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Domination/ballbusting

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I've had this fantasy for a while of having a girl kick me in the balls hard enough that I'm on the floor, and then basically handcuff me and have her way with me, perhaps with the odd smack to the solar plexus.

 

So I've found a few agency escorts who seem to offer domination; but some of them specify 'light domination'. Do you think this counts as that? I mean, it's nothing like watersports or whipping or anything like that; not into that. Hell, I'm not even into all that rubber fetish clothing.

 

But I'm conscious that a lot of girls (particularly EE girls) could be much, much to conservative to contemplate doing this, and even if they did, they would be pretty darn uncomfortable doing it. And I don't really want that.

 

So yeah, any suggestions?

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Ball busting is more at the extreme end of domination and what works in fantasy doesn't always work in reality.  If you've tried most forms of CBT and enjoyed it then I'm sure you'll enjoy ballbusting.  However if it's your first time I wouldn't recommend it especially if both of you haven't tried it before.  It takes a bit of practice to get the kick right and you may well end up in A&E if it goes horribly wrong.

There maybe some agency girls willing to do what you ask, but it would be best if you went to see a pro domme who knows what she's doing.

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Please make sure the lady starts with smacks with a paddle, then gentle kicks, until she's got her aim right. Don't have your cock and balls tied up - the resulting increase in pressure in your crown jewels can lead to nasty injuries. No pointy shoes kicking anywhere near major veins or arteries. Your balls can bruise like hell, and the fragile piece of skin that links your knob and your shaft can rip, leading to A LOT OF BLOOD. Also, please don't go near the solar plexus, ever.

 

Maybe you could experiment with face slapping, nipple torture or some electro stim? The most important thing is communication. Whether you go to see an escort or a dominatrix, please go see somebody with experience in CBT.

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Jesus. Im open minded but cant see the fun in being kicked in the nuts!

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Jesus. Im open minded but cant see the fun in being kicked in the nuts!

Nor me but I would echo the advice above       go to see a real Domme, explain what you want, how much you have experienced before and whatever else you do AGREE A SAFE WORD before you start.

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Nor me but I would echo the advice above       go to see a real Domme, explain what you want, how much you have experienced before and whatever else you do AGREE A SAFE WORD before you start.

The OP mentions he wants the lady to "have her way with him", and very often Dommes won't have any kind of sexual contact, with a sort of "how dare you want sex" attitude. What's the point of having a man handcuffed to your bed if you're not going to "use the facilities" for your pleasure? An experienced fetish escort or soft dominatrix may do the trick...

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Thanks; yeah I don't really want to see a pro domme, since my impression is that they tend to be really strict, serious, and not so sexual. I also don't like a lot of the usual domination stuff, rubber, humiliation, complicated toys etc turn me off, and I feel like a domme probably isn't going to be all that receptive to me telling her exactly what I want and what I don't want.

 

But It's really quite a turn on to think of a beautiful ordinary girl giving me a swift kick in the nuts with her high heels. A safeword probably is a good idea, but I can't help bbut think it would be much more fun without one.

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Have you looked at Mistress Kinky M.C on AW? Her pictures make her look rather butch but she is a really smiley person in the flesh.

 

She is 42 years of age and fully appreciates the sexual side of things. She prefers not to dabble in the over-violent side of the scene. She would have no issues in pre-discussions of your wants.

 

If you find her profile, you can read the reviews on her AW site.

 

I just love our wind-downs when I have showered and we sit on the couch with her legs draped over my lap, finishing off my wine, cuddling and canoodling while I stroke her legs.

 

Plan B would be Megan of Maxes Angels.

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Thanks. Was fantasising about some tall blone 20 year old model-type!

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