wasn't the best of punts but I didn't realise you have to specify the fine deatils (like if she uses tongue when BJ?) when booking a visit.

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I won't comment what I am really thinking because it will just get deleted again. Liars/trolls need very good memories.

 

 You say you punted today but the WG said it was Friday the 13th, its not, its Monday 16th so that doesnt make sense..

 

Don't be so quick to judge the OP, Keen Punter! It was his first post so it will have waited to be moderated. In all probability he did post it on Friday and it has only been moderated today. At least give him the benefit of the doubt. (His post above just beat me to it and must have appeared whilst I was writing mine)

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Don't be so quick to judge the OP, Keen Punter! It was his first post so it will have waited to be moderated. In all probability he did post it on Friday and it has only been moderated today. At least give him the benefit of the doubt. 

 

You are correct Sir - it had to be edited by the OP  :)

 

As for the comment in the OP's post:

 

I then started to feel a bit of pain in the skin burn area and plus I'm definitely not a morning person so was struggling to keep hard except for when getting head. There was also an issue with the position I like and am used to, with me standing/leaned forward with arms on bed and she laying on her back with legs around my arms or on my shoulder. She wouldn't let me put her right leg in that position and was also using her hands to stop me from getting a full penetration, this was also a real put off and I quickly lost my erection and mood too. Again any feedback would be great, is this a common occurance? I'm of an average 6-7inches size so I was struggling to know why this happened.

 

I personally cannot do the position you mention above because it would hurt me considerably.. Some girls can, some can't..  Always good to ask!

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I have used veet on my balls before too.  :eek:

 

If used effectively, if gives a lovely smooth area no hair trace...but oh boy, leave the stuff on too long, or not wash it off properly, you certainly know about it. I now use an electric razor with a built in strimmer.

 

I would of re-arranged the punt as the discomfort would have distracted me. As this was your first punt, and eager to get "stuck in" I can imagine why you went ahead. Put it down to experience. :unsure:

 

I would have checked first with fingering. As already mentioned, some will, some won't. Tit squeezing in an art. Gentle with a slow build up and nipples touching combined, works well with good communication.

 

90 minutes for a first punt is okay. I would only start with an hour and if she was good, next one 90 minutes or even 2 hours.

If you want to see many different escorts on a budget, 30 minutes punts would be better.

 

To sum up, good luck with future punts. Let us know the area your in and I'll PM you with recommendations.

 

 

 

 

 

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Sorry I had to edit this as it was first rejected and didn't notice that, the punt was indeed last Friday and not today.

 

Thanks for the replies, all very useful for a newbie like me. I know it wasn't the best of punts but I didn't realise you have to specify the fine deatils (like if she uses tongue when BJ?) when booking a visit.

My advice is specify everything in detail and seek confirmation, never assume anything in punting, clear communication is essential, as i said previously as long as your clean if you then dont get what the WG agreed to offer its because she is a liar.

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OP you used the word "burnt", by that do you mean just red and sore or did you blister the skin. I wouldnt personally go near a set of blistered balls regardless of how the client said it happened. 

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My advice is specify everything in detail and seek confirmation, never assume anything in punting, clear communication is essential, as i said previously as long as your clean if you then dont get what the WG agreed to offer its because she is a liar.

Not sure about specifying everything in detail. If I were to receive an email along the lines of "how far can I stick my tongue down your throat" I'd ignore it, frankly. You'll have good punts and maybe not so good ones - you'll learn to roll with the punches  <_< Don't agonise over every punt or over-analyse commercial encounters - no two dates are the same. Until you have a bit more experience, 30 minute punts may be best.

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OP you used the word "burnt", by that do you mean just red and sore or did you blister the skin. I wouldnt personally go near a set of blistered balls regardless of how the client said it happened. 

If I had an accident like that, no way would I punt until it was fully healed.

 

Surely that is common sense ?  :blink:

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If I had an accident like that, no way would I punt until it was fully healed.

 

Surely that is common sense ?  :blink:

You would think so, thats why I asked if there was raw skin or just sore skin. You would be surprised how many people turn up with a cold sore, totally pointless. No fanny touching, no oral without, no fanny licking or kissing, may as well stay home for  a wank till its gone. I have had guys turn up with little scabs on their cocks where they have caught it in their zipper and they wonder why Im putting on a condom..I dont want a scab coming off in my mouth let alone the blood that may follow x

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I think you probably made the classic newbie mistake and choose entirely on looks rather than good reviews.

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You would think so, thats why I asked if there was raw skin or just sore skin. You would be surprised how many people turn up with a cold sore, totally pointless. No fanny touching, no oral without, no fanny licking or kissing, may as well stay home for  a wank till its gone. I have had guys turn up with little scabs on their cocks where they have caught it in their zipper and they wonder why Im putting on a condom..I dont want a scab coming off in my mouth let alone the blood that may follow x

I wouldn't punt unless I was free from any "imperfection". Not saying I am perfect but things similar to what you mention.

I had a bad outbreak of spots around the chin and lips because of the oil I work with in my job, because I didn't use gloves to protect my hands, I wouldn't punt until they were cleared up. I use gloves now and don't have the same problem.

 

I would expect these standards from a SP too.

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The lesson I would take from this is that you should try any preparatory work at last a week in advance; never the night before. Some skin reaction could be expected which would adversely affect both you and your SP.

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Not sure about specifying everything in detail. If I were to receive an email along the lines of "how far can I stick my tongue down your throat" I'd ignore it, frankly. You'll have good punts and maybe not so good ones - you'll learn to roll with the punches  <_< Don't agonise over every punt or over-analyse commercial encounters - no two dates are the same. Until you have a bit more experience, 30 minute punts may be best.

I dont send emails, i only phone and ask the questions i require answers to just as i do with anyone i am looking to do business with, its basic common sense to me, what you do is up to you. I am not willing to do business on a wing and a prayer. Seeking confirmation is absolutely essential and cuts down on me having bad punts as has been proved to me over the years. So i will be sticking to the modus that works for me, it just leaves blatant liars then which apart from walking and naming and shaming them as they are low lifes i cant do much about. Fortunately there are many more good WGs than blatant low life liars in my experiences.

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I dont send emails, i only phone and ask the questions i require answers to just as i do with anyone i am looking to do business with, its basic common sense to me, what you do is up to you. I am not willing to do business on a wing and a prayer. Seeking confirmation is absolutely essential and cuts down on me having bad punts as has been proved to me over the years. So i will be sticking to the modus that works for me, it just leaves blatant liars then which apart from walking and naming and shaming them as they are low lifes i cant do much about. Fortunately there are many more good WGs than blatant low life liars in my experiences.

Quite right. I'll ensure that I receive confirmation by e-mail, phone and on the day of the meet, exactly what I'm expecting to receive. It needn't be that long winded. In fact, it shouldn't take any more than a minute. If any WG has a problem with that, I simply move on. There's far too many fish in the sea to have any hang ups about the odd, awkward individual, in a buyer's market such as London. I employ that approach as my modus too and I've had very few problems.

 

The girls interested in providing a good service are perfectly fine and constitute the vast majority. The low lives, who try to provide as little as possible, by employing time wasting massages, idle chit chat or changing their mind on services, without good reason, deserve to be named and shamed. 

 

The attitude of 'rolling with the punches' is exactly the sort of approach that can result in a bad punt. Absolutely terrible advice for a punter but then it was from a SP rather than a punter.

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Quite right. I'll ensure that I receive confirmation by e-mail, phone and on the day of the meet, exactly what I'm expecting to receive. It needn't be that long winded. In fact, it shouldn't take any more than a minute. If any WG has a problem with that, I simply move on. There's far too many fish in the sea to have any hang ups about the odd, awkward individual, in a buyer's market such as London. I employ that approach as my modus too and I've had very few problems.

 

The girls interested in providing a good service are perfectly fine and constitute the vast majority. The low lives, who try to provide as little as possible, by employing time wasting massages, idle chit chat or changing their mind on services, without good reason, deserve to be named and shamed. 

 

The attitude of 'rolling with the punches' is exactly the sort of approach that can result in a bad punt. Absolutely terrible advice for a punter but then it was from a SP rather than a punter.

I agree with you, it was terrible advice. I ALWAYS keep to my end of whats been agreed with a WG, ensuring i am clean, on time with the right money and i expect the same courtesy back every single time without fail, i have no thoughts of rolling with the punches and simply meekly accepting bad service, just as i dont with anyone i pay my money to outside punting. Sure i know of course i am not likely to get 100% good service all the time though sadly. There is NO excuse for bad service in my view.

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Not sure about specifying everything in detail. If I were to receive an email along the lines of "how far can I stick my tongue down your throat" I'd ignore it, frankly. You'll have good punts and maybe not so good ones - you'll learn to roll with the punches  <_< Don't agonise over every punt or over-analyse commercial encounters - no two dates are the same. Until you have a bit more experience, 30 minute punts may be best.

Any bloke sending an e-mail of that nature is an idiot.

 

However, there would be nothing wrong with sending an email asking if tongues are allowed when kissing.

 

Assuming I have found the correct person on AW, you charge £200 an hour. If I was going to book you then I would want to be as certain as I could be that you would provide the services I was looking for, obviously subject to the usual cleanliness etc

 

You must be really busy and popular to charge what you do and afford to ignore potential clients because they ask for confirmation of services required. I certainly wouldn't shell out 200 sobs without confirmation.

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OP you used the word "burnt", by that do you mean just red and sore or did you blister the skin. I wouldnt personally go near a set of blistered balls regardless of how the client said it happened.

No blisters but just really sore. Yes I've learnt the hard way with the creams and not to trust reviewers as some said it worked fine for them but unless they're sack skin is like a rhino then I seriouly doubt it wouldn't burn them too.

I didn't want to cancel on the morning as I didn't want to cancel a booking so late in the day. Didn't want to rush with it being my first time so booked for 90mins but reading up on these boards means I'll stick to 60min max if I've never seen the girl.

In regards to going for looks only, it wasn't really the case as no face photos were shown. The on site reviews were good but there was only 1 field report on punternet which wasn't amazing but also wasn't negative. Again for now I'll stick with ones that have a few positive reports as it'll bode well for a better punt.

Thanks for the replies and offers to PM me recommendations. :)

Also what does SP stand for?

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It amazes me the amount of potential clients that actually don't specify what they really want and I have to tease it out of them. I really, really want to give my clients what they want and I can't do that unless I know what that is!

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It also amazes me that the seemly majority of clients are willing to turn up and put up with whatever the SP feels like doing. I wouldn't be happy with that. Not at all.

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I won't comment what I am really thinking because it will just get deleted again. Liars/trolls need very good memories.

 

As for the OP, this is punting. You get good and you get bad. You started off with a bad one. Just do proper research and stick to girls who have good reliable feedback and you will reduce the chances of it happening. But rest assured, it will happen.

Have to say,i'm thinking this is a load of what was burnt myself as well.Of all the injuries it just happens to be something that was the subject of a massive online meme

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