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Blow Jobs? Are They Off The Table After Marriage?

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I recently dared to be the one dissenting voice on a non-punting forum where a guy posted asking how many of the women on the forum actually like giving blow-jobs.

 

I hear it from clients, and I hear it from non-working girls, blow jobs seem to be a rare privilege in marriages.  In some, it's never been on offer.  In the worst cases, it was, then the lady pulled the rug from under the poor sod's feet, along with other pleasures.

 

I don't get the impression that a blow job is something that a civilian (woman) can't get enough of.  If ladies were the majority punters, I doubt as many would want to pay to suck a guy's dick, for example.  But for some men, the pleasure of eating pussy can be the deal-breaker in deciding which lady to book in the first place, or schedule a return visit.

 

On that forum, all the ladies were chiming in, boasting about their love of sucking dick, the bigger, the better, etc.  And I'm retorting, sure, until you've marched the poor bugger down the aisle ...

 

Do I have it arse backwards?  

 

 

 

 

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I recently dared to be the one dissenting voice on a non-punting forum where a guy posted asking how many of the women on the forum actually like giving blow-jobs.

 

I hear it from clients, and I hear it from non-working girls, blow jobs seem to be a rare privilege in marriages.  In some, it's never been on offer.  In the worst cases, it was, then the lady pulled the rug from under the poor sod's feet, along with other pleasures.

 

I don't get the impression that a blow job is something that a civilian (woman) can't get enough of.  If ladies were the majority punters, I doubt as many would want to pay to suck a guy's dick, for example.  But for some men, the pleasure of eating pussy can be the deal-breaker in deciding which lady to book in the first place, or schedule a return visit.

 

On that forum, all the ladies were chiming in, boasting about their love of sucking dick, the bigger, the better, etc.  And I'm retorting, sure, until you've marched the poor bugger down the aisle ...

 

Do I have it arse backwards?  

Blame it on the wedding cake.  Apparently once a women tastes it she goes off blow jobs.  Or.....................

 

A woman walks down the aisle beaming at her beloved.  Why is she smiling so much?  Once that ring is ion her finger, she won't have to give him any more blow jobs :)

 

ta da x

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WHAT!?!

 

I don't particularly care for eating pussy, but it is a fantastic turn on seeing a woman enjoying my slurping about there.  Indeed there are some women who enjoy being rimmed and if they are nice and clean I am happy to oblige.

 

I would hope women find it a turn on as well to see their men-folk writhing in pleasure even if it is something they don't particularly like.  It's about the give and take, the interaction, etc.  And although I am not a particularly big fan of eating pussy, the taste of a nice wet pussy is delicious.  I just wish my cum would taste like strawberries and cream for the ladies out there...

 

I hear pineapple juice is very effective at making it taste better.  Any ladies care to elaborate?

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My ex wouldn't even french kiss :eek: let alone give head.

 

However it was fine for me to go down, and was always encouraged!. I sort of lost "my appetite" after knowing the favour was never ever going to be returned :ph34r:

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My ex wouldn't even french kiss :eek: let alone give head.

 

However it was fine for me to go down, and was always encouraged!. I sort of lost "my appetite" after knowing the favour was never ever going to be returned :ph34r:

 

 Why did you marry her then  ?

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Sorry, but I have to quote the old "joke", or is it reality?

 

Q/ How do you stop a woman from giving you a blowjob?

A/ Marry her!

 

Been there, done that, but am no longer hitched, so this is not a problem for me!

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Well I enjoy giving them, and always have (yes even when I was married, years before I started escorting). But i would say that wouldn't I?!

 

I do have plenty of female friends who like it though, actually, now I think about it I can't think of anyone I know who doesn't enjoy giving them. Perhaps I just mix with the right sort of people! 

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I remember the last blow job I got from my wife like it was yesterday - in fact it was 35 years ago just before we got married.

Just before we got divorced her attitude was :   "If you want sex you can go and fuck yourself".

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I recently dared to be the one dissenting voice on a non-punting forum where a guy posted asking how many of the women on the forum actually like giving blow-jobs.

 

I hear it from clients, and I hear it from non-working girls, blow jobs seem to be a rare privilege in marriages.  In some, it's never been on offer.  In the worst cases, it was, then the lady pulled the rug from under the poor sod's feet, along with other pleasures.

 

I don't get the impression that a blow job is something that a civilian (woman) can't get enough of.  If ladies were the majority punters, I doubt as many would want to pay to suck a guy's dick, for example.  But for some men, the pleasure of eating pussy can be the deal-breaker in deciding which lady to book in the first place, or schedule a return visit.

 

On that forum, all the ladies were chiming in, boasting about their love of sucking dick, the bigger, the better, etc.  And I'm retorting, sure, until you've marched the poor bugger down the aisle ...

 

Do I have it arse backwards?  

Never been married but in the relationships i have had i have never had a problem with a partner giving me a BJ which i am happy to return with RO, although my technique leaves a LOT to be desired. As ever depends on the couple, i certainly read a fair bit on punting forums about a lack of sex and BJs from many wives or partners though.

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id say 80 percent of my clients do not get a blow job anymore and probably is the number 1 reason they book an escort id place sex at number 2

 

When i was in a relationship i couldnt get enough of giving him bjs i loved seeing him get turned on

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Just a theory but as blowjobs have always been at the more filthier end of the the spectrum, I'd imagine in marriage they just give way to more traditional lovemaking which is more about shared enjoyment? I'd bet a lot of men miss it but wouldn't necessarily enjoy it as much anyway with their OH than with a WG where the experience is altogether different.

 

Also...IME, if a girl can't give a decent BJ I'd rather go without. I was with an American girl once who'd never blown a guy who wasn't circumsiced. She kept yanking my foreskin back and using a lot of rough tongue action on my glans penis. It was actual painful and I kept having to stop her and readjust. I also had to explain just how sensitive that can be for non-circumsized guys.

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There is a certain happy satisfaction in a job well done ^_^

 

In a relationship a blowjob is the perfect get out clause if you are too knackered for the athletics of shagging "you just lay back darling"..hello blow job/ slippy hand job and oh look, I even swallowed it cos I love you. He is happy, you can get to sleep quicker as lets face it, half the time he ends up getting a blow job at the end if he is too knackered so...boom boom job done, happy bloke, snoozing me  :D with the added satisfaction of knowing that next time he is listening to his mates moaning they never get a blow job from their wives anymore my hubby would be sitting there thinking "fucking hell I do and she even lets me cum on her tits sometimes" . He was an utter wanker but the bedroom was the last place we had issues.

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Of course they are some women think they have discovered an atm machine over night for the next 20 years without doing sweet fuck all to say thank you for it

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 He was an utter wanker but the bedroom was the last place we had issues.

 

Hello Chloe. That's one of the few things I've read here which not only made me laugh but made me recognize a core truth about ladies and gents! R x

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Of course they are some women think they have discovered an atm machine over night for the next 20 years without doing sweet fuck all to say thank you for it

Your posts always make me smile :)

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I was dating a guy once and I love giving blow jobs. The only issue is he did not love receiving them and pushed me off!!! Infact he did to like sex either or kissing and pushed me off for them too. Confused.... Yes I was too, and we weren't even married. Hence why I write in past tence!!!

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From speaking with other women I've gathered it's 50/50, although I suppose the problem with a topic like this is you just never know who's lying or bragging; which completely undermines my next statement but hey ho! :D

In a long term relationship I absolutely love giving BJ's. Presumably, if you're in a relationship you're physically attracted to the person, and every part of them is sexy (to me anyway!) and I have been the instigator almost as often as he has. I guess it's all down to personal taste, I don't think marriage as such changes anything, you either like giving head or you don't, regardless of marital status. Personally I find the mouth and tongue to be a very sensual thing and with the right man a BJ can be almost as pleasurable for me as for him.

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When "er indoors" got to 50 there was nothing at all on the menu (mind about blow jobs) & it's been the same ever since. :eek:  Couldn't  afford a divorce with 2 kids at uni. so thank goodness for all you lovely Ladies out there :D I don't know what I would have done without you all - hanged myself probably :lol:  

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Absolutely my case also. Except substitute 45. Got used to it now.

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 Why did you marry her then  ?

 

Cos at the time I loved her (still do, a tiny little bit I suppose) :mellow:

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Never been married but in the relationships i have had i have never had a problem with a partner giving me a BJ which i am happy to return with RO, although my technique leaves a LOT to be desired. As ever depends on the couple, i certainly read a fair bit on punting forums about a lack of sex and BJs from many wives or partners though.

I'm sure you are just being modest here! :)

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Cos at the time I loved her (still do, a tiny little bit I suppose) :mellow:

Ahhh love..has a lot to answer for x

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I'm sure you are just being modest here! :)

Sadly not. :(

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Absolutely my case also. Except substitute 45. Got used to it now.

45 is way too young to go off sex!  

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Sorry, but I have to quote the old "joke", or is it reality?

 

Q/ How do you stop a woman from giving you a blowjob?

A/ Marry her!

 

Been there, done that, but am no longer hitched, so this is not a problem for me!

 

 

bugger beat me to it, I was gonna quote that joke......lol

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