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Ok (And When) To Ask Wgs For Non-Penetration Experience?

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I have started making a few calls and am very interested in meeting a particular WG. She sounded really cute and nice to me, and got me excited. I want her to be my "first time"!!

 

As I wrote a some weeks ago, I am not flexible on health/safety and therefore would like to limit my experience to stripping, lapdance, massages, grinding (dry humping) and maybe handjob.

 

I was wondering if

1) it is OK to ask this from a WG who usually offers the full GFE with penetration

2) should I tell in advance/during the booking, or can I tell this at the meeting.

 

I am ready to pay the same amount, simply because I want it to be a private session, far from night club environment, and if it goes I might use it as foreplay for more... 

 

She is soooo hot!

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Its fine to ask for non penetration. The services a girl states she does is what she is happy to do its not obligatory that you have all the services she offers. There seems to be a myth that all clients want to shag in a booking...not at all, plenty of guys just want to play with the lady or have a bj or hr. So no problem. You can say this prior to the booking or on the booking most ladies would not bat an eye lid.

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I have started making a few calls and am very interested in meeting a particular WG. She sounded really cute and nice to me, and got me excited. I want her to be my "first time"!! As I wrote a some weeks ago, I am not flexible on health/safety and therefore would like to limit my experience to stripping, lapdance, massages, grinding (dry humping) and maybe handjob. I was wondering if1) it is OK to ask this from a WG who usually offers the full GFE with penetration2) should I tell in advance/during the booking, or can I tell this at the meeting. I am ready to pay the same amount, simply because I want it to be a private session, far from night club environment, and if it goes I might use it as foreplay for more...  She is soooo hot!

If you have already made some calls to WGs without getting the answers to the above questions, one wonders what it is you are actually asking them. Be careful you don't get branded as a timewaster and find yourself blocked.

It's all very simple. WGs are used to getting requests for bookings where sex does not take place. Its not unusual at all. Just be clear what you want, on your first contact and if she is in agreement, make a booking there and then.

Don't fanny about and make it more difficult (for both you and she) than it needs to be.

Enjoy.

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LOADS of men don't go for full penetration for many reasons so it's not unusual. A good escort will be guided by you so it's down to you to indicate what you want either when making the booking or when you arrive. Trust me, noone will be offended and believe me we like a man who knows what he wants, nothing more annoying when trying to find out and a man vaguely says 'Oh anything' or ';whatever'.

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I have started making a few calls and am very interested in meeting a particular WG. She sounded really cute and nice to me, and got me excited. I want her to be my "first time"!!

 

As I wrote a some weeks ago, I am not flexible on health/safety and therefore would like to limit my experience to stripping, lapdance, massages, grinding (dry humping) and maybe handjob.

 

I was wondering if

1) it is OK to ask this from a WG who usually offers the full GFE with penetration

2) should I tell in advance/during the booking, or can I tell this at the meeting.

 

I am ready to pay the same amount, simply because I want it to be a private session, far from night club environment, and if it goes I might use it as foreplay for more... 

 

She is soooo hot!

My advice is to ask the WG when enquiring both your above questions, for me clear communication is very important so i ensure i am very specific about what i require. I hope it goes well.

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Nothing is compulsory. Really baffles me a bit when people ask questions like this but then again I'm not in a punter's shoes.

 

Logical way to look at it is you are asking for one less service, she's receiving the same fee so I very much doubt she'll be upset - unless of course you are substituting it for a dry, hard 59 minutes, 59 seconds long face fuck, which could become a bit tedious!

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As above, should be no problem but just depends on what your interpretation of dry hump grinding is, I suspect.

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I would take some time to compose a careful e-mail spelling out your "limits" so to speak, and then ask her if she would be happy to accept a booking from you, at her usual rates, including what you have said.

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Nothing is compulsory. Really baffles me a bit when people ask questions like this but then again I'm not in a punter's shoes.

 

Logical way to look at it is you are asking for one less service, she's receiving the same fee so I very much doubt she'll be upset - unless of course you are substituting it for a dry, hard 59 minutes, 59 seconds long face fuck, which could become a bit tedious!

Some pre-punt wank fodder?

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but then again I'm not in a punter's shoes.

 

 

 

You could so easily be though!! Next time a punter turns up and goes in for a shower.....just simply try his shoes on while he is out of the room and there you will be, in a punter's shoes ^_^

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Lovely you pay the money so you call the shots, 'almost'!!! :unsure::)  .   Seriously, in a real SP's world a lot of it is BJ's against full PT.  If that's what you are looking for then don't be afraid to say so

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I have started making a few calls and am very interested in meeting a particular WG. She sounded really cute and nice to me, and got me excited. I want her to be my "first time"!!

 

As I wrote a some weeks ago, I am not flexible on health/safety and therefore would like to limit my experience to stripping, lapdance, massages, grinding (dry humping) and maybe handjob.

 

I was wondering if

1) it is OK to ask this from a WG who usually offers the full GFE with penetration

2) should I tell in advance/during the booking, or can I tell this at the meeting.

 

I am ready to pay the same amount, simply because I want it to be a private session, far from night club environment, and if it goes I might use it as foreplay for more... 

 

She is soooo hot!

Of course its OK! penetration is only one of the many many things that make up great sex...just mail her with your requirements and have fun

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I can understand why the OP asked this question. I think I always do penetration, though often I don't come when I'm inside. In both cases there is sometimes at the back of my mind a punter or wg superego nagging at me that there has been some indefinable mark that I have failed to come up to. Ridiculous, I know, because neither penetration nor orgasm is any longer at the heart of what draws me to punting, but we all of us, I suspect, go on being partially imprisoned by this sexual role model of what we ought to be doing.

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You can ask for whatever you like, but ask before the booking.

a) Some WLs may not offer 'striptease' etc. It's not something I would do because I'm not good at it.
B) Don't expect a cheaper rate for a non-penetration service unless they advertise one.

 

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