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So I Explain To An Escort I Have Speech Difficulties And To Communicate By Sms/email

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And yet she STILL phones. Luckily I got by and we met up, but it's only a matter of time before I end up getting a negative feedback when an escort mistakes my difficulty on the phone for a timewaster.

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That's really unfortunate that she didn't read your communications. I would probably not answer the phone, and perhaps text immediately after the call to reiterate the difficulties you have with that mode of communication? 

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Maybe she's dyslexic?

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Join the club. I don't have very good hearing (and much of my communication is from an open plan office or public transport - not easy to get away) I have also encountered girls insisting I call them. When they tell me their address I tell them unless they sms it with a postcode I'm not going to be able to see them.

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Join the club. I don't have very good hearing (and much of my communication is from an open plan office or public transport - not easy to get away) I have also encountered girls insisting I call them. When they tell me their address I tell them unless they sms it with a postcode I'm not going to be able to see them.

That sounds a bit dangerous! :eek:

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And yet she STILL phones. Luckily I got by and we met up, but it's only a matter of time before I end up getting a negative feedback when an escort mistakes my difficulty on the phone for a timewaster.

Really sorry to hear that. some people are so intolerant of any difference, hope your next experience is better.

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If you always explain by sending a text first "hi I do have speech difficulties and will be calling you today my name XXXXXX"  , bec please bel me the number of guys who want to do a milk shake while at home with the wife texting you is a mountain and we wont do text chat for that reason, the ladies who do actually have a premium rate number for you to do that shady stuff on . xx

And yet she STILL phones. Luckily I got by and we met up, but it's only a matter of time before I end up getting a negative feedback when an escort mistakes my difficulty on the phone for a timewaster.

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I don't want phone sex chat, I just want to get the booking done and meet up without being mistaken for a timewaster.

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I don't want phone sex chat, I just want to get the booking done and meet up without being mistaken for a timewaster.

Herein lies the problem.

 

A lot of guys with fully functioning ears and vocal chords will claim all sorts just to keep you texting(and emailing), we haven't a clue who is telling the truth or not - in fact I caught someone out not too long ago who was insisting the speaker/microphone on his phone wasn't working. Another recently said the only way he could communicate was via facebook because his laptop was broken, and he'd run out of credit on his phone - why wouldn't I be more sympathetic and understanding?This guy had previously bombarded me on messenger with questions about my STI status, and requests for step by step run down of what we'd do, not to mention wanting to chat every night. I've also had guys claim to be deaf then start down the line of extremely intimate questioning. Another time a guy who I knew (but had forgotten) had a hearing disability, proceeded to sent around 20 texts to agree an appointment time. At the time I was trying my best to get through town and back so the appointment could go ahead. It took so long to sort out (he didn't get to the point) that I was at the point of throwing the phone in the river.

 

We need a way of ensuring you are a fully grown adult male, who is also confident enough to make it to the door. A phone call gives us a level of commitment higher than a few texts. Also in my area I've had texts delayed by 2 - 72 hours and some never arrive............so easy to miss the crucial address message.

 

I am sure there's a way around this and being succinct in any contact is essential.

 

Have you seen any one who is reasonably established?She might provide a reference for you, you could email explaining your situation, that you've met Miss Whomever who will be prepared to vouch for you.

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This is what bugs me- there are so many timewasters when someone really does have problems on the phone it limits their chances of getting a booking. My hearing is fine but it's my speech and keeping up with the pace on a phone call that's the problem.

 

I thought having 100% positive feedback going back a few years would help, but it appears not always.

 

 

Have you seen any one who is reasonably established?

 

Yes, and I've already asked the lovely lady to vouch for me recently when an escort drove all the way to mine then left again after phoning me. But I can't keep bugging her to vouch for me again and again.

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This is what bugs me- there are so many timewasters when someone really does have problems on the phone it limits their chances of getting a booking. My hearing is fine but it's my speech and keeping up with the pace on a phone call that's the problem.

 

I thought having 100% positive feedback going back a few years would help, but it appears not always.

 

 

Yes, and I've already asked the lovely lady to vouch for me recently when an escort drove all the way to mine then left again after phoning me. But I can't keep bugging her to vouch for me again and again.

it might be worth booking via TLC, i have met clients there of nothing but email, i think the girls are more understanding of disability

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One punter sending a text to a lady sometimes forgets that the world is literally, not revolving around him.  She isn't sitting there waiting for his missives, not glancing at her phone every other minute to see if he has replied yet.  And one punter who doesn't get to the point but sends one text for every question or afterthought can be as much a nuisance as a time-waster.   I wonder if she;d reached the limit of her patience with so many texts that she decided to put herself out of her misery by picking the phone.  I flat out refuse to get into text matches as I've never known any one that understood to get all their question through as few texts as possible, rather than one text for every question.

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This is what bugs me- there are so many timewasters when someone really does have problems on the phone it limits their chances of getting a booking. My hearing is fine but it's my speech and keeping up with the pace on a phone call that's the problem.

 

I thought having 100% positive feedback going back a few years would help, but it appears not always.

 

 

Yes, and I've already asked the lovely lady to vouch for me recently when an escort drove all the way to mine then left again after phoning me. But I can't keep bugging her to vouch for me again and again.

 

This is what bugs me- there are so many timewasters when someone really does have problems on the phone it limits their chances of getting a booking. My hearing is fine but it's my speech and keeping up with the pace on a phone call that's the problem.

 

I thought having 100% positive feedback going back a few years would help, but it appears not always.

 

 

Yes, and I've already asked the lovely lady to vouch for me recently when an escort drove all the way to mine then left again after phoning me. But I can't keep bugging her to vouch for me again and again.

I just told someone off who had contacted me previously and has a reputation for emailing, texting, phoning service providers to try set up a booking with special requirements/arrangements because he's disabled, to then call me and put the phone down without speaking followed by "sorry I'm disabled and nervous". My response was that I have a lot of time for genuinely shy and/or disabled guys however he'd spoiled it by taking the p1ss. He may well be disabled and a little tentative however if you muck about it's not going to get you much sympathy.

 

So didn't the lovely lady explain to her you couldn't speak on the phone?I'm confused.

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I do get straight to the point and I don't send repeated texts or online messages. Once I have arranged a meeting (via online messaging) and she gives me her mobile number the only text I will send is one shortly before the meeting to confirm she is still ok meeting up (unless she txts me this first).

 

I can speak on the phone but I do have autism and speech difficulty that can make the other person think I am a hoax/timewaster. I've even had the GP surgery hang up on me in the past when I called trying to make an appointment.

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I do get straight to the point and I don't send repeated texts or online messages. Once I have arranged a meeting (via online messaging) and she gives me her mobile number the only text I will send is one shortly before the meeting to confirm she is still ok meeting up (unless she txts me this first).

 

I can speak on the phone but I do have autism and speech difficulty that can make the other person think I am a hoax/timewaster. I've even had the GP surgery hang up on me in the past when I called trying to make an appointment.

Gosh, this must really make your life so difficult, speaking on the 'phone is something most of us just take for granted.

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I'm guessing she phoned out of habit. Past experience tells me Escorts hate texting.

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Gosh, this must really make your life so difficult, speaking on the 'phone is something most of us just take for granted.

 

I agree. Speaking to another person (on the phone or face-to-face) and expecting them to understand your speech is something I think that is usually taken for granted. I know it isn't an accent thing because plenty of people with the same accent as myself have great difficulty understanding me, yet some people from other countries with different accents have understood me ok.

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Curious fun question to ask you?

Want to know how deaf people can get a escorts?

Because they can't hear on the phone and the escorts won't do text or email? And then how are they going to find a sex worker, because a brothel is illegal lol

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Curious fun question to ask you?

Want to know how deaf people can get a escorts?

Because they can't hear on the phone and the escorts won't do text or email? And then how are they going to find a sex worker, because a brothel is illegal lol

Just because brothels are illegal, punter does not commit an offence visiting them. (unless he is engaged with coerced WGs).

 

I've met few deaf clients when communication was through email only. As long as the guy articulate, read the website/profile properly, knows the precise dates for a meeting and does not ask unnecessarily question I can't see it will be the problem with most of the girls to accept meeting without telephone chat. If its somebody like Strawberry posted above: then it does not matter if he is deaf or not. Most will refuse bookings anyway.

 

I have over 200 SMS texts from the same guy who claimed to be deaf. I know I am not the only one, as after reading Saafe other girls had it too from the same person.  His all texts are:" I am deaf. I want to see you, pls give me your address". (not precisely, but in those lines) Not surprising that he is ignored. Deafness is not a problem, stupidity is!

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Just because brothels are illegal, punter does not commit an offence visiting them. (unless he is engaged with coerced WGs).

 

I've met few deaf clients when communication was through email only. As long as the guy articulate, read the website/profile properly, knows the precise dates for a meeting and does not ask unnecessarily question I can't see it will be the problem with most of the girls to accept meeting without telephone chat. If its somebody like Strawberry posted above: then it does not matter if he is deaf or not. Most will refuse bookings anyway.

 

I have over 200 SMS texts from the same guy who claimed to be deaf. I know I am not the only one, as after reading Saafe other girls had it too from the same person.  His all texts are:" I am deaf. I want to see you, pls give me your address". (not precisely, but in those lines) Not surprising that he is ignored. Deafness is not a problem, stupidity is!

Oh gosh I get that from a guy when I plan a tour to cov. Literally 7 texts come through at the same time from him, all identical. I am deaf. I want to see you… blah blah, sometimes it happens 7 or 8 times so you can imagine how many clock up over the space of an hour x

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I sometimes wonder how deaf or mute people get by in life considering how much we use and rely on spoken communication (in person and on telephone) and how few people know sign language (I am fairly competent in BSL but it's useless if the person I want to communicate with doesn't know it).

 

For things like making appointments (as in with GP, dentist etc) these days I just have someone make them on my behalf for me, but when it comes to making an appointment with an escort I'm on my own with that and can't exactly ask a family member to help me out there.

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We have a deaf client who books with us.  He explained via an email and once he got one booking under his belt and all was OK, he gave us permission to save a mobile phone number that he uses and now he books via text or email with no problems.  It's an exception but worth doing, and made possible because we gained mutual trust.

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