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Hormone And Punting Problem

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Hi,

 

I don’t know if you suffer from this problem?

 

I find that my hormones sometimes control who I am and I find it can difficult to keep my urges at bay. Part of me knows that what I am doing is wrong. Like watching Porn or seeking out the services of Escorts. But, I’m not hurting anyone and I try to make that I’m not. The only victim in all of this is me. I don’t have the ability to curbs the thoughts or desires that come to me. I have tried to stay away from Porn and Escorts but failed.

 

I’m single and don’t have many problems with women. But, I find that being out of a relationship and free to do what you want is a better alternative than being shackled and sad. Although, it does come with drawbacks and when I get the desire to see a lady I find it hard to hold back. The only alternative is to self-stimulate myself about four times per day. And I’m not entirely sure if that is healthy behaviour either?

In most circumstances, if I was approached by a woman on the street that me offered sex, I would be hard pressed to say no. Even though I know it is risky behaviour. It’s like my hormones overtake my senses and I lose control.

 

I don’t like to think that I am some kind of sex addict, but when you seek out the services of Escorts then you might have a problem.

 

I don’t know if it’s the hormones that arouse me, the women, or if it’s a mixture of both.

 

I must admit that there have been times when it must be the hormones. Because I have been with plenty of women that I don’t particularly fancy and when my libido has subsided I just want to leave. Then I get a feeling of displeasure and sadness.

 

What can I do?

 

Thanks

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For hormones, I suggest you abstain from sex or any kind of self-relief for 3 months, maybe longer, but this period should "reset" your brain back to normal. 

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Hi,

 

I don’t know if you suffer from this problem?

 

I find that my hormones sometimes control who I am and I find it can difficult to keep my urges at bay. Part of me knows that what I am doing is wrong. Like watching Porn or seeking out the services of Escorts. But, I’m not hurting anyone and I try to make that I’m not. The only victim in all of this is me. I don’t have the ability to curbs the thoughts or desires that come to me. I have tried to stay away from Porn and Escorts but failed.

 

I’m single and don’t have many problems with women. But, I find that being out of a relationship and free to do what you want is a better alternative than being shackled and sad. Although, it does come with drawbacks and when I get the desire to see a lady I find it hard to hold back. The only alternative is to self-stimulate myself about four times per day. And I’m not entirely sure if that is healthy behaviour either?

In most circumstances, if I was approached by a woman on the street that me offered sex, I would be hard pressed to say no. Even though I know it is risky behaviour. It’s like my hormones overtake my senses and I lose control.

 

I don’t like to think that I am some kind of sex addict, but when you seek out the services of Escorts then you might have a problem.

 

I don’t know if it’s the hormones that arouse me, the women, or if it’s a mixture of both.

 

I must admit that there have been times when it must be the hormones. Because I have been with plenty of women that I don’t particularly fancy and when my libido has subsided I just want to leave. Then I get a feeling of displeasure and sadness.

 

What can I do?

 

Thanks

 

I don't understand what you say are your symptoms is wrong. you are just a horny guy who likes pussy, like many blokes on here.

 

as regards wanking, there are 2 sorts of people.  Those who say they wank and those who lie.  There is nothing wrong with it.

 

and as regards punting, again nowt wrong with that as long as you dont do it more than you can afford.

 

so a combination of the two, lie back and enjoy.

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Sounds normal to me. Just enjoy your rampant libido, you lucky man! As you get older, it'll decline soon enough. Put it about as much as you can, wear a condom, and don't lie to women, then you have nothing to feel guilty about. You're a free man - go for it!

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You just sound like a pretty normal bloke to me.  We all have urges that need to be addressed - nothing abnormal or wrong with that.  In fact, when you're younger at least, if you don't address them the body will often take care of itself through a wet dream.

 

Neither is there anything wrong with using adult (i.e. non-kiddie) porn or visiting escorts.

 

Wanking four times a day might seem excessive to some but then we don't know how old you are.  The drive can be pretty strong when you're younger.

 

Being in a relationship is often fantastic so don't think of it as being "shackled and sad", maybe it's something you could try?

 

Bottom line though is that you seem unhappy or unsure about the way you're living and your feelings so perhaps you do need to talk to a professional about it if only to set your mind at rest that you're normal (or as normal as the rest of us  :) )

 

best of luck

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Sounds normal to me. Just enjoy your rampant libido, you lucky man! As you get older, it'll decline soon enough. Put it about as much as you can, wear a condom, and don't lie to women, then you have nothing to feel guilty about. You're a free man - go for it!

 

Do you mind!  I have the libido of an 18 year old - unfortunately it's trapped inside a 58 year old body

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Do you mind!  I have the libido of an 18 year old - unfortunately it's trapped inside a 58 year old body

Oops, sorry kind sir - I was speaking for myself, of course  ;)

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Hi,

 

I don’t know if you suffer from this problem?

 

I find that my hormones sometimes control who I am and I find it can difficult to keep my urges at bay. Part of me knows that what I am doing is wrong. Like watching Porn or seeking out the services of Escorts. But, I’m not hurting anyone and I try to make that I’m not. The only victim in all of this is me. I don’t have the ability to curbs the thoughts or desires that come to me. I have tried to stay away from Porn and Escorts but failed.

 

I’m single and don’t have many problems with women. But, I find that being out of a relationship and free to do what you want is a better alternative than being shackled and sad. Although, it does come with drawbacks and when I get the desire to see a lady I find it hard to hold back. The only alternative is to self-stimulate myself about four times per day. And I’m not entirely sure if that is healthy behaviour either?

In most circumstances, if I was approached by a woman on the street that me offered sex, I would be hard pressed to say no. Even though I know it is risky behaviour. It’s like my hormones overtake my senses and I lose control.

 

I don’t like to think that I am some kind of sex addict, but when you seek out the services of Escorts then you might have a problem.

 

I don’t know if it’s the hormones that arouse me, the women, or if it’s a mixture of both.

 

I must admit that there have been times when it must be the hormones. Because I have been with plenty of women that I don’t particularly fancy and when my libido has subsided I just want to leave. Then I get a feeling of displeasure and sadness.

 

What can I do?

 

Thanks

My advice is stop thinking its wrong, its not wrong in my view. Your single so can do as you please without lying and cheating. Lap it up and punt, punt, punt as long as you can afford it. Enjoy yourself and have fun.

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Im not a male, but this is what I think :-)

 

If you "play" 4 times a day, it sounds more like, you are bored and have nothing else to do.

 

If you are busy all day long, work, gym, etc, etc, your "brain" will be busy with thinking something else.

 

If you stay at home, your brain just gonna send you a lazy signals, like sleep, eat, wank :-)

 

When you live like this for some time, you kind of get used to it too.

 

My advise, to go in the gym every day and to get rid off that energy.

 

Try to find some different hobby...

 

But if it's really bother you a lot, antidepressants tablets will help, you will forget about all this for some time. :-)

 

You can have some rest and that time you will find something else what you might like.

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As Im neither qualified in this field and my horned up desires are not getting in the other aspects of life (eg work, hobbies, the way I interact and socialise with women), Id support the comments made by johnny john in looking at what the "professionals" say.

However, I think as an observation one of the most interesting comments on here was from a female (london sext girls). I think she hits the nail on the head when she mentions boredom is focussing your mind on this sexual obsession.

I think there's something in this, thats not me saying curtail your instincts but just rebalance. As many say, enjoy your libido, the carnal exploration, the journey, the kink the laughs, the pleasure for its a wonderful time to be had, with respect. BUT don't forget its a wide world out there and continue having fun and focussing on other things away from sex eg mates, hobbies, new hobbies, sport.

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Sounds normal to me. Just enjoy your rampant libido, you lucky man! As you get older, it'll decline soon enough. Put it about as much as you can, wear a condom, and don't lie to women, then you have nothing to feel guilty about. You're a free man - go for it!

 

I'm glad that you made that post.It's good to hear a woman say that it sounds normal its refreshingly reassuring though you are a Fraulein and Germans are a lot more sexually liberated than us Brits. ;) 

 

I have been thinking about sex a lot lately though not at wanking 4 times a day type proportions :lol: but i guess that's pre-punt nerves. Sometimes I think what the fuck are you doing Man get a bleeding grip of yerself for fuck sake. But I do enjoy my mucky thoughts. lol

 

To be honest I don't even watch porn I just like to lay in bed daydreaming about what I want to get up to on my upcoming adventure. It's even kind of impacted my working life because now I work hard with great vigor reaching targets never attained before as I switch off into my little world and plough through my work. Those higher up have noticed a change in my new found work ethic and are hinting at promotion if only I would but just get a Hair Cut (Bald Twats).

 

 

I do think that it is a little bit unhealthy if your only interaction with women is through punting or watching pornography as it could have a negative impact when you do interact with women on a social basis where sex isn't an agenda. You could find yourself to be Isolated and miss out on positive opportunities that may present themselves.  

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Hi,

 

I don’t know if you suffer from this problem?

 

I find that my hormones sometimes control who I am and I find it can difficult to keep my urges at bay. Part of me knows that what I am doing is wrong. Like watching Porn or seeking out the services of Escorts. But, I’m not hurting anyone and I try to make that I’m not. The only victim in all of this is me. I don’t have the ability to curbs the thoughts or desires that come to me. I have tried to stay away from Porn and Escorts but failed.

 

I’m single and don’t have many problems with women. But, I find that being out of a relationship and free to do what you want is a better alternative than being shackled and sad. Although, it does come with drawbacks and when I get the desire to see a lady I find it hard to hold back. The only alternative is to self-stimulate myself about four times per day. And I’m not entirely sure if that is healthy behaviour either?

In most circumstances, if I was approached by a woman on the street that me offered sex, I would be hard pressed to say no. Even though I know it is risky behaviour. It’s like my hormones overtake my senses and I lose control.

 

I don’t like to think that I am some kind of sex addict, but when you seek out the services of Escorts then you might have a problem.

 

I don’t know if it’s the hormones that arouse me, the women, or if it’s a mixture of both.

 

I must admit that there have been times when it must be the hormones. Because I have been with plenty of women that I don’t particularly fancy and when my libido has subsided I just want to leave. Then I get a feeling of displeasure and sadness.

 

What can I do?

 

Thanks

You could tell your doctor and get the name of a good counsellor?  If anything gives you displeasure and sadness but you feel compelled in some way to do it, then to me that sounds like an addiction.

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People take life far too seriously. Relax OP and take the pressure off yourself!

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It might not be your hormones causing these urges. It could be connected to depressive feelings and 'manic' episodes.

 

I suffer from depression and have been on SSRIs for about a decade. Before I went on tablets I used masturbation as a way to cope with boredom, stress and depressive moods - I would get a temporary relief with orgasm as the 'happy' chemicals flooded my brain. As I have aged I have noticed that my sexual urges are either completely flat (nothing can really get me going) or very much rampant - and inbetween a fairly 'normal' level of sexual interest. It was in the beginnings of a rampant phase that I started to visit WGs. I seem to have these on a cycle and am, at the moment, in a completely flat stage (saw a WG today and nothing she did could 'get me going'). I also have a tendency to become easily addicted to pleasurable activities (all connected to how I cope with stress) and have used sex as a stress reliever rather than just as a pleasurable activity.

 

A couple of weeks ago I was in the throes of one of the most hypersexual 'manic' phases I have ever experienced and would probably have almost had sex with anyone (I had a very pronounced increased desire to have a sexual experience with a man and I wouldn't identify myself with being gay or bi-) but due to restrictions in travel and my home life, apart from visiting WGs a couple of times a week, I didn't have the oppurtunity to realise what I felt I had to do - and all through this period I was masturbating at least once a day (one day I masturbated four times) but the relief from the urges was only temporary (although the orgasms were amazing and afterwards I would basically be 'high').

 

I know that one of the 'minor' side-effects of the SSRI I take can be hypermania / hypersexuality and I will be going to see my GP about this.

 

When I was younger (late teens - mid-twenties) I used to 'get down' and guilty about excessive masturbation but now I don't and I accept that this is part of 'who I am' but try not to let it completely define or overwhelm me.

 

I would say to the OP to monitor your moods - do you have these sexual urges all the time or do they become intense and then decline? Do you find yourself having 'down' periods where sex doesn't particularly interest you? Do you feel 'high' and able to do anything? Do you feel that you have to have sex or sexual release and there's nothing you can do about the urges?

 

Have a look at the definitions for hypersexuality, addictive personality and hypomania on wikipedia and see if you can relate to the feelings described but ultimately the best thing to do is see a GP and tell them what you are feeling and what worries you about it.

 

I hope this post helps

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Hi,

 

I don’t know if you suffer from this problem?

 

I find that my hormones sometimes control who I am and I find it can difficult to keep my urges at bay. Part of me knows that what I am doing is wrong. Like watching Porn or seeking out the services of Escorts. But, I’m not hurting anyone and I try to make that I’m not. The only victim in all of this is me. I don’t have the ability to curbs the thoughts or desires that come to me. I have tried to stay away from Porn and Escorts but failed.

 

I’m single and don’t have many problems with women. But, I find that being out of a relationship and free to do what you want is a better alternative than being shackled and sad. Although, it does come with drawbacks and when I get the desire to see a lady I find it hard to hold back. The only alternative is to self-stimulate myself about four times per day. And I’m not entirely sure if that is healthy behaviour either?

In most circumstances, if I was approached by a woman on the street that me offered sex, I would be hard pressed to say no. Even though I know it is risky behaviour. It’s like my hormones overtake my senses and I lose control.

 

I don’t like to think that I am some kind of sex addict, but when you seek out the services of Escorts then you might have a problem.

 

I don’t know if it’s the hormones that arouse me, the women, or if it’s a mixture of both.

 

I must admit that there have been times when it must be the hormones. Because I have been with plenty of women that I don’t particularly fancy and when my libido has subsided I just want to leave. Then I get a feeling of displeasure and sadness.

 

What can I do?

 

Thanks

 

Get a bird

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