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A few weeks ago i went to see a Polish girl. For 90 quid, she massaged me, gave me a BBBJ finishing with a HJ. Thats it. No vaginal intercourse. So, i wasnt really committing adultery was i?

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A few weeks ago i went to see a Polish girl. For 90 quid, she massaged me, gave me a BBBJ finishing with a HJ. Thats it. No vaginal intercourse. So, i wasnt really committing adultery was i?

Are you Bill Clinton?

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Did you come ?

that's the clincher

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Did you come ?

that's the clincher

Another way of looking at it is... did you go home and give the wife an honest account of what you did?? Because after all its not adultery....

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Another way of looking at it is... did you go home and give the wife an honest account of what you did?? Because after all its not adultery....

I believe the bible says if you thought about sex with the girl then you broke the 7th comandment. Sorry to much of a catholic education makes you remember things you'd rather forget.

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the way i see it, all this adultery bull shit is just way too old fashion, that shit came form the church and has no basis in reality. please raise your hand if you like to have sex with the same person for the rest of your life. a don't think many people will, so marrage is a life companion, someone you are compatable with in life, love. sex on the other hand is a physical act of giving pleasure to each other, not emotional. i personally believe it goes against our nature to fight something that is very clearly there, (animal attraction) just because some repressed and insure dickheads in the 500 years after christ decided that it was not a good ideal to be sexually free hence controling the masses through guilt and fear.

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A few weeks ago i went to see a Polish girl. For 90 quid, she massaged me, gave me a BBBJ finishing with a HJ. Thats it. No vaginal intercourse. So, i wasnt really committing adultery was i?

next time your missus comes home having swallowed another mans cum you will no doubt inform her she hasnt cheated

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the way i see it, all this adultery bull shit is just way too old fashion, that shit came form the church and has no basis in reality. please raise your hand if you like to have sex with the same person for the rest of your life. a don't think many people will, so marrage is a life companion, someone you are compatable with in life, love. sex on the other hand is a physical act of giving pleasure to each other, not emotional. i personally believe it goes against our nature to fight something that is very clearly there, (animal attraction) just because some repressed and insure dickheads in the 500 years after christ decided that it was not a good ideal to be sexually free hence controling the masses through guilt and fear.

Interesting point of view, but in the real world what counts is how the other half of your relationship defines what is or isnt adultery, what you, the adulterer, thinks, doesn't count for ratshit.

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next time your missus comes home having swallowed another mans cum you will no doubt inform her she hasnt cheated

It's cheating - not adultry though

In my eyes, anything that is sexual is cheating - kissing, massage etc can be non-sexual - but if it's sexual then its cheating

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Did you come ?

that's the clincher

Is it???

So I can have wild sex with 15 different women, get a BJ from some more, get whipped and tied up during an hour long bondage session, meet a porn star for some rimming and anal play, then on the way home have the local scrubber against a wall in an alleyway, all the time managing to last without cumming.....

The confidently stroll through the door, kiss my wife on the cheek and pat her on the bottom secure in the knowledge that I haven't cheated. Cool!

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A friend of mine used to refer to "sex by definition" and "sex the act".

Sex the act was penetrative

Sex by definition was "two or more people, one or more orgasms".

Quite neat I thought!

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A few weeks ago i went to see a Polish girl. For 90 quid, she massaged me, gave me a BBBJ finishing with a HJ. Thats it. No vaginal intercourse. So, i wasnt really committing adultery was i?

Interestingly, or not as the case may be, this site, among many others, lays out the ground rules for applying for a divorce of the groungs of adultery, I found this bit interesting :-

You must prove through actual admission or through sufficient circumstantial evidence that your spouse has had sexual intercourse with another person of the opposite sex and that you find it intolerable to live with your spouse. If a sexual liaison short of sexual intercourse has taken place, it's suggested that the unreasonable behaviour ground is used instead.

I didn't realise until today that if your spouse had same sex sexual intercourse that you couldn't claim that as adultery, you learn something every day.

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A few weeks ago i went to see a Polish girl. For 90 quid, she massaged me, gave me a BBBJ finishing with a HJ. Thats it. No vaginal intercourse. So, i wasnt really committing adultery was i?

No, you weren't, provided she didn't swallow. Under the Adultery (Special Provisions) Act of 1928 you were engaging in 'recreational therapeutic activity' where 'issue' only occurred once that activity was completed, and was made outside the body of your partner.

So I think you got away with it, dude.

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Is this in the same bracket as gentlemen who don't touch you at all and put a condom on even though they have no hard on and then ask for hand relief? On asking said gentlement why they do this "because I am married and anything else is unfaithful"

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Is it???

So

I can have wild sex with 15 different women, get a BJ from some more, get whipped and tied up during an hour long bondage session, meet a porn star for some rimming and anal play, then on the way home have the local scrubber against a wall in an alleyway, all the time managing to last without cumming.....

The confidently stroll through the door, kiss my wife on the cheek and pat her on the bottom secure in the knowledge that I haven't cheated. Cool!

I totally misjudged you Manny, I did not know you were like that.:o:(

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I totally misjudged you Manny, I did not know you were like that.:o:(

Never used to be! You bad girls bring out the devil in me! Oh and sadly I couldnt really expect to do all that without cumming but hey I wouldn't mind trying

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A friend of mine used to refer to "sex by definition" and "sex the act".

Sex the act was penetrative

Sex by definition was "two or more people, one or more orgasms".

Quite neat I thought!

No! Sex is still sex whether there are orgasms involved or not!

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A few weeks ago i went to see a Polish girl. For 90 quid, she massaged me, gave me a BBBJ finishing with a HJ. Thats it. No vaginal intercourse. So, i wasnt really committing adultery was i?

certainly sounds like you got f**ked :o

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A few weeks ago i went to see a Polish girl. For 90 quid, she massaged me, gave me a BBBJ finishing with a HJ. Thats it. No vaginal intercourse. So, i wasnt really committing adultery was i?

Biblically, adultery is intercourse with a married woman other than your wife. Intercourse between a married man and an unmarried woman is fornication. Legally intercourse is still required but the woman can be married or not.

Ethically and culturally you probably did, you certainly cheated unless you had some existing understanding.

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Interesting point of view, but in the real world what counts is how the other half of your relationship defines what is or isnt adultery, what you, the adulterer, thinks, doesn't count for ratshit.

Why should it matter how the other half defines it ? They have the same choice the 'adulterer' has, to continue the relationship or not. Religious Rhetoric has no part in the real world any more, which is defined by tooth, claw and natural selection not religious doctrine. How the other half of the relationship defines the event is immaterial to the ethics of the situation.

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A few weeks ago i went to see a Polish girl. For 90 quid, she massaged me, gave me a BBBJ finishing with a HJ. Thats it. No vaginal intercourse. So, i wasnt really committing adultery was i?

If your wife were to have a massage for £90 is that sex...........NO

And if she gets a bit of head and brought to orgasm with a bit of finger play

Come its only a massage:rolleyes:

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Interestingly, or not as the case may be, this site, among many others, lays out the ground rules for applying for a divorce of the groungs of adultery, I found this bit interesting :-

I didn't realise until today that if your spouse had same sex sexual intercourse that you couldn't claim that as adultery, you learn something every day.

Could that be because adultery is a heterosexual concept?

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the way i see it, all this adultery bull shit is just way too old fashion, that shit came form the church and has no basis in reality. please raise your hand if you like to have sex with the same person for the rest of your life. a don't think many people will, so marrage is a life companion, someone you are compatable with in life, love. sex on the other hand is a physical act of giving pleasure to each other, not emotional. i personally believe it goes against our nature to fight something that is very clearly there, (animal attraction) just because some repressed and insure dickheads in the 500 years after christ decided that it was not a good ideal to be sexually free hence controling the masses through guilt and fear.

MMM,i can just see the wifey to be,s face when standing at the alter,

I promise to love ,honour,protect,and have sexual relations with only you until a time when i do wish to screw someone else instead.aaaahhhmmeeeeeen.

Sorry,couldnt help myself

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Could that be because adultery is a heterosexual concept?

Possibly, do you happen to know if the same sex marriage ceremony, or whatever it is called, has the same legal standing as a mixed marriage, can a same sex marriage be ended by a divorce? if so does adultery in a same sex marriage have to be with a person of the opposite sex?

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A few weeks ago i went to see a Polish girl. For 90 quid, she massaged me, gave me a BBBJ finishing with a HJ. Thats it. No vaginal intercourse. So, i wasnt really committing adultery was i?

That's a moot point but you were certainly robbed if you paid that much.

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