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My apologies if this topic has already been raised. Ladies, what do you remember about your very first paid encounter? Were you excited at the prospect of being paid for something that you (hopefully) were going to enjoy or were you nervous about having sex with someone you hadn't met before?. I have often wondered what was going through an escort's mind at that time. I am assuming that the majority of you Ladies started out working for an agency or parlour and therefore had very little control over the person who was to be your first client. On the other hand, if I am wrong in this assumption and you have always been an "Indie" presumably you would at least have some idea of the type of man you were going to meet even if this was by way of a communication on the phone. Would be pleased to hear from you Ladies on this topic. Any of you Ladies who have met me know that I am a great admirer of you girls.and have spent many happy hours in your company for which very many thanks..

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My apologies if this topic has already been raised. Ladies, what do you remember about your very first paid encounter? Were you excited at the prospect of being paid for something that you (hopefully) were going to enjoy or were you nervous about having sex with someone you hadn't met before?. I have often wondered what was going through an escort's mind at that time. I am assuming that the majority of you Ladies started out working for an agency or parlour and therefore had very little control over the person who was to be your first client. On the other hand, if I am wrong in this assumption and you have always been an "Indie" presumably you would at least have some idea of the type of man you were going to meet even if this was by way of a communication on the phone. Would be pleased to hear from you Ladies on this topic. Any of you Ladies who have met me know that I am a great admirer of you girls.and have spent many happy hours in your company for which very many thanks..

Great to see you posting Jack. :)

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My apologies if this topic has already been raised. Ladies, what do you remember about your very first paid encounter? Were you excited at the prospect of being paid for something that you (hopefully) were going to enjoy or were you nervous about having sex with someone you hadn't met before?. I have often wondered what was going through an escort's mind at that time. I am assuming that the majority of you Ladies started out working for an agency or parlour and therefore had very little control over the person who was to be your first client. On the other hand, if I am wrong in this assumption and you have always been an "Indie" presumably you would at least have some idea of the type of man you were going to meet even if this was by way of a communication on the phone. Would be pleased to hear from you Ladies on this topic. Any of you Ladies who have met me know that I am a great admirer of you girls.and have spent many happy hours in your company for which very many thanks..

 

Hi Jack

 

I've never worked for an agency or brothel. I preferred to be in complete control over whom I saw.

 

My first time was amazing. I started out as a camgirl. I was often asked by the payers if I'd meet them. There were a few I really wanted to meet in person, but just didn't have the courage to take that step. Anyway, I eventually decided to meet one of the gents who had been booking shows daily.

 

I met him in Leicester square for lunch. After lunch he asked whether I'd like to go home or go back to the hotel with him for some private time. I'd already made up my mind when I first clapped eyes on him anyway. I could not wait to be alone with him! I had an amazing time. He gave me a very large tip afterwards. I refused to accept as I'd had such a wonderful time, but he still shoved it in my hand and said he was very grateful that I'd agreed to finally meet him. I counted it when I got home. It was an obscene amount  :eek:  I gave up camming a week later and have not looked back since... That was back in 2002

 

I think it helped that I had met up with someone whom I had been chatting to for a year or so. It was an easy transition as he was not a complete stranger. Most of the cammers became my visitors so it was not as if I were meeting complete strangers as I already knew what they looked like and had built up a rapport over the year. I still see them to this day. We are growing old[er] together! :)

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HI,

 

Not sure why on earth you think most people start out working for agencies and brothels...it makes no sense at all, but never mind.

 

Anyway, my first time I was exceptionally nervous, but also excited, I got into escorting via swinging so the sex with a stranger thrill was familiar but I suppose it was the taboo of being paid for it. Agreed to meet someone at their work place which I would never do now....newbies  :lol:

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Great to see you posting Jack. :)

Thank you very much Smiths. I have an eye sight problem so I am not a very frequent poster on this Forum

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Hi Jack

 

I've never worked for an agency or brothel. I preferred to be in complete control over whom I saw.

 

My first time was amazing. I started out as a camgirl. I was often asked by the payers if I'd meet them. There were a few I really wanted to meet in person, but just didn't have the courage to take that step. Anyway, I eventually decided to meet one of the gents who had been booking shows daily.

 

I met him in Leicester square for lunch. After lunch he asked whether I'd like to go home or go back to the hotel with him for some private time. I'd already made up my mind when I first clapped eyes on him anyway. I could not wait to be alone with him! I had an amazing time. He gave me a very large tip afterwards. I refused to accept as I'd had such a wonderful time, but he still shoved it in my hand and said he was very grateful that I'd agreed to finally meet him. I counted it when I got home. It was an obscene amount  :eek:  I gave up camming a week later and have not looked back since... That was back in 2002

 

I think it helped that I had met up with someone whom I had been chatting to for a year or so. It was an easy transition as he was not a complete stranger. Most of the cammers became my visitors so it was not as if I were meeting complete strangers as I already knew what they looked like and had built up a rapport over the year. I still see them to this day. We are growing old[er] together! :)

I found your post very interesting indeed Jasmin. I doubt very much whether the majority of the Ladies on this Forum started in the same way as you!! I wonder if many of you Ladies started out as a "cam girl"?. Anyway, I am very grateful to you for taking the time to post. Jack

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HI,

 

Not sure why on earth you think most people start out working for agencies and brothels...it makes no sense at all, but never mind.

 

Anyway, my first time I was exceptionally nervous, but also excited, I got into escorting via swinging so the sex with a stranger thrill was familiar but I suppose it was the taboo of being paid for it. Agreed to meet someone at their work place which I would never do now....newbies  :lol:

Thank you Fanny. I must say that I have learned quite a lot from your post and that of Jasmin. I must admit that I didn't realise that some of you Ladies started off by swinging and being cam girls. Shows what a sheltered life I must have lead. :D  :D

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I too had a swinging background but needed some money quickly to help somebody close that was not at all well and this was the best way to achieve that.  My first booking as an Indie ( had a couple of weeks in a brothel as a youngster that wasn't good) was a great experience with a super guy.

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I actually started out as a direct chat girl then similarly I got asked over and over by a guy I chatted to for a paid meet.He had reassuring feedback and so a week later I met up with him had a rather fun hour in bed and he paid me £100Afterwards I expected to feel guilt or shame but I felt rather chuffed so carried on.So I also started as an indy escort.

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Back in 1994-1995, when me, my sister and ours girlfriend together established entertainment joint with some stage comedians performers to provide lap/table/stage dancing for various bachelor parties, city boys, etc.  Some booked especially the "blue performers", ie  girls who could do oral sex and sometimes penetrative sex to the willing or unwilling victim on the stage.

 

It was not much money to be made then, considering  it could end up as 16 hours work on a day (never even mention time to organise it)- leaving at about 11am, 3-4 hours drive,  1-2 hours preparation, whole evening, and eventually get home at around 3-4am.

 

Girls who only did dancing did not even earned £200,  Girls who provided more on the stage obviously earned a bit more

but still never exceeded  £300 (on a good day), after all the expenses paid. We "paid" to ourselves around £80, or more if we danced also.

 

At first we advertised in local newspapers and contact magasines, but eventually started worked with previous contacts. Then I decided to make a website for our "little company".

I did had a bit of programing knowledge, and made ours first very basic website back in 1995/96. It hardly brought us any more lucrative contacts, (probably because website was shite, and not many people were on the net also back then)

I was searching then, how to improve our net advertising.  Google was not in existence then, mainly it was used Yahoo and Lycos. Then  while searching I came across to some Escort Agencies websites. I remember Luna Flares was the first, then some directories also. Was not many then- three or four, as well as alt.sex. Some independent escort girls websites were present also: two dosens or so through the whole UK. (if that!)

 

I decided to give it a go then, and smacked my personal escort website, in 1996 with only 3 pages and 2 pictures, without stating the charges.  (I still was not sure then about legalities of this industry back then and net advertising, not much you could find on the web either). After I've uploaded my website, next day I received a booking.  He offered £600, for 3 hours and only 30 miles away. Of course I was flying to it!  It was such an enormous amount of money for me then, for such a short amount of time to earn!  If I was offered it now, I would thought he was a timewaster.

 

Well, he was not! (in fact it was hardly any timewasters back then). The rest is a history.

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Hello Jack!  *waves*

 

I started out doing adult phone lines then when I realised escorting was more lucrative I took the plunge by getting me on AW. 

My first client was at about 2am, not long after I had finished fiddling with my profile. I would NEVER see anyone I hadn't met before at that hour now! 

 

He was lovely, a perfect first client and I saw him for a couple of years until he moved away. He now pops by for a cup of tea when he's in the area and is more of a friend these days. 

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When you think of the potential for things to go wrong It's nice to see that all first time experiences recounted so far seem to be positive.  I know how nervous I was my first time as a punter.  I can't imagine what it must have been like for you women on your first time from the other perspective.  Magnified ten-fold I would have thought.  But I suppose there must be plenty for whom it isn't so good, and maybe puts them off altogether? 

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Hello Jack!  *waves*

 

I started out doing adult phone lines then when I realised escorting was more lucrative I took the plunge by getting me on AW. 

My first client was at about 2am, not long after I had finished fiddling with my profile. I would NEVER see anyone I hadn't met before at that hour now! 

 

He was lovely, a perfect first client and I saw him for a couple of years until he moved away. He now pops by for a cup of tea when he's in the area and is more of a friend these days. 

Is this a service that has escaped me over the years?

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Thanks to all you ladies who have replied to this thread. Very interesting and informative they were too. I expect that a lot of the ladies on this Forum are too shy to give their version of what happened when they first started out. :D  :D . Only joking of course - I love all you Ladies & don't know what I would have done without you. Thanks again (and a special wave to Lydia).

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I remember the day I first started like it was yesterday. I was new to the whole scene, done nothing adventurous before. I started with an agency, and was checking their website every morning to see if my photos were up yet. I presumed I'd get a few days notice for a job and I'd get a couple a month. Little did I know..!

It was a Sunday morning, and I had a man friend over the night before and had just promised to make us both a Sunday lunch. Then my phone rings...Hello Jasmine it's Chrissy from Bunnies, got your first client, you have to get there within the next 90mins as his parents are back in a few hours. *shit*. Luckily I'd told one of my housemates about starting escorting, so grabbed her and said I don't care what you do, get rid of my friend and I'll take you for dinner later. I don't know what she said but he went. I showered and then threw on what I thought was a dress and grappled with a pair of stockings and the nearest matching underwear I could find and called a cab. I realised in the can I'd actually put a top on so spent the whole journey tugging it down over my stocking tops. The house was in the middle of nowhere, no house numbers, they all had names instead, and most of the name signs were covered with foliage. I wasn't experienced at telling cab drivers excuses as to why I had no idea which house it was. Found it eventually. Client was wonderful. I think if he was a horror I probably would've quit. I went to the loo to count the money when I arrived, it took me ages as I was so nervous I kept losing count. I'd never handled more than about £50 in cash and now I'd been handed a few hundred! Afterwards I always imagined I'd feel dirty and need a scrub in a hot shower, but in fact I felt it was normal and liberating.

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ps. The housemate who threw the friend out became an escort three months after I started :)

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I will admit I started out with agencies and the first guy was a bit pants, but nothing horrifying. My first indie client was lovely.  I think I was more nervous with the first indie client because suddenly the way I performed was all my responsibility and I couldn't blame anything on the agent!  But the client was lovely and became a reular.  Don't want to say too much because that would be telling!

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God, I must be the only person who can't remember at all  :blink:.

 

I remember my first incall purely because it was horrendous; the flat where I was working had the heating cranked up too high in the room so the place was like an oven and I got whinged at because I didn't know I was meant to put a towel on the bed (which I haven't ever done since, because shagging on a towel is gross) and the whole thing was excruciating. The punter wanted to me to wear a horrible tacky nurse outfit and it didn't fit although admittedly I couldn't have looked any more of a twat if it had.

 

Needless to say, he didn't come back and I nearly didn't either :D.

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My first was extremely memorable..... and started me off on this life of ruin...... always with a grin on my face though!

 

I have posted it more than once on here when the question has been asked..... I now wish I had kept my script and could have pasted it in.

 

So for those of you who didn't read it last time..................................................................... you will never know.

 

:P

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My first was extremely memorable..... and started me off on this life of ruin...... always with a grin on my face though!

 

I have posted it more than once on here when the question has been asked..... I now wish I had kept my script and could have pasted it in.

 

So for those of you who didn't read it last time..................................................................... you will never know.

 

:P

Spoilsport! :eek:

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My first booking was with an agency. I was terrified; literally shaking, I thought I was going to crash my car on the way there. Having not had sex with more than 1 person in the previous 6 years did nothing to quell the nerves! :D Luckily the guy was very understanding when I told him it was my first time (I had to tell him why I was so nervous), and he was very gentle. 

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There is a well known WG in Watford who likes to blog a lot. She descibed her first time.

 

She was working as a nurse and a recovering patient paid her £50 to wank him off.

 

She has a vivid imagination though. But the blogs can be hilarious.

 

Good punt to, but pricey.

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My first was extremely memorable..... and started me off on this life of ruin...... always with a grin on my face though!

 

I have posted it more than once on here when the question has been asked..... I now wish I had kept my script and could have pasted it in.

 

So for those of you who didn't read it last time..................................................................... you will never know.

 

:P

Think I did, but I've forgotten! :blink:

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Think I did, but I've forgotten! :blink:

ok...... I found it.... and this subject was only asked in August!

  

I am pasting it.... hence the strange format...

 

I remember my first booking well. I let him stay way over time as I hadn't grown my assertive wings at that time but it was an ok meeting.

 

I was not nervous in the slightest but excited and eager.  He wouldn't shut his mush and gave me his life story was very talkative and I hardly got a word in.

 

He is still on the scene but is now well known as a time waster ..... such a shame.  He will get away with it when booking new girls I suppose but many of the agencies and indies here in the north east are aware of him.

 

That first appointment got me absolutely hooked.

 

Jump forward a few years to my first AW booking.  Being reluctant to join the site for a very long time I eventually gave it a try and my first clientwas a no show!  :D

Not to be thwarted by that I persevered and it has been reasonably plain sailing since."

 

 

so now you know...........  :)

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There is a well known WG in Watford who likes to blog a lot. She descibed her first time.

 

She was working as a nurse and a recovering patient paid her £50 to wank him off.

 

She has a vivid imagination though. But the blogs can be hilarious.

 

Good punt to, but pricey.

 

Is that so out of the question, though? I can quite imagine that some chance minor experience like that might suddenly switch on a light bulb in someone's head. Click! Because I suppose every woman must at some point have wondered, "What would it be like to...?" but wondered in an abstract kind of way, assuming that of course, she could never do something like that. And then she suddenly finds herself with £50 for perhaps a minute's effort and, to her surprise, finds herself thinking, "Well, yes, actually, I suppose I could do something like that..."

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