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Plan Ahead, Or Feed The Need ?

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I'm sitting here feeling very horny, and wanting to book a session with a particular London dominatrix, but due to work and personal commitments (and cash flow !) I couldn't really arrange that for sooner than next Wednesday or Thursday. Can I wait that long ? I am already finding it difficult to concentrate on anything else... anything 'wholesome', any way ! Do I work on the basis that I make the booking then have a wank so I can get some sleep, on the assumption that by next week I am bound to be 'in the mood' again, or do I forego the banquet in favour of a snack closer to hand ? I have a tendency to find planning my punting in advance very difficult. After all, I'm horny when I'm horny, not when I've scheduled in my diary several days in advance to be horny. Will I stay the course for the greater, but delayed, gratification, or will I pop over to Annabellas at MK in my lunch 'hour' tomorrow and feed my need ? My brain tells me to play the long game, but my testicles say we want it NOW !!! Last time I had this dilemma I ended up cracking and having an hour with Millie at Decadent Divas straight away instead; which was nice, but the straps and devices and submissive thoughts are back in my mind as insistent as ever. This time I'm going to hang in there....aren't I ?

 

Any one else have this dilemma (doesn't have to be kinky, vanilla punting has the same issue) between waiting for the girl you really want to see who isn't on the rota for days, or listening to the call of the balls and making the best of what's available now ? Can't wait for Miss Right ? Then see Miss Right Now !

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Yes, I have had that problem too, which is why most of my punts have been parlour punts where I can just turn up on spec. 

 

 

Sometimes when I have booked in advance I have woken on the day not particularly in the mood and half-hoping the WG will cancel, but usually end up enjoying myself.

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Parlours aren't for me and I only see indies. Circumstances mean I have to plan in advance so I know where you're coming from. Generally it's worked out ok but occasionally having looked forward to a punt for a week or two you can find yourself just not feeling up to it on the day. Oddly some of my favourite punts have been when I've felt like that. Maybe because the expectation wasn't so great.

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I tend to book up to a fortnight ahead, so must be at the extreme of the pre bookers. I have never booked a same day or next day. I like the days of anticipation leading up to the event and never feel "off" on the chosen day

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OP - that is what is all so unsatisfying about paying for sex - compared with having it on tap in a relationship.

 

When I have made the booking and I find myself sitting in a car outside a block of flats awaiting a text - I don't feel the same urge as when I made the booking. But I suppose it's like lucky dip - you never know what you'll pull out of the bag for your money and invariably it works out well.

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Certainly, if I find I can't think of anything else, then I know it's time for a punt.

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I'm sitting here feeling very horny, and wanting to book a session with a particular London dominatrix, but due to work and personal commitments (and cash flow !) I couldn't really arrange that for sooner than next Wednesday or Thursday. Can I wait that long ? I am already finding it difficult to concentrate on anything else... anything 'wholesome', any way ! Do I work on the basis that I make the booking then have a wank so I can get some sleep, on the assumption that by next week I am bound to be 'in the mood' again, or do I forego the banquet in favour of a snack closer to hand ? I have a tendency to find planning my punting in advance very difficult. After all, I'm horny when I'm horny, not when I've scheduled in my diary several days in advance to be horny. Will I stay the course for the greater, but delayed, gratification, or will I pop over to Annabellas at MK in my lunch 'hour' tomorrow and feed my need ? My brain tells me to play the long game, but my testicles say we want it NOW !!! Last time I had this dilemma I ended up cracking and having an hour with Millie at Decadent Divas straight away instead; which was nice, but the straps and devices and submissive thoughts are back in my mind as insistent as ever. This time I'm going to hang in there....aren't I ?

 

Any one else have this dilemma (doesn't have to be kinky, vanilla punting has the same issue) between waiting for the girl you really want to see who isn't on the rota for days, or listening to the call of the balls and making the best of what's available now ? Can't wait for Miss Right ? Then see Miss Right Now !

I am mainly a same day punter not knowing until i wake up whether i fancy a punt or not, i also dont like a build-up which i know some punters do. I would of already done my research though and if the plan A WG isnt available i always have a plan B i can book instead. IMO just choosing anyone out of the need for a punt is not a good idea and can lead to bad punts in my experience of when i used to do that myself.

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I'm in the plan ahead camp.

My worst experiences were from impulse appointments as I don't always make the best judgements choosing with the little head.

I love the anticipation knowing that I'll be having great sex soon. Usually when the knickers drop I don't have a problem "being in the mood"

I think for last minute appointments, parlours would be the best option as you can interact with the girl beforehand at least.

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I am mainly a same day punter not knowing until i wake up whether i fancy a punt or not, i also dont like a build-up which i know some punters do. I would of already done my research though and if the plan A WG isnt available i always have a plan B i can book instead. IMO just choosing anyone out of the need for a punt is not a good idea and can lead to bad punts in my experience of when i used to do that myself.

 

Sounds like you Plan Ahead so you are ready to Feed the Need when it arises. I'm pretty much the same. I'm usually a same day or evening before booker, but will have been thinking about who I would like to see for some time before that. When I book too far in advance other things often get in the way.

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Sounds like you Plan Ahead so you are ready to Feed the Need when it arises. I'm pretty much the same. I'm usually a same day or evening before booker, but will have been thinking about who I would like to see for some time before that. When I book too far in advance other things often get in the way.

Yes i am, my only exceptions to this have been WGs like Shanelle of St Albans that get so booked up that its a week next Wednesday or she couldnt fit me in and a party provider where i booked my weeks partying at 9am on a Monday to guarantee my spot.

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I'm a planner. I only ever visit ladies when I'm working away from home, so it's not as if I have a range of known opportunities to hand on the day. I have to say the anticipation over the days and weeks ahead are part of the whole appeal for me, especially if it's a lady I know, because catching up with someone you like a lot is one of life's great pleasures.

 

If it's someone new, then there's the different but equally pleasurable anticipation of the unknown :)

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Reactive or proactive, its the vice that rules.

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Parlours aren't for me and I only see indies. Circumstances mean I have to plan in advance so I know where you're coming from. Generally it's worked out ok but occasionally having looked forward to a punt for a week or two you can find yourself just not feeling up to it on the day. Oddly some of my favourite punts have been when I've felt like that. Maybe because the expectation wasn't so great.

I have found that quite often, if I've planned ahead too far. I'll only plan ahead on an RB, for qualitative, best price purposes, naturally. :)

 

The problem with planning too far ahead, in general, is that I may then want to do something else or no longer feel up to it. Therefore, I prefer impulse punts, if I'm doing incalls.

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I take advance booking with a pinch of salt, (unless of the "I am in the area in a hotel on x day").

 

I don't understand how anyone can know they will be horny a week on Wednesday! So I would say most of my clients are same day, or within 24hr bookers.

 

However if a specialist provider is only available a week on Wednesday and you are of limited funds and it is what you really want, maybe waiting is the order of the day, and utilise "home" porn in the meantime.

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On the day. Often booking ahead has proved to be a disaster, for various reasons. Only time I do try to pre-book is with girls who are very popular and you can never get a booking on the day, but that'll only be by a day or two.

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I take advance booking with a pinch of salt, (unless of the "I am in the area in a hotel on x day").

 

I don't understand how anyone can know they will be horny a week on Wednesday! So I would say most of my clients are same day, or within 24hr bookers.

 

However if a specialist provider is only available a week on Wednesday and you are of limited funds and it is what you really want, maybe waiting is the order of the day, and utilise "home" porn in the meantime.

Not sure what you mean by take them with a pinch of salt? Do you not believe they'll turn up?

My circumstances are such that I have to plan ahead, often a week in advance - sometimes more and I explain this on initial contact. I've never had a problem booking, have never been let down, nor have i ever failed to turn up. An agreed confirmation message or phone call either the day before or on the day has worked ok up to now.

Having waited a week or more generally takes care of feeling horny! ;)

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Not sure what you mean by take them with a pinch of salt? Do you not believe they'll turn up?

My circumstances are such that I have to plan ahead, often a week in advance - sometimes more and I explain this on initial contact. I've never had a problem booking, have never been let down, nor have i ever failed to turn up. An agreed confirmation message or phone call either the day before or on the day has worked ok up to now.

Having waited a week or more generally takes care of feeling horny! ;)

 

 

That is exactly what I mean. Obviously I will pencil the booking in and ask for a confirmation call the day before/on the morning. But generally 80% won't confirm, so Burty you are an exception!

 

As to the comment from Tompunt1 about popular girls, I do all right in the fact that it is "hard" to get a same day appointment with me at exactly the time you want as I don't sit in the house 24/7 waiting for the phone to ring. I am out and about and see people that fit in to my schedule so best to ring the day before.

 

So generally I would expect the more notice you give a lady the more chance of being seen exactly on the time and date your require. I am just saying "in my experience" this is best done 24hr in advance and no longer.

 

But my favourite comment over the years is from someone who booked two weeks in advance and had the courtesy to ring on the day to cancel as "he had woken up un-enthused about sex today". The phrasing has stuck in my mind for years! Lol

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That is exactly what I mean. Obviously I will pencil the booking in and ask for a confirmation call the day before/on the morning. But generally 80% won't confirm, so Burty you are an exception!

 

As to the comment from Tompunt1 about popular girls, I do all right in the fact that it is "hard" to get a same day appointment with me at exactly the time you want as I don't sit in the house 24/7 waiting for the phone to ring. I am out and about and see people that fit in to my schedule so best to ring the day before.

 

So generally I would expect the more notice you give a lady the more chance of being seen exactly on the time and date your require. I am just saying "in my experience" this is best done 24hr in advance and no longer.

 

But my favourite comment over the years is from someone who booked two weeks in advance and had the courtesy to ring on the day to cancel as "he had woken up un-enthused about sex today". The phrasing has stuck in my mind for years! Lol

Interesting, I'll have to ask the next girls I see whether they thought I'd turn up or not :)

As regards waking up un-enthused about sex - as I referred to above I've occasionally felt like that, but I wouldn't cancel (unless I was genuinely unwell) as I accept that is the way I have to punt and if the wg was good enough to accept and confirm a booking it would be unfair to cancel. As I also mentioned, most times when I've felt un-enthused (love that phrase!) - I've ended up having a great time....

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