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Thank You Text/email

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I usually send a text or email after a punt to the girl to say thankyou

 

guys, do you do this, and girls, is it appreciated?

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I quite enjoy a good thank you text :)

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I usually send a quick one liner. Most times get a nice reply, not that I expect one as it's not the intention to start a game of text or email tennis or to give that impression.

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yes its nice to get those messages. :)

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Yes I don't mind an email or text to say thankyou.

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I do this and if I dont get a polite reply then I dont do a repeat booking.

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  I do this , yes .  A text direct to the girl or to the agency . But only if I feel she gave a great service  that has to be recommended and let the agency know they have a winner .  If it's been an average punt , I never text just delete their number .  If I get a reply that's nice too ,but a reply from an agency usually asks for a report on the girl to put on their site .

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I do this and if I dont get a polite reply then I dont do a repeat booking.

If it's a text and not an email that's a bit unfair, surely? If I've already got on with my next appointment then an hour or two might have gone by before I see a text, and I wouldn't risk sending a reply after that sort of time lapse.

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Useful thread. I usually do after seeing indies when it's gone well, but have often wondered: I don't want to give the impression of an abject form of stalking.

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I like those texts too although I only respond if I have seen the text within a short time of it being sent so to all those out there who didnt get a response, dont take it personally x

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I usually send a text or email after a punt to the girl to say thankyou

 

guys, do you do this, and girls, is it appreciated?

Oh yes, very much so, and I hang on to them for a while before deleting them.  Receiving a text ;like that out of the blue gives me a nice feeling  x

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I send a text to girls I know well enough to do so and sometimes ring a parlour etc to say how much I enjoyed seeing so and so.

 

Apart from the parlour not slamming the phone down on me, I don't expect any response - I 'm not in for tat for tit.

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I always send a thank you text - and I've been told that the gesture is appreciated.

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I do this and if I dont get a polite reply then I dont do a repeat booking.

 

To my mind, that means you're not really sending a thank you.

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I always send a thank you email to the ladies. It's a nice gesture. All of them so far have replied well.

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I like those texts too although I only respond if I have seen the text within a short time of it being sent so to all those out there who didnt get a response, dont take it personally x

 

I think thats right.

 

punters dont want a 'Yes it was a good bang for me too - sloppysusan' text arriving while they are at home!

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I do this and if doing an FR I let them know when it's up - simple courtesy, but also puts one in good stead if you plan a repeat 

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I do this and if doing an FR I let them know when it's up - simple courtesy, but also puts one in good stead if you plan a repeat 

 

That might not be a bad idea. Some of them are surprisingly casual in checking out what's up online. I remember a chance exchange of emails with a lady who posts on this board revealing that she hadn't noticed an FR that had been up for over a year.

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I sent an email after my very first booking, but didn't get any reply so I've not done it since.

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So what about a thank you for all those up votes ?

Lol you got that in the email :-) x

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That might not be a bad idea. Some of them are surprisingly casual in checking out what's up online. I remember a chance exchange of emails with a lady who posts on this board revealing that she hadn't noticed an FR that had been up for over a year.

 

That's me to a tee!  If being reviewed were a weekly, even monthly occurrence, I'd probably be on the look-out.  But I can go years without one.  No point in checking, is there?  Only Adultwork sends me an email to alert me of either new feedback or a new field report.  I've learnt of a review many moons after publishing (except for a bad review which I learn about on the forums here!) by which time, depending on how well it's been written, I may scratch my head trying to remember who it was.  Cos you do want a chance to express gratitude for this.     ;)

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I usually send a text or email after a punt to the girl to say thankyou

 

guys, do you do this, and girls, is it appreciated?

I do if the WG was good or better, text only in my case, particuarly with regulars, i sometimes get a reply back which the WG knows is ok to send.

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I sent an email after my very first booking, but didn't get any reply so I've not done it since.

So, you had the good manners to show your appreciation with an email.  And she 1. either had no manners 2. your email ended up in her spam folder or 3. she wanted to reply with more than a one-liner and your mail sank out of sight in her mailbox until she honestly forgot.  But either way, her response is her response, and not reflective of the industry as a whole.

 

Two wrongs don't make a right.  I think you should be yourself and damn the consequence.  

 

xxx

 

Pru

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I don't expect a thank you afterwards, just as I don't expect a gift.  I assume the worst of punters (based on the stereotype), so when a thank you comes through, it's a lovely feeling. I go all gooey inside.

 

Recently, a guy came to see me.  This followed a few (not too many) emails in which he'd provided useful background his needs, etc.  I thought we had good email rapport.  Polite.  Non-smutty.  Not a piss-taker.

 

He had erectile dysfunction.  You know, the kind where the willy has a mind of it's own.  Can start off with a boner, then goes floppy.  He'd had loads of therapy.  No improvement.  He arrived with an air of resignation to his fate.     I could have easily taken his money, gone through the motions (which work for every one else), then lay there by his side and joined his pity party over another coital disaster.  He was clearly expecting nothing more than what had dodged him all his life.  

 

There was no coital disaster.

 

I went the extra mile, outside the remit of my obligations as an escort.  I did not have to.  He wouldn't have been any the wiser.  But then, I'm certain he realises, as I wasn't the first escort he'd ever visited, that what he got from me is not the norm.

 

Did I ever hear from him again?  Nope.  Not a word.

 

Maybe he wrote a thank you email to the first escort he ever visited.  And maybe she didn't respond.  So he stopped this little gesture of courtesy.  He's assumed that I've done my job.  He's paid his money.  End of story.  I should have stuck to the GFE and let him go home with another failure under his belt, for all the difference it made.

 

For any guy who's struggled to maintain an erection when he desperately wants to stay hard, you may understand that whether it was an escort that helped you achieve it, or the local Okado delivery driver, a thank you is the least you could say.

 

I don't expect a thank you.  But I do make mental notes when they don't happen in circumstances where sheer common sense and manners tells you that it should have.  

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So, you had the good manners to show your appreciation with an email.  And she 1. either had no manners 2. your email ended up in her spam folder or 3. she wanted to reply with more than a one-liner and your mail sank out of sight in her mailbox until she honestly forgot.  But either way, her response is her response, and not reflective of the industry as a whole.

 

Two wrongs don't make a right.  I think you should be yourself and damn the consequence.  

 

xxx

 

Pru

 

Now that's one thing we punters usually can't do.

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