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Gfe - How Far Does It Go?

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I'm quite new to this. In general if an escort offers GFE would they actually pretend to be your girlfriend? Would they say they love you, find you attractive, and want you to do it to them? I imagine that some might, but that some may feel uncomfortable, and there is a risk of the client getting the wrong idea, if they actually start to believe it.

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Nothing like that at all. It just means a non porn sort of experience and varies hugely. Basically sex in various positions, oral, 69 sort of thing and kissing if she's a good'un

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I'm quite new to this. In general if an escort offers GFE would they actually pretend to be your girlfriend? Would they say they love you, find you attractive, and want you to do it to them? I imagine that some might, but that some may feel uncomfortable, and there is a risk of the client getting the wrong idea, if they actually start to believe it.

I havent had a WG offering me the GFE say they love me, to me thats inappropriate unless true. I have though been flattered which i see as a WG having a good attitude by saying she finds me attractive, i take it with a pinch of salt, if actually true great, but as its a punt it doesnt matter to me.

 

Yes your right about the risk of a punter getting the wrong idea, in the years i punted before the GFE when no kissing for example wasnt usually on offer my punting was a generally colder experience than nowadays so i can see how some punters might believe the WG feels something more than just offering a good service.

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It is unlikely you would meet a WG who would say "I love you".  It is certainly not a standard part of a GFE.  I have seen comments (I forget if it was on this forum or in AW blogs or where) from ladies who have had guys ask them to say "I love you" in a booking, have refused to do so and have found even the request upsetting.  That would probably be the standard attitude.

Some flattery might be part of a GFE.  Some ladies will simply have a set of comments that they bring out for each client and those might include claiming they find you attractive or whatever.  The best ladies will tailor the flattery to the guy and the moment.

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GFE is a meaningless term.  It is taken to mean certain services, but as it means different things to different people, you need to check the service you want is included in her definition of GFE.

 

What is doesn't mean is you taking the rubbish out then finding she has a headache.

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I've been lucky enough to experience what I consider to be fantastic GFE's with one particular wg I've seen. Someone else who has seen her may disagree of course.

She'd play the part of a girlfriend perfectly. In the room plenty of kissing, cuddling, general messing about and great sex. On the odd occasion we've gone for a meal first on an overnight or whatever, she'd play the girlfriend role then as well. Really flirty, holding hands, messing about touching under the table - all stuff like that. All the things which to me, lead up perfectly to the main event to come later.

What you always have to remember, and it can be hard at times if she's really good - is it's all an act and she's only there because you're paying her!

I like GFE punts, but I've not had a wg say she loves me or anything like that - and nor would I want her to. Definitely not appropriate IMO.

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Nope I never say anything which would construe false flattery or feelings I didn't have or that could encourage false perception. I do and will however behave in a manner which makes the client feel welcomed, and part of a two way experience.

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Yep, it's a marketing term to distinguish for a more porny experience and I expect when the services such as kissing and cuddling became more in use and in demand. It just means that the booking is more friendly, warm and companionable than a simple sex only services. 

 

As others have said it's unlikely a woman would agree to say they loved a client (I would find it a bit creepy and would feel horribly disloyal to the one I actually love, but if offered enough money I might!)  I guess if the I love you thing was part of a fantasy and asked about and agreed on in advance with it made clear you didn't actually love the escort or behave in an inappropriate way outside the booking you could find someone to do it! 

 

Although, having just re read the OP did he just want reassurance it wouldn't happen? If so then, no unlikely, unless an escort had poor English and got muddled with her sayings or she was a bit odd and thought it appropriate! 

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I'm quite new to this. In general if an escort offers GFE would they actually pretend to be your girlfriend? Would they say they love you, find you attractive, and want you to do it to them? I imagine that some might, but that some may feel uncomfortable, and there is a risk of the client getting the wrong idea, if they actually start to believe it.

 

No, and they won't cook your tea and do the washing up after either.  For me it means a certain warmth, and especially cuddling and kissing.  In other words contact outside the purely sexual.  And whereas at the back of your mind you know it's an act it can still make you feel like a million dollars, for a while at least

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No, and they won't cook your tea and do the washing up after either.  For me it means a certain warmth, and especially cuddling and kissing.  In other words contact outside the purely sexual.  And whereas at the back of your mind you know it's an act it can still make you feel like a million dollars, for a while at least

Mine was so realistic I even got told off for leaving the toilet seat up - I kid you not! :P

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If you're lucky / done your research and it's done well, it probably goes beyond what a girlfriend would do for you, physically anyway. I think I'd be well spooked if a WG said she loved me.

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GFE is just kissing and cuddling though in one memorable experience we made eyes at each other. The maid couldn't get any sense out of the wg after coming out of room for a few minutes.

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Mine was so realistic I even got told off for leaving the toilet seat up - I kid you not! :P

Ah sweet!  

 

But did she make you go to Ikea afterwards and look at each and every cushion at least three times and ask your opinion of each and every one, and you kept saying if you like that one I'm happy just get that one, and then did you get in a big row because you weren't showing enough interest?  Oh hold on sorry I'm getting mixed up, that's the marriage experience not the GFE. It's more of a niche market  :lol:

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I'm sure there would be ladies out there who would tell you they loved you if you asked for it but it'd be a bit weird and would surely come across as very needy. Might also spook her. In terms of whether it is a 'normal' part of the experience, I'd have to suggest not. 

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Ah sweet!  

 

But did she make you go to Ikea afterwards and look at each and every cushion at least three times and ask your opinion of each and every one, and you kept saying if you like that one I'm happy just get that one, and then did you get in a big row because you weren't showing enough interest?  Oh hold on sorry I'm getting mixed up, that's the marriage experience not the GFE. It's more of a niche market  :lol:

That's the NWE (nagging wife experience) :P

The toilet seat telling off was a joke really as we'd had a little discussion about GFE's earlier in the evening - and she told me she'd show me what her real gfe was like when we got to the room later. Thankfully it didn't include anything to do with headaches...

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I'm quite new to this. In general if an escort offers GFE would they actually pretend to be your girlfriend? Would they say they love you, find you attractive, and want you to do it to them? I imagine that some might, but that some may feel uncomfortable, and there is a risk of the client getting the wrong idea, if they actually start to believe it.

Marriage,

 

On a more serious note, GFE just means she won't do something unexpected like stick her tongue up your bum or put nipple clamps on your whatsits. Sex is generally soft and pleasant. However I did have one favourite WG who was always saying "I love you". I'd say "oh, come on," and she'd insist she meant it. Always made me feel uncomfortable.

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I wish every girlfriend I ever known had got my trousers off within five minutes of meeting and thrown any kind of sex into the meeting without being asked. :D

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Marriage,

 

On a more serious note, GFE just means she won't do something unexpected like stick her tongue up your bum or put nipple clamps on your whatsits. Sex is generally soft and pleasant. However I did have one favourite WG who was always saying "I love you". I'd say "oh, come on," and she'd insist she meant it. Always made me feel uncomfortable.

I have had a number of WGs who offered me a GFE lick my arse, always nice.

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Gfe to me is dfk owo cuddling chat massage Unrushed relaxed service   and if your v lucky i will give u a cup of tea and a hobnob haha

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Girlfriend Experience

 

This to me is the soft, gentle caressing of each other, kissing gentle oral both ways, slow unhurried sex, massage, chatting, attentive and making you feel very special for the time we are together

 

I thought about offering the real girlfriend experience and that's not tonight love I have a headache or I am watching X Factor but guess I wont get much call for this level of GFE. :LOL K x

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How far?  As far as you are both comfortable. 

My advice: keep boundaries and gently discuss conditions from time2time. And dont rush.

my principle: All dates should be paid-for-time by some up-front agreed amount - just so you know where you stand.

 

My Asian regulars cooked for me went on day-trips and weekends with me - Lovely!

 

I had UK girls out to cinema and good food with me.

Had UK girls bring food, some of it home-made.

Recently had a UK regular bake me a cake - a story in itself, but I let her tell it, if she wants to.

 

Current regular (non-UK) confides a lot in me (RIsky?), and I've made some confessions to her (RISK!)

We are both Very Happy for her to have passed certain exams after major stress-period. Celebration called for!

She is also helping me get settled in my new digs (short-stay apprtmnt, but probably for a few months). And I'm going to suggest a Christmas-dinner for the two of us.

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Its Just Kissing and Caressing. You would have to be a bit needy if you wanted one to tell you she loved you though wouldn't you.

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No gfe is a warm,friendly,relaxed time with lots of kissing and cuddling and touching.No I love you's and getting clingy.Focus on the experience bit of the term.

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Hold on. Rewind. Did someone mention hobnob biscuits? That is GFE above and beyond the call of duty!!!

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yes the choc hobnobs mind x

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