Rani Desi Nagarvadhu

And Would You Like A Fake Orgasm With That ?

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I am quite fortunate in that I orgasm quite easily, but I do know many other Wg and myself sometimes do not reach orgasm so do you prefer us to fake it or would you prefer us to just slate your lust and leave it at that?

 

Also would you like us to tell you the truth about your sexual performance ?

 

I am only asking because it seems asking intrusive questions and comments seems to be very popular at the moment. 

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Rani,

 

Nice to think of you enjoying all those orgasms! if you (and they) have the sense of humour for it, then I think you should definitely give each of your clients a post-punt report on their performance.

 

Cheers!

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If the wg really does have an orgasm with me then that's great. If she doesn't and can make a good effective job of faking it then that's good as well. If she is a terrible actress then she should not try to pretend but at the same time she needs to put some effort in to justify the fact that she's being paid to provide me with some happiness.

What she says to the punter would depend on what sort of rapport she has (or thinks she has) with him and vice-versa. Nobody likes criticism but constructive advice should always be welcomed (not bullshit) but you have to be very very very careful how you critique someone's performance good, bad or indifferent.

A wg doesn't like a punter criticising her if he considers she is not fully providing the service she is being paid for and punters themselves are no different.

I can only think of three wg's that I have visited from whom I would accept advice about "my performance and skills".

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I am quite fortunate in that I orgasm quite easily, but I do know many other Wg and myself sometimes do not reach orgasm so do you prefer us to fake it or would you prefer us to just slate your lust and leave it at that?

 

Also would you like us to tell you the truth about your sexual performance ?

 

I am only asking because it seems asking intrusive questions and comments seems to be very popular at the moment. 

NO!!! :D

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Without meaning this to sound selfish or uncaring as that isn't the intention - but whether the wg I've booked has an orgasm or not is of little or no consequence to me. It isn't something I think about, it isn't why I'm there or why I'm paying her. I'd also rather she didn't fake an orgasm either..

To qualify the above - I don't want her to be hating every second of our encounter and of course I'd like her to have obtained at least some enjoyment from our meeting. If she enjoyed herself sexually then all the better, and if she was to give guidance of how she likes something done to help achieve it then great - but as long as she thought I was clean, decent and respectful and would be happy to see me again if we got along ok - then that's good enough for me.

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Isnt lying there and not cumming or not even giving a pretence of cumming whilst a guy is licking away at your fanny a performance critique in itself? Its not going to make a guy feel that fabulous if you just lay there and get a little turned on now and again but its obvious regardless of what he tries it gets you nowhere. 

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Without meaning this to sound selfish or uncaring as that isn't the intention - but whether the wg I've booked has an orgasm or not is of little or no consequence to me. It isn't something I think about, it isn't why I'm there or why I'm paying her. I'd also rather she didn't fake an orgasm either..

To qualify the above - I don't want her to be hating every second of our encounter and of course I'd like her to have obtained at least some enjoyment from our meeting. If she enjoyed herself sexually then all the better, and if she was to give guidance of how she likes something done to help achieve it then great - but as long as she thought I was clean, decent and respectful and would be happy to see me again if we got along ok - then that's good enough for me.

^^^This^^^

 

And no, I wouldn't want feedback on my performance.  I do my best to give the lady pleasure but I'm perfectly well aware I'm not the world's greatest lover no matter how hard I try.  And it does make it difficult when you don't know whether the response you're getting is real or faked so you might be doing something that on the face of it is really turning her on.  But the truth might be she's putting it on and actually thinking about what she's going to have for tea

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I am quite fortunate in that I orgasm quite easily, but I do know many other Wg and myself sometimes do not reach orgasm so do you prefer us to fake it or would you prefer us to just slate your lust and leave it at that?

 

Also would you like us to tell you the truth about your sexual performance ?

 

I am only asking because it seems asking intrusive questions and comments seems to be very popular at the moment. 

If a WG really orgasms thats great though highly unlikely with my sexual technique but i need to know a woman inside out to know for sure they really did orgasm, in punting some WGs see it as in their business interest to fake, i have also witnessed great acting by some WGs at parties who know every trick in the book to convince a punter they really did orgasm. I then punt with the same WGs and they say they had to move the other punter along so faked, he went away happy.

 

I would rather have no pretence of faking but if a WG decides to fake at least make it convincing. I had an EE WG fake before i even touched her, she started fake moaning, now i am not that good, or in fact any good at all so that was just a big turn-off. As to being told the truth about my sexual performance i already know the truth.

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And no, I wouldn't want feedback on my performance.

 

A memorable line from Simon Munnery's League Against Tedium recently repeated on Radio 4 Extra:  "The electric guitar is like making love: much improved by a little feedback; completely ruined by too much."

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Again we meet the considerable diversity of human sexuality and experience and as such it shows how trying to make one particular experience or desire preeminent is a pointless exercise when it comes to the varied sexual interests of us all. 

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Again we meet the considerable diversity of human sexuality and experience and as such it shows how trying to make one particular experience or desire preeminent is a pointless exercise when it comes to the varied sexual interests of us all. 

 

 

yes but its fun trying!

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I can't stand fakery in any guise. I would love to make every partner orgasm all day and all night, but I suspect my technique needs improving.

 

A lot would depend on just how any critique was delivered. It could work well but equally could be a disaster.

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I can't stand fakery in any guise. I would love to make every partner orgasm all day and all night, but I suspect my technique needs improving.

 

A lot would depend on just how any critique was delivered. It could work well but equally could be a disaster.

 

I would venture to say that so often it is much more than technique that is the key to success but equally important is the sense of presence that a man can project.

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I rather she doesn't fake it and I don't mind being told what gets her going as all women a different, although I haven't had a problem with my tongue to date.

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I rather she doesn't fake it and I don't mind being told what gets her going as all women a different, although I haven't had a problem with my tongue to date.

 

Sorry but isn't that the whole point - how do you know?

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If a WG really orgasms thats great though highly unlikely with my sexual technique but i need to know a woman inside out to know for sure they really did orgasm, in punting some WGs see it as in their business interest to fake, i have also witnessed great acting by some WGs at parties who know every trick in the book to convince a punter they really did orgasm. I then punt with the same WGs and they say they had to move the other punter along so faked, he went away happy.

 

I would rather have no pretence of faking but if a WG decides to fake at least make it convincing. I had an EE WG fake before i even touched her, she started fake moaning, now i am not that good, or in fact any good at all so that was just a big turn-off. As to being told the truth about my sexual performance i already know the truth.

Perhaps that EE girl simply came as a direct result of your personal magnetism! :P

 

I agree with Burty's position, so it is of little consequence to me if the WG comes or not. I really don't care, even if mutual pleasure is preferable to me. I'm a selfish bastard, when punting and I'm paying for MY pleasure. It's not a date, after all.

 

And as you say, how would you really know, unless you knew the woman inside out? I do agree with you though, that the fake porn star shit would be extremely irritating. Thankfully, I've been spared that.

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So the upshot is that no one would be bothered if a girl didnt pretend to cum at all?

 

The fact that its the guys pleasure that counts goes without saying really I would have thought. Would you lot really walk away happy as larry if a girl had been completely crash test dummy whilst you were licking or fingering away? Would it not make you feel as if perhaps your technique is possibly not as shit hot as you thought thus take away from the enjoyment of the booking in some small way?

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So the upshot is that no one would be bothered if a girl didnt pretend to cum at all?

 

The fact that its the guys pleasure that counts goes without saying really I would have thought. Would you lot really walk away happy as larry if a girl had been completely crash test dummy whilst you were licking or fingering away? Would it not make you feel as if perhaps your technique is possibly not as shit hot as you thought thus take away from the enjoyment of the booking in some small way?

 

No, there's a middle ground surely.  I think the general consensus is we'd all really like the girl to enjoy it and that's what we set out aiming to achieve, even though the bottom line is we're paying for our pleasure.  I'd love to think that those moans are real and that she's enjoying it, but I can't shake off the feeling it's all an act.  The simple fact is, depending on how honest she is and how well she acts the part, we never know for sure.  The only thing I think that can be stated for certain is that if she just lay motionless and silent there while we bang away we would consider that to be a bad punt.  

 

Thing is, we know we're enjoying it - but we can never really know what you're thinking

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So the upshot is that no one would be bothered if a girl didnt pretend to cum at all?

The fact that its the guys pleasure that counts goes without saying really I would have thought. Would you lot really walk away happy as larry if a girl had been completely crash test dummy whilst you were licking or fingering away? Would it not make you feel as if perhaps your technique is possibly not as shit hot as you thought thus take away from the enjoyment of the booking in some small way?

Quiet encouragement works for me, little moans and noises as if she is at least enjoying it - but no screaming Meg Ryan type fake orgasms is what I was referring to. Edited by Burty

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Quiet encouragement works for me, little moans and noises as if she is at least enjoying it - but no screaming Meg Ryan type fake orgasms is what I was referring to.

right so its not the faking it thats the issue..its the quality of the faking.

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I'm still having problems slating my lust.  

 

Any tips?

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I have had tips (=feedback) from wg. "I liked that, touch me more here". "figure 8 with your tongue". I have found it as helpful as responses from other girls. I welcome it if provided with kindness. I think also that if I was total crap they wouldn't bother.

I think faking may be like smiling. That the act of doing it becomes partly true. Self fulfilling prophesy. If you force a smile, you become happier. Similarly, I think girls that pretend to enjoy, encourage the man, and a positive cycle results. Better than the alternative.

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With a case of faking of an orgasm for WG: Its damned if you do, and damned if you not.

 

I generally don't: if its happened occasionally- excellent!  if it does not- even better.  The worst situation when client insists and would not give up, unless he will bring you to the climax. The only way then: its either push yourself to the orgasm, even when you not feel close to it (which is not easy), or fake it. (which is even more difficult to do it convincingly).

 

Through the years, I am still not convinced that some guys can recognise if the women genuinely cum or not, which is understandable, because the signs are so complex and differs so vastly from one woman to another.

 

I was in situations when client said to me that I mega orgasmic woman and already cum 3 times (I definitely did not, or even attempted to fake it). Some clients could not tell when I did genuinely orgasmed.

 

I am so glad that is much easier with with a guys, even though some said that they cum without ejaculation for medical reasons. (Zhivago probabaly would say, that they faked it, lol), or ejaculated, but claimed it was not an "orgasm" as such. (Zhivago probabaly would say: that they feel like to spunk away and leave, as they did not got any enjoyment). ;-p

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With a case of faking of an orgasm for WG: Its damned if you do, and damned if you not.

 

I am so glad that is much easier with with a guys, even though some said that they cum without ejaculation for medical reasons. (Zhivago probabaly would say, that they faked it, lol), or ejaculated, but claimed it was not an "orgasm" as such. (Zhivago probabaly would say: that they feel like to spunk away and leave, as they did not got any enjoyment). ;-p

?? Dr Z said that he doesn't give a monkeys whether they fake it or not! You'd have to ask them, whether they enjoyed my spunk or not. I certainly know that I enjoyed it! :D

 

I'm sure that every WG has genuine orgasms with me anyway, so no, I doubt that they fake it! :lol:

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With a case of faking of an orgasm for WG: Its damned if you do, and damned if you not.

 

I generally don't: if its happened occasionally- excellent!  if it does not- even better.  The worst situation when client insists and would not give up, unless he will bring you to the climax. The only way then: its either push yourself to the orgasm, even when you not feel close to it (which is not easy), or fake it. (which is even more difficult to do it convincingly).

 

Through the years, I am still not convinced that some guys can recognise if the women genuinely cum or not, which is understandable, because the signs are so complex and differs so vastly from one woman to another.

 

I was in situations when client said to me that I mega orgasmic woman and already cum 3 times (I definitely did not, or even attempted to fake it). Some clients could not tell when I did genuinely orgasmed.

 

I am so glad that is much easier with with a guys, even though some said that they cum without ejaculation for medical reasons. (Zhivago probabaly would say, that they faked it, lol), or ejaculated, but claimed it was not an "orgasm" as such. (Zhivago probabaly would say: that they feel like to spunk away and leave, as they did not got any enjoyment). ;-p

 

Xenia I'm 58 and I've never successfully faked an orgasm yet  :D

 

Fact is for me I share the same view I saw expressed somewhere else - I'd really like her to enjoy it (and not just to satisfy my own vanity) but I don't expect it because in reality she would never be having sex with me of her own free choice.  In reality the best I hope for is that she doesn't find the whole experience too repugnant  :)

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