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LaurenBirmingham

Just A Lil Question For You Gents

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hey gentlemen!!

so i'm sitting here looking at incall apartments wondering what i can do to improve and expand my services when i dont have to lug everything to a hotel and it dawned upon me that massage has quite a following, now i can massage but i'm not 100% confident (ask me for anal and i dont have a worry in the world but say the word massage and i panic!!),theres alot more to it then rubbing some oil between your hands and kneading away like your trying to make a tiger loaf!! so i wont offer it as a service (i dont want any of you gents being let down!)

so because of this i think i should put my money where my mouth is and do a few different massage courses, but at 5 and £600 a pop i want to make sure i would be spending my money wiseley... so dear fellas, my question is this...

do you think it would be worth me doing the massage courses ie.. do you think there would be a big enough market for me to add it to my service list due to me not being ee or thai etc annnnnd.....

i know i said one question but....

what types of massage do you gents want/like???

i know it sounds silly asking these questions when i have a fair idea of the answers myself, but as they say... the first rule of business is to know your target market!! ;)

so come on!!! help a lil lady out!!! any help would be greatly appreciated!! :)

Lauren xx

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Hi Lauren,

Yes, I think there is a big enough market. Personally, I prefer a massage on a "first date" - easier to relax, have a bit of a chat, see if you "click" then you can always come back and roger each other senseless next time around. And plenty of guys just want a decent massage with HR and no more.

There is a website called fbsm.co.uk and threads on there clearly show a demand for English ladies who can offer a "proper" massage - especially in the Birmingham area. IMHO it's worth taking a course - you can tell within the first few strokes if someone knows what they are doing, and it lets the client relax knowing they're in capable hands. Clearly most guys would expect a happy ending, body-to-body is always a popular option, nuru I'm not so sure about mainly due to the cost. You could offer clothed / topless / naturist as options with a menu pricing system or leave it up to individuals to negotiate (personally I don't like the haggling but its kinda standard in a lot of thai/chinese places). Offering clients a shower before and/or after is essential in my book. Price obviously needs to be below the FS costs in your area - typically around £70 to £80 for an hour for an indie in brum I'd say.

Hope this helps. And if you ever need a subject to practice on, I could be available for a small fee... ;)

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I would say worth the money if you see it as paying dividends in the fairly short term. As mentioned, there is a demand and when you appear to be versatile in various sexual services, then you will not be offended if a man suggests what he would like to finish with and you can quote any price with your hand round a stiff member.

 

(Some things a girl should keep to herself - if I see you on a bus I may just sit next to you and expect a brief but intense bout of anal before the housewives get on outside Asda...)

 

A good massage in a trained lady's hands probably would seem money for old rope (to put it crudely) compared to a full service so a worthwhile second/third/fourth string to your bow and you can watch TV at the same time.

 

Once you've practised on Nuvolari why not get in touch with me and I will see what i think of your standard. I need tartan knickers to be worn though, it's just my upbringing...

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if you want to massage do some training.  Nowt worse than someone pissing around with your back. But 5 minutes with someone who knows what they are doing can unknot the tensions in your spine.

But then you will have to extemporise to make it sexy too!  I am sure you will manage that!

 

One fun thing is to massage the punters back with your tits.  always fun!. 

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if you want to massage do some training.  Nowt worse than someone pissing around with your back. But 5 minutes with someone who knows what they are doing can unknot the tensions in your spine.

But then you will have to extemporise to make it sexy too!  I am sure you will manage that!

 

One fun thing is to massage the punters back with your tits.  always fun!. 

Even more fun is massaging the punter's front with your tits!

 

Seriously, though, providing a decent massage would be an added string to your bow but I would suggest that you need to think about precisely what sort of massage you want to offer.

For me, a decent sensual massage at some point during an appointment is close to being essential and I would expect this to be included in the price.

 

I'm sure, however, that I'm not alone in saying that I would be prepared to pay a small supplement for a booking to include a decent nuru or tantric massage.

 

Like Nuvolari, I'd also be more than happy to act as a guinea pig.

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Well that opens up a whole can of worms if we are on to body parts massages.

 

Boobs on back front high and low, bum also tho not at same time probably.

 

I think that if the basics are learnt and practised then there is all the potential to be able to offer a range of types of massage as they appeal to you to offer or as techniques are mastered.

 

Tantric would be for a more advanced masseuse i would assume, not having had one.

 

But some saucy massages would sit some men within a longer session and the more technical type would also suit some within or comprising the appointment.

 

From your posts on Pnet you do seem a bright and resourceful person so i think you could turn your hand to ost anything you want and your customers will be fully compliant.

 

Now about that bus journey.

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There is nothing worse than a half baked, amateur massage. Well done is wonderful, but anything less is a bit like being a lump of dough in Paul Hollywood's hands!!

 

So get some good lessons learned if that's the way you want to go. Otherwise stick to what you are good at, and I would assume that all manner of sex is covered by that phrase.

 

Good luck in whatever you decide.

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The Thai's in Brum have the massage market sewn up. They are attractive, give a great trained massage and know how to handle a cock for the happy ending! They are usually clothed and allow touching though not too intrusive! Some, though not many, will go topless for a price!

The usual rates are £40 per hour for a PROPER massage plus £20 for the ending. Usually the £40 is paid up front. The massage begins face down of course. The girl may put in a few teasing strokes, C/C swipes for example! Then the scenario of 'will she - wont she' comes into play. If you see a new girl you don't really know if she offers a HE. Then when you turn face up she may brush your tackle and eventually if she speaks good English she will ask I you want a happy ending. If she doesn't she will just indicate with her hand in a wanking motion!

The girl will never tell you over the phone if she does a happy ending. They usually advertise on Gumtree or Vivastreet and they have strict rules. They do check as well! I know of one Thai girl who had her ad pulled because she told a 'client' over the phone that she would give a happy ending!

All this can be rather exciting, because although you go for a massage you really want a little more!

Having said that the market is crying out for an English girl! Someone who is trained in massage but who can mix it up with sensual strokes with lots of teasing along the way building up to the finale. If that girl is topless and allows fondling and kissing of nips that would be great! At £60 per hour you should be very, very busy indeed!

However, my advice is not to set your prices too high then you can easily compete with the Thai's because you have the advantage of communication skills which would allow a little bit of banter!

If you offered an hours trained topless massage with a happy ending for £60 then you wouldn't go far wrong! I would be a client to start with!

Some men do not want FS nowadays for many different reasons - I am sure you can think of a few - but they do need release!

I am we'll versed in this subject so feel free to PM me if you want.

P

Good luck!

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Hi Lauren,

 

Massage does interest me. I have had a few ladies say they cannot do massage, but must say almost every time it has been enjoyable.

 

I agree if you want to get all professional about it you can and go into all sorts of areas, sports, swedish, etc, etc. Personally I'd say only do that if you have a genuine interest in it, especially at £600 a course. I'm sure you could pick a few good basics up in the form of a book, or download course or even dvd/youtube tutorials.

 

I think very few guys are looking for a full on professional massage, but rather a lady who is good at the basics.

 

Seen as you asked I do think this is an unexploited market. I'm sure I'm not alone in saying I would like to visit a lady who say offers massage and relief and a set rate and escorting services at another. Yes there are Full Massage ladies only, but many of these ladies tend to not be reviewed or have profiles and for someone like me that means I'm just reluctant to go into that area.

 

I think there are more guys than me who just find it a bit difficult to meet a lady for a full appointment first time and so a more limited massage appointment is a nice introduction and trust builder. I took this approach, yet quite a few guys here said I was mad paying escorting rates just for massage. I think I would be much more likely to have more of a regular visit or punting if I knew of a lady who offered both, yet I would say having a clear boundary between services and costs is key.

 

All the best,

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Yes it's worth it, but don't expect men to be lining up outside your door, equipment and courses are expensive but worth the money, and it give you an out, for when you don't want to do FPS anymore. Or for when you are paid a monthy visit.

Massage clientele takes time to build, I know, I did both.

I bought a static couch as it was easier, and allows for a better massage.

Also add yourself to the massage forums.

I spent months building my massage portfolio, it paid for the bed, and the refresher courses I wanted. So it broke even, but I then retired. So didn't see a profit, for it, but if I take my figures for it, and average it over the months it would be a decent profit.

I did £50 on a half hour, and £100 on the hour. (In Milton Keynes)

That included a mutual shower, body to body, and up to, oral, just no penetration.

Depending on what you offer within your remit will depend on what your prices should be.

I will say this though, it's harder work than just a FPS.

I was always more tired from massage than from FPS.

You can also then do Nuru, ( though it does include a FPS) but the massage & B2B translates well, if a lot slippier.

Hope this helps from an SP POV.

Autumn

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A good massage is a fantastic experience!. 

 

You are doing the correct thing, by being trained properly - as a poor technique on somebody with a bad back for instance, can be painful and cause further problems.

 

There are two establishments near me that are "massage parlours" (rub & tug as I call them!!), and they have been there for years and are seemingly doing very well. There are also profiles on AW that only offer massage with happy endings. So there is a market for it.

 

Personally, its a few years since I have had a 'good massage', by somebody that knows what there doing :D

 

I like quite a firm massage (swedish?) - with warmed oil, as cold oil can often find me leaping about a bit :eek:  :eek:  :D

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These days, I find I generally prefer an hour long decent massage with, preferably, oral to finish. There ARE a few ladies around that offer this service, and it can be quite tough to get a booking with them.

 

Do, please, learn how to massage properly. You can get yourself a proper certificate; looks good in a frame on the wall, and may be helpful with the taxman.

 

If you do, I'll be knocking at your door :)

 

TOFM

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