Lynn

"Show me what you can do"

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I have been pondering this one, wondering how other ladies tackle this situation:

a new client comes in and you have the introductory getting to know you little chat in the living room and everything seems to be going well....

cut to the bedroom.......

the guy is rather laid back ( both literally and otherwise ) and puts his hands behind his head and comes out with the immortal words

"show me what you can do"

now am I the only one who does not welcome this way of going about a session?

It has not happened often but is a sure fire way of killing my enthusiasm for the event and I then have to resort to "automatic pilot"

I am also tempted to sprint over to the wardrobe and bring out my juggling skittles, magic set and instant cake mix paraphenalia.....

but of course I just get through the appointment as best I can, knowing that the guy has no interest in joining in the proceedings, he simply wants a show put before him....

so what do you do on these occasions ladies?

;)

( if any of you men reading this are guilty then please feel free to put in your 4penceworth )

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I would tap dance and then laugh.....;)

Men are just so AAARRRRRGGGGGHHHHHHHHHH:rolleyes:

They think at times we (women) are performing seals:)

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To be fair my clients expect me to do all the work and although the work is completely different to what you do, they also pay me by the hour.

Would you be happy to pay your accountant for his time if all he does is sit back and let you do the work?

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To be fair my clients expect me to do all the work and although the work is completely different to what you do, they also pay me by the hour.

Would you be happy to pay your accountant for his time if all he does is sit back and let you do the work?

you are making silly comparisons there.... and not making much sense really

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To be fair my clients expect me to do all the work and although the work is completely different to what you do, they also pay me by the hour.

Would you be happy to pay your accountant for his time if all he does is sit back and let you do the work?

I don't see how you can compare the services of an accountant to the services we provide. Other than the fact we chg a fee, there are no similarities....

Accountants work alone, you just provide the figures etc, and then they get on with it.

You can't exactly walk into a WG's girl's flat, handover the fee, then say "here's my cock, sort it out, I'll be back in an hour...."

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but of course I just get through the appointment as best I can, knowing that the guy has no interest in joining in the proceedings, he simply wants a show put before him....

Well, maybe that's what he wants? A 'show', or simply to have a beautiful woman service him, without any effort required or pressure to perform (whether conscious or unconscious). Granted he would probably have a 'better' time if he was more fully engaged, but it's not like he's asking you to do something dangerous or actively unpleasant, is it?

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Admittedly is would be hard for the guy to leave the room, but surely he is entitled to sit back and enjoy?

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As I like to be tied up for such encounters it is rather difficult for me to take any initiative so I am really expecting the lady to run the show. It's crucial to pick somebody who is happy to do that as not all are. Each to his/her own.

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I have been pondering this one, wondering how other ladies tackle this situation:

a new client comes in and you have the introductory getting to know you little chat in the living room and everything seems to be going well....

cut to the bedroom.......

the guy is rather laid back ( both literally and otherwise ) and puts his hands behind his head and comes out with the immortal words

"show me what you can do"

now am I the only one who does not welcome this way of going about a session?

It has not happened often but is a sure fire way of killing my enthusiasm for the event and I then have to resort to "automatic pilot"

I am also tempted to sprint over to the wardrobe and bring out my juggling skittles, magic set and instant cake mix paraphenalia.....

but of course I just get through the appointment as best I can, knowing that the guy has no interest in joining in the proceedings, he simply wants a show put before him....

so what do you do on these occasions ladies?

;)

( if any of you men reading this are guilty then please feel free to put in your 4penceworth )

really interesting post adele. on a first reading of the words--

"show me what you can do"-- the obvious take is that the guy is a numbskull. however, I do think a guy is entitled to expect the lady to set the agenda or to get the ball rolling,if thats what he wants.

most guys will recognise those few moments when he has had his shower and goes into the bedroom where the lady is waiting and you both sort of look at each other. 8 times out of 10, you would swear the guy is the professional, not the other way round. he has to take the initiative and decide which way to proceed. I think where the girl shows such lack of initiative the signal she gives out [ although she very well may not mean to ] is " ok, you've paid the fee for the session, so within my boundaries, go ahead and do what you want "

I think most guys like to try and relax and are happy to put themselves into the hands of the professional and then depending on how things evolve he might then ask to do this or that.

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I usully put my hands on my hips,look them straight in the eye,smile sweetly (or smirk depending on the occasion) and say "what would you like me to do?".This is sometimes followed by "eerrr,i dunno".lol.xxx

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I usully put my hands on my hips,look them straight in the eye,smile sweetly (or smirk depending on the occasion) and say "what would you like me to do?".This is sometimes followed by "eerrr,i dunno".lol.xxx

Well, I must admit that, were I the punter in that case, I could usually provide some helpful advice at that point! ;)

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really interesting post adele. on a first reading of the words--

"show me what you can do"-- the obvious take is that the guy is a numbskull. however, I do think a guy is entitled to expect the lady to set the agenda or to get the ball rolling,if thats what he wants.

most guys will recognise those few moments when he has had his shower and goes into the bedroom where the lady is waiting and you both sort of look at each other. 8 times out of 10, you would swear the guy is the professional, not the other way round. he has to take the initiative and decide which way to proceed. I think where the girl shows such lack of initiative the signal she gives out [ although she very well may not mean to ] is " ok, you've paid the fee for the session, so within my boundaries, go ahead and do what you want "

I think most guys like to try and relax and are happy to put themselves into the hands of the professional and then depending on how things evolve he might then ask to do this or that.

I often find, in these situations, this is where my mind reading skills come into their own. AT NO EXTRA CHARGE!!! ;):D

P.S. I note your use of my words in your signature Mr Cumandgo! :)

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I think most guys like to try and relax and are happy to put themselves into the hands of the professional and then depending on how things evolve he might then ask to do this or that.

This seems reasonable, at least to me.

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I have been pondering this one, wondering how other ladies tackle this situation:

a new client comes in and you have the introductory getting to know you little chat in the living room and everything seems to be going well....

cut to the bedroom.......

the guy is rather laid back ( both literally and otherwise ) and puts his hands behind his head and comes out with the immortal words

"show me what you can do"

I once said that to a girl in Thailand, she inflated a balloon and the fired darts at it from her pussy, very strange experience. ;)

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I don't see how you can compare the services of an accountant to the services we provide. Other than the fact we chg a fee, there are no similarities....

Accountants work alone, you just provide the figures etc, and then they get on with it.

You can't exactly walk into a WG's girl's flat, handover the fee, then say "here's my cock, sort it out, I'll be back in an hour...."

Oh, I don't know. Escort, Accountant, either way you get a good f**cking. ;)

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Oh, I don't know. Escort, Accountant, either way you get a good f**cking. :)

Me = Both. Aren't you all lucky! ;)

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simples, smirk and grab him by the seat of his pants and take him upstairs and get him Victoria'd lol ;)

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Me = Both. Aren't you all lucky! ;)

Olivia giving it to you both ways ; sounds like heaven. :)

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simples, smirk and grab him by the seat of his pants and take him upstairs and get him Victoria'd lol ;)

ok Vic

I have an idea........ if you would kindly hide in my wardrobe ( along with the juggling skittles etc ) and the next time I am told "show me what you can do"

I shall produce you and ..............

is it ok if I just sit back and watch then?

:)

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I once said that to a girl in Thailand, she inflated a balloon and the fired darts at it from her pussy, very strange experience. ;)

I know I saw that this week, amazing!! :)

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I don't see the issue here. The guy has paid you for a service, he doesn't need to do anything if he doesn't want to. Unless you state somewhere that you expect the punter to join in, it's fine.

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sounds like a request for a tie & tease to me.

Some girls like to take control from the get go, which is usually not a good sign, i say usually. its better when there is a period where each person is trying to get a feel (haha) for the way things are going to go, a bit like a civillian encounter.

Then on the other hand some guys are just pricks, pay their money for an oportunity to make a girl feel akward, and worse.

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you are making silly comparisons there.... and not making much sense really

Yes, really ;)

Think of a parlour session.. guy gets up on the bed and expects (IME) to be massaged as a starter. Is he not - in effect if not verbally - saying exactly the same thing as you quoted above just by getting on the bed and lying on his front?

And if so, why not just give him a massage and see what results from that?

You could even do credit card swipes :)

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might actually be some guys fantasy, to lie back and be tended to perhaps, each to their own...

of course, there are probably more tasteful ways to let a girl know this than lying back and saying "show me what youve got!"

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