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6 Weeks, 5 Visits, 2 Ladies

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As a newcomer to the scene I thought I would share my experiences and thoughts so far.

 

About 6 weeks ago I visited a parlour for the first time. After spending about a week arguing with myself over wether to go or not I 'forced' myself to walk upto the door, ring the bell and go inside. Nervous and excited I was really not knowing what to expect. I was introduced to two girls and chose one of them. I was then shown in to the room and waited. About five minutes later the girl walked into the room. I won't go into specifics but one moment will probably stay with me for a long time.

 

I was sitting on the bed and this attractive EE girl was standing in front of me. She removed her bodice and I now had a naked, except for stockings, EE girl standing in front of me. At that moment my brain clicked and I knew what I was doing was probably the best thing I had ever done and that this was most definetly for me. I was like a child again marvelling at the wonderousness of the world.

 

I have seen that same girl three more times because she, almost literally, blew my mind and I've gone through a complete range of emotions with her. At the moment she has taken some time off.

 

The most recent time I went I saw another girl. Completely different encounter. Straight down to business and no hint of a GFE, but, in it's own way it was still one of the best FKs I have ever had.

 

Even though the encounters have been completely different the one thing about both girls which I found attractive was their confidence. Girlfriends, and I've been out with girls older and younger than me, I have had have always come across as confident in their lives but when it came to the bedroom they were always rather un-confident and treated sex as though it was somehow wrong and to be endured rather than enjoyed.

 

Now I've had two different girls ask me what I want, who have stripped etc without any hesitations and the experiences have been fantastic. When they've come into the room and taken their clothes off their confidence screams 'I am an attractive woman, you can touch, kiss, lick, FK me and that's what you are going to do.'

 

It's almost like in the last six weeks I have been having sex while previously I've just had foreplay.

 

 

 

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I can see where you're coming from. I guess your girlfriends were really not great to enjoy sex with. My story is slightly different in the sense that I have had GF with whom sex was great, it's just that it's not the case with my current partner, even though the relationship is otherwise very strong, and I would not want to break it.

 

With some WG my experience is a bit rubbish, but with at least half of them it's pretty similar to the best sex sessions I've had with some of my exes, and with the top 10% it's way better than that. The main frustrating thing is the time constraint. I find that a whole evening with an escort is a bit too much money, and can't realistically do that on a regular basis. But if I could pay a girl to spend the entire evening with her, take my time during a nice dinner, or just watch a movie together in bed, and have good sex before / during / after or any combination of these (but honestly even one pop would be enough), that would be a dream.

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OP as a newbee my self, just watch out you don't over extent your wallet. Other posters will advise as well WG will gladly take your money and at the end give you the boot (the bit I hate).

PS don't forget to do a review as well.

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It sounds like you got lucky for your first time!  I agree with jony, at least half the time it's nothing special with a WG, and I don't hold it against them saying that, they aren't obligated to have a good time or always be on form, be attracted, etc.

 

For me it's been ok itself, gave me the experience I wanted, but it became addictvie and helped me avoid overcoming problems getting out and socialising, meeting new people and girls, which I avoided for many years.  I've just started addressing all that other stuff, but I'm battling addiction to it now, spending more money than I should and doing it too often.

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It sounds like you got lucky for your first time!  I agree with jony, at least half the time it's nothing special with a WG, and I don't hold it against them saying that, they aren't obligated to have a good time or always be on form, be attracted, etc.

 

For me it's been ok itself, gave me the experience I wanted, but it became addictvie and helped me avoid overcoming problems getting out and socialising, meeting new people and girls, which I avoided for many years.  I've just started addressing all that other stuff, but I'm battling addiction to it now, spending more money than I should and doing it too often.

 

Hey LazyB sorry to hear about your issue. I have a partner, so the whole 'getting out and socialising' is not really part of the equation.

 

But if I were you, maybe I would try to find a WG that would act as the mythical escort, i.e. going out, and perhaps serve as a winggirl? I don't know how practical / economical that is, but as we all know, if you have a beautiful women next to you in a club, the chances to attract other women are way higher. Just a thought?

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I can definetly see how WG's can become addictive but I am no stranger to addictive things (been trying for about 20 years to quit smoking, but I don't let the number I smoke a day spiral).

 

I've already had the 'addictive' feeling with the first girl (which is why I saw her 4 times almost in a row) but, because she's been away (and time apart for me doesn't make the 'heart grow fonder'), and I've now seen 2 other girls (one on Friday and one today) who haven't made my head spin, even though the sex was v. good (today better than Friday), I feel as though I've got the first girl out of my system (although I will see her again if she comes back).

 

At the moment in my life I don't want a girlfriend or have any need to be, or real enjoyment of, socialising (I am the proverbial quiet silent type) but I do enjoy sex and women and the three girls I've seen, especially the last two, from an aesthetic point of view wouldn't be the type of girls I would normally be attracted to physically - but what has attracted me more than their looks has been their confidence and matter-of-factness about sex. We both know why we are there and that is what we do without any other crap getting in the way (the exception was the first girl) and the time constraint helps with that (although I do like a 40 mins. encounter because I enjoy listening to the girls chat away).

 

Overall, as I said in my first post, this is for me. How long I'll do it for - who knows? - but as things stand I'm getting variety and pleasure which is all I am looking for at the moment.

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Hmm, sounds like maybe you're being quite sensible about it all (as long as your pockets are deep enough!!) and know what you want, and I understand where you're coming from and hope it goes well for you.  Trying to sum up my whole experience briefly in the same way:

 

I've seen something like 60 working girls in total now quite a few more than once, and from that experience also realised how good it can be if there is something there between us, or how bad it can be if it's cold and passionless.  I started off going to a local parlour with very mixed results and then used various agencies and also saw independent girls too. I've seen how girls like different things sexually (never got to know any one girl in that respect too well though), and have such different opinions on appearance, and found a pattern in the size and shape and ethnicity of girls that like me.. Some can be friendly and flirty even if there is no attraction, some cold regardless, some tactlessly complain about me being a few pounds overweight before sex, or some be fine with my weight even when I feel disgusting.  A few girls were shy about their bodies but most seemed confident like you like.  I didn't think of the confidence thing as an issue but haven't had many girlfriends to base that on, though the last one hated her appearance so much it may be the reason we never got that far after many months of dating.  The weird thing for me is how quite a few WGs can be open about being attracted (yes, genuinely) but in day to day life girls don't show any sign of attraction anywhere, unless they're drunk, even if then.  I would bet the same WGs who I had great sex with, if I were to meet them in a party or see them in a club, I would have no idea they could like me and walk by, which I find crazy to think about.

 

I also don't want a relationship for some time (I want a year out after a horrible short relationship), which keeps my problem going.  From seeing WGs I think it's made me feel more demanding for the sexual side of any future relationship, but it makes me think it's too hard to find a girl who has it all, a nice girl who can be honest and let herself be close with someone, accept me as I am, as good sex as with the best paid experience, and compatible with my personality, not that I deserve it anyway.  So maybe I'm screwed now after such great experiences with WGs.  Knowing that some wgs have had a good time with me in the bedroom did nothing for my confidence or skills in approaching a girl or asking her out in public/social setting (I haven't for many years), although that's what I wanted from it initially.  If I do overcome that somehow I can benefit from the experience in bed...

 

Well for now I'll just carry on with this fun and enjoy it when I can!  I don't want to have to go back to dating, but some day I'll have to try...  maybe a therapist can tell me when :lol:  

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Hey LazyB sorry to hear about your issue. I have a partner, so the whole 'getting out and socialising' is not really part of the equation.

 

But if I were you, maybe I would try to find a WG that would act as the mythical escort, i.e. going out, and perhaps serve as a winggirl? I don't know how practical / economical that is, but as we all know, if you have a beautiful women next to you in a club, the chances to attract other women are way higher. Just a thought?

 

Hmm maybe, not for now as my last breakup was so miserable and so recent.  I'll keep it in mind, especially as now  I don't feel the need to see lots of different girls just find a nice friendly girl to see regular like.

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Hmm maybe, not for now as my last breakup was so miserable and so recent.  I'll keep it in mind, especially as now  I don't feel the need to see lots of different girls just find a nice friendly girl to see regular like.

 

   I don't know your age but you sound quite young . I would advise for a youngish guy , lets say under 40  , to only see escorts for a social life , is very dangerous and as you say can become addictive as the sex can be so good , easy and make you lazy to go out and meet ladies in the true world . It's not the real answer to your problem .  It reminds me of a friend of mine years back , who never wanked . His reasoning was if he did he wouldn't work so hard to pull girls .

 

   At this time I was wanking daily and so I often gave up trying to pull a girl for sex while he kept on and always appeared with a new girl .   I would estimate in those days I could have about 30 sexual experiences in a year  [ unpaid ] while he would double that . I was still punting which also made me lazy .

 

   So what I mean is don't get bogged down in punting for sex or companionship it's too easy and distorts your view on girls and life . Sounds to me you spend too much time / money on this hobby . It's a different story for an older guy who can't pull the younger girl anymore as he has no choice but to pay .

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I don't know your age but you sound quite young . I would advise for a youngish guy , lets say under 40 , to only see escorts for a social life , is very dangerous and as you say can become addictive as the sex can be so good , easy and make you lazy to go out and meet ladies in the true world . It's not the real answer to your problem . It reminds me of a friend of mine years back , who never wanked . His reasoning was if he did he wouldn't work so hard to pull girls .

At this time I was wanking daily and so I often gave up trying to pull a girl for sex while he kept on and always appeared with a new girl . I would estimate in those days I could have about 30 sexual experiences in a year [ unpaid ] while he would double that . I was still punting which also made me lazy .

So what I mean is don't get bogged down in punting for sex or companionship it's too easy and distorts your view on girls and life . Sounds to me you spend too much time / money on this hobby . It's a different story for an older guy who can't pull the younger girl anymore as he has no choice but to pay .

I agree, keep it as a bit of fun on the side and not a routine.

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